Does Anurag Really Deserve Prerna? - Page 6

Originally posted by: najma123

He SHOULD give two hoots about it, and find out why it happened. Screw society. What he's doing isn't going to change status quo about the marriage. Yeah he can declare it a sham, but won't still know why it happened. And he should do it and get to the bottom and rattle her about that instead. Repeatedly telling I know you love, but I still want you tell me that, where will that take him? Move to Step 2. Step of reaffirming love is done. Durga Mandir gave ashirwad a year/four months ago, go find out how Bajaj found a way through that ashirwad instead of reiterating it again and again. He can do that to pep himself up maybe, but Uske baad kya

He does want her to admit that she loves him. He really can't do anything till then. She keeps saying that she doesn't love him, doesn't care about him and he should move on, even though he can see past her facade. So he is trying for her to see and accept her feelings. As he said before also, "I want you back but I want you to take that decision and come back".

He wants her to decide to break the marriage, then no one can stop him from finding a way.

Again, he doesn't know she got married because he went to jail. And as I said in previous comment, he is just now getting his sanity back.

Wow. Did I really REALLY expect that most comments here will be actually relevant to the topic?🤣 How stupid.🤔

Also me: this topic isn't about Bajaj. And neither am i playing scorecard with the two

Comment section: you think that'd stop us from pitting two virile, alphas out there to stake their claim do you? Think again🤔

Going to get to the replies but I just love how so many of you didn't even understand that this was A DIG AGAINST THE WRITERS.😆

Originally posted by: Cute_Virgo

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Originally posted by: music_l0ver036

Such a great read! I think Anurag is just really lucky that Prerna loves him or else she wouldn’t go along with his behaviors for as long as she has. She knew him when he wasn’t like this so she’s holding on to that I guess. But you can blame the heartbreak only for so long until that becomes an excuse instead of an explanation. One of the reasons I liked last weeks episodes was because we saw more than 2 expressions from Prerna. She wasn’t stoic. Prerna expressed the suffocation she was feeling. She loves Anurag, she wants to be with him, she feels the push and pull of listening to her heart vs fulfilling her responsibility. In my opinion, the Prerna Moloy scene was for Prernas grief about her own father. Even Mohini didn’t say anything because Prerna was at a vulnerable state. I just wanted to hear Prernas side, what she’s feeling, what she wants, her love and loss but I agree with you completely. Prerna has always been sidelined so she could be tossed from one man to another. At least in the Naveen track, Anurag saw the discomfort Prerna was feeling. Why can’t he see that now with Bajaj? Did his critical thinking skills just disappear? The one time Prerna took stand and she took some archaic belief about Dhaga marriage and intruded herself in the marriage between two people. There’s no independent thought from Anurag for Prerna. She needs a friend, a social life, some hobby to keep herself sane. And on top of that she’s taking care of a child. Prerna shouldn’t only be defined by the relationships she has with other people. She should go back to work, she should maybe even study further, did she graduate?

I mentioned this in another reply as well. My problem wasn't the Prerna Moloy scene. My problem was HOW THAT SCENE WASN'T EVEN ABOUT HER! That scene kept cutting to Anurag and Bajaj. Once that moment was over and she walked away we again had Anurag and Bajaj. Her feelings and emotions were used as a crutch and plot point and I feel like I've seen her through a third person this whole week. As a woman, I can't help but feel the objectification and second hand treatment such a delicate, precarious moment in her life has gotten. My absolute anger is at the writers.

Also I know that Prerna loves him. Which is why this is so much more important. What Bajaj or Vikrant or any other x, y, z feel for her doesn't matter because she doesn't love them. She loves Anurag who keeps telling her he knows her but doesn't care why would the person he knows so well would take such a drastic step.

