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Ohh so we are back to calling anurag a rapist n he forced prerna to do it ...my question did the show prerna juvenile...was she constantly telling him no I don't want it pls don't do it ....n he still forced himself on her...

And after reading all the theories if I call prerna a fool will that be wrong that she was madly in love with a guy and was ready to die for him who raped her and forced himself on her n cheated on her...🤷🤷🤷🤷

And if I do remember the scene correctly which I m sure I do...Prerna was the first one to get turned on...koi mujhe batao us case me wat should I call Prerna.. .

The fact is both wanted it both had it .. writing big Theories can not change the fact.....

Originally posted by: _charu_

Okkkk😆 The point of the said statement was that anurag is the one taking decisions for her always and she is always submissive . Unless of course when he lost his marbles .its about the entitlement . He wanted it and she wanted it but was scared of society is so 60ish..this i agree 😆 of course her getting pregnant with that one shot was even more ..60ish😆 them not talking about it was ..u know..alienish. poora conception to delivery is a kaand in itself. Poor sneha baby.

"Her forced her" was what making many react..

Also saying he didn't even care to recall having sex with pre without protection before heading to marry Kom.. As if prerna cared to remember, Infact she was busy playing sindoor sindoor in white funeral clothes just scenes after returning from her father's funeral. Had she not gotten pregnant even she wouldn't have cared.

I get and accept that Anurag's character is not what ml is expected to be .. But all these nitpicking doesn't really seem genuine.. It's all about glorifying/ to make way for other couple..

To quote from horse's mouth agenda driven😆

@anu taking decisions..

If you remember, a week or 2 after the show started and when audience started complaining about Erica's diction.. Nd even ekta had to come up in support of her..

It's when many sensed a change of dynamics.. In anupre scenes, it was always anu doing 80%of talking with pre given only very minimal dialogues or at times just expressions..

I think even this contributed to the build up of anupre dynamics

Originally posted by: SanzBarbie

In today's dance sequence Anurag kind of forcefully pulled Prerna in the end and clasped her hand.. Didn't like this uncouthness at all 😑😑😑

But right anu is spineless & bajaj is Mahan. Good...

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

I totally agree with everything you wrote in the 2nd para. I am no one to tell you how you should perceive things.My comment was in no way directed at you. You are one of the saner posters here and I am really sorry if you felt offended.

@italics: Yes I am sure and I know what I am talking about.😊 This forum has a long history!I will leave it at that. I know I have crossed a line but I am not sorry about it.

Coming to the post. I don't think Anurag is an abusive boyfriend like those Gul khan heros but its fine if someone thinks he used to manhandle her everyday, was an abusive jerk etc. I may not agree with it but I respect the opinion.

But I think you(not you) are really crossing the line when you say "he forced himself on her" for something that was shown as consensual sex. The scene in no way showed force. She was as interested as he was. Her saying yeh galat hai ( itv's and 80's movies standard dialogue before pre marital sex ) was to assure the trp audience that that Prerna was still sanskaari.Everyone knows why that dialogue was given to her. Yet you pick that line to make it look like it was not consensual? The word rape was not used but what else does forcing mean? It is really not funny to throw such words casually! Consent is still a grey area even in the west. Chalo... I will even accept that even though Pre wanted to have sex she was not completely sure of it but how can one equate that to being forced? Is it always a black and white situation?

I will just quote what my friend wrote. She has put it in a better way.

I had typed a proper reply but my Internet ditched me.

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It amuses me that people are explicitly mentioning words like rape and rapists when I believe nobody in the thread used them.

I, for the one, do not even say that he was being an abusive jerk who forced her for sex but definitely he used the emotional card and seven days marriage thing to pull her in when she was unsure. SHE WAS UNSURE. I don't think anyone can deny that?

Sure, forcing can be equated to rape when used in that context like Doppelganger said but is it the same context, forcing has been used here? I don't think so. In my opinion, when people are saying he forced her, all they mean is, he emotionally pushed her to do what she wasn't sure of doing, with those love and soon to be done marriage thing.

Stop taking everything this literally. I believe, this forum has sane people who knows the severities of the word like rape which nobody on the negative side of the argument used. Come on, people. We may not like certain characters but that doesn't mean we will go low on each other this way. This is not cool. 🤢

Originally posted by: falah5

"Her forced her" was what making many react..

