first love..... - Page 2

Originally posted by: shali

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Hi Shali , 😊 it's good to see you finally spoke up and that too on such a tender issue..thank you hun.... I agree with you completely on the point that first love is definitely not the last... I have always believed in the fact that ppl change with time...they do ...and compered with 20 or 30 years back we have changed al lot and the way we think.... Two ppl dying for each other one day might not even look at each other on the next day....sweety to find someone willing to die for you is very hard to find.....Our lives are not exact nor rigid or planned everything is a work of destiny so we are not in a position to predict anything...so true.....That ofcourse does not mean that one should not love but to be hell bent on attaining something , going against the work of nature, causing turmoil in other's lives considering yourself correct in all situations is wrong Bingo.....agreed.... ...Sadly this is the current scenario of the leading couples in Kayamath..I agree Neev loved Prachi and Milind loved Ayesha but then what.....they married the exact opposites....sweety, opposites attract😉😆....now instead of concentrating on their respectives spouses with the exception of Prachi all three are creating chaos not only in others lives but in theirs as well...agreed ... with as result they will cry and make us cry harder.....Wat will they achieve is the question ...profound happiness? Impossible!!!! Satisfaction in a married life ...not until they start working on it...Wat they have achieved is pain, unhappiness and jealousy..👏👏👏welll said.....And for all those who think that swapping the couples to their original positions in each other lives is going to put everything back on track....Well i must say they're so wrong yes they are😡.......becuz time spent cannot be brought back...the memories will remain and none of them will share the same depth of passion and love as before..the true bond is still to be developed between MP and as soon that is the pain off separation will be harder then what they are feeling now.... Prachi will always consider Milind her first husband and he will have that special place in her live....neev maybe her childhood love but miliand will be the love off her life....n there's no two ways about it...and Ayesha will always consider Neev her property so they are perfect as they are right now becuz they are in a relationship with is based on social and religious bondings which may too help them understand and love each other better ...if only they wish to do so!!!!.A.. wil never do do.... she will not seek happiness in her marriage she will be going after miland....I see a obsession rising..... 😊

Originally posted by: blind horizon

Not just obsession ,madness ....hereditary I guess..... got it from her mother...one thing the woman gave her since birth lunacy.... 😡 if she'd dumped Inder ages ago n moved on none of this wud've happened.... 😕

sweety this will happen with A.... but to compare her with her mother will be injustice to the mother....

yes her mother became crazy in her love for inder but with a different.... she let him be...and suffer alone.... yes she waited for him.... cause she knew that once in her life he would came back.... she knew and understood his choice... she may not agreed with it...........

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

Hey shali, nice to read your view hun! Please do keep posting! hi sima.... glad to see you around.... and will try😃.....

I personally think first love is someone you can never forget! Actually to be frank any person you fall in love with and have shared the best moments of your life with are very hard to be forgotten! our heart is very big.... our first love will be there always......

However People come and go but there is always that someone who is always there in your heart…that one person may not be around or with you but his footprints are left behind in your heart for ever and no one can wash them away!!! yes, indeed.....

But if some how you do end up having a different life partner all together then that was meant to be! And that don't mean anything can hold you back from loving your present husband, its completely natural to fall in love with your other half even though he's not your first love! your first love doesn't have to be your ultimate love......As time changes you never know your first love may well eventually fade away as new emotions take over your heart and soul! But at the moment it's hard for me to comment, coz I don't know if I can personally get over my first love. sim.... as I said and you knew ... you will never forget him.... but he is not the ultimate love unless you belong to the 1 % wich first love last forever......

Like they say falling in love is a true ambition, but finding true love is a lifetime mission! well said👏👏👏.....

MP are meant to be and now that they are married their relationship will last for ever! knowing ekta.... yes they will last but with a lot off ups and downs.....and A will cause a lot off harm./ damage... in no circumstance will they be betraying NA if they do fall in love because they are married and permitted to be together for life! agreed.....

Lotsa love, same too you......
Sima / shali

This is a wonderful topic, Shali!

The way i look at it, I feel the Last Love is what is important than the 1st love. 1st Love is surely special because it introduces u into the beautiful feeling of Love. But that is about it... it remains a sweet memory. A lot of times one just passes of the 1st love as infatuation. I really dont think their is anything everlasting about 1st love... because if there was anything 'everlasting' about it... It would have been called just Love... you dont have to designate a term 'FIRST' to it, It is only when u experience love more profound it gets shoved back as 1st love, because the 2^nd love is here... else 1^st love would still have been love. I think in a marriage it isnt important ur spouse is your 1st love or u r ur spouse's 1st love... What is important is that it is the Last Love.

