Originally posted by: abca19510
It is from Episode 111. I just watched it again, I feel so nostalgic already. It was truly a beautiful episode.
Context:
Viaan wanted to stop getting affected by his father's memories and his betrayal.
Katha adviced him that in order to stop past memories affecting you, you need to stop running away from your past. Instead, stare at your past, confront it and forgive the ones who are left behind.
I think her advice was very accurate. But, this doesn't mean you will forgive everyone who is still toxic towards you and can harm you. Viraaj is dead, whereabout of Seema was not known in this episode so, they aren't harming you.
Katha herself did this, she confronted her dark memories, and made them stop affecting her. She forgave Viaan after she confirmed that he has learnt his lesson and is still repenting. Same applied for Grewals and she took time with both of them.
This isn't toxic positivism. Katha didn't forgave that easily. She had resentment against Viaan for a considerable time and for some limited time against Kailash Grewal.
My question is where is this message now? Viaan is a reformed man, he is not harming Aarav or Katha now, why can't she explain this same thing to Aarav??
@bold because she has double standards. Dusro ko gyan dena aasan hota hai. When katha did the same past ko ghoorna thing previously, she was dealing with highly sensitive and already guilt ridden viaan. It was a piece of cake for her that time.
But now she was in for a long battle as there was a child to explain everything without ruining his innocence and then there were toxic garewals who are just bunch of ogres without any brain. She knew it is going to be tough so why not choose easy way out.
You see in real life also, jo jyada gyanchand banta hai koi situation aane par usiki sabse pehle phat ti hai.
Abhi bhi dekho katha ko. She has opened some yoga healing center and she claims to understand children better, even giving gyan to other mothers but still her own child is in mess. She hasn't found the root cause of his behaviour. She didn't try to clear the misunderstanding. How dense she can be that she don't understand why aarav is in this state, that he needs his robin papa.