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Originally posted by: riti4u

Here I was thinking it seems I only disliked it..🤗.. I did not like confession - like you said it had only consideration about his own feelings. What about Katha? The way he had put her in this awkward situation and then smiling in the end, I did not find it cute especially dog toy part. I understand many are saying that Viaan never felt this much joy and is showing innocence and joy at his first love and thus so expressive with his feelings. But still there is a way to show it , this was pretty immature way of expressing feelings. It felt like a schoolboy confessing his love to his teenager crush. I understand that Viaan is over the moon about his feelings but still he was this unique character who had picked himself up from pieces of his childhood and in spite of whatever wrong he did with katha to begin with , he was indeed a sober and mature guy if we go by Jeetu bhai's explanation and the way he owned up things after ONS. I would have loved a simple confession in one of those intimate moments perhaps heart to heart talks with just Katha and Viaan only. Only thing i liked in the episode was Katha's reaction to it. She was visibly shocked, shaken and in numb state quite understandably.

I know many people are liking this happy Viaan, I have no issues with his happiness😆 but he is acting silly and weird 🤔. I understand that first love can change a person but to go a total shift for a introvert guy like this showing his all this moon eyed giving smiles all around like he is in some la la land. showed lack of depth in his emotions. Love is not just about expression of it...

Even teenagers find a quiet place! Yes, love is liberating. Selfless love is what is beautiful, it makes one more considerate. Always thinking of the other’s comfort and happiness. It’s gentle and yet fierce. Would have preferred something like that….

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I have stopped feeling bad for katha the moment Aarav got cured

She is stupid and suffers from Jag Kalyaan syndrome

Why should i feel bad for her ,how is she different from Anupama ,in front of her in laws she is also bhigi billi ,haan i agree 5 pages ka lecture she doesnt give but pure Hindi me jo poetic baat bolti h i dont like

As for Vian i used to like him before he fell in love with Katha (barring ONS proposal) after falling in love he lost his senses

He is behaving like a school kid i cant take it

But i dont mind his proposal bcoz his intention was to let out his feelings

Unless he starts stalking 😡

I don't think Katha is a strong woman from any angle she just gives out of syllabus gyaan to Aarav ,all the other stuffs related to Aarav are done by Dodo and PB

She doesnt even have time to check Aarav's phone which ideally she should or 8 years k kid ko consent sikhate hue she actually has started thinking him 14 years old and is giving privacy

And before u guys jump on me No I dont think a woman always causes problems but Katha herself is a problem

Ehsaan got saved Vian needs to

For the crime he committed its better to send him to jail rather taking out his brain cells one by one

Ssp, @bold that exactly is the issue. He had been trying to tell her for days and wasn’t able to. Frustration built up. So the paath became an excuse.

The confession was beautiful, yet it has left only him feeling elated. Not the woman who matters to him, because he never considered her. It was only about wanting to tell her how he feels.

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I have stopped feeling bad for katha the moment Aarav got cured

She is stupid and suffers from Jag Kalyaan syndrome

Why should i feel bad for her ,how is she different from Anupama ,in front of her in laws she is also bhigi billi ,haan i agree 5 pages ka lecture she doesnt give but pure Hindi me jo poetic baat bolti h i dont like

As for Vian i used to like him before he fell in love with Katha (barring ONS proposal) after falling in love he lost his senses

He is behaving like a school kid i cant take it

But i dont mind his proposal bcoz his intention was to let out his feelings

Unless he starts stalking 😡

I don't think Katha is a strong woman from any angle she just gives out of syllabus gyaan to Aarav ,all the other stuffs related to Aarav are done by Dodo and PB

She doesnt even have time to check Aarav's phone which ideally she should or 8 years k kid ko consent sikhate hue she actually has started thinking him 14 years old and is giving privacy

And before u guys jump on me No I dont think a woman always causes problems but Katha herself is a problem

Ehsaan got saved Vian needs to

For the crime he committed its better to send him to jail rather taking out his brain cells one by one

@Bold 🤣 bechara.. sach mein

Originally posted by: kushikumari

Even teenagers find a quiet place! Yes, love is liberating. Selfless love is what is beautiful, it makes one more considerate. Always thinking of the other’s comfort and happiness. It’s gentle and yet fierce. Would have preferred something like that….

Yeah the way he shared his father talks with her, unintentionally and heartfelt in a moment.. when he felt like opening up.. what was likeable about this character was depth he had .. inspite of his misconceptions about women he never really crossed line with any other woman, I would have loved to see an angle where they could have brought back that question to Viaan on why Katha for his ONS deal..may be Katha could have asked him... and then his realization that may be he had this feeling from long time and then he could have confessed in a private setting in some place that belonged to just both of them in a moment.. Why to rush in for expression.. Why not have realization first.. and understanding that it might be hard for Katha to move on especially when she just told him there is no place for another man in her life..

Hi Mili, Thanks for the tag

Last Shamita track we saw Saint Viaan. Here we will get to see Teenager Viaan. Whole Viaan-Ehsan convo looks like teenagers discussing about crush. And Viiaan is oblivious of how Katha perceives things.

Either he is too naive and innocent or he has achieved Saint level. He loves her, expresses and does not expect her to reciprocate. I am confused where to place him, either as a teenager or as next level spiritual person.

Whatever it is, I enjoyed the episode. Viaan did not propose Katha. He just confessed what he feels for her. And he did not ask her to give any answer.

PapaG, Reet and MamaR are still at a lower maturity level. And Viaan is at a next level. And Katha looks confused between them. I could not understand why Katha has to explain to PapaG and act weird.

He is just happy and contended that he confessed.

I miss old Viaan, grumpy and sharp one. But I like this happy and contended Viaan also. They have done a complete turn of the character Viaan. Katha remains the same since episode 1.

