Inder's Death Pivotal - Page 2

Originally posted by: blackcurrant

Lets suppose Inder never died, I honestly don't think MP would have worked. Prachi completely sheltered and protected from the realities of the world (and she would have remained that way as long as Inder was alive) would have been intimadated and put off by Milind's brashness. While Milind would have been exasperated and irritated by Daddy's little girl. Furthermore, Milind would never have been happy playing second fiddle to Inder. Even, if Prachi got married, her father would still have had the greatest influence on her life. Within a month of marriage, Milind would have been driven mad and packed her off back to her parents. Neev would have been perfect in this situation. He is fairly easy-going, so he would have been fairly tolerant of Inder's influence and coming from the same world as Prachi, he really wouldn't have brought much of the harsh realities of the outside world into their secure, comfortable, wealthy lives.

But Inder's death knocked up Prachi badly. She had to face the ugliness of losing their fortune, losing their respectability and most importantly, she had to realise her father far from being perfect was actually a very flawed man. But this in a way paved the way for her to fall in love with a problematic person like Milind. He need not do and say the right thing all the time but she could still accept him as he is. If her father was not perfect, no man was going to be. If Inder was still alive and she was still living with the illusions, she had about him, she only ever could be with a guy like Neev who is always the perfect gentleman.

Milind may have saved Prachi's family from financial ruin by buying her hand in marriage but even if he hadn't, he would still have been perfect for Prachi after Inder's death. He knows what it is like to be poor and without much respect, something Neev doesn't know a thing about. Crucially, he also knows what it's like to lose a beloved parent. No matter how much of a drama queen, he accuses Prachi of being, he has never once disregarded her love for her father as an act.

So, really does all come down to Inder and his influence in Prachi's life that has determined which is the right man for her.

BC there are quite some things in your post I disagree with.

I agree that Inder's death was pivotal. If Inder didn't die Prachi and Milind would not be together, but for me it's more because there wouldn't be any chance/opportunity for them to be together. Prachi would have married Neev and they would have been very much happy together. Milind would still be chasing Ayesha and maybe one day she would give in and maybe not. As for the characters compatibility, I think Michi would have clashed just like the way they actually clashed in their marriage after Inder's death. Because although they share things in common, they are also very different people.

I just think Prachi was a very obedient and refined girl even when Inder was alive. If theoretically speaking Michi got married while Inder's still alive, inside her heart maybe she would cherish her father the most but Milind wouldn't have been put off by her fascination for her father, because she had been taught enough that after marriage her husband should go first. I doubt she would run to her father if they fight or something. I mean her basic characteristic as a quiet, obedient and dutiful girl was not altered by her father's death. She is what she was. She was a dutiful daughter and would be a dutiful wife no matter what.

But yes Inder's death did make her tougher and stronger. She had to shoulder her entire family and faced things she might never dream of facing. But she didn't care for fortune or fame, as we know she actually helped Ayesha got everything thus losing it all by will. And I really don't think she had the moment to acknowledge that her father was a flawed man or had committed such terrible sin. She loved him too much to really care about that (and that's Prachi's precious trait that she executed in her relationship with Milind. I disagree when you said it's because Inder's a flawed man she could accept Milind's flaw. I think she had it in her no matter what). She was mainly crushed because her father had died with such a huge debt/regret regarding Ayesha. That became her regret as well because she loved him so much.

Prachi married Milind for her sense of duty. She cared for Milind at first for duty as well. However on very few occasions when they met before Inder's death I saw some kind of fascination (not in the sense of love at all) in her eyes when she looked at him. Maybe she was awed by his freedom and his bold, strong approach because that's something she could never be. I think she felt something similar regarding Ayesha.

So if Inder didn't die there's no story for Michi, but maybe somehow fate would have forced them to be together in some other ways. Because I'm a romantic.

