Originally posted by: surbhi1995
My knowledge on itv heroines are very Ltd except they r ever forgiving,no self respect,can anything do for family ,touch me not types .
For me pre was no different and so my expectations was abysmally low from her.i was like she will be same.
When her blackmail marriage took place, According to itv formula,pre was expected to frgt her love and her past,pre was expected to solve all problems of bjaj and his family,pre was expected to change bjaj into better person,pre was expected to sing that song of pati parmeshwar type,at the end pre was expected to accept bjaj her lawfully wedded husband and love hom back and make babies with him and live a long and happy married life. i don't know who expected that, i didn't. like you said her character was established before & it was obvious she was just going to accept it because of how she values marriage.
But thats where I saw the difference.she took the decision in an impulse.she was taught that praan jaye per Vachan Na Jaye .she was taught since childhood that marriage cxnt be broken under any circumstances. that's is the majority view of the audience hence why the sauten/sauten drama works so well.
She was accepting marriage as she was taught that but her heart was not ready to accept that marriage.she was representing the dilemna of the norms she was taught and desire of her heart.
Many times she tried to go by blackmail marriage but she failed.
One dialogue of anurag I remember when he said that he know that she is not happy and he want her to break that marriage for her happiness with her head held high.
With durga pooja,her heart was winning over the societal norm and that one can clearly witness. i agree, we could see her dilemma but it wasn't enough. Prerna herself absolved RB of guilt of blackmail marriage saying it was her choice. i was hoping that the CV's would at least allowed her to show that sassiness to RB in privacy. she could have pretended in front of society but given him HELL when alone. if that had happened then i would have cheered & said she's not accepting it.
And bjaj attack in snurag and moloy was enough for her to break the norm.but before she could react bjaj himself decided to leave.
But here is the difference between pre and many itv heroines,she had no issues with breaking the marriage and no issues with kuki living with her dad.that marriage was burden on her.
If not bjaj,I m sure pre would have walk out with her head held high which I really wanted to see. we'll never know though 🤷♀️ i personally don't think she would have. the CV's haven't written her as doing anything substantal for herself. i mean she completely forgot/ignored her dad's murder, mums arrest & countless attempts of Komo to kill her... the CV's have written her so inconsistently that it's hard to predict what she'd do. it's a shame 😔
At the end she clearly understood between her and anurag,societal norms comes secondary .that's why sona anu marriage does not make difference to her.she was waiting for anurag to gain his memory and she was ready to use viraj in that process. this was the only time she tried to do something selfish. the only problem with that is once she knew Sona was Komo she did nothing to protect even Anu from her. she can't be I'm strong, sassy & i-stand-for-truth 1 second then become the opposite the next. it's so disappointing how her character was written & shown, she was always an after thought by the CV's.
She knew she was not ideal,she was being selfish but she was ohkay to do that.
That's where pre comes out different to me than many fl of itv. i don't watch a lot of shows & she might be different but she's NOT trailblazing in any sense, i didn't see any social norms she broke (just my opinion). the odd little act here & there doesn't count 🤔.
Comeon guys let's accept it humiliation,no self respect is the most common norm for itv fl. 😒 this right here is sooo disappointing. there were stronger FL years ago but now they're just 🙄 there are a few but they're very far apart. a FL i recently liked was Chakor from Udaan (don't know if I'm allowed to mention here)