And I know so many people are here busy saying this is the only way he'd get to know the truth WHICH IS JUST SO WRONG. HE'S NOT EVEN CONCERNED ABOUT THE EFFECTS. I mean after hearing Bajaj's confession WHAT DOES HE DO? He makes things as difficult as he can for Prerna with Bajaj and keeps on egging Bajaj regarding Prerna. You're telling me that AT ONE HAND he's seen Bajaj's deranged, difficult side and he HAS ZERO CONCERN OF HOW ANYTHING, LITERALLY ANYTHING HE DOES can trigger Bajaj in SOME WAY that could harm Prerna? Shouldn't her safety and well being be his utmost concern? Didn't he know her family wasn't on talking terms with her? What does he do? Instead of giving her the space he bulldozes into that moment, making it about her. Is that not emotionally taxing for her? This isn't even about harassment. This about her trying SO SO HARD to juggle through situations because both men in her life do whatever the hell they want. She tells him NO. AND HE DOESN'T LISTEN. Justifications? he loves her. She loves him. I'm sorry but you CAN LOVE SOMEONE TO DEATH and if they say NO. IT'S A NO. You respect that.

Prerna touches him and almost gives in. I'm sorry but his response to that is SO OFF. He should be pained. He should be thinking about her mental state, her pain, her comfort. Above all, why is she married to Bajaj? And what does he do? HE GOES TO BAJAJ AND with a cocky strut and aggressive and arrogant eyes, eggs him on now that he's got HIS VALIDATION. SHE'S MINE.

WOW.

WOW.

WOW.

Originally posted by: Nibuuu

Whatever Anurag is doing or saying might be cringeworthy...but u can't say this that he is pressurizing prerna or harrassing....Think from his perspective, he himself doesn't know the whole truth behind this marriage, but he can feel that something is wrong in t/ his marriage and her lady love is not happy....that's why he is trying to find out the truth and after seeing the obessessive face of Bajaj, how can u expect him to sit behind and doing nothing!!!!...He knows no one but only Prerna can tell him the truth...He knows how much Prerna behave coldly with him, At some point she must break down before him cz Our prerna can't act fake for long time before his Anurag......

Now whatever he is doing canbe claimed wrong if he is doing that after knowing the whole truth... In the precap, he already told prerna that he woundn't be able to get her back if Prerna herself doesn't want... But he will be always there whenever Prerna wants him... That's make it clear that he won't never ever force Prerna to live with him without her consent..

And at last, if u think Anurag is worst as he is harrassing a MARRIED women, influencing EMA, then let me remind u.. That MARRIED WOMEN herself accepted this marriage for the sake of her WORST BOYFRIEND(!), still is in love with this guy, carrying his baby in her womb....And his ex boyfriend could feel her pain without even knowing anything.... He could feel that his girl isn't happy with this marriage...So, why would he accept this marriage when her love isn't happy???? Why he should move on without even fighting!!!!!!! This is 2019... If any third person comes between you and your love, marries your woman in the name of deal and your woman isn't happy, then why won't u give damn to this so called marriage and fight against the society and fate???? If someone gives up so easily and accept his bloody fate then that's make him looser...

ALSO finding out the truth. Yeah I see how he's doing that: I WILL CHANGE MYSELF. I SWEAR TO GOD I WILL. COME BACK TO ME. I LOVE YOU. YOU LOVE ME. Our fathers WANTED US TOGETHER. I HAVE DREAMS OF US! WE BELONG X 100000. Also you're MINE X 10000. Yep that's the way to a woman's heart.

Maybe JUST MAYBE, if it had gone something like: I have to help her. I have to find out what went wrong. Prerna are you okay? Do you need any help? Can we please talk? I know there's something wrong about this marriage. Please let me help you. I'm not asking for anything. I JUST NEED TO SEE YOU HAPPY AND CONTENT. Nope.

Bold no.2: I'm still waiting where it becomes an opening for he and not him. ALSO THANK YOU SO SO MUCH for telling me that *fighting* for your love means centering EVERYTHING around you 24*7. This is the same Anurag who pinned a price tag on her post her marriage. Same guy who keeps objectifying her to his family members.

