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Posted: 11 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: geno0309

@ Aditi, Manali, Anu: thankooos for giving a glimpse into your growing up years:) guess if DV enthralls us & floors is with his immense charm & sincerity-Saachi has touched a chord because of the realistic portrayal! I guess these two are indeed a perfect couple-at many levels:))



I think Saachi strikes a chord with me cuz of her simplicity...and she personifies that yearning that is there in every woman's heart for someone to understand and love her so much😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: AreYaar




@bold: So true...and the irony is that she herself doesn't realize just how much she considers him APNA...DV has managed to do what no one else could...make Saachi open up...everyone else takes her for granted, takes it for granted that she will run around solving all their problems...only DV makes her look at herself as a woman with dreams and desires before anything else...and she isn't realizing the degree to which she's come to consider him her own...she may say all morosely..."We are so different ki I don't know about pyaar and all"...she gets confused...but what is this if not love when she is hurt SO deeply and EXPRESSES that hurt so deeply? There is no logic in this as DV pointed out rightly...she should know better than to do that...but the thing is, she doesn't...yet again DV will have to TEACH her how to understand this.

DV, Saanchi ko teacher teacher bolte hue khud teacher ban gaya hai.. LIfe has come a full circle. IN case of love and trust, he definitely is her teacher. I am so looking forward to his teacher giri... 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: AreYaar



Oh Manali, so much word here🤗...I actually am not a big city girl in anyway either...I'm a small town girl...born and raised...and everytime I've moved, it's always been to a small city/town😆...so big city fundas are totally beyond my understanding too...I've only visited Delhi a few times and the few times I attended parties in bigger circles left me with a bit of a culture shock too...lol...I always feel out of place cuz my fundas don't fall in line there...so yes I know exactly how it feels to feel out of place in a place where life is "faster" and more "liberal" than what you are used to...everyone comes from their own space regarding these things...I"ve seen some of my small city friends transform and become these ppl when they go to big cities...lol and some ppl don't adjust and always feel out of place...so yeah to each their own.

But yeah I can understand the discomfort that Saachi was feeling...there were just too many factors that she was dealing with simultaneously...poor thing...and at a time like this she's damn lucky to have a guy like DV...any other guy in his place would have gotten irritated and snapped.😆


WORD!! 👏

I hear u my friend, I really do 🤗 I am the same...lol...and yes I've also seen my small city friends transform and become totally like the ppl in big cities...no one is wrong here...to each his/her own...everyone has a lifestyle that they are comfortable with ...personal choice..but mujhe to bahut culture shock laga tha..what all people used to talk..oh god...everyday I used to come home and crib about it to mom 😆

anyway yes that's why I totally relate to saachi but I know yaar..DV is too sweet...koi bhi irritate ho jaata..but he was trying to make her smile... her happiness means the most to him...and he is too mature for him age..and saachi keeps calling him immature..oh the irony 😆

Once saachi becomes sure of their relationship, I would like to see her being more expressive..DV always makes the first move...I feel they need to show saachi's love too...they need to show what DV means to her you know...would like to see such a track in future! lets see


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Posted: 11 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: AreYaar



I think Saachi strikes a chord with me cuz of her simplicity...and she personifies that yearning that is there in every woman's heart for someone to understand and love her so much😊



Satya vachan again:) par madam hasn't realized what she has-but phikar not, apna DV will teach her even this:) uff this guy is not real-like really!!!:)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: adoremevirgo



exactly...i agree every word of it...in spite of saachi at every occasion getting worried whether this relation will work and whether she shud take more time to think...she still is yet to realize how much she has become involved in this relation emotionally...because of her insecurities she is still not realizing how much actually she has fallen in love with DV other than the fact that she also gets carried away by DV's charming and romantic gestures...

i really like as u said she is so herself with DV...being a girl she has her own set of insecurities, fears, sadness and so on...and with DV she lets all her vulnerabilities come out...

u know wat i feel...DV and saachi's love has already reached the depth that is actually unfathomable...but both especially saachi is yet to realized the depth of her own feelings and also the depth of DV's feelings...

the day she realizes it...that will be the day she will also realize that DV loves her for wat she is...and is not bothered whether she is from mars or venus...



Very true, Aditi...Saachi is yet to realize the depth of her feelings for DV...infact DV's romantic nature and her being charmed by it sort of undercuts the ACTUAL depth of this relationship...the romance is lovely but maybe that is what makes Saachi doubt the depth of this relationship...maybe it makes her think that fun and games is all nice but things won't last...she has a low sense of self-worth for sure and DV bechara has to keep trying to bring her out of it...

