The Hypocrisy of Moral Code (ML vs FL) DT Note Pg 5 (Edtd 12.06) - Page 5

Originally posted by: hope4u

I have to agree.. Itv has different bars to measure th ML and FL. But maybe that's because the audience is that way?

Since you've listed out the comparisons between the ML and FL, let me do the honors of listing out how the FL and supporting actor, or as some would argue the parallel ML are treated differently.

Prerna is expected to worship the ground he walks on. Even though her marriage to him happened in less than ideal situation she was bashed all the time because she didn't develop feelings for him, because she pined for the love she had lost. Prerna even making rotis for someone else in the middle of the night was disgusting, but Bajaj propositioning a woman half his age, who was pregnant and engaged at that time with a "deal" was cool, coz hey, she agreed. Mutual consent bro!

If kuki is dreaming about boys in india, chee, it's all prerna's upbringing..

If she bravely goes to save her mother, bajajs blood after all.

If prerna doesn't console kuki after she regains consciousness, instead asks about anurag, she is the worst mother. So much so that her own daughter is better off without her.

But Bajaj calls kuki only to talk to prerna, because he couldn't reach her phone, and doesn't have a single word to ask his daughter how she is,alone in a new country, is all OK. He's a man of few words.

Prerna has still not moved on from her past. In 8 years she has not fallen head over heels with this man who saved her. She was betrayed by one man so the solution, if she were a strong woman would be to move on with another. She hasn't done that. So She is hopeless, spineless, loser etc etc..

But Bajaj continues to love a woman who has neither led him on nor given any such hint is the greatest love of them all.

See. Hypocrisy exists everywhere. 🤷🏾‍♀️And since Bajaj is such an important part of kzk and prerna's life, we need to do this comparison too.

Oh well but that's hardly the point here.. This is nothing but the anurag bashing topic of the day. Carry on and have fun!

Some more -

Prerna loving Anurag and being his secretary is spineless but Bajaj loving prerna and making her a full time forced mother of his child is some Oscar Worthy love.

Anurag peeping in their bedroom is creepy but Bajaj hiding the pregnancy truth from Anu and still threatening Anu to not love prerna is classy.

Mohini bashing Prerna for Anu in hospital is regressive but Bajaj scolding prerna over kuki's minor hurt is father's concern.

Anurag throwing prerna to give her a new life is cowardice but Bajaj stopping her from facing Anurag and asking her to parent kuki is a bravo worthy act ? Like who the hell tells a traumatized woman about parenting their own kid? What was that ?

Prerna winning awards and crediting Bajaj in front of the media makes her strong woman, but same prerna coming back to face her betrayer husband and get answers is spineless.

Anurag accepting that he made a mistake by having ONS with komo is spineless but Bajaj never accepting that he played with a pregnant and helpless woman's emotions to satisfy his ego is praiseworthy.

Anurag spending 8 years with komo to keep his family safe and happy is again spineless but Bajaj ruining someone else's marriage to satisfy his child with a purchased mother is human act.

Anurag setting up divers to save prerna is lame but Bajaj waiting for prerna to fall instead of saving her beforehand is heroic.. I am super impressed actually

Originally posted by: hope4u

This makes that saying real doesn't it. Women are their own greatest enemies?

Another simple example, the so called sautan drama between prerna and komolika was much much more appreciated, than a similar testosterone driven clash between anurag and bajaj.. While both are equally ridiculous and lol worthy why is it that anurag sirf Mera hai, Mera suhaag, Mera Pati is much more enjoyable to watch than two men cracking knuckles and challenging each other over a glass of brandy and cigar?? The most cringe worthy and clichéd representation of men and woman and yet one is accepted and other rejected. Here I blame the audience and not the makers.

