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Posted: 11 years ago
#41

DV if was to fall for ankita or any hep girl of his age...who was stopping him...does he have dearth of girls...he chose Saachi...not ankita not anyone else...fought for her...cried for her...did Everything one even can't imagine...so does common sence tells that he would lose character just by seeing his old friend in shorts.

Oh Totally!
DV knows that matters & knows how to value it.
But of course it's a show.
Some extras, some unnecessary dramas need to be enacted to keep the viewership.
I am cool with it as long some logic & No OTT goes in there...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee


Why does Saachi distrusts DV so much...somehow she is insecure in her relationship which makes her drift apart everytime. I would not accept its DV...but this is where the uniqueness of the story sets in...Saachi distrusts herself more and still doubts that a guy like DV can fall for her in real. She surely is deeply in love with him but something in her subconscious makes her feel small about herself...and DV needs to realise this and make her fight her insecurities.

Vinee,firstly I won't judge DV one the basis of Ekta's MM episode and nor do I think that DV has changed.And as per Sanchi distrust on DV I don't agree to it.Sanchi is afraid of the future and the turn thier relationship may take after marriage.Have u noticed her expressions when she was taking care of the child and one lady asked her if she was her daughter...I felt instantly the age issue came to her mind .After that when DV 's mom started with "tum" and immediately changed to "aap"...and just after that she told Sanchi about fixing the engagement of Ankita and DV...so this all some how made her aware of the age issue .And as u said this was the insecurities she was facing at that point of time.And in her subconsious mind she has the age difference stuck which she is not able to come out of completely and here I believe DV will be the person who will bring out all fears from her and give her mind a complete rest to this thoughts.


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Posted: 11 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: divine_16

Vinee,firstly I won't judge DV one the basis of Ekta's MM episode and nor do I think that DV has changed.And as per Sanchi distrust on DV I don't agree to it.Sanchi is afraid of the future and the turn thier relationship may take after marriage.Have u noticed her expressions when she was taking care of the child and one lady asked her if she was her daughter...I felt instantly the age issue came to her mind .After that when DV 's mom started with "tum" and immediately changed to "aap"...and just after that she told Sanchi about fixing the engagement of Ankita and DV...so this all some how made her aware of the age issue .And as u said this was the insecurities she was facing at that point of time.And in her subconsious mind she has the age difference stuck which she is not able to come out of completely and here I believe DV will be the person who will bring out all fears from her and give her mind a complete rest to this thoughts.




Superb dear...wonderful...can't stop myself from praising your insight...

To carry it further from here there has been so much bashing of DV that why didn't he introduce Saachi to his mom or ankita if his conscious was so clear...to this I have one answer that when it's only a casual disclosure it can be done easily but when it's something serious then one waits for the right time. DV has done this before also...he told of his love very easily to Dils but with aaji naani even he was hesitant...here also in the party he did not hide who was Saachi for him. He revealed about Saachi to everyone there except his closest of people whom he wanted to tell about her while creating that atmosphere...afterall marriage talk is not a small thing and here its definately not at all small.

Today I totally felt Saachi was different and out of the lot and perhaps she was realising it herself and from inside she was uncomfortable. Saw how initially when she was coughing DV brought water for her with the same concern and urgency which in an earlier episode made Vishwas suspect DV's love for her. So here also he did not change. DV was taking her along to meet everybody but Saachi stopped in the middle to give water to a girl. Here DV was not alone with her, he had his other acquaintances and giving them sufficient importance was very much essential and within the norms of a mannered guy.

He kept looking for Saachi all the while. whenever he got time for himself his mind was on Saachi only.
So when he thought about himself he thought about Saachi as well.

Now ankita enters and she is shown to be DV's childhood friend and all comfortable. It happens with old friends who like to show they know you best and that was ankita. I don't know how her role will develop but she was too comfortable with DV...perhaps if she has nurtured romantic thoughts about him then getting him close perhaps made her behave this way...I am sure DV is unaware of her likings towards him otherwise he would have distanced himself...but since he didn't suspect he was all casual.

