Got a pm to make a separate post with a reply that I posted in some other thread.
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Prerna's character was always weak and foolish. She was unrelatable because of how weak she was. She's shown to be always drawn towards the easiest , quickest fix and never had the integrity or strength to pursue what is right as per today's woman.
She basically sold herself to NB during the 1st track of the show . When there was 100 other possible ways to tackle the monetary situation. And those ways are so simple and obvious that I couldn't be bothered to type them out . Slapping some one after his true face is revealed is not strength . Finding a solution in situation of crisis and dealing with it , with family and friend's support is what defines strength.
Then she had out of wedlock sex with her BF during a chase scene, which would've been perfectly alright ( let's face it , lots of people do it nowadays and if done with consent in a proper responsible manner there's nothing wrong with it ) but it showed what a hypocrite and weak character she is , since she always was big on sanskar and all . At least don't pretend you're a touch me not when you yield to lust in a open hut with goons on their backs. No sense , no maturity, absolutely no responsibility. She was not concerned about lack of contraception during the act , whereas any educated girl nowadays will first make sure of it. She just caved in because Anurag wanted it. It was unpalatable, unbearable and every thing anti- strong and independent.
She was at her pits with how she begged Anurag to accept her during AnuKom's engagement. No wonder Veena slapped the hell out of her . I was burning with 2nd hand shame with her words and was not even feeling sorry for her when Anurag brutally humiliated her after that. She was basically asking for it. No dignity whatsoever.
What she did during AnuKom track was not just shameless, it was plain wrong. She came to break the home another woman who was properly married . At that time she didn't know Anurag had a deal with Komo and that she was responsible for Rajesh's death. Yet she came to Basu house to break home of another married woman . Being a hindu woman , she must've known clearly that what she and Anurag had was no marriage ( even the Pandit said so later ) but still took this chance and came to bb to fight for patni ka haq and extremely cringeworthy showdown and sindur , mangalsutra, dhaga, doli, arthi talks. Anyone who calls such a woman strong doesn't even know the meaning of strong. The entire track , each single episode was filled with such words or dialogues that made me shut the computer and go out for a walk to clear my head , it was so embarrassing and unbelievable and unbearable. The way MoNiv treated her like she's nothing but a piece of garbage day in day out , no sane girl , forget self respecting girl will stay in such a house where these two are also the two most important women of Anurag's life so it's not like she'll ever get rid of them if she envisions a life with him. Can't imagine a city girl taking all that .Even village girls nowadays have far more dignity , strength and self respect than that.
When Komo trapped Vikrant and her in a LV scandal, she was once again helpless like a statue and basically relying on Anurag to save the day and her izzat.
When she found out that it was probably not an accident that got her father killed all she could do was cry at Anurag's chest and utter headache inducing dialogs of Mein tumhare liye kuch hu bhi ya nehi etc. , instead of at least once going to the police station to talk to them about the investigation on her father's death.
Then when Komolika died she got back with Anurag as if nothing has happened . No discussion . No communication. No pregnancy reveal. Strong and independent indeed !
When Anurag went to jail ,she went to Bajaj , he made a proposal which she accepted and got married to him. See the pattern here ?? Always the easiest, quickest fix. Because she lacks the strength to pursue any remotely difficult path. She could've tried investigating, could've hired a private investigator, could've hired a capable experienced lawyer, after all it was Ronit , not some intelligent mastermind .
But all that needs self agency, resourcefulness and yes strength.
She has none of that.
Even during recent track where Veena was sent to jail , watch how incapable she's in dealing with any problem. Basically always relying on males in her life to take care of her and to get her out of trouble. She couldn't even save her mother by her own self.
God save our country and this world from such independent strong girls. 🙏