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Posted: 17 years ago
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@ Munee: Sigh...where in my post do you see me blaming Milind for anything. Why must you always think i am against Milind. What i said what that Prachi fears his reaction...because of what she has seen before. I didn't say he wasn't justified then and that he won't be justified now.

Opti akka...you raise a lot many points. I am too sleepy to reply so will do later. Though i'd like to say only one thing...after knowing the truth..yes Milind will hate her...but you know what hating her did to him...we witnessed that in PIM...and at that time Michi relationship was still on rocky foundations...thougth the PIM and PA track that relationship has become to mean much much more and hating her will definitely not allow him to move on...it'll destroy him in another way...and with that will also come the destruction of Dasguptas...he won't leave Prachi alone...don't even think that for a second...and he won't let her live in peace with Dasguptas...Prachi knows that...

Why should the entire family suffer for what Proteek and Prachi are at fault for..why shoudl the kids suffer for what their impulsive blind parents did.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Jc you and I cannot and will not see from the same pov over Prachi and Milind. You cannot understand him I cannot Prachi it's just that. I don't wanna write further and dishearten you but to me Prachi is plain.... forget it.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: blind horizon

Jc you and I cannot and will not see from the same pov over Prachi and Milind. You cannot understand him I cannot Prachi it's just that. I don't wanna write further and dishearten you but to me Prachi is plain.... forget it.



Munee I think what JC means is that she acknowledges that Prachi has made a mistake with moving with the Dasguptas, but that now that the damage is done, to Prachi it is a much better option to hide from Milind and thus cause no incalculable harm to the innocent and vulnerable kids and the family than going near Milind - because in Prachi's POV that would open Pandora's box - giving an outcome where initially Milinds happiness @ finally seeing her alive would most likely lead to righteous anger and maybe revenge and most definately leave him unhappy - and the Dasgupta peope would also be unhappy - so this route everyone is unhappy....

I think she is trying to justify why Prachi is not all wrong from hiding from Milsi... because she is in a very precocious situation...
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Posted: 17 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: meteora_smt



Munee I think what JC means is that she acknowledges that Prachi has made a mistake with moving with the Dasguptas, but that now that the damage is done, to Prachi it is a much better option to hide from Milind and thus cause no incalculable harm to the innocent and vulnerable kids and the family than going near Milind - because in Prachi's POV that would open Pandora's box - giving an outcome where initially Milinds happiness @ finally seeing her alive would most likely lead to righteous anger and maybe revenge and most definately leave him unhappy - and the Dasgupta peope would also be unhappy - so this route everyone is unhappy....

I think she is trying to justify why Prachi is not all wrong from hiding from Milsi... because she is in a very precocious situation...

Sonia has she considered telling Milind the truth as an option? My question why not? Does she think she can hide from him forever? How wonderful would it be when he gets to know this on his own will that not make him think wrong of her then? Why give him the chance? Why not explain him the truth? The Dasguptas will suffer then too when she tells him and now too when he discovers the truth on his own. Kiska bhala ho raha hai in any of the scenarios? That just proves how small her brain and thought capacity is that she cannot put and two together. Bewaqufi kii bhi hadh hoti but in Prachi's case it's abundant. Atleast sach bol ker she can make him see her point, her condition then and her reasons to choose this way of life it Can be Reasoned out but no we're not even willing to try that is plain mockery of love. You say to avoid Milind's wrath she opted for this path well if not angry he's lifeless and that's very much acceptable by her why.... so that the D's remain happy wah wah what a reasonable explanation. Banda marey to marey koi farq nahin to kiya hua if he considers you his life iss sey tumko kiya you keep on living your luxurious life he can spend the rest of his life rotting in hell for all that matters is the D family and the fake relationship. I simply cannot buy her hollow ruse for the children it's plain selfishness that's it.
Edited to add JC I love you too much and so am not mad or sad at you rather Prachi for her stupidity hope you understand my pov which is not to bash you or Prachi at all.
Edited by blind horizon - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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JC, I want to make one other point here. Proteek knows they are faking it to the rest of the world. She has already told him she cannot forget her past. So what stops her from confiding in Proteek that Milind is her husband? Seeing the condition that Milind is, can she really live in peace, letting Milind continue to suffer? If not, then why should she not ask Proteek to sort out the issue with his family in such a way as to minimise the blow? After all she still believes him to be her friend. On the other hand they show her scared that Proteek will find out the truth when Sumonto was describing Milind as the God uncle. Making a mess of her life and others and then asking God to set right all the mess has become a standard rhetoric with Prachi.
Before I forget, did Prachi not leave her family for the well being of her husband? If the family she was born in and who raised her means little compared to Milind's well being (which according to her lay in her leaving him to PPP), why is she not according him the same priority now when she is pitched between choosing him over the D's family, after seeing that all her sacrifice has gone to waste?
To me, Prachi's character is butchered mercilessly. A woman who always put her husband above all else no longer thinks he is priority number one. A woman who promised to take over all his problems on her head is willing to let him leave the house in a wounded, dishevelled and heart broken condition and shamelessly lie that he refused her offer to stay. A woman who put duty above all else does not know what that duty is anymore. She thinks her duty is to this family who does not even know who she is.
As to thinking about the children, atleast she was not shown dwelling on that thought for long. There were other concerns like her having to explain why she did what she did , Milind not believing her, Ds being affected,etc.
She already knows what treatment is being meted out to Sumonto by that vamp. She watched her son get slapped by another woman without a single protest (atleast she could have voiced her protest later if she did not want to create an issue in front of every body). She also saw Proteek being a mute spectator when the event happened. She really thinks her son is better off in this house than with his real father? Then there was the incident where Sumonto required blood and none could help but his own father. What guarantee is there that another situation may not arise where Sumonto may really require his father's help and no one else's? What would she do then? Oh, I forgot, Prachi never thinks so far into the future.
What about trying to find a solution apart from pleading with one God or another? Prachi does not seem to be doing that either. Is she planning to let Milind die a miserable death?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Wel Opti nicely put as for the last question I don't think she's even concered about Milind's well being all she cares about is the D family and her own skin which will be at stake provided Milind comes to find the truth on his own.
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Posted: 17 years ago
#27
I just want Michi and Chottu/Om back together I'm sorry but this family is the only thing I can think and care about.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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May be it isnt a right time for me to be answering this question... but nevertheless... even after my blood stops to boil... i really doubt if i will feel any different about my belief.