I did not like Saachi becoming a cry baby yet again...somehow she has lost that strong ness which she once possessed in the beginning. She is too scared of her relationship with DV and anything goes a little bit haywire she puts it on her relationship. She need to comeout of her insecurities as I am sure what made her so upset and crying would have been so casual for DV...ask DV and he would not be able to find out what he did so wrong...
How his mother was comfortable seeing her future DIL ankita in a off shoulder short skirt...this shows DV belongs to a very liberal family where hugging and all is quiet comfortable. DV did not do anything to be labelled as characterless. He has left everything for Saachi and even after this I would not suspect him.
Edited by vinee_vinee - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#44
Totally agree and about the comfortableness in the close proximity of Anki-DV, I would say not every person are affected with proximity. Then every actor should have some feelings for their co-actor, and I even saw two actors who were in no talk term relationship but a sizzling chemistry onscreen Cezane khan-Sweta tiwari from kasauti... I do have friends who are comfortable with our male friends in close proximity though they are not couple only only friends, not friends with benefits at all. So that happens
Today's epi was ektaish. One girl running after a boy, the boy after another girl, the girl after another boy... thumbs down 👎🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vinee_vinee



Superb dear...wonderful...can't stop myself from praising your insight...

To carry it further from here there has been so much bashing of DV that why didn't he introduce Saachi to his mom or ankita if his conscious was so clear...to this I have one answer that when it's only a casual disclosure it can be done easily but when it's something serious then one waits for the right time. DV has done this before also...he told of his love very easily to Dils but with aaji naani even he was hesitant...here also in the party he did not hide who was Saachi for him. He revealed about Saachi to everyone there except his closest of people whom he wanted to tell about her while creating that atmosphere...afterall marriage talk is not a small thing and here its definately not at all small.

Today I totally felt Saachi was different and out of the lot and perhaps she was realising it herself and from inside she was uncomfortable. Saw how initially when she was coughing DV brought water for her with the same concern and urgency which in an earlier episode made Vishwas suspect DV's love for her. So here also he did not change. DV was taking her along to meet everybody but Saachi stopped in the middle to give water to a girl. Here DV was not alone with her, he had his other acquaintances and giving them sufficient importance was very much essential and within the norms of a mannered guy.

He kept looking for Saachi all the while. whenever he got time for himself his mind was on Saachi only.
So when he thought about himself he thought about Saachi as well.

Now ankita enters and she is shown to be DV's childhood friend and all comfortable. It happens with old friends who like to show they know you best and that was ankita. I don't know how her role will develop but she was too comfortable with DV...perhaps if she has nurtured romantic thoughts about him then getting him close perhaps made her behave this way...I am sure DV is unaware of her likings towards him otherwise he would have distanced himself...but since he didn't suspect he was all casual.

I did not like Saachi becoming a cry baby yet again...somehow she has lost that strong ness which she once possessed in the beginning. She is too scared of her relationship with DV and anything goes a little bit haywire she puts it on her relationship. She need to comeout of her insecurities as I am sure what made her so upset and crying would have been so casual for DV...ask DV and he would not be able to find out what he did so wrong...
How his mother was comfortable seeing her future DIL ankita in a off shoulder short skirt...this shows DV belongs to a very liberal family where hugging and all is quiet comfortable. DV did not do anything to be labelled as characterless. He has left everything for Saachi and even after this I would not suspect him.

Thanx ...dear.
This party was not at all the place where u can talk about your would be life partner.And esp.when the relationship has an age difference issue...taking into consideration how liberal your family is.

About giving water,Oh!! just mentioned this in one of my post in your another thread.About the dance...for which he is being blamed,Me too didn't like the way of dance.But this is his way of life.But now ,he should be careful about such things...bcoz such things do hurt your partner.