When things reach a crunch point, THEN the depth of Saachi's feelings show...like the time she thought it was his dead body in the morgue...or recently when she saw him getting beaten up, she ran without heed of anything over to go to him...ofcourse in the show they don't show her properly reflecting on these moments and instead move on to a new set of insecurities or challenges...but somewhere they have to show her pondering and thinking about what DV means to her...all differences aside...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#66

Originally posted by: AreYaar



Oh Manali, so much word here🤗...I actually am not a big city girl in anyway either...I'm a small town girl...born and raised...and everytime I've moved, it's always been to a small city/town😆...so big city fundas are totally beyond my understanding too...I've only visited Delhi a few times and the few times I attended parties in bigger circles left me with a bit of a culture shock too...lol...I always feel out of place cuz my fundas don't fall in line there...so yes I know exactly how it feels to feel out of place in a place where life is "faster" and more "liberal" than what you are used to...everyone comes from their own space regarding these things...I"ve seen some of my small city friends transform and become these ppl when they go to big cities...lol and some ppl don't adjust and always feel out of place...so yeah to each their own.

But yeah I can understand the discomfort that Saachi was feeling...there were just too many factors that she was dealing with simultaneously...poor thing...and at a time like this she's damn lucky to have a guy like DV...any other guy in his place would have gotten irritated and snapped.😆



since u guys r all sharing ur own experiences and relating it with saachi i can talk about myself too...i usually dont do this because this is huge source of depression for me...

no...i am not from any small town...parties, drinks etc r not new to me...

but still i feel left out not only among different age grps but also among peers...there is a reason y...i am unable to walk and so i remain at home all the time...once in a while i go out to watch movies...
in the true sense i hv no social life...although i hv friends but they r all out of town and we meet once in a year...i hv never gone out with friends...never gone to all those places where usually young ppl hang out...

the end result is that wenever i am with my friends they talk so much about their jobs, married life, kids, places they hv gone, experiences they hv gone thru...and i hardly hv anything to say...i work from home and i am of course not married and i dont go to any places...

so the feeling of "left out of discussions" has become a part and parcel of my life...it hurts terribly...in my case this feeling stays with me even wen i am with my friends of my age...

today i felt so sorry for saachi only because although there is age difference DV is still her lover her future husband...which means he is someone who is very close to her and will soon become the most important person in her life...to realize that with him she has so many not so common topics is painful...because this feeling will always crop up because DV will be part of her everyday life...

just how i feel everyday...there is no age group with whom i dont feel left out...my age, younger or older...because i hv no topics to discuss...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: AreYaar



Very true, Aditi...Saachi is yet to realize the depth of her feelings for DV...infact DV's romantic nature and her being charmed by it sort of undercuts the ACTUAL depth of this relationship...the romance is lovely but maybe that is what makes Saachi doubt the depth of this relationship...maybe it makes her think that fun and games is all nice but things won't last...she has a low sense of self-worth for sure and DV bechara has to keep trying to bring her out of it...

When things reach a crunch point, THEN the depth of Saachi's feelings show...like the time she thought it was his dead body in the morgue...or recently when she saw him getting beaten up, she ran without heed of anything over to go to him...ofcourse in the show they don't show her properly reflecting on these moments and instead move on to a new set of insecurities or challenges...but somewhere they have to show her pondering and thinking about what DV means to her...all differences aside...



@red...exactly anu...its high time they focus on this...that saachi shud realize exactly how much of herself she has given away to DV...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: SunNaa


WORD!! 👏

I hear u my friend, I really do 🤗 I am the same...lol...and yes I've also seen my small city friends transform and become totally like the ppl in big cities...no one is wrong here...to each his/her own...everyone has a lifestyle that they are comfortable with ...personal choice..but mujhe to bahut culture shock laga tha..what all people used to talk..oh god...everyday I used to come home and crib about it to mom 😆

anyway yes that's why I totally relate to saachi but I know yaar..DV is too sweet...koi bhi irritate ho jaata..but he was trying to make her smile... her happiness means the most to him...and he is too mature for him age..and saachi keeps calling him immature..oh the irony 😆

Once saachi becomes sure of their relationship, I would like to see her being more expressive..DV always makes the first move...I feel they need to show saachi's love too...they need to show what DV means to her you know...would like to see such a track in future! lets see




LOL Manali, mera socho...mujhe toh seedha U.S. aake DIRECT shock lagaa tha...lol...then the international students I met in college...these girls from Mumbai...baap re baap...faster than girls in U.S. too I tell you😆...I always felt like I was born in the wrong era😆...I don't belong in these ages...abhi bhi sometimes I hear some stories from back home from old friends and I'm just like woahh the girls in India😆

Re: DV...yes in maamlon mein he is wiser beyond his years and Saachi gives him no credit...otherwise guys his age realistically are even more immature than 16 years olds...HONESTLY😆

Aww yeah same here...I also want to see Saachi being more expressive...waise once in a while she surprises us (and him...lol) with dialogues like calling him her hero and all😆...but yeah it would be nice to see her appreciate what she has more rather than always cribbing about him joking about things or how they are too different for each other.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69
"You don't belong to this planet but to the moon" << HOW AMAZING IS HE?!
it was an awww moment <3
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Posted: 11 years ago
#70
i agree i enjoyed the episode too and really enjoyed the way they handled it so calmly and in a realistic way without any melodrama

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