Coming to MP... I have always rooted for this couple for reasons I never had even before the show began... Till now I keep searching for reasons and thankfully with the way their relationship is evolving, I find reason & logic and am convinced they are meant to be. To begin with my reason to support the couple had to do with Shabbir being one of the leads so he had to get the girl😛. Then came Milind, he was an original leading man in the world of Tv and one of the most interesting character. Then Milind-Prachi met at Prachi's sangeet. Their exchange of looks had some magic... in that 30 seconds there was some kind of a very strong connection... to begin with this was Milind's 1st experience in the world of the rich & famous(a world he would rule someday) and the only person he spoke to was Prachi😳 Prachi could have easily missed him in that crowd... but fate had its own ways (all it took was a silly naintara's dance movement), she being the center of attraction of that evening was drawn to a secluded corner of the room where this guy stood with his back against them... He turned only to see Prachi. That moment sealed it for me... It was now Milind-Prachi and not Shabbir who was the deciding factor for me.

Today if one sits back in introspective mode... U will find a lot many instances which justify that Milind-Prachi are meant to be. Inder was always apprehensive about Neev for Prachi and on the other hand Amrutha kept telling Milind not to fall for Ayesha, she would betray him one day. 2 mins before Prachi would have entered a wedlock with Neev, she has her grandma sitting next to her saying if this doesn't happen...then there is something else waiting for you. I think experienced eyes somewhere had seen MA-NP never making it to the altar.

I have never really appreciated Neev-Prachi's relationship as Love...because I never found anything substantial to last for a lifetime. Here was this 1st rate flirt who realizes he is love only when he sees another man taking priority in Prachi's life. Here was Prachi who never let her feelings be evident because she didnt want to lose a friend and even Neev kept quiet because he didnt want to create disturbance in his friend's life. I find them very good friends and they will probably remain best friends... but nothing more than that after this point.

Neev has always made Prachi laugh when she has cried, But what is important when you cry isnt someone to make u laugh... but a shoulder u can put your head on and cry ur heart out and a finger who will wipe ur tears. The shoulder and fingers are that of Milind's😳. If Neev could be funny and make Prachi laugh, Milind can make her happy and smile. Milind doesnt have to do anything, he just has to be himself and Prachi smiles😳. Whenever Prachi thinks of Neev, it has invariably been as a memory of the past... but with Milind it is Hope of a future. Inder & Neev have always ensured that Prachi leads a protected life which was in the nature keeping her away from the Big Bad World....Milind on the other hand allows her to go into the big bad world and he knows and she has the confidence in him that He will be able to protect her amidst all trouble and difficulties😳….I prefer Milind's approach because Prachi really needs to widen her horizons… her life is not just about the Shah Mansion.

What strikes me most of Milind-Prachi is that they probably are two people who have known eachother for the least time span, they have spoken the least to eachother... but still the way they identify eachother, understand eachother & trust eachother is unexplainable. Here is this guy who knows Prachi from childhood beleiving her prorities in life is money and here is this guy who defends her on the same issue despite having shed 60 crores of his money for their marriage! On the other hand I have never seen Prachi be so free with anyone else, she confines in Milind about things she would never even talk to anyone about. She told him abt her dad's murder...not another soul knows about it. She told him she is bearing everyone hatred as a penance for the mistakes her father did. And the best part is that he understands her... all the others are busy taunting her actions... no one seems to understand her intentions. I agree I dont endorse her sacrificing spree and I am sure Milind doesnt either, but he atleast understands.

These are probably only a few instances that we can point out to justify MP's relationship...but i am sure with every passing day they will prove why they came together in the 1st place and why they will stay together forver. I can go on and on about MP(i guess u have realized that by now😆) The bottom line is that Milind-Prachi are Made & Meant for Eachother... they are Soulmates and no one can change that... Not even their so called love of so many years stood a chance when it bottled down to what Milind-Prachi were destined for.

And yes, Shali I do believe that MP are the lead pair of the show... If untill now Milind had taken a back seat it was because of Shabbir's bollywood assignments... they couldnt start away with his track and have him disappear inbetween... so they waited all the while for him to come back... and with his return the focus is on Milind-Prachi.

Originally posted by: Ryka

This is a wonderful topic, Shali!

The way i look at it, I feel the Last Love is what is important than the 1st love. 1st Love is surely special because it introduces u into the beautiful feeling of Love. But that is about it... it remains a sweet memory. A lot of times one just passes of the 1st love as infatuation. I really dont think their is anything everlasting about 1st love... because if there was anything 'everlasting' about it... It would have been called just Love... you dont have to designate a term 'FIRST' to it, It is only when u experience love more profound it gets shoved back as 1st love, because the 2^nd love is here... else 1^st love would still have been love. I think in a marriage it isnt important ur spouse is your 1st love or u r ur spouse's 1st love... What is important is that it is the Last Love.