Hugging ,flirting or girl in shot dresses may not be a issue for DV and his family ...but this is not the way Sanchi has grown up.Remember in a episode, Sanchi said that she is very traditional girl and even I remember she told Prachi to come back at home early from party.She has grown up in completely conservative family ...so such things will matter to her not DV.That's why it was not easy for her to accept the relation with DV,initially.While DV didn't have any such problem.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: preity_d

Totally agree and about the comfortableness in the close proximity of Anki-DV, I would say not every person are affected with proximity. Then every actor should have some feelings for their co-actor, and I even saw two actors who were in no talk term relationship but a sizzling chemistry onscreen Cezane khan-Sweta tiwari from kasauti... I do have friends who are comfortable with our male friends in close proximity though they are not couple only only friends, not friends with benefits at all. So that happens

Today's epi was ektaish. One girl running after a boy, the boy after another girl, the girl after another boy... thumbs down 👎🏼


I visited BALH forum to see if there is any activity there post MM and found that forum dead...nobody really got affected with what they showed there as they are used to of seeing ekta shows , which we are not , so anything OTT bothered us. Our show is different and that's why we like it...one day it becam an ekta show and see how we all hated it...let Monday come and things will clear.

I checked the last part again after the dance has created so much chaos in the forum. DV was utmost comfortable with ankita. When she invited him to dance, he bluntly refused saying today he is with Saachi so it seems all this was so casual with him. He also put his arm over her shoulder to give her a half hug and said next time sweetheart. His body language was completely different for ankita. ...the very next moment he with all his Tameez bowed a little and asked Saachi's hand for dance. This is DV...his world has been different but he has changed himself for Saachi so much that he calls her Saanchi ji till now.

The dance part...I guess he dancing with Saachi was close and heartfelt but with ankita it was her who was having her eyes closed...DV was just dancing on the steps of a romantic number. I noticed his expressions clearly...they were only casual most of the time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#47
Thanks vinnie for soothing words but this things hurts...

Even if we know DV didn't done intentionally and done without feeling then also hurts 😭 today I am not able to ROFL 😭 the saddest epi ever for me 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: divine_16

Thanx ...dear.
This party was not at all the place where u can talk about your would be life partner.And esp.when the relationship has an age difference issue...taking into consideration how liberal your family is.

About giving water,Oh!! just mentioned this in one of my post in your another thread.About the dance...for which he is being blamed,Me too didn't like the way of dance.But this is his way of life.But now ,he should be careful about such things...bcoz such things do hurt your partner.

Hugging ,flirting or girl in shot dresses may not be a issue for DV and his family ...but this is not the way Sanchi has grown up.Remember in a episode, Sanchi said that she is very traditional girl and even I remember she told Prachi to come back at home early from party.She has grown up in completely conservative family ...so such things will matter to her not DV.That's why it was not easy for her to accept the relation with DV,initially.While DV didn't have any such problem.


Today DV was in his own world so he behaved how naturally he would have behaved if Saachi was not with him..with his friends all comfortable and casual. With Saachi and her family in Panchgani he behaves differently...if you remember how he was in the beginning and how he changed over time..so he adjusted to Saachi. Now Saachi has seen DV's world and its different than hers...if she did not like anything better idea is to sit and discuss and not to run away in tears with all distrust about your partner. It would have been more mature if she handled it well and later discussed it out with DV...and to some extent change somewhere as DV has changed for her completely...this is where their personalities contrast.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: preity_d

Thanks vinnie for soothing words but this things hurts...

Even if we know DV didn't done intentionally and done without feeling then also hurts 😭 today I am not able to ROFL 😭 the saddest epi ever for me 😭


Let's accept that DV has his own world which is very open...he has changed himself for Saachi and will continue that...let's wait for Monday,,,,.do not write off DV from your mind by just one ekta serial. DV is the strongest hero on TV till date...and cvs know his popularity...they won't spoil it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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phir bhi I am hurt, utna logic dekhke pyar thodi na hota hain 😭 mummaaa 😭

suggest me something to lighten and brighten my mood as an elder sis 😭 tomorrow going to a village for weekend trip, but sadu condition me enjoy kaise karungi 😭

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