YOU KNOW WHAT WOULD DO? A SIMPLE SHUTUP CALL TO HIS MOM.

Mohini: PRERNA IS A GOLD-DIGGER. SHES' MANHOOS. SHE'S THIS SHE'S THAT.

ANURAG: Oh mommy but I still want only her.

How about mom you've always singled her out. ALWAYS. And it really hurts me. I know she's married to Bajaj but I know she's been coerced into it. SHE'S *NOT* A GOLD-DIGGER. SHE'S NOT the words you keep telling her in and out. Also the way you treated her while I was in coma? IT WAS SO SO WRONG MOM. I expected better of you.

What does he do?

PRERNA LOVES ME COS WHEN I WAS IN COMA SHE TOOK INSULTS FROM MY MOM TO COME TO ME. 👏

You're right darling. THIS IS 2019. SO HOW ABOUT WE STOP EXCUSING MEN?

Originally posted by: najma123

Why does he want the truth from her? Why does he want her to tell him she loves him?

He's shown to be astute and smart.

1. He catches her lies about her closeness with Bajaj.

2. He knows she ran to him when he was dying.

3. He knows she sent Bajaj to jail as soon as he charged him for attempt to murder.

4. He knows they sleep separately.

5. Most of all, he knows they are soulmates.

Soulmate se jaanne ki kya zaroorat? It is obvious she loves you, what will you get by making her admit it? Satisfy your ego huh? If not, then for what joy? Instead of that, try another way. Try finding out what transpired between them when she went to get the proofs. Think beyond a bit. Face her, surprise her by asking how Bajaj gave her the proofs? She isn't some first class liar, he asks her something point blank, her face will give it away. Dig deeper. And find the truth. Then tell Bajaj, come ruin me. Take the deal back, and let her go. Tell Prerna, he doesn't care if he rots in jail but he doesn't want her to live with Bajaj as part of a deal. Free her man! Don't bind her again!

LET'S PUT IT THIS WAY.

If he really thought she was coerced would he really think she had the agency to get out of this marriage herself? I mean forced is forced right? If he thinks she's been forced, what makes him think she can get out of it herself?

BUT HERE WE ARE. WALK TO ME. COME TO ME. BREAK THIS MARRIAGE AND COME TO ME. Who cares what situation she might be in right? Who cares of how this impacts her emotional state behind closed doors? Who legit cares?🤔

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Fine it's not the only way but it sure is a way and I see Prerna wanting out of the relationship and so kind of working.

Ofcourse.....if a girl says no it's a no ....no matter what. I never said otherwise. If you are referring to yesterday's episode then he was just wiping her tears.But ok if you find it wrong den I won't agree otherwise.

I genuinely find her comfortable around him .But you feel she is feeling uncomfortable around him and he isn't paying heed to dt......den I can't say anything. We all interpret the expressions, actings , dialogues and scenes in different ways.....dt is all.

Here's how a normal person might process this.

If Prerna was forced into this, (as in being forced takes away your agency) how can I assume she can walk out of this on her own? Also if Bajaj is SO SO DERANGED and unhinged, I have to be extremely careful. Even the slightest trigger can end up harming Prerna. I wouldn't want that.

Anurag is doing just the opposite. So no it's not about her. It's about him.

BOLD 2: This is not about comfort is it. It doesn't matter how intimate a relationship is. Even between a husband and a wife if the wife is saying don't touch me rn I think the husband should ACTUALLY LISTEN.

In fact Parth's last show they did such a good job of showing this. The female lead is going through a hard time and Manik was a man who needed physical touch. And she asks him once not to touch her and she needs him in that moment, and touching her is the only way he knows how to comfort, but HE DOESN'T. It's as simple as that. And anyway the moment I was mentioning was the kitchen.

She told him to not hold her/touch her but he doesn't even LISTEN. And that is PLAIN WRONG.

