AnuPre or PreRish : My Thoughts

Hi everyone🤗 Sneha here. So in some thread, Someone asked me whom do you currently support , whom would you want Prerna to end with.

I thought for a minute and said I don't know whom she should end with, because I cannot decide who is better for her according to season 1 story. This is a new serial (though has the same storyline) and I want to decide who is a better partner for her depending upon how these characters behave this season.

So currently if you ask me whom I prefer from AnuPre and PreRish, I would say None.

Let me explain,

There was never a doubt in my mind regarding how much Anurag loves prerna. But her betrayal (though her intention was to save him) caused him such grief that he isn't able to think straight.

That manhandling, stalking, running behind her to keep begging her to come back to him despite HER being married is in bad taste.

Right now his love is completely masked with obsession and he just wants her back. I m ready to cut some slack and not judge him till he finds out the truth about the sacrifice.

But that slap during Swiss track, JUST NOT DONE. CVS went too ahead with it. Slapping the person you love because she jilted you is Cool? No.

Now Regarding Bajaj,I will refrain from saying anything about bajaj because honestly right now, I am not able to understand how he is the better guy for prerna and I honestly can't see the utmost respect for her about which every bajaj fan is raving .

Definitely he proved to be the best for prerna in S1 . But I cannot start loving or supporting him just because the Bajaj in S1 turned out to be the correct choice for pre.

Right now, currently I don't find anything great about a man who took advantage of a situation and manipulated a pregnant woman to marry him. Sure he has some good qualities too ,so I m currently neutral towards him, but don't like him. I cannot.

This bajaj needs to be redeemed for me to start liking PreRish .

There is a difference between redemption and whitewashing. This Bajaj has been beautifully whitewashed with many layers of Asian paint, but I see no remorse or redemption from his side. So cannot support him, as of now. Period

You are entitled to your POV and I to mine. We can definitely have healthy discussions but don't force your opinions on others . They May or May not accept it.

Example, Sun rises in East and sets in West - This is a fact.

But ,

Bajaj blackmailed Prerna or

When did he blackmail prerna, She married him out of her own choice

These statements are NOT facts. Ambiguity leads to discussions and there is no right and wrong here. It's all about your opinion and perception.

There definitely is right and wrong here, Sneha but we don't know what is right and what is wrong. Something that we find right can be unacceptable in someone's eyes and vice versa. It truly is about perceptions and opinions.

Kaun sahi, kaun galat,

Ye kashmakash din raat satati.

Kaun hai karzdar, Kaun kare bhugtaan,

Ladte ladte zindagi beet jati!

🥱

PS: Last post in this forum. Can't indulge more. 😆

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

There definitely is right and wrong here, Sneha but we don't know what is right and what is wrong. Something that we find right can be unacceptable in someone's eyes and vice versa. It truly is about perceptions and opinions.

Kaun sahi, kaun galat,

Ye kashmakash din raat satati.

Kaun hai karzdar, Kaun kare bhugtaan,

Ladte ladte zindagi beet jati!

🥱

PS: Last post in this forum. Can't indulge more. 😆

That's what I meant. Right and wrong happens only when something is a universal fact.

Rest everything is based upon our perception . What I think is right may not be right according to you. So who is right? You or me?😆

Coming to the topic, I don't want Pre to end up with any of them but I don't know she will end up with someone for sure and that depends on trps😛

Please don't leave the forum🤗

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

That's what I meant. Right and wrong happens only when something is a universal fact.

Rest everything is based upon our perception . What I think is right may not be right according to you. So who is right? You or me?😆

Coming to the topic, I don't want Pre to end up with any of them but I don't know she will end up with someone for sure and that depends on trps😛

Please don't leave the forum🤗

I was on a week long holidays so thoroughly enjoyed discussing the stuff here. Resuming work demands my exit from this place. I can still be around but I don't want to. I believe, I need to indulge myself in positive stuff and discussions over a toxic show are toxic. 😆

Shouldn't we all do what nourishes our souls? Kasauti certainly doesn't but I had a great time here, in all sort of discussions and even in arguments. It has been all good but no, I am not gonna miss this place. 😆

I agree with most of your points Sneha

Currently as Anurag fan I badly want him to get over his obsession over Prerna..I want him to move on,stop his soulmate rant and let love find its way back..there is no point beating around the bush the same thing..but his problem is that he didn't get closure till now and I can't blame him..till now he is not able to accept the fact that Prerna left him for money,now he is convinced that there is some reason..he will continue doing the same till he get proper truth..His obsessive behavior is getting toxic now which needs to be shaken off

