Is Saachi really in love - Page 6

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Yes VIMAL that's what makes me say that she is not in love totally deeply and madly...she may be in the process or just under the impression. Saachi did not accept YG's proposal as she is not money minded and this we can say about Saachi with surety. Her words however sounded hollow and she was saying them only to counter YG, otherwise she didn't say those words to naani aaji when they were against the relationship. She acts according to circumstance so I wo t give those DV is priceless for me statement of her any damn...she would have said those words for Dils also who is a friend. So her love for DV has never stood out...it has remained in the lines of affection which can be for a friend too considering the benovelent person she is.

You are right that Saachi's character other than a lover is also destroyed but I think her not being in love justifies her actions somehow. Only DV needs to understand this and she herself too.

Originally posted by: Plusq8

liked your post Vinee and the comments others have made. Thanks for starting this discussion.

I sympathize with Saachi to quite an extent because with a background like hers self preservation is a natural instinct and any external influence that disrupts her status-quo is not welcome. even if it means that this can bring her happiness. I think this is why she lacks complete commitment. I also feel that she has never experienced true inner happiness and is unable to recognize it even when it is staring her in the face. She does not know what she wants and how to get it. She has to be constantly prompted by others (DV, Dils, Nani).

After last nights episode i watch the December 5th episode of JLZ and found it so strange to see DV speak with such confidence about his family to Aaji and Nani. He says his dad is progressive minded and his mom would do anything to get him what he wants. A total miscalculation on his behalf. If he has misjudged his family's reaction to such a great extent i am beginning to wonder why Saachi is finding it difficult to place her complete trust in him. For a astute lawyer like him reading situations should not be difficult, even if it involves family. He should know that his family is not straight forward.

From the way the story has gone so far, i am hoping that the intelligent brain in DV sees through his family at least now. DV has to again step in and this time around to save Saachi from herself; as she is adamant about destroying herself. DV knows Saachi is emotional and hope he uses some of his smartness to stop her from spoiling things for them. Maybe i am expecting too much!

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

Well written Shonali...I find these small gestures lacking in their relationship too. From DV's side he keeps looking at her with affection but either she is always showing shyness or is too engrossed in other thoughts that the DV's gesture also goes wague. She has never reciprocated like a person in love...never too concerned for DV, never worried, never ever think what DV goes through,.

The way DV even noticed her slightest tear, slightest worry and solved it...Saachi could not even understand why DV was upset on new year...she just went on blabbering what naani had told her to open up without actually meaning it.

It feels that she does all these things when somebody else makes her realise that she should do it be it naani or Dils but never on her own. How she slept when DV was in her room discussing the most important thing and even Aaji could sence DVs quietness Saachi madam couldn't.

Originally posted by: AARMAY1

Totally agree with u Vinee.

For him she is a great girl, never lie, never cheat & caring too, so fell for her, love her truly and was selfless, really valued her and appreciated her.

And She, when ever mad says very hurtful words and doesn't even realize it, she doubted him like crazy never trust him, fought with him a lot & want to break up every time.

In any serious relationship, if you don't gather your partner's opinion before making decisions that impacts both but here she get caught up in her own fixed perspectives.

If she really love him she can feel his restlessness and pain, no she never loved him.

Originally posted by: shonali164

yes vinne m also thonk abt this when there is true love without seeing that person we understand there is something wrong by his tone on calls or even in chattings then y saachi dindt understand n even she dindt ask him what wrong is there she just say "tum par chupi achi nhi lagati" what is this?😡

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

No need to even see your partner to understand this...one can make out with the voice just over phone. I can do that and I presume others must be able to do that as well.

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

No need to even see your partner to understand this...one can make out with the voice just over phone. I can do that and I presume others must be able to do that as well.

Originally posted by: shonali164

yup ryt dear
evn my lv is one sided n we only chat with each other didnt tlk on cal still i recognise his feelings n evn his tensions
so saachi ne to use dekha tha na still she didnt recognise this is realy foolish thing

Originally posted by: vinee_vinee

When we love someone we observe that person the most. They say na that words are not required in love here silence speaks volumes. You are right...since it's love from your side you understand his tensions same is with DV he understands even slightest worry in Saachi...

I have never seen Saachi wala love in real life...if at all some call it love.