I don't thinnk budget is that big of a deal for Ekta when it comes to RR, coz unlike other stars RR has a contract with Balaji of a flat rate per month of some big amount or something regardless of the number of shows he works in.
RR and Shabbo seem to be good friends too, so the chemistry will show, even when they r fighting for Prachi...hehehe.
AWW!! 😳
I would so love to see RR back in Kayamath minus Ayesha's mom...she was kinda ugly. No offense but i don't know what Inder saw in her, that he left PL for her, i mean PL was nice and good looking...hehehe 😳 I mean she was beautiful on the inside and the outside and see we got a Prachi coz of her.
Inder created a monster with Ayesha's mom, i don't even remember her name. 😡

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

Is she even alive? 😕

😆 Yes shes alive Sammie dear...but like so many BT character,....good only knows where she is disappeared too...😆

Bc loved what you wrote 👏 ..and in the end..milind turned out to be the perfect man for her after all 😉 😆
Thankkss
jess<3

Originally posted by: Magno

BC there are quite some things in your post I disagree with.

I agree that Inder's death was pivotal. If Inder didn't die Prachi and Milind would not be together, but for me it's more because there wouldn't be any chance/opportunity for them to be together. Prachi would have married Neev and they would have been very much happy together. Milind would still be chasing Ayesha and maybe one day she would give in and maybe not. As for the characters compatibility, I think Michi would have clashed just like the way they actually clashed in their marriage after Inder's death. Because although they share things in common, they are also very different people.

I just think Prachi was a very obedient and refined girl even when Inder was alive. If theoretically speaking Michi got married while Inder's still alive, inside her heart maybe she would cherish her father the most but Milind wouldn't have been put off by her fascination for her father, because she had been taught enough that after marriage her husband should go first. I doubt she would run to her father if they fight or something. I mean her basic characteristic as a quiet, obedient and dutiful girl was not altered by her father's death. She is what she was. She was a dutiful daughter and would be a dutiful wife no matter what.

But yes Inder's death did make her tougher and stronger. She had to shoulder her entire family and faced things she might never dream of facing. But she didn't care for fortune or fame, as we know she actually helped Ayesha got everything thus losing it all by will. And I really don't think she had the moment to acknowledge that her father was a flawed man or had committed such terrible sin. She loved him too much to really care about that (and that's Prachi's precious trait that she executed in her relationship with Milind. I disagree when you said it's because Inder's a flawed man she could accept Milind's flaw. I think she had it in her no matter what). She was mainly crushed because her father had died with such a huge debt/regret regarding Ayesha. That became her regret as well because she loved him so much.

Prachi married Milind for her sense of duty. She cared for Milind at first for duty as well. However on very few occasions when they met before Inder's death I saw some kind of fascination (not in the sense of love at all) in her eyes when she looked at him. Maybe she was awed by his freedom and his bold, strong approach because that's something she could never be. I think she felt something similar regarding Ayesha.

So if Inder didn't die there's no story for Michi, but maybe somehow fate would have forced them to be together in some other ways. Because I'm a romantic.

I agree that and fight between Inder Shah and Milind over their right in Prachi's life would have been so ultimately interesting and fun but i think its nice that Milsi too respects the man that obviously means the world to Prachi.
Me agrees with my dear friend Magnolia who seems to be the only one who remembers the qualities of Prachi.
Prachi was the quiet and sweet, obedient daughter when Inder was alive and she remains the same today. That hasn't changed. It is that quality in Prachi that has turned to the dutiful wife that we see today. As for her resolve in matters of life, i would say after her father's death she got the opportunity to show her strength. She was strong before too but she loved her father too much to let him know that she didn't need to hold his hand anymore. But yes she wasn't outgoing and rash like Ayesha and she isn't so today either. Her strength lay in the fact that she loved a man who clearly was not serious about life, who had a new girlfriend every week and who never took anything seriously. Neev wasn't perfect for her. He was just the man she loved. If NP had married and Inder had been alive, they still wouldn't have lived happily. You are forgetting the influence Niharika would have had on Neev since it wasn't until Nihaarika asked him to marry Ayesha for money that he really realized his mother's true face...and Pranay with his intentions and knowledge of Inder's infidelity would have taken advantage of that. Inder was a flawed man hence he would have succumbed to their demands. Prachi's life in Shergill house would have been far from perfect or happy. She would have endured all that for Neev tho..but I doubt Neev's ability to stand up for Prachi. Since even as her best-friend, or as her fiancee he failed to trust her or support her in situations where she needed him to.

