Was Proteek Right or Wrong ??

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Till now I never had any problems or complaints against Proteek but after yesterday's episode I do hv certain points against him😊
In the entire Dasgupta Family,only Proteek knows that Prachi is married to someone else and she keeps Karva Chauth Vrath every year for her real husband😳..;Then when Proteek's mother was thinking of keeping the KC-Ceremony for everyone why din't he react and tried to stop his mother from doing so sinse he very well knew that Prachi will fall into a very difficult situation then😡😕...
Also I was surprised when Proteek even went upto Prachi and said that "Till now we both hv been living like husband-wife for the sake of his family and so he is sure that today too for the sake of his family,she will agree to have the first khane ka niwala and paani from his hand only"😲😲...I mean hello...KC-Ceremony is not kept just for fun..its kept by the wives to pray for the long life of their husband and only a husband can break his wife's fast😳..then how can even Proteek say this to Prachi so easily😕...
Proteek doesn't know that Milind is only her husband but he do know that Prachi is married to someone else and every year she keeps the fast only for her real husband😳... then how can he force her to do something like this👎🏼...
Wasn't Proteek wrong here😕
P.S:No bashing or attacking please..only healthy discussion😳

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Proteek has cheated his family, his son and in a way himself too having this "wonderful" idea of fake marriage. Many people lose their dear ones in mishap. His family like any other family deserved to know that his wife was dead.

But once Prachi agreed to fake as well (which has been super surprising and hurting for me as I never wanted her to give Milind's son someone else's name), I think Proteek somewhere has it in his mind that some day Prachi will be his wife in real terms and everything will be fine. Knowing that Prachi has been a sincere DIL of DG family (solving all their problems such as Arimdham-Debonita's matter) and taking care of Suprateek as a good mother and being good to Proteek too (she does care for him, doesn't she?)- I don't find Proteek hugely at fault wanting to start a new relationship with Prachi. So far Prachi hasn't even told him once that she wants to get back with her husband. She has told him she can never go back right? So, Proteek in a way admires Prachi for her good deeds (towards him and his family) and since she is living with him anyway, he must be thinking why not a relationship. But then he is not forcing her. Even if she is a married woman, if he has fallen in love with her, it's not his fault (I believe one can't stop falling in love). He will be at fault if he forces her.

So, Proteek was wrong in faking- but not wrong in falling in love with Prachi- He will be wrong in future if he forces her.

I just can't tolerate this actor playing Proteek but did watch him in the last few episodes. The character himself seems to be a good person and I guess he won't stand between Michi in future. He might rather force Prachi to get back with Milind.. (which will be a shame as I want Prachi to do the honours herself).

One more thing- Proteek has been a fairly good father to Sumonto. So, if Prachi has done good for his family, he has done good for her too. He has given Prachi so called "sahaara" which she wanted (it's a shame again that an educated woman Prachi thought a woman always needs "sahaara" of a man).
Edited by michifanreal - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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he is a bad guy,no matter how good they try to make him look....living with a married woman as ur wife is a sin and he proteek is a sinner😡
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Angel, If you say Proteek is a sinner then Prachi is a sinner too (a married woman living with another man). What do you think about Prachi?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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both of them are but I'm not going to say anything to prachi for Milind's sake cause he does still love her and I love him plus anything he is in love with......mostly I hate proteek more.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: michifanreal

Proteek has cheated his family, his son and in a way himself too having this "wonderful" idea of fake marriage. Many people lose their dear ones in mishap. His family like any other family deserved to know that his wife was dead.

But once Prachi agreed to fake as well (which has been super surprising and hurting for me as I never wanted her to give Milind's son someone else's name), I think Proteek somewhere has it in his mind that some day Prachi will be his wife in real terms and everything will be fine. Knowing that Prachi has been a sincere DIL of DG family (solving all their problems such as Arimdham-Debonita's matter) and taking care of Suprateek as a good mother and being good to Proteek too (she does care for him, doesn't she?)- I don't find Proteek hugely at fault wanting to start a new relationship with Prachi. So far Prachi hasn't even told him once that she wants to get back with her husband. She has told him she can never go back right? So, Proteek in a way admires Prachi for her good deeds (towards him and his family) and since she is living with him anyway, he must be thinking why not a relationship. But then he is not forcing her. Even if she is a married woman, if he has fallen in love with her, it's not his fault (I believe one can't stop falling in love). He will be at fault if he forces her.

So, Proteek was wrong in faking- but not wrong in falling in love with Prachi- He will be wrong in future if he forces her.

I just can't tolerate this actor playing Proteek but did watch him in the last few episodes. The character himself seems to be a good person and I guess he won't stand between Michi in future. He might rather force Prachi to get back with Milind.. (which will be a shame as I want Prachi to do the honours herself).

One more thing- Proteek has been a fairly good father to Sumonto. So, if Prachi has done good for his family, he has done good for her too. He has given Prachi so called "sahaara" which she wanted (it's a shame again that an educated woman Prachi thought a woman always needs "sahaara" of a man).

