Anyone thought about how she might be feeling???

i read all the posts after the leap, everybody keeps blaming prachi 4 everything thats happening now.lets see wat happened after the leap...

Prachi left with proteek coz she didnt have anywhere else to go nd she had to consider her baby too. so v cant blame her 4 accepting his invitation. And it was not like they were planning to introduce her as panchi. It just happened due to circumstances they had to think abt proteek's dad's health. later they never bothered to correct that misunderstanding bcoz it was so much easier 4 them not to do so.
So she stays on as proteek's wife, does all her duties, takes care of everyone in the family, even though deep inside she's unhappy. what she thinks is that milind moved on in his life nd that he's happy.(i dont know frm where she got the idea that milind is goin to be happy without her nd is goin to move on wid that Mallika 😕) she's willing to deal with her unhappiness as long as he's happy. also she had her son to remind her of milind. i think this was admirable of her bcoz she must have been suffering the same way he was but instead of falling apart she kept it all locked up inside her heart nd went on living putting on a happy face 4 the world while inside she's pining for him.
How can anyone blame her 4 not loving him. wen sumontu is in hospital she calls out 4 him nd not anyone frm the dasgupta family. nd wen she finds out that milind is in the hospital, she's running all over the place to atleast catch a glimpse of him. we know how milind has suffered without her in the past years, we cud see it. just because physically v cant see any kind of suffering in prachi doesnt mean that she doesnt care for him anymore. when milind comes to the dasgupta house she's overjoyed to se him nd takes care of him wen he's unconsious. she sees wat he had gone through without her, nd she thinks that if i had known what u were going thru i wud never have left u.wen she hears that he's awake she wants to meet him but then stops herself. she tells him the whole truth and he ask her to leave the dasgupta's with him.
Everyone's going on about the inconsistency in prachi's charecter ever since the leap.if she had left the family wid milind the moment he came back in her life then there wud be an inconsistency in her charecter coz that will be the most selfish thing a person can ever do and prachi is anything but selfish.
From the time kayamath started, one major quality of prachi is that she's not selfish. She always puts other people's happiness b4 hers,even if it means heartbreak 4 her.
She was willing to marry Varun for her dad's happiness even though she luved neev nd knew he luved her back too nd that they r both goin 2 be heartbroken. she was willing to sacrifice neev nd all her happiness so that ayesha can be happy. also for some reason she thought neev is also goin 2 be happy. She agreed to marry milind, someone she doesnt even know 4 the sake of her family's happiness. nd after that she stayed married to him even though she thought milind hated him, 4 the sake of his dad's well being. then she took the blame 4 being ritwick's mother so that sukriti's married life can be saved at the risk of ruining her own married life. then during PA track, she cud have stopped everything by just telling him the truth but she didnt so that milind wont be hurt. Even after they confessed their luv wen milind says he cant just leave ayesha a day b4 the wedding, she accepts his choice coz she's willing to sacrifice so that ayesha's not hurt. nd finally to let milind out of the jail she agreed to mallika's demand even if that meant leaving not only milind whom she loves deeply but also her family.
she left not knowing her destination or where she'll get shelter or wat she'll do wid her life, without anyone to turn to for help.she's totally lost.Have u even considered wat might have happened if panchi hadnt offered to take her to their home? nobody wud have done wat panchi did, not knowing anything abt prachi she was willing to help her. can u blame prachi 4 being grateful to her.
She's stayed with the dasgupta family for 5 yrs they treat her as their daughter b4 milind's re-entry, in one of the episodes proteek's mom tell her friend that their family is very happy thanks to panchi. So everything is going very well in their family.
She cant repay panchi's nd the dasgupta family's kindness by ruining everyone's happiness just so that she can be happy. Also, suproteek nd sumontu thinks proteek nd panchi r their parents. they r just 5 nd 6 yrs old, too young to undrstand things like this. it must be very difficult 4 them to adjust to the fact that watever they have believed all this years have been a lie. Prachi's worried about all this.
At the same time she cant see milind suffering either but she's helpless, she's in a mess nd dont have any idea wat to do to get out of it.
We know milind cant bear it wen someone calls her proteek's wife nd his son calss proteek dad instead of him. Prachi is also going through the same pain. she wud want to spend her life with her husband nd son not stuck in the dasgupta house pretending to be someone elses's wife. atleast milind can complain about the unfairness of it all but wat is she to do. she cant tell anyone abt her unhappiness. wat must she be going thru now? she's torn b/w loyalty to her husband nd that to the family who gave her a home 4 the past 5 yrs. in that water scene she must have been really scared abt someone finding them. but at the same time she wud have wanted to be in his arms too. just coz she's not admitting it doesnt mean she doesnt want him as much as he wants her. also wen proteek walks in it was she who was hugging him nd not him forcing her so v cant say she's trying to get away frm milind during that scene.wen he calls her to the parking lot she was fully planning to meet him but then this press conference came nd she didnt want her absence to be noted publicly, it wasnt just the family. that's y she refused to go. nd during the fire wat else cud she have done? she's a mother nd a mother always think of her kid first, nd she knew that milind wud cum back to his senses if she said all that.
Taking everything into consideration, i dont think v shud put all the blame on prachi. Its the circumstances that's making her do all this. So i think v shud sympathise with her rather than blaming her all the time.



