Ayesha - Selfishness Personified

Well Ayesha seems to be the most selfish character on earth. She claims to love Milind. But did not think twice about leaving him and marrying Neev to spite Prachi. Her hatred for Prachi seems stronger than her love for Milind. Now she is out to get Milind back. Not that she loves him. But because she knows that now Prachi loves him. She has to spoil Prachi's happiness yet again. In the process if her former lover gets hurt she cares two hoots. Her attitude shows that she cares for no one, be it Milind or Prachi. All she cares about is herself.

She was complaining to Milind yesterday that she has everything but she is unhappy. What does she expect? Selfish people are never happy. Happiness lies in giving, not taking. Sooner she realises this, better for her. And for all of us viewers of Kayamath.

very true indeed! Aysha thinks it's all about her wanting , liking and dislikings.. Arey - come on - you had your time to make a choice and you chose to marry neev for whatever silly reason..and now that Milind is with Prachii - then leave them alone..

Yeah she does think of herself only - doesn't she ....

I hate her really - she was a sweet person before..but now she is the worst ever..!

I hope whatever dent has been made in MPs marriage is healed before it drags any further..

Let's all hope for the best.!

Thanks for the topic..

Warmest regards,

Rumki.

Well said dear....Ayesha ...is truly selfish being....shes think ...she is in love with Milli and that hes her private property...and not that she sees Milli graviating towards Prachi...she wants him back in her life...because she want to win....agaisnt Prachi.

Love...is over shadowed by Selfishness...and Obsession dear.

Originally posted by: sareeta

I beg to differ and disagree!

I believe Ayesha is a classic case of being bitter towards life itself...and not selfish!

Selfishness when perceived differently can be seen as a vice or a virtue (let me not deviate from the topic... I have expressed opinion on the same in another topic...) and in Ayesha's case, it may not be a virtue, but its not a vice either...!

A selfish person would do things for their own benefit , but ayesha's priority to get back at life for all the bitterness she holds, and the haplessness of what she endured all the years at the hands of fate...and in doing so, she is venting her bitterness towards the people who love and care for her! Sad!

The poor woman is jus bitter...! Now, it does depend on the creatives , how they would want to mould her character , and no prize for guessing that, she may be turned into a classic selfish, scheming , vamp of the Shah household!

But the character of Ayesha does have a lot of potential to be exploited , but alas... at the hands of destructives sorry creatives... one can only imagine the fate of that character!

I do not entirely agree with you. She may be bitter woman taking her vengence on the Shah family. But what about the way she treats Milind? She pours drinks for him when she knows well he is not supposed to drink. So she doesnt care about his physical health. She does not try to emphathise with him in his sorrow over losing Prachi. So she does not care about his emotional health. Granted she wants him. But it seems that 'want' seems to supercede her 'so called love'. If she had been a true friend, may be in time Milind would have forgotten the hurt and would have gravitated towards her. Her impatience and willfulness is right now only putting him off.

A person truly in love looks out for the happiness of the loved one. Like Prachi for Milind, like Milind for Prachi, like Neev for Prachi. She can always take shelter under the claim that she did not know the true meaning of love because of her childhood. But was Milind not always there for her? Surely she should have understood what it is to love and be loved. No dear, she is too self absorbed to think of anyone but herself.

Originally posted by: optimist

I do not entirely agree with you. She may be bitter woman taking her vengence on the Shah family. But what about the way she treats Milind? She pours drinks for him when she knows well he is not supposed to drink. So she doesnt care about his physical health. She does not try to emphathise with him in his sorrow over losing Prachi. So she does not care about his emotional health. Granted she wants him. But it seems that 'want' seems to supercede her 'so called love'. If she had been a true friend, may be in time Milind would have forgotten the hurt and would have gravitated towards her. Her impatience and willfulness is right now only putting him off.

A person truly in love looks out for the happiness of the loved one. Like Prachi for Milind, like Milind for Prachi, like Neev for Prachi. She can always take shelter under the claim that she did not know the true meaning of love because of her childhood. But was Milind not always there for her? Surely she should have understood what it is to love and be loved. No dear, she is too self absorbed to think of anyone but herself.

^^ Self absrobed is the word I believe suits her , rather than selfish. I jus believe selfish is too strong a word for her now! May be the creatives will turn her eventually into some one really outrageously and wickedly selfish...

And as far as the scenes abt the drinks and her seducing Milind... well yeah I do agree with you... to a large extent, but I have a thought that i'd wanna share here ... and I jus wish to pen down my thoughts , but am caught at work pretty badly at the moment ... Will do so in a while! Thank you for replying... nice reading your thoughts! 😊

self absorbed it the right word ....
ayesha is to bussy feeling pity for herself that she thinks that she is the victim all the time.... she can't see that she is the problem....

ayesha is not taking any responsibility off her own actions... she keep blaming her parents....

her self pity is chancing her so much that we the viewers can't see the adorable girl she once was....who was so much in love with milind that she would do everything for him.... and if this girl still would exist.....she would never hurt milind the way she is doing it now.....