Regarding Bajaj,firstly this is not season 1..last season yes I agree he was far better than Anurag but this Bajaj..you call it blackmail or deal,either way it was a manipulative way to marry a pregnant girl for his daughter.. you cannot justify that at any point..If Anurag's life would not have been at stake,Prerna would have never married Bajaj.. Bajaj was initially shown a ruthless and heartless which is now being completely whitewashed by showing his vulnerable, soft and misunderstood side..This is like 2 opposite personalities that these CVs are trying to show which are poles apart and one of them is definitely fake..Any redemption can not be shown until he feels tad bit of guilt for what he has done,set Prerna free and then let her decide who she wants to chose..Bajaj had literally shoved his daughter's responsibility to a 21 year old pregnant girl who didn't even know about this before getting married which is not acceptable at any cost..Period

Originally posted by: FaizaK

I agree with most of your points Snegs

Currently as Anurag I badly want him to get over his obcession over Prerna..I want him to move on,stop his soulmate rant and let love find its way back..there is no point beating around the bush the same thing..but his problem is that he didn't get closure till now and I can't blame him..till now he is not able to accept the fact that Prerna left him money,now he is convinced that there is some reason..he will continue doing the same till he get proper truth..

Regarding Bajaj,firstly this is not season 1..last season yes I agree he was far better than Anurag but this Bajaj..you call it blackmail or deal,either way it was a manipulative way to marry a pregnant girl for his daughter.. you cannot justify that at any point..If Anurag's life would not have been at stake,Prerna would have never married Bajaj.. Bajaj was initially shown a ruthless and heartless which is now being completely whitewashed by showing his vulnerable, soft and misunderstood side..This is like 2 opposite personalities that these CVs are trying to show which are poles apart and one of them is definitely fake..Any redemption can not be shown until he feels tad bit of guilt for what he has done,set Prerna free and then let her decide who she wants to chose..Bajaj had literally shoved his daughter's responsibility to a 21 year old pregnant girl who didn't even know about this before getting married which is not acceptable at any cost..Period

I agree with most of it :)

Bajaj has been shown as ruthless and then suddenly whitewashed. That's why I said there is a difference between Whitewashing and redemption.

Also I personally don't feel it's blackmail. More like, manipulating and taking advantage of situation and turning into your favour . Did he wrong her? Definitely. Was it a blackmail? NOT Really.

Regarding Anurag, I agree with everything you wrote 👍🏼

as per me both guy does not deserve this inconsistent prerna . at least in this state nither bajaj nor anurag .. cos prerna is behaving currently completely dual role. jab anurag ke sath hote hai , woh anu ki prerna ban jati hai , intentionally , unintentionally both. jab woh bajaj ke sath hote hai behaving like typical wife . then how could this two guy would move on ... she danced passionately and happily with bajaj .. usi rat kitchen mai jake anu ke liye rotia paka rahi hai ... where is her consistency ?

you hate bajaj , fine.. uska jindegi hell kardo .. kyu beech beech mai daure parte hai wife banne ki

you want to make move on anurag ... uske sath chand sitara dekhna bandh karo ...

sorry to say .. from the mega episode and till today .. mujhe seriously lagti hai Both bajaj and Anurag does not deserve current pendulum prerna . i dont know what is loyalty in prerna's dictionary , but as per me prerna is not loyal currently for both.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

as per me both guy does not deserve this inconsistent prerna . at least in this state nither bajaj nor anurag .. cos prerna is behaving currently completely dual role. jab anurag ke sath hote hai , woh anu ki prerna ban jati hai , intentionally , unintentionally both. jab woh bajaj ke sath hote hai behaving like typical wife . then how could this two guy would move on ... she danced passionately and happily with bajaj .. usi rat kitchen mai jake anu ke liye rotia paka rahi hai ... where is her consistency ?

you hate bajaj , fine.. uska jindegi hell kardo .. kyu beech beech mai daure parte hai wife banne ki

you want to make move on anurag ... uske sath chand sitara dekhna bandh karo ...

sorry to say .. from the mega episode and till today .. mujhe seriously lagti hai Both bajaj and Anurag does not deserve current pendulum prerna . i dont know what is loyalty in prerna's dictionary , but as per me prerna is not loyal currently for both.