OK, now that i've written all that i must admit one thing.
This is just my opinion wen i am thinking objectively.
All my objectivity goes straight to hell the moment i see another episode of kayamath. When i see milind suffering 😭😭😭i just cant stop myself from putting all the blame on prachi either.😡😡
😡I think the main reason v r all blaming prachi is because v r all toooooo loyal to both milind nd MiChi. and the only thing standing b/w michi's nd milind's happiness is prachi as panchi dasgupta😡.
Anyways let me know wat u ppl think.......

welcome hun first of all! lovely post..! i think everybody is thinking too much about it i dont blame them we all love both the characters and cant help but to frustrate over what is shown...im jus watching it now without a brain...its easier...but brilliant post

Meris,
First of all, she knew her husband wasn't guilty of Ayesha's murder. She shouldn't have accepted defeat in front of Mallika and left him. Even if he left him at that moment, she should have confided the truth in Neev or Milind and all of them could have taught a lesson to Mallika.
Second, she assumed Milind would move on with Mallika. How could she think like this about a man who refused to move on with Ayehsa even in his PA! She underestimated his love.
There was no need for her to go behind Proteek. She was an educated woman who knew business world, who lived in a metro. She could have easily found a job and took care of herself and her son. There was no need to depend on another man.
Now even after she knows Milind didn't move on and spent 5 years of hell without her, she didn't even want to meet him (he found her accidentally right?). This implies she wanted him to go away without meeting her while he was physically, mentally, emotionally wonded without her. Wasn't that inhuman. Agreed she has certain responsibilities to DG family, but it's her fault that she faked and continued with it. She has more responsibilites to her real husband whom she claims to love. And what right she has to deny his son to her.

Sorry I don't agree with any of these things that Prachi did. So I am not with her in any of her decisions. She has messed it up big time not only for Milind but also for her son, herself and DGs.

Meris you know where my loyalties stand.... with Milind and if Prachi has always been a duffer and sacrificing idiot doesn't mean she should continue being one now specially when it comes to her son's welfare and identity.

Originally posted by: $weet Ema

I know that Prachi isn't feeling guilty, thats what irks me most. No sense of remorse or guilt on the fact that man has been deprived and continues tobe deprived of his rights as a father and husband.

and above that she has the guts to make Milind feel guilty.😕
There were other ways to stop him from setting fire..by saying she loves him and wants to be with him.
but nah, madamji put him in guilt. Shaani hain yeh Prachi.. Ayehsa theek kehti thi.

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yas disagree.... hurting mills kills her too....

Originally posted by: shali

yas disagree.... hurting mills kills her too....

Originally posted by: michifanreal

and above that she has the guts to make Milind feel guilty.😕
There were other ways to stop him from setting fire..by saying she loves him and wants to be with him.
but nah, madamji put him in guilt. Shaani hain yeh Prachi.. Ayehsa theek kehti thi.

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yup bahut shaani hai😆

Originally posted by: shali

yas disagree.... hurting mills kills her too....

I disagree with that Shali. She is hurting him every day ever since they have met post leap and still able to continue dressing up, involving in all those DG celebrations, give smiles to everyone.. I mean is she that good an actress? I thought she is a simple girl...