Originally posted by: vinee_vinee
I have many points to prove otherwise
- DV persuaded Saachi to say that she loved DV, had left on her own she would have never felt anything for DV.
- Her attraction for DV was the outcome of DV persistence and affection which Saachi always lacked in her life.
- Saachi was made to believe that she is in love by DV and when she confessed it was because of his insistence where her mind got influenced and she thought she does but actually it was not.
- DV became satisfied that Saachi has confessed and never realised that he has made her speak out and she has not done it on her own.
- She flew in the air with DV as it was all happening for the first time in her life and anyone would feel the pleasure of being loved. It was a feeling of being loved that was making her happy and not that she loves someone.
- The first signs of this feeling not being love came out when Saachi removed the ring the very next day of wearing it when she was not being able to speak to grannys. DV had emotions attached to it, but Saachi had none. She didn't value it even in the beginning.
- The first signs of trouble came when their relationship was detected by Ulka and Saachi stopped taking DV's calls. Naani Aaji were yet to know.
- Then she did not even try to convince naani aaji and gave up on DV and returned him the ring.
- Saachi used to even look away whenever DV looked at her for support while fighting for their love alone.
- The next time Saachi showed fickleness was at the MM function. She left the place and made havoc out of DV's friendship with Ankita.
- Saachi kept asking DV to rethink on their relationship due to their cultural and status differences. She was bitter how Anky knows DV more than her. We called it her insecurity but it was lack of 100% from her side that she suspects DV to be the same. We always see us as a mirror in judging others.
- Saachi never made any effort to show DV that he matters to her and always considered her ego bigger. If Anky sat at the front seat, she did not feel the need to go to the movie just because DV was there and she could have went for him but she was so stubborn.
- Love sees no ego and Saachi has never been able to forget her ego. She does what she wants to do and never ever consults with DV.
- Saachi showed another sigh of fickleness when Ankita warned her about DV. She trusted her instead of DV whereas when in love trust comes automatically...but she doubted that DV would go. Again she compared his love with her love in subconscious mind and as she does not love DV, she thought the same for DV.
- She again went furious when she came to know about DV's connection with PE and broke off. How anything and everything becomes important for her but DV. Also she could not sense the uneasyness in DV and dozed off when he was speaking his mind to her. If she loved him, it should not have taken her time to grill DV and make him come out with the truth, but she simply could not see. Even Aaji noticed it but she didn't.
- The way she yelled at DV was so unlike a lover, not giving him any chance to explain.
- She went with DV but got uncomfortable at every level of meeting his parents and today when mother warned her against the displeasure in family and how she won't be accepted, she made up her mind of leaving DV yet again without even consulting him. She even didi not retaliate when DV's mom was raising her concerns and not even once tried to convince that she would adjust.
In my opinion whatever she has done so far only proves that she has not yet been able to love DV. She only went with the flow and when DV strongly made her feel that she is in love, she only believed that she is.
Today also she showed how Parents were everything to her, how she can relate to their loss but can't relate to the loss of a lover. That's why mommy used parents as her weapon and said that she would not want DV to lose his parents just as she lost hers. There she broke as she values them but not DV.
When she weighed love of parents to love of a lover, lover lost. So she has loved her farms, her family and her siblings but never DV. It's very apparent with the way she goes out of the way for them but as DV puts it only he gets her Royal treatment.
I am sorry but I beg to differ...Saachi loves him 100% or maybe more...
As you read what I have written ,please keep two points in focus : 1) Saach's maturity and 2) her foresight , a vision to see the future...and also :
Saach's life' shaped her in a very different way from what she was...she became mature, responsible,introvert and inhibited ,to name a few characteristics, at the age of 19 years...
Your first few points are about DV persuading Saachi to confess her love for him,her attraction for him was because of DV's persistence and affection for her,and that DV was satisfied at her confession of love not realizing that it was forced,and not naturally said by her...
Let's go back to the show :
DV and Saachi's growing friendship...her concern when tea burns DV's hand...putting haldi on his cheek and he on hers... Night encounters...making him comfortable on the sofa in the hotel room...worrying about him when he stayed away all night from the hotel room...both became aware of attraction when their hands brushed against each other by accident...tending to his wounds when he got into a fight and worrying about it ...things like these made DV realize that she also loved him and challenged her that that he will make her confess her love for him...did you notice that she did not report DV or his advances to anyone in the family? She could have complained and thrown him out ,but no, she did no such thing...why ?...DV was further convinced of her love when she nursed him all night, and also the way she clung to him when she realized he was not dead ...and she said..." mujhe chodd kar kahin na Jana ...mein tumhe kahin na jane doongi "...but suddenly she realized she was admitting,and went back in her shell...so all DV did was to bring out what was already in her...her deep love for him...and when she admitted, she said...8 or 9 times... " I love you " and "ha mein tumhe Bahut Jadaa pyaar karti hoon "
Now why she was not admitting or holding back ? Because of her maturity and her foresight...she foresaw all the problems they would face if she confessed her love...and all the problems she spoke of are the main points of the story...she asked him you made me confess to love, now what ? He says shaadi...she scoffs at him and says kya bacchoo ka khel hai ? My family,your family society will object to our relation because of age difference...she was at this point unaware of class difference...
From the time she confessed and till now they have faced tremendous trauma...you say she does not show feelings for him or does not care,but was she given a chance to enjoy their relation or settle in it or be secure ?...soon after she declared her love ,family disapproved,so they almost split...they passed that hurdle and MM happened,and Ankita came...status difference and competition ...MM was not her fault at all...I would also feel out of place if I am not used to that life...DV should have not left her alone...Ankita : not sitting in the front seat and DV spending time with her...well that's jealously and she confessed to it ,means she loved him enough to be jealous...she tells DV "mein jitna Jada pyaar karti hoon utna jada daarti hoon" "tum meri zindagi ki subse pyaari cheez ho jise khone ka daar hamesa raheta hai" don't you think it's love ? After Ankita we see her trying to settle in her relationship...gets more physical, decides to break all her inhibitions and be free and communicative withDV,and no more fights...we see an effort on her part to get very close to DV...don't you call that love ? ...you say she fell asleep and did not listen to DV...well that was an innocent mistake ...she was excited about telling him all that was in her mind,and after she finished she asked him what he wanted to say...now that was the end of day, and she had been busy preparing for the party and waiting for him...she just dozed off...And DV was relieved too, because he first wanted to talk to his father before telling her...
She was justified in being angry in PE matter,but she should have given him a chance to explain...which she realized
DV's family defenitely intentionally made her and Adu uncomfortable and out of place and even insulted her...she gave DV credit and called him priceless...but it was his mother's emotional blackmail that broke her...she accused her of breaking her family, separating son from family,and how she disapproves her son marrying an older woman...she basically made her feel guilty...she topped it by saying she of all people should understand what it is like losing parents...which DV would if he married her...if these things are said to any decent girl,she would walk away from the relationship...and this was Saachi,a family oriented decent honest girl...she was left no choice but to walk away
I think she loves DV as much as her family and farm...only thing is she has not been given an opportunity to form a secure bonding with him...they have been on a roller coaster ride since Saachi declared her love for him...if they are given a study phase ,secure bonding could develope,and then you will see Saachi wala pyaar
I hope this is not too long
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