Negative labels and criticism are destructive

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Today's episode 11-26-13

Saachi and Dhruv are experiencing negative reinforcements which results in low self-esteem and self-confidence. It makes them nervous and anxious and scared. It is giving them symptoms of low energy and poor appetite. They need to let their love grow by giving it enough space or air in between. Even plants that are planted too crowded together do not grow as fast as those with enough spacing in between. Trusting each other is really important.

When does an age gap become too big? Well, 7 years is not that much of a difference at their ages (as opposed to if Saachi 34 and Dhruv 27), and will become even less so as you get older. It's not about age - it's about compatibility.

Saachi should call for a confidential moment with Aaji and Nani to make them understand to have a great relationship you need to have two people that appreciate each other and feel lucky to be together, no matter what the age difference may be. "Age ain't nothin' but a number." They can't live their life trying to look good in the eyes of people. Besides, they're probably jealous!


Adu could have reciprocated to Dhruv's feelings for Saachi versus depart away from him.


Dlz was remarkable friend in need a friend indeed says Time is great physician. It will provide with a much-needed respite from these worries.


The last scene was heartbreaking on how to let the elders know how much Dhruv and Saachi like each other that way you are armed with positive attributes. While some skepticism is natural for parents, a lot of it can be avoided by the way you continue the subject of Dhruv and Saachi are made for each other.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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great analysis!

My POV- well their confusion is natural.. sometimes even an intelligent person fails to choose between what's right n what's wring when things are messed up.
Saachi too is in such a troubled situation.. she's definitely older than DV but DV seems a little more bold n mature..
lets see how they'll handle :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalpana19

Today's episode 11-26-13

Saachi and Dhruv are experiencing negative reinforcements which results in low self-esteem and self-confidence. It makes them nervous and anxious and scared. It is giving them symptoms of low energy and poor appetite. They need to let their love grow by giving it enough space or air in between. Even plants that are planted too crowded together do not grow as fast as those with enough spacing in between. Trusting each other is really important.

When does an age gap become too big? Well, 7 years is not that much of a difference at their ages (as opposed to if Saachi 34 and Dhruv 27), and will become even less so as you get older. It's not about age - it's about compatibility.

Saachi should call for a confidential moment with Aaji and Nani to make them understand to have a great relationship you need to have two people that appreciate each other and feel lucky to be together, no matter what the age difference may be. "Age ain't nothin' but a number." They can't live their life trying to look good in the eyes of people. Besides, they're probably jealous!


Adu could have reciprocated to Dhruv's feelings for Saachi versus depart away from him.


Dlz was remarkable friend in need a friend indeed says Time is great physician. It will provide with a much-needed respite from these worries.


The last scene was heartbreaking on how to let the elders know how much Dhruv and Saachi like each other that way you are armed with positive attributes. While some skepticism is natural for parents, a lot of it can be avoided by the way you continue the subject of Dhruv and Saachi are made for each other.

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oh gosh this is a huge gap if you are in the indian society village

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