Surprisingly it's the other way around here. Most of the people who found pre kom face of disgusting enjoyed anujaj tashan, as it was called. Why though? Both are equally disgusting and objectify the opposite Sex! 🤷🏾‍♀️

Hope check this out (let me know if IG is allowed or not here)

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9lR-HmBqiw/?igshid=am49xdafantf

jumping in bed after 10 days mein marriage lie suits Basu coz Bajju is fine without it. He will never force pre😆

people expect Pre to acknowledge Bajju not to sleep with him without love 😆

Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

Some more -

Prerna loving Anurag and being his secretary is spineless but Bajaj loving prerna and making her a full time forced mother of his child is some Oscar Worthy love.

Anurag peeping in their bedroom is creepy but Bajaj hiding the pregnancy truth from Anu and still threatening Anu to not love prerna is classy.

Mohini bashing Prerna for Anu in hospital is regressive but Bajaj scolding prerna over kuki's minor hurt is father's concern.

Anurag throwing prerna to give her a new life is cowardice but Bajaj stopping her from facing Anurag and asking her to parent kuki is a bravo worthy act ? Like who the hell tells a traumatized woman about parenting their own kid? What was that ?

Prerna winning awards and crediting Bajaj in front of the media makes her strong woman, but same prerna coming back to face her betrayer husband and get answers is spineless.

Anurag accepting that he made a mistake by having ONS with komo is spineless but Bajaj never accepting that he played with a pregnant and helpless woman's emotions to satisfy his ego is praiseworthy.

Anurag spending 8 years with komo to keep his family safe and happy is again spineless but Bajaj ruining someone else's marriage to satisfy his child with a purchased mother is human act.

Anurag setting up divers to save prerna is lame but Bajaj waiting for prerna to fall instead of saving her beforehand is heroic.. I am super impressed actually

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Originally posted by: RollingStones

And interesting thing is most of the fans are female fans .

Yet they have no qualms bashing Pre ,calling her names mind you disgusting names , mocking her ruthlessly .... why because Prerna the female is not loving the Man they love .....

The writers too know this .... that female loves the male counterparts and can kill other woman for the man ..... and hence they toy Prerna as per their convenience.

Isn’t this the deep rooted problem that exits in the society.

Here we are celebrating Woman’s day and what happens here in Forum .....Prerna the Woman is ridiculed day in and out on the 20 mins clip . Heck she is even mocked for her Business Attire .

There was a classic point raised by Messi in AnuPre AT that Prerna doesn’t need to jump in the Bed to show her Gratitude .

Unfortunately that’s what people expect her to do .

Aah. Absolutely. But it makes infinitely more sense to be just grateful and warm to the one who saved her life as opposed to the one who threw her down the bridge. If something can grow from that,very well.

And more importantly Bajaj never want her to either. They spent 8 years together and he didn't even confess to her. He's not waiting to jump her bones for sure. He never demanded things back. He's not casually touching her face,caressing it,or raising another baby with her. He lets her be.

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Aah. Absolutely. But it makes infinitely more sense to be just grateful and warm to the one who saved her life as opposed to the one who threw her down the bridge. If something can grow from that,very well.

And more importantly Bajaj never want her to either. They spent 8 years together and he didn't even confess to her. He's not waiting to jump her bones for sure. He never demanded things back. He's not casually touching her face,caressing it,or raising another baby with her. He lets her be.

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

because

ML kare toh raasleela
FL kare toh character dheela

ML's majboori is majboori in marrying a vamp and having ONS and having kid and having a happy nok jhok wala life and move on

FL's majboori is NOT majboori .. how can she tend to that person's wounds, how can she take care of him , how can she take care of his daughter .. how can she move on ...


If FL married under blackmail . that shaadi termed as blackmail shaadi
ML also married under blackmail , but this shaadi is termed as majboori wala shaadi

he is justified while she is crucified

All grounds of morality and ethics are for FL and NOT for a ML who is placed on a pedestal and worshipped on a daily basis .. that is why FL is kept "pavitra" "without crossing lines of physical proximity " with her partner ... across all shows

FL's character is suspected, the paternity of her baby is questioned , but no such questions for ML

I am for once glad that they never crossed lines with Prerna and Bajaj, neither in 1st stint or now in 8 years , while the ML has fathered a child and is have a very normal banter wala jovial life with his wife and family

Italics : Same. In fact, that would take away from them in the future if they had.

