Double standards... ??

what am I talking about...

Okay Ayesha married Neev for revenge...

Milind married Prachi for revenge...

Neev considers himself like a slave to Ayesha (like she bought him)

Prachi also thought on similar lines...

Ayesha is rude towards Neev and feels no love for him and does not try to mask her feelings

Milind also hated Prachi to begin with and was extremely rude towards her...

Our reaction towards both marriages... we accepted Milind and his anger and justified it...we also accepted Prachi quietly taking his anger and accepting it, and still being a good wife to him... we wanted their relationship to flourish...

On the other hand... we expect Ayesha to change her attitude if she ever hopes to have a relationship with Neev. We know that as long as Ayesha is rude to him etc... he will never accept her as his wife or even fall in love with him...

Isn't this double standards? While we accept Prachi being a good wife to Milind despite his anger... we can't do the same for Neev... that is we can't accept Neev to be a good husband to Ayesha b/c she is rude to him... while it is what Prachi did with Milind. Like Prachi continued to think good for Milind despite his anger towards her... whereas we are happy when Neev is rude back towards Ayesha instead of being like Prachi and actually thinking good of his wife.

I know their characterization is different... but here I am talking on very general terms... I hope I make sense... 😊 ... don't mean to offend anyone ... just thought it would make a good discussion topic for everyone to share their opinons and point of view... 😊

Is it okay for a husband to be rude but not for wife...?

Do men and women play different roles in a marriage, where each must behave a certain way?

only one word from me...
ekta can create MP
she ruining NA when they have potential too...
i just want neev to be happy....

no point of talking abt ayesha even neev be good to her just like prachi she will think he is acting just like prachi...no point banging your head on a stone when it does stores any feelings for you

Actually, Prachi didn't accept Milind's uncouth attempts to insult her, and almost left her home. It was only when he apologized did she finally welcome him into her heart.

Neev and Ayesha will not flourish as a couple until the latter undergoes a 180 deg phase shift in her attitude, and becomes affectionate.

The way ayesha is treatin neev is like she is the man u cn tell she wears the trousers in that relationship.

Well MP looking at them nw seem as though they hv been 2gthr for years they shud flourshis as a couple and good luck to them NP were just a lil immature for my likin there was no seiousness between them.

farah

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I dont know, i haven;t thought about NA as a couple at all. I do like MP scenes, they are very nice and it's nice to know that Milind is softeing with Prachi but frankly speaking, I don't want MP togather, I want NP togather 😳

The problem is that you are equating Milind's attitude to Ayesha's when they are not the same at all.

Milind was the one hurt in MA relationship. He was the one devastated. Because for Ayesha it was a well planned and calculated decision to marry Neev and forget Milind. This hit Milind as the biggest jhatka of his life. And knowing what Prachi's bro did to his sis he naturally felt hate toward her family. Even in his hate tho there was always a guilt hidden somewhere that he is hurting an innocent person. The rape situation was caused by a major misunderstanding and Milind repented for that mistake and all that he did before that too. It was only then that Prachi truly accepted him into her heart because until then she only did her duties as a wife without having heart in it and respected Milind for the person he is. But now she loves him as her husband and has accepted that relationship fully.

Now in Ayesha's case...her hate toward Neev has no foundation. It is part of the general bitterness that her character feels right now. The reason she is bitter is because in her madness for taking revenge she actually ruined her own life. She lost that one thing that was most important to her and was her safe haven. Now having lost that especially to Prachi, the woman she despises most for Prachi was the one who enjoyed the love and affection of a very loving father all the while Ayesha lived fatherless in poverty and having to take care of a mentally ill mother. So Ayesha's anger is not just toward Prachi, it is to fate and the life she was forced to live and most importantly toward herself for having maaroed kulhadi on her own leg. She has no reason to hate Neev accept to be irritated by him because of his sarcasm. If Neev were to be nice to her and not irritate her all the time and do some gandhigiri like Prachi did i think Ayesha will definitely at some point feel guilty for him and might just fall in love with him. But Neev is not in a position to do that since Neev is not like Prachi. He is not the gandhigiri type of person. So altho there is great potential in this couple i don't c them coming close anytime soon. Maybe a little later it may happen, when Ayesha decided that its time to not be stubborn anymore as she'll not gain anything but loose whatever else she has.

Originally posted by: farah_rehman

The way ayesha is treatin neev is like she is the man u cn tell she wears the trousers in that relationship.

bechara neev......woh to kahin ka nahi raha.....na ghar ka na ghat ka.........uski to dholak ki tarah dono taraf se baji hai😭........feel so sry for him........but i think that if neev starts treating ayesha like a person with feelings she will chg [i noe she hasn't done nething to deserve that kind of understanding but u can't clap with one hand.......the more neev taunts her the more she gets instigated], instead of putting salt on her wounds all the time, he shuld share his pain as they r both tryin to cope with the loss of their 1st love.......i feel ayesha is only tryin to get milind bak cuz she is not gettin any luv or understandin from neev.......so she is going for the nxt best thing cuz she noes milind used to care for her........milind was also a bad person wen he 1st got married to prachi but her loyalty towrds him has made him realise the importance of their relationship.........oops i've written an entire essay on the dos nd donts of the NA - MP relationships😳

i cant stand neev ayesha, i think neev deserves better, he has been just a pawn in EVERYONES game, ayeshas to get revenge, prachi to give her sister happiness,, his mom for money. ill puke if neev ever falls for that ayesha!!!

Originally posted by: julle1234567890

i cant stand neev ayesha, i think neev deserves better, he has been just a pawn in EVERYONES game, ayeshas to get revenge, prachi to give her sister happiness,, his mom for money. ill puke if neev ever falls for that ayesha!!!

you can't say NA might fall for each other...even they fall i won't mind becaue neev needs love and affection...NA looks cute together....i know ayesha did bad things but thats because of her misunderstanding on her elder sis...when MP can be happy why not NA..this is not being fair....i am just waiting for NA track

Originally posted by: jenny1000

I dont know, i haven;t thought about NA as a couple at all. I do like MP scenes, they are very nice and it's nice to know that Milind is softeing with Prachi but frankly speaking, I don't want MP togather, I want NP togather 😳

mere muh ki baat chin li..
I too want NP togther..Mp is good just for temporary arrangements...