That was very well said👏👏👏...Thats the reason till now I hv not blamed Proteek for anything because even I felt that Prachi was to b blamed more because Prottek's wife Panchi had died and Proteek was alone in his life looking for a support for his kid whereas Prachi was still a suhaagan and Milind was alive and kicking😆,till she agreed to b his fake wife which was just unacceptable for me..

Yesterday I felt for the first time Proteek started taking undue advantage of Prachi being his fake wife which was not at all correct😊..but again its Prachi's fault only to give so much freedom to Proteek that he even had the guts to tell Prachi that he wi0ll b breaking his KC-Vrath today😲😕
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

That was very well said👏👏👏...Thats the reason till now I hv not blamed Proteek for anything because even I felt that Prachi was to b blamed more because Prottek's wife Panchi had died and Proteek was alone in his life looking for a support for his kid whereas Prachi was still a suhaagan and Milind was alive and kicking😆,till she agreed to b his fake wife which was just unacceptable for me..

Yesterday I felt for the first time Proteek started taking undue advantage of Prachi being his fake wife which was not at all correct😊..but again its Prachi's fault only to give so much freedom to Proteek that he even had the guts to tell Prachi that he wi0ll b breaking his KC-Vrath today😲😕




i knw proteek is not that bad guy but i really feel bad (& angry too) when he interfare in milis & sumanto's matter

and as per the kc issue i really agree with jyoti:

In the entire Dasgupta Family,only Proteek knows that Prachi is married to someone else and she keeps Karva Chauth Vrath every year for her real husband😳..;Then when Proteek's mother was thinking of keeping the KC-Ceremony for everyone why din't he react and tried to stop his mother from doing so sinse he very well knew that Prachi will fall into a very difficult situation then😡😕...
Also I was surprised when Proteek even went upto Prachi and said that "Till now we both hv been living like husband-wife for the sake of his family and so he is sure that today too for the sake of his family,she will agree to have the first khane ka niwala and paani from his hand only"😲😲...I mean hello...KC-Ceremony is not kept just for fun..its kept by the wives to pray for the long life of their husband and only a husband can break his wife's fast😳..then how can even Proteek say this to Prachi so easily😕...
Proteek doesn't know that Milind is only her husband but he do know that Prachi is married to someone else and every year she keeps the fast only for her real husband😳... then how can he force her to do something like this👎🏼...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel's life

both of them are but I'm not going to say anything to prachi for Milind's sake cause he does still love her and I love him plus anything he is in love with......mostly I hate proteek more.




i agree with u dear as either direct or indirect way they both are cheating with their respective family members (i mean prachi to her own family n proteek to his own family) and also they are making fun of husband-wife relationship (they are not caring abt their life patners specially prachi) plus they are palying with the emotions of their family & children (they don't care how their respective son will react 2 them)

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

That was very well said👏👏👏...Thats the reason till now I hv not blamed Proteek for anything because even I felt that Prachi was to b blamed more because Prottek's wife Panchi had died and Proteek was alone in his life looking for a support for his kid whereas Prachi was still a suhaagan and Milind was alive and kicking😆,till she agreed to b his fake wife which was just unacceptable for me..

Yesterday I felt for the first time Proteek started taking undue advantage of Prachi being his fake wife which was not at all correct😊..but again its Prachi's fault only to give so much freedom to Proteek that he even had the guts to tell Prachi that he wi0ll b breaking his KC-Vrath today😲😕



When Proteek said they have to do perform a fake KC for the sake of family, she could have said it on his face "No my dear friend (that's what she considers him as right?), I can't allow someone else to do the honours which only my husband should do". She could have asked him to pull off another drama that they want to break the fast alone in front of some special God or something..... so that they don't have to do a drama in front of the family. And then Prachi could have celebrated her KC with her real husband, Milind which would have made me feel better about her.
But Prachi is dissapointing me everytime.. At the breakfast table with Sumonto she said she is gonna prepare tiffin for his dad (referring to Proteek) even though MIlind is around in the same house. This gives me an idea that Prachi has no intention to get back with Milind...She just wants to live her fake life. She neither wants to make MIlind happy by getting back with him not wants to a real wife to Proteek. She just wants to live up to her fake life. I am finding her selfish contrary to her selfless portrayal so far.
Edited by michifanreal - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: michifanreal



When Proteek said they have to do perform a fake KC for the sake of family, she could have said it on his face "No my dear friend (that's what she considers him as right?), I can't allow someone else to do the honours which only my husband should do". She could have asked him to pull off another drama that they want to break the fast alone in front of some special God or something..... so that they don't have to do a drama in front of the family. And then Prachi could have celebrated her KC with her real husband, Milind which would have made me feel better about her.
But Prachi is dissapointing me everytime.. At the breakfast table with Sumonto she said she is gonna prepare tiffin for his dad (referring to Proteek) even though MIlind is around in the same house. This gives me an idea that Prachi has no intention to get back with Milind...She just wants to live her fake life. She neither wants to make MIlind happy by getting back with him not wants to a real wife to Proteek. She just wants to live up to her fake life. I am finding her selfish contrary to her selfless portrayal so far.

u echoed my thoughts excactly...👏

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