Originally posted by: Ayesha1980

Brilliant post ...one more thing which I never wanted to tell but want to tell now ...when Naveen started to eye on Pre ...first of all Anu acted as a protective friend because initially he had no feelings for her ...but suddenly his concern changed into strong sexual attraction ...which we can notice in one of the pooja ceremony when he grabs her and starts dancing with her ..that time there were no love feelings between them ..thats the moment I lost connect with the character ...it was alright he was helping her but there is a thin line between helping without expectations and then helping with expectation that the person would love you back ..so this is called selfish and toxic ...everytime there is Anurag to decide for Pre ..its not other way around ..also we saw Prerna openly voices her concerns in front of Bajaj but rarely in front of Anu ...That means he is overshadowing her persona in name of love ..thats why this love is toxic and thats the reason yesterdays article was so on point.

On the other front, yep. communication isn't their strongest suit. They're a bit more rochester-jane that way I guess. Dil ka connection. Words are over-rated.

Originally posted by: SheAish

I don't know who gets to decide who deserves who as their partner...except for the people involved. IF Pre does not want Anu then Anu does not deserve Pre and vice versa.

On the other hand if who pre wants is bajaj then also its her choice and Bajaj deserves her because its her choice.

But Pre has been reiterating that her body and soul belongs to Anu so I don't consider myself as an authority on whether Anu deserves Pre or Pre deserves Anu. Its their choice. If both wants each other they deserve each other.

If we are talking about actions of both Anu and Pre and then deciding who deserves who then I still don't know how to say their actions prove that either Pre or Anu does not deserve each other.

Pre showed her utter lack of trust when Anu married Komo just after risking his life to save her and he had already done that while he was her friend too in Naveen track. But I also took into consideration as to what she was going through ie her father just died recently, the guy she loves she was looking forward to marry in the very near future dumped you and you find yourselves pregnant at this time too...That's a lot on her plate so I didn't find it too hard to try and see things from her point of view. What stuck me during that track was that Anu's side of grievance was shown through his monologues and actions so we knew he has no intention of abiding by that marriage and hated Komo and still loves Pre.

Again during that track both girls actions and dialogues treated Anu as an object to be won and who has more haq on who and why. All the clashes between Pre and Komo were like that only.. But I guess we as women find it easy to see men being objectified but not women in that sense.

Now coming to Pre marrying Bajaj again Anu showed lack of trust in Pre in so quickly believing that Pre was capable of leaving him just like that at the alter without even informing anyone for no reason. He only started to believe that there must be something wrong with their marriage very recently. Anu was shown at his lowest low and pathetic at this track and suicidal twice now. Love as an emotion is experienced by people differently and here obviously Anu's whole life suddenly was shown to be consumed by his grief and inability to accept his fate. I'm not gonner lie. It was pathetic and he was behaving like an utter fool...BUt but....it doesn't make him any less a human being undeserving of understanding and empathy either IMO.

In this track compared to Anukom track the difference was that Pre has shown no indication of her stand with regards to if she still wants Anu or not for a whole month worth of episodes and only gave us a glimpse of her feeling trapped in one maha episode. Otherwise viewers were left to believe what ever they want with her going around her business as a wife taking care of Kuki and taking care of Bajaj and Family and at the same time showing attitude and anger towards Anu.

Again only a week before she started showing any positive emotion towards Anu after that accident. And then the latter half of this weeks episodes she is shown breaking down and showing she still loves Anu. And during this time she reminded Bajaj why she married him in the first place.

Hence IMO at this stage I really don't see why Anu is undeserving of Pre IF SHE WANTS HIM.

TBH everyone has agreed that the story writing is really pathetic here and a story consists of actions of a bunch of characters. So obviously the characters in that case if we look at it individually without taking into account all the other characters actions that influence each other, it won't be a fair critique in any sense IMO.

Originally posted by: euphoric

Either we can love him or we may love to hate him... Eventually everyone is obsessed