Coming to MP... I have always rooted for this couple for reasons I never had even before the show began... Till now I keep searching for reasons and thankfully with the way their relationship is evolving, I find reason & logic and am convinced they are meant to be. To begin with my reason to support the couple had to do with Shabbir being one of the leads so he had to get the girl <!--[if !vml]-->😛<!--[endif]-->. Then came Milind, he was an original leading man in the world of Tv and one of the most interesting character. Then Milind-Prachi met at Prachi's sangeet. Their exchange of looks had some magic... in that 30 seconds there was some kind of a very strong connection... to begin with this was Milind's 1st experience in the world of the rich & famous(a world he would rule someday) and the only person he spoke to was Prachi <!--[if !vml]-->😳<!--[endif]--> Prachi could have easily missed him in that crowd... but fate had its own ways (all it took was a silly naintara's dance movement), she being the center of attraction of that evening was drawn to a secluded corner of the room where this guy stood with his back against them... He turned only to see Prachi. That moment sealed it for me... It was now Milind-Prachi and not Shabbir who was the deciding factor for me.

Today if one sits back in introspective mode... U will find a lot many instances which justify that Milind-Prachi are meant to be. Inder was always apprehensive about Neev for Prachi and on the other hand Amrutha kept telling Milind not to fall for Ayesha, she would betray him one day. 2 mins before Prachi would have entered a wedlock with Neev, she has her grandma sitting next to her saying if this doesn't happen...then there is something else waiting for you. I think experienced eyes somewhere had seen MA-NP never making it to the altar.

I have never really appreciated Neev-Prachi's relationship as Love...because I never found anything substantial to last for a lifetime. Here was this 1st rate flirt who realizes he is love only when he sees another man taking priority in Prachi's life. Here was Prachi who never let her feelings be evident because she didnt want to lose a friend and even Neev kept quiet because he didnt want to create disturbance in his friend's life. I find them very good friends and they will probably remain best friends... but nothing more than that after this point.

Neev has always made Prachi laugh when she has cried, But what is important when you cry isnt someone to make u laugh... but a shoulder u can put your head on and cry ur heart out and a finger who will wipe ur tears. The shoulder and fingers are that of Milind's😳. If Neev could be funny and make Prachi laugh, Milind can make her happy and smile. Milind doesnt have to do anything, he just has to be himself and Prachi smiles😳. Whenever Prachi thinks of Neev, it has invariably been as a memory of the past... but with Milind it is Hope of a future. Inder & Neev have always ensured that Prachi leads a protected life which was in the nature keeping her away from the Big Bad World....Milind on the other hand allows her to go into the big bad world and he knows and she has the confidence in him that He will be able to protect her amidst all trouble and difficulties😳….I prefer Milind's approach because Prachi really needs to widen her horizons… her life is not just about the Shah Mansion.

What strikes me most of Milind-Prachi is that they probably are two people who have known eachother for the least time span, they have spoken the least to eachother... but still the way they identify eachother, understand eachother & trust eachother is unexplainable. Here is this guy who knows Prachi from childhood beleiving her prorities in life is money and here is this guy who defends her on the same issue despite having shed 60 crores of his money for their marriage! On the other hand I have never seen Prachi be so free with anyone else, she confines in Milind about things she would never even talk to anyone about. She told him abt her dad's murder...not another soul knows about it. She told him she is bearing everyone hatred as a penance for the mistakes her father did. And the best part is that he understands her... all the others are busy taunting her actions... no one seems to understand her intentions. I agree I dont endorse her sacrificing spree and I am sure Milind doesnt either, but he atleast understands.

These are probably only a few instances that we can point out to justify MP's relationship...but i am sure with every passing day they will prove why they came together in the 1st place and why they will stay together forver. I can go on and on about MP(i guess u have realized that by now <!--[if !vml]-->😆<!--[endif]-->) The bottom line is that Milind-Prachi are Made & Meant for Eachother... they are Soulmates and no one can change that... Not even their so called love of so many years stood a chance when it bottled down to what Milind-Prachi were destined for.

And yes, Shali I do believe that MP are the lead pair of the show... If untill now Milind had taken a back seat it was because of Shabbir's bollywood assignments... they couldnt start away with his track and have him disappear inbetween... so they waited all the while for him to come back... and with his return the focus is on Milind-Prachi.
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Once again it was a beautiful topic… Thanks for putting it up👏.

Ryke facts about MP are spot on!

I always thought MP had a unique and beautiful chemistry…my instinct always told me MP were meant to be and I am proud to see them together!

MP jodi has a lot more to offer…the emotions that will be coming out of this jodi will comprise a lot more then just hate, pain, joy and love! Whereas NP had least to offer!