Also saying he didn't even care to recall having sex with pre without protection before heading to marry Kom.. As if prerna cared to remember, Infact she was busy playing sindoor sindoor in white funeral clothes just scenes after returning from her father's funeral. Had she not gotten pregnant even she wouldn't have cared.

I get and accept that Anurag's character is not what ml is expected to be .. But all these nitpicking doesn't really seem genuine.. It's all about glorifying/ to make way for other couple..

To quote from horse's mouth agenda driven😆

@anu taking decisions..

If you remember, a week or 2 after the show started and when audience started complaining about Erica's diction.. Nd even ekta had to come up in support of her..

It's when many sensed a change of dynamics.. In anupre scenes, it was always anu doing 80%of talking with pre given only very minimal dialogues or at times just expressions..

I think even this contributed to the build up of anupre dynamics

@bold..he he he he he he he😆

Its not nitpicking . A ml or any sensible person is expected to have some basic sense..I agree with u and all others , consummation scene was not one of them . It was neither force nor coaxing nor anything..just consensual sex. Exact words do not matter here. Dialogues aise bhi , mostly r faltu here in kzk.

I agree with anurag taking decisions 😆Ok so if this is the reason, I totally agree. At the same time I pity the actor and character both. Ektas shows r female centric mostly n a weak point there just doesnt help me connect to anything related to them. A love story , stated from a single person's perspective or shown from.his perspective ,cant be appealing, unless it's a one sided love. Let's see how far can he pull it up

Females from conservative homes generally deny premarital sex, specially someone like Prerna. Why? Not because, she doesn’t want it but simply because society sees it as a crime.

Dates back to centuries of social conditioning and how human mating behaviour is. Women from caveman days would look for a partner who is strong, could fend for her and her child as well as give Male parental investment. Hence, the subconscious reaffirmation, a woman looks for security in the sense of consummation. The social construct of the same being marriage because sex is genetically programmed for progeny only.

Anyway, cutting down the evolutionary studies and science behind it. The sex was consensual, the premise was not. The love was strong, the maturity was not. Had it been, unaccountable social stigma would have been well thought out first.

I will repeat again. No one can make you do things when you don’t want to do it.

You should be responsible for your actions. Wherever a Prerna and Anurag stand today, it’s their own doing.

Whether choosing to sacrifice or caring a hoot about an unborn child!

They are where they are today simply because they don’t have it in themselves to be together. You are the creators of your own destiny and fate only supports the brave. Rest, can fly Dupattas and Sindoor!

The accusations and the hasty back pedaling is obvious here.

Saying anurag forced prerna even though she said ye galat hai paints a very wrong picture and this is a serious alligation. I may like character x and couple x, someone may like another but certain statements and allegations need to be made carefully. It doesn't matter if the word rapist or rape was not used, it was intentionally alluded and worse, that vein of the conversation is followed through as well. Anurag did not catch hold of a naive girl and forced himself on prerna or emotionally blackmail her. The two of them were in love. They were in a situation where prerna was the one who was turned on first, and anurag responded like any red blooded male would! Watch the scene for anyone who hasn't and doesn't believe me.

As for prerna's very contrived ye galat hai, she expressed hesitation and fear, which any girl will do in her first time irrespective of marital status, but especially if she is unmarried and an ITV FL. Her desire was very much present. Anurag just assuaged her fear (and this was a time when Anurag had every intention of marrying her. Moloy and rajesh's accident, and komolika deal had not yet happened) and stoked her already rampant desire.

There are certain things which come under the banner of criticism. I may view anurag as noble, another may view him as weak. These things come under the umbrella of personal opinions and likes. But blatant accusations of serious crimes like forcing himself on a girl who said no is shocking and unacceptable.

Mods, it's a humble request please look into this to ensure this doesn't happen again!

Those who say prerna never wanted it and anurag emotionally blackmailed her..the below video is for them....do I see a juvenile prerna with Anurag...did she protested and anurag still forced her...anurag made a statement that they will get married in next 7 days soche doesn't thibk it's wrong ..but wat about prerna...wat does she feel .she agrees to him or she still believes it's wrong ....well prerna is a well educated girl n capable of taking her own decisions and she agreed to anurag bcoz as much as anurag wanted it she too wanted it...or probably more as she was the first one to get turned on....

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6pzuvDBXft/?igshid=5qwny8xkwic

https://www.instagram.com/p/B6p000kBjhO/?igshid=1a4v0nqzy4i87

https://www.instagram.com/p/B90c6HAhnIz/?igshid=lvtm0i7r9hxs

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