Confessing to the real reason behind the break-up

Episode 1-10-14

Breaking up can be a hard thing to do, especially if you know your significant other will be more crushed by it than you.

Saachi so you messed up, your feelings changed along the way and you put the blame on something else - Lying about your motives. You could have consider being honest with your partner. Dhruv being dumped is left feeling hurt and confused with a lot of unanswered questions.

Saachi lying made you feel worse. Because the guilt can be too hard to handle. You may be faced with guilt and regret. You lied in order to preserve Dhruv feelings, but this is an emotional situation. Lying can make the matter worse and may even cost you any hope of making it work in the future.

Dhruv intense feelings of sadness and despair reaction to the end of a relationship. He feels anger with a partner who has caused pain by initiating or contributing to the breakup is a emotional response. It is difficult to believe and accept that the relationship has ended. It is painful to experience a loved and trusted partner seeming to care so little about the relationship and your feelings. It is normal to feel sad and lonely, and to cry a lot.

Dhruv replacing all the love you have with hate or anger can sometimes be more easier than just trying to overcome the affection you have for someone. After all, hate too is just as powerful as love. As long as you know how to replace all the love with hate, you'll know how to get over someone you love. But let the hate you build up be a temporary thing. Turn your love to hate, and eventually when you're feeling stronger, turn that hate to indifference. It'll be easier because you don't really hate the one you like, you're just feeling bitter and lonely right now.

As horrible as the break-up is, forgiveness belongs to those who know how to love in the first place, and Dhruv you are one of them.

Dhruv remaining friends with an best friend can make matters worse, particularly for your current or future relationships. Your feelings may still be strong. Hanging around your best friend may also make it harder to move on. You may also compare your current partner and relationship to your best friend.

Kalpana19

Very well written Kalpana...

How do u make such deep analysis ?? U are always in a different level. Honestly I have to read ur post 2-3 times to understand it fully 😉

ak75

Your feedback is highly appreciated. I too LOVE the posts of the IF people even though I don't always comment on them.

We all have pieces to the puzzle and one day we'll have it all put together for a complete picture.

Have a nice weekend!

Originally posted by: ak75

How do u make such deep analysis ?? U are always in a different level. Honestly I have to read ur post 2-3 times to understand it fully 😉

Well written. 👏

awww awesome post! :')

agree with ur love theory ... sorrow too is a shining feeling in case we can realize it! :)

Great Kalpana, well written as always.👏👏