After watching Michi for such a long time... as much as i hate to say it... the two deserve eachother and no one else😡. They two are downright stupid and proven to be selfish when it comes to their love... that they wont even give a family a thought😡 So frankly i DONT trust an innocent life(lives) with these two... Not Ritwik, Sumuonto or Suproteek... the kids deserve a safe, secure and a stable home and having learnt my lesson i have accepted that Michi arent the best choice either(and that is what is making me mad at them and myself😡) How sure can we be that Prachi wont do anythng stupid in future and how sure are we that Milind wont simply disappear😕

What happens to the kids? May be i can kidnap them and Michi would spend their entire life time finding intelligent and innovative ways to reach us...going door to door, searching street by street👏👏👏 by the time they reach my place the kids would have grown up happier than they will be in a Mishra, Shah or Dasgupta household😃

I know i am being harsh on Michi... but they havent left me with an option... there is a limit to their stupidity and they have crossed it a long time ago... I am not even in a mood to give them another chance... so lets see if they can ever win me over again... which i really doubt😕 No amount of reasoning is going to work... because on one side i am fed up to even care about the story and on the other I am simply disillusioned about Michi to ever trust them again.... def not with a life atleast😕

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Posted: 17 years ago
#29
Agree with you Ryka. The kids will get a raw deal no matter what. After all this is a BT show which does not believe in showing any concern for innocent lives. If they did they would not have killed off two innocent souls in KS just to show JB separation. They would not have shown Ritwik getting kicked into a swimming pool so that his father can lay his hands on his money. They would not have shown the callous attitude with which Milsi just wrote off half his property in Ritwik's name and considered that his responsibility over that child was over. Providing him with a stable home never entered his mind nor that of his wife's who had gone to the extent of being prepared for the sacrifice of her marriage than reveal the truth about Ritwik's parentage.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ryka no matter how stupid or illogical lets not forget Michi are the biological parents of Sumonto and Milind has every right to know his son. Yes they've proved to be stupid no one in the Shahs Mishras or Shergills was very intelligent when it comes to offsprings. Inder would've never abandoned Ayesha if that he had been intelligent enough. Suki was the dumbest of them all leaving her child in the care of an old amma and then letting Prachi take the blame it was ironic that Rhitvick suffered at the hands of his parents who abandoned him in the time of need. Alaap was a selfish father kicking or hugging the child for his own purposes. Now all these parents got to spend time wit their children despite their shortcomings then why should Milind bear the brunt of deprivation. I'm sorry but if given the opportunity Milind would've proved to be the best of hem all sadly we never got to see him interact with his own child knowing it as his own flesh and blood. How can you say Milind would abandon the child did he abandon Rhitvick knowing full well it was not his own child he accepted him in his family. Allowed Prachi to house him and loved the child, even when he was made to believe the child was an offspring of his wife's ex lover he didn't harm the child or take out his anger on it. He was willing to pay the kidnappers in order to give the child his freedom, so lets not jump the guns on what sort of a father Milind would've turned out to be. As for Prachi less said the better though I could never doubt her maternal skills or feelings she is a good mother even now how can one blame her of not being a good parent. Michi deserve to live in peace with their child like all the other parents across the globe none of them are perfect yet they raise their kids then why not michi.

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