Originally posted by: riti4u

Yeah the way he shared his father talks with her, unintentionally and heartfelt in a moment.. when he felt like opening up.. what was likeable about this character was depth he had .. inspite of his misconceptions about women he never really crossed line with any other woman, I would have loved to see an angle where they could have brought back that question to Viaan on why Katha for his ONS deal..may be Katha could have asked him... and then his realization that may be he had this feeling from long time and then he could have confessed in a private setting in some place that belonged to just both of them in a moment.. Why to rush in for expression.. Why not have realization first.. and understanding that it might be hard for Katha to move on especially when she just told him there is no place for another man in her life..

You hit the nail on the head. Depth comes with taking the time to understand. Not just preparing the lines to say out loud. Seriously, how can Viaan not consider this from Katha’s angle and approach it from that point of view. He does want to begin a journey with her, right? I doubt he will be content living with the feelings of being in love as against what it is like to have it reciprocated.

So, he is in love with a woman to whom he said, “spend the night with me” and the money is yours. Katha accepted, but up until now she is not willing to take responsibility for her actions. She is holding this against Viaan. Definitely some discomfort around him. Yes, she has come a long way since then, but there was much anger and disgust. So for any woman in this place to simply accept declarations of love and reciprocate is unimaginable. It is not normal. Our brain is not wired that way. And if it is accepted, trying to reciprocate causes all kinds of stress and anxiety.

Good morning. Have a lot to say as always😃Will respond in a few hours. Working on a manuscript

Agreed totally, right from the time I first saw the promo where Viaan asked her for a date following that shamita fiasco, I was like Bro, chill you've just been proven innocent and you start asking people for a date like nothing happened. It did irk me because we are talking about a highly sensible character here.

And then 5 episodes later we see him actually proposing her when she had genuinely expressed how she wasn't open for a relationship yet. If that was any less, he was also guided by his friend to take things a little slowly.

I think this is where the writers didn't really think twice because they are in a rush to marry them off. With this pace, I wouldn't be surprised if they start with the wedding promo in a week or so 💁🏻‍♂️

Good afternoon girls!!!!

Thanks for all the opinions🤗 Columbia, loved reading such an amazing description, my friend❤️Almost felt like I really want to believe in the most beautiful emotion you painted with your writingThis is why I love the forum, gives me different perspectives, whether I can agree or not. Alaas.......

Sowmya, please do not worry about the length of writing, I am one of the essay writers🤡

Loved today's episode though👏Episode started with Teji's obtuse gyaan to Katha about being a single mother and how to turn Aarav into a crazy adult, like how she had turned Viaan 🤢😡, stunted in EQ, judgmental and rigid in ideologies💔 I loved how the makers didn't make Katha beat around the bush. Instead, she accurately picked up the vibe and what she is being preached about and threw it right in her face with 👏" I don't know what the hell you are referring to, as I have nothing to do with what your son is doing"🤣Makers, take a bow for writing Katha the way she is👍🏼

Waise, I have no problem with Teji and her wishes/opinions about the qualities Viaan's partner should possess👍🏼 Totally, her prerogative. My beef is with her trying to manipulate people in Viaan's life, preaching Katha to remove herself from being in choice🤢. Look around us, we probably will find at least one person in each of our families, doing this sly manipulation of the DILs while seemingly taking the high road with their sons🤢Vice versa may also happen, but I am not privy to any such experiences. I am all for her telling Viaan to not consider Katha as his partner. I take no offence to that at all. It is her son, their family, their life, so she has all rights to discuss these things with him. But with Katha, it is unpardonable🤬

Surprisingly, I liked Katha and Papa G's interaction👍🏼. I felt like Katha needed his presence at that moment, next to her, after being humiliated out of her wits🤗I also liked his conversation of trying to be her true well-wisher, but hesitating because of his past behavior and how any advise from him would come across. There seemed to be a certain honesty about him. His concern for her being used, manipulated is right on the mark too👍🏼 I will give brownie points to Papa G today. I hope he won't make me eat my words in the future🐷

Katha deserves a great big group hug🤗, for what she was put through. I was cheering all the way, as she called Viaan up and told him " NOT POSSIBLE". Again, didn't beat around the bush, but said directly to him about how his mom felt that " I am trying to snag you", and that she is sorry for giving her that impression👍🏼. I wish Viaan R at least now understands and behaves responsibly, so she doesn't get unnecessarily lectured as a culprit, for his reckless deeds (staring) and impulsive words I wish he gives her the space and lets her be herself in his presence, the biggest gift of all🤔. At the moment, he cornered her into a wall and put her on the defensive for no fault of hers😡. The sole purpose is to express himself, without any consideration for her state of mind or respect for her feelings, emotions or her dignity🤢Yeh lo nateeza🤢

Originally posted by: mili9

Can I give you a great big hug?🤗I thought I am the only one who felt offended by the whole fiasco😭

Oh my God! I hated the whole episode. The confession to himself was so good👍🏼He was embarrassed that the committee got to hear it😳. What about Katha? How come he was so careless about her feelings and giving her no space to react? 🤢He just heard from her about how she feels about another relationship after Adi. So, doesn't she deserve any consideration and respect her feelings?🤢 Or is he a toddler, who has trouble controlling his impulses to blurt out whatever he feels like, wherever he feels like? May be he is stuck in that puppy doll age🤢forever.

I am sooo mad💔Agreed, sensitivity is lacking completely. With that goes out any humanity or consideration for the other person's state of mind. He literally put her on the spot and is goofily smiling away into the horizon🤬😡

@bold, this is what he's going to learn from, that she needs space that he can't steamroller over this one, and that he would have to give it time, let her take baby steps if/when she's ready.