Completely understand what you are saying. In fact though I don't agree with you, I can understand why you feel so.

Because she feels for anurag and at the same time wants to be married to bajaj too.

On the contrary, I feel Prerna is loyal to both. She is loyal to bajaj in her marriage. She is loyal to Anurag in love.

Thanks for stopping by and sharing your opinion🤗

Actually, the problem here is that people are divided into Bajaj fans and Anurag fans in disguise of Prerish and Anupre ( not all of them but a majority does).

If Prerna is good with Anurag, she is bashed. If If Prerna is good with Bajaj, she is bashed.

Yes, Prerna's character could have been written a lot better than this, but she doesn't deserve all the hate that comes her way. I think she herself is a victim of situations.

If Bajaj asks for loyalty in marriage, I want to know what kind of loyalty he is looking for because in his mind, she is his wife only for the sake of his daughter. "Loyalty" was a term just used by Bajaj when he didn't want to disclose the reason behind the marriage i.e. Cookie. So, he shouldn't be keeping high hopes and frankly speaking he doesnt , his fans do😊

And coming to Anurag, (if I keep away his slapping and stalking aside), he is not bad...but of late his obsession is not making him think properly. He has doubts regarding Bajaj...chalo hota hai....owing to the way Bajaj was introduced in his life. But his mind is not in a rational state, sometimes he considers Prerna a gold digger, sometimes this ....that...mtlb arre kuch toh consistency rakho soch me. And seems like now it is a war with Bajaj -Who wins Prerna? And for that he has been manipulating, manhandling and what not.

Prerna ko hi kuch der k liye akela chor do. The ball should lie in her court. Haan uske baad agar Pendulum bani tab toh 😈

But personally I find Prerish's chemistry very hot...specially after today's episode😳

And Sneha ..I forgot to mention..I went through your blog..and it was fab...your way of bringing out the facts was too good.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Cool.

I have no qualms in saying that right now as things are I wish Pre would chose Anu. Anu is hands down the best character in the serial among the three leads. Pre used to be at the same level as Anu, but not anymore after the way she is treating Anurag and warming up to Bajaj. But even now as things are, I would like Pre to return to Anurag if it is out of her own choice. Not because I accept the way she has been behaving with Anurag right now. BUT because Anurag wants her....What Anurag wants is for him to decide whether he deserves better than pre or not.

Similarly if Pre wants to accept Anurag despite how he slapped her, or stalked her or is runing behind her, its still her choice and I respect that. And I personally don't think that Anurag is lesser of a good and humble character that they showed Anurag hit her at the heat of the moment at a highly emotionally charged time for him. For me a character is not defined by a random action done at a single moment in time, for which he immediately repents and begs to be forgiven. And specially in ITV serials such random actions are used to dramatize a situation.

I don't think Pre hitting Anurag twice now, holds any relevance to her character either. Just like I don't think any less of her for stalking Anurag and forcing her way into BB after Anurag got married to Komolika either.

They both have done the same things as far as hitting at the heat of the moment or not giving up on each other even after they married other people due to circumstances (whether it of their own choosing or not) and "stalking" each other is concerned.

I don't hold one accoutable for the same deeds while I give a scott free card to the other.

Now regarding Pre and Bajaj, If Pre wants to move on with Bajaj because she likes him now then its her choice too. What I want holds no relevance. If she has decided to forget and forgive HOW she HAD to get married to Bajaj then its her choice. She is the one who was wronged so if she is OK with it now and infact despite that likes Bajaj its still her choice. There is no accounting for choice.

I have not held it against Asad when he hit Zoya and just offered a coffee in the form of a apology without even saying sorry, that too days after doing the deed. I was mad at the time but I accepted it because again it was a highly emotionally stressful and charged time for Asad and it was one single random moment in time thing that had no relevance to Asad's over all character.

So now I can't be a hypocrite and hold Anurag to a standard I neve held other characters that I have liked in the past. I mean one can have two different sets of standards for two otherwise good characters. If someone wants to hold different standards they can. Its their choice.

Now coming to Bajaj of S1 he also hit his lady love Prerna after they fell in love and moved on with their life. In one heated moment he also hit Prerna. Despite that we have a whole horde of Bajaj fans still fangirling over Bajaj of S1 including you. So its your choice I guess if you want to hold two different sets of standards for Anurag2 and Bajaj of S1.