Originally posted by: AreYaar
Oh Manali, so much word here🤗...I actually am not a big city girl in anyway either...I'm a small town girl...born and raised...and everytime I've moved, it's always been to a small city/town😆...so big city fundas are totally beyond my understanding too...I've only visited Delhi a few times and the few times I attended parties in bigger circles left me with a bit of a culture shock too...lol...I always feel out of place cuz my fundas don't fall in line there...so yes I know exactly how it feels to feel out of place in a place where life is "faster" and more "liberal" than what you are used to...everyone comes from their own space regarding these things...I"ve seen some of my small city friends transform and become these ppl when they go to big cities...lol and some ppl don't adjust and always feel out of place...so yeah to each their own.
But yeah I can understand the discomfort that Saachi was feeling...there were just too many factors that she was dealing with simultaneously...poor thing...and at a time like this she's damn lucky to have a guy like DV...any other guy in his place would have gotten irritated and snapped.😆
since u guys r all sharing ur own experiences and relating it with saachi i can talk about myself too...i usually dont do this because this is huge source of depression for me...
no...i am not from any small town...parties, drinks etc r not new to me...
but still i feel left out not only among different age grps but also among peers...there is a reason y...i am unable to walk and so i remain at home all the time...once in a while i go out to watch movies...
in the true sense i hv no social life...although i hv friends but they r all out of town and we meet once in a year...i hv never gone out with friends...never gone to all those places where usually young ppl hang out...
the end result is that wenever i am with my friends they talk so much about their jobs, married life, kids, places they hv gone, experiences they hv gone thru...and i hardly hv anything to say...i work from home and i am of course not married and i dont go to any places...
so the feeling of "left out of discussions" has become a part and parcel of my life...it hurts terribly...in my case this feeling stays with me even wen i am with my friends of my age...
today i felt so sorry for saachi only because although there is age difference DV is still her lover her future husband...which means he is someone who is very close to her and will soon become the most important person in her life...to realize that with him she has so many not so common topics is painful...because this feeling will always crop up because DV will be part of her everyday life...
just how i feel everyday...there is no age group with whom i dont feel left out...my age, younger or older...because i hv no topics to discuss...