Bold : With ITV this is really constant. The pregnancy thing should have mattered to both. But it was made one sided so that the FL could take the blame. The tracks are written as such that whatever happens,the sympathy is with the ML. That's that.

Originally posted by: Wistfulness

WORD! Here's a love devoid of desperation, lust, and feelings of ownership.

He has helped without a single selfish motive. Nobody can take that away from him.

Originally posted by: TeAmo_Messi

Some more -

Prerna loving Anurag and being his secretary is spineless but Bajaj loving prerna and making her a full time forced mother of his child is some Oscar Worthy love.

Anurag peeping in their bedroom is creepy but Bajaj hiding the pregnancy truth from Anu and still threatening Anu to not love prerna is classy.

Mohini bashing Prerna for Anu in hospital is regressive but Bajaj scolding prerna over kuki's minor hurt is father's concern.

Anurag throwing prerna to give her a new life is cowardice but Bajaj stopping her from facing Anurag and asking her to parent kuki is a bravo worthy act ? Like who the hell tells a traumatized woman about parenting their own kid? What was that ?

Prerna winning awards and crediting Bajaj in front of the media makes her strong woman, but same prerna coming back to face her betrayer husband and get answers is spineless.

Anurag accepting that he made a mistake by having ONS with komo is spineless but Bajaj never accepting that he played with a pregnant and helpless woman's emotions to satisfy his ego is praiseworthy.

Anurag spending 8 years with komo to keep his family safe and happy is again spineless but Bajaj ruining someone else's marriage to satisfy his child with a purchased mother is human act.

Anurag setting up divers to save prerna is lame but Bajaj waiting for prerna to fall instead of saving her beforehand is heroic.. I am super impressed actually

1 What? You don't get Oscar for loving someone, these things don't correlate and are untrue because Bajaj didn't love Prerna back then

2 Why would Bajaj tell Anurag about Prerna's pregnancy? It was Prerna who hid her pregnancy truth

3 Mohini is progressive, there you go

4 Anurag trying to kill Prerna to save her from what? How did he save himself from Prerna's murder charge? How is he saving Komolika who was a convict in Murder charge of Prerna's father? He couldn't fight in court and save Prerna? Lol, especially when Prerna had a gunshot which could prove that whatever she did was in self defense.

Mr. Bajaj didn't ask her to take care of Kuki when she wanted to ask questions to Anurag, you have mixed up scenes. Prerna wanted to commit suicide when dearest Anurag took away her child, Mr. Bajaj put Kuki's name to give her a reason to live, He said Kuki needs her so Prerna has a reason to live

5 Prerna winning award was because Mr. Bajaj gave her that chance, as Anurag's girlfriend all she got to do was set up his and komolika's wedding bed and cry, Mr Bajaj taught her business and none called her spineless, that word is for Anurag, for taking revenge, she falters when she dreams about romancing a man who tried to kill her and killed her baby in her own words

6 Anurag calling his child a mistake is not spineless, it is classic Anurag Basu. Bajaj mended his ways and united Anurag - Prerna

7 Anurag spending 8 years with a criminal is spineless, this criminal killed Prerna's father and Mr Bajaj was wrong, that's why in the end he lost and left everything 🤦‍♀️ Do you not know how first Bajaj track ended?

8 How can Bajaj save Prerna before Anurag pushed her? I mean what were the chances of soulmate being stupid enough to put Prerna's life at risk, it's not like Anurag told his plan to everyone 🙄

Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

Aah. Absolutely. But it makes infinitely more sense to be just grateful and warm to the one who saved her life as opposed to the one who threw her down the bridge. If something can grow from that,very well.

And more importantly Bajaj never want her to either. They spent 8 years together and he didn't even confess to her. He's not waiting to jump her bones for sure. He never demanded things back. He's not casually touching her face,caressing it,or raising another baby with her. He lets her be.

So you expect her to be grateful although bajaj let's her be - Grateful or not..

Hmm.. So much for itv fans putting FL on pedestal😆& having expectations from her