Ooopz...plz don't take this as an attack on NP jodi. NP fans this is not intended to be that. I am just laying down the possibilities.

But Ryka you are right if Inder had been alive and Michi had somehow ended up with each other still, Inder and Milind would have a hard time with each other. Today Prachi can easily balance her love for her husband and her father. But it would have been hell for her if they both had tugged at her from either sides.

As for Prachi becoming strong because of Inder's death, tragedies make you grow up. But unless you possess the qualities inherently to take up the challenges that face you, the tragedy just leaves you shattered and helpless. Prachi grew up and became strong because she already possessed that strength. It took her Inder's death to realize that and to bring it out completely. Prachi had started that transition tho from the first day of the show. It didn't happen in a day.

JC that must be the memory of old Prachi and the reminiscence of how much I adored her that prompted me to write such post, because these days I'm having on-off relationship with her. Mostly she upsets me.

I think to suggest that Prachi would not be happy if she married Neev would somewhat equal to suggesting that Prachi is very very unhappy with her marriage with Milind😕. It's just the trouble Prachi went through by marrying Milind... I don't think Niharika etc could cause more pain for her than what Milind did and all the troubles his family (indirectly or directly) brought her. I think it would be enough for her that she loved Neev and Neev loved her. Just like she's content with Milind because she loves him.

[quote]As for Prachi becoming strong because of Inder's death, tragedies make you grow up. But unless you possess the qualities inherently to take up the challenges that face you, the tragedy just leaves you shattered and helpless.[/quote]
That's an excellent point.

Magno you are right about Prachi being happy if she had married Neev. I think i failed to explain myself fully because as i was writing i felt that my post was becoming anti NP jodi so i stopped short. I meant to say that unlike her situation today with Milind, Prachi would have been isolated and lonely in Shergill house if Neev had ever failed to support her. Today she has Milind's baba, his sister and her whole famliy to support her when Milind is naraaz and they try to get them together. If she had gone to Shergill house, Nihaarika and Purvi would think of making things worse for her if Neev wasn't supportive and Pranay's support would be fake. And what if Prachi ever found out that Pranay killed her father, how would she deal with that if she was caught between respecting her father-in-law and loathing her father's murderer. Would she be able to sacrifice her relationship with Neev for her father's memory or would she try to tell Neev what his father really is so that Neev can be alienated from his father too along with his mother and sister.

She can endure any hardship for the people she loves and she would have been happy with Neev because she loves him. But getting him to believe her truths would have been a task. I can imagine Prachi becoming another Vidhya of Banoo Mein Teri Dulhan if she had married Neev. That just would be pathetic. With Milind, all she has to do it pour her heart out and he believes her. Just the fact that he cried during her courtroom outburst and didn't deem it as nautanki is witness to that. He believed her when she lied and if she had just told the truth a little earlier and told the whole truth convincingly he would have believed that too without asking for proof. If she had told him that the DNA report was wrong because it was Suki's hair he would have believed her without having her do another DNA test. Neev is not like that because when Prachi tried to explain to him why she was supporting Sukriti instead of Alaap he didn't want to hear it. He didn't give Suki the benefit of the doubt...he blindly believed his best friend. That kind of blind faith on the wrong person would have always been trouble for Neev-Prachi if they had married. Now Neev is changed due to the experiences he had...thanx to Ayesha for breaking his blind faith in people. Today Neev is a different person and will behave more maturely than he would have if all that happened didn't happen in the first place.