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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: rp5127


I guess you didn't read the part where I said I disagreed with Anurag did. Selective reading, much? 😆


Since people believe that AnuPre fans don't call out Anurag, I will start out with that. I believe what Anurag did was wrong. He should have communicated with Prerna in a better fashion. I did not like that he took a decision for Prerna and I will never stand by the choice he made. However, calling someone out and loving someone are two completely different things. Even though I am extremely upset with Anurag, I love Anurag.


My point is that Prerna should have decided she didn't want to confront Anurag. Prerna very much so wanted to confront Anurag. Bajaj decided that for her that she wasn't going to do so. That is not feminism.

Tho I agree in theory what you are saying, there comes a point whether the love is enough to get thru life. I have no doubt A loves P and vice versa but I don’t think it’s sustainable or praticable. Their numerous other issues like lack of trust, communication, basic incompatibility ( I think they are too alike to live happily) does and gotten in the way. So, while you can love someone, you can still choose to move on to give yourself and the other person a better life. Based on what we have seen, P seems to lead a better life with B than A, maybe cuz he vibes with her better.

I also think that there is a lot to unpack with regards to feminism and I will leave it to say any theory if it gets in the way of your live, Then there is inherent clash. I do agree Bajaj in the strictest sense did take that right of confronting Anu, but then again he did take her there and quite frankly, was she in the right frame of mind to make decisions in her best interest, since it’s not quite the norm to confront your supposed murderer in a fit of rage and anger, unarmed?

Whether you agre or disagree with that, will depend on your personal POV and where you stand in life. But i would want someone to stop me and give me the opportunity to look at things rationally after a near death experience


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: rp5127


I guess you didn't read the part where I said I disagreed with Anurag did. Selective reading, much? 😆


Since people believe that AnuPre fans don't call out Anurag, I will start out with that. I believe what Anurag did was wrong. He should have communicated with Prerna in a better fashion. I did not like that he took a decision for Prerna and I will never stand by the choice he made. However, calling someone out and loving someone are two completely different things. Even though I am extremely upset with Anurag, I love Anurag.


My point is that Prerna should have decided she didn't want to confront Anurag. Prerna very much so wanted to confront Anurag. Bajaj decided that for her that she wasn't going to do so. That is not feminism.

Then Anurag and Bajaj both don't deserve Prerna, right? Cause both played Gods in her life. Anurag is no beacon of feminism either and I don't even need to go into details why.

That's that,then? Good. 😆

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: rp5127


I guess you didn't read the part where I said I disagreed with Anurag did. Selective reading, much? 😆


Since people believe that AnuPre fans don't call out Anurag, I will start out with that. I believe what Anurag did was wrong. He should have communicated with Prerna in a better fashion. I did not like that he took a decision for Prerna and I will never stand by the choice he made. However, calling someone out and loving someone are two completely different things. Even though I am extremely upset with Anurag, I love Anurag.


My point is that Prerna should have decided she didn't want to confront Anurag. Prerna very much so wanted to confront Anurag. Bajaj decided that for her that she wasn't going to do so. That is not feminism.

Yes I very much read that irrelevant part . Because bajajs blackmail deal marriage was described in 3 paragraphs ..but your neutral view says that you dont like anurag tossing her down this time .



And anurag deciding for pre , when he humiliated her and married komo wasnt mentioned . When pre married bajaj,he didnt feel the need to ASK her what she wants instead went round and round about "mujhe prerna chahiye" . Bajaj blackmailing her is mentioned again and again but him setting her free and divorcing her is irrelevant isnt it ? If he didnt do it ,there is no way by which anupre would ""try" to unite again .



So next time when trying to be neutral try to see things as they are keeping the bias aside. I am not fond of prebajaj either. But it's foreveryone to see that she should.be grateful to him for giving her a new life..giving her an opportunity to rise beyond her petty anurag mindset. But again he failed 🤢😆 Its beyond stupid that bajaj should have let her confront anurag . That HE should have called sharmas when their own daughter didnt care for these 8 years. That HE took her away . It's all bec of him that she is flaunting those crores..otherwise she knows the zero shape only in the Roti which she makes for anurag.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes I very much read that irrelevant part . Because bajajs blackmail deal marriage was described in 3 paragraphs ..but your neutral view says that you dont like anurag tossing her down this time .



And anurag deciding for pre , when he humiliated her and married komo wasnt mentioned . When pre married bajaj,he didnt feel the need to ASK her what she wants instead went round and round about "mujhe prerna chahiye" . Bajaj blackmailing her is mentioned again and again but him setting her free and divorcing her is irrelevant isnt it ? If he didnt do it ,there is no way by which anupre would ""try" to unite again .



So next time when trying to be neutral try to see things as they are keeping the bias aside. I am not fond of prebajaj either. But it's foreveryone to see that she should.be grateful to him for giving her a new life..giving her an opportunity to rise beyond her petty anurag mindset. But again he failed 🤢😆 Its beyond stupid that bajaj should have let her confront anurag . That HE should have called sharmas when their own daughter didnt care for these 8 years. That HE took her away . It's all bec of him that she is flaunting those crores..otherwise she only knows the zero shape only in the Roti which she makes for anurag.

Right.

If I start unpacking the 'so called Feminism' shown by the ML of all people, right from the very start we would be here all day. 😆


I can't believe someone brought ' feminism' here to defend sexist ITV tropes. Good lord 😆

Edited by AllThatCritique - 5 years ago

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