कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ Mega Episode /Episode Discussions 01 Sep 2019 - Page 12

I wouldn't call Bajaj creepy because Prerna was giving him mixed signals during the dance . He would have assumed that she would not be having any problem with it. He would have been creepy if he had continued to touch her in spite of her saying No. I also don't think Prerna was wrong in removing his hand from her waist. She was not comfortable with his touch at that point and I don't understand why she should be ok with it just because he happens to be her husband and they had a dance together. Consent is a grey area. She might have lead him on ..they might have had an intimate dance ...even then she has every right to say stop the moment she is not feeling comfortable. The movie Pink handled this topic very well.

Originally posted by: rnegi

Dancing with each is not intimate touching unless you are holding each other very close. Lots of people who just know each other dance.. again when clicking pictures, hand on shoulder and hand on hip is diff. Former is casual and latter an intimate touch which she did not like. So bajaj hand of hip was a deliberate couple pose which he does have a right of as they are not a couple.

The person who treats a relationship like marriage with such cold blooded ness, should keep it like a deal and not try now to act like a real husband.. real husbands marry for love and not when they need a nanny.

Regarding prerna feeling sorry for him in hospital, unfortunately she is a simple girl who is in horrible situation and trying to make the best of it. she is convinced that is forever and thinks there is no going back. She would have felt sorry for anybody and this is her so called husband so any human would. That touch is just a sympathetic touch. Strangers also do it.

yes they had intimate touch. during touch , bajaj touched his waist (just like the pic time) 3 times her waist , 2 times her neck and one time her throat just like a couple dance. if prerna had no problem with the couple dance , then she should not react on pic clicking time where she knows very well bajaj's intention for her.

but yah prerna has full right to react when she felt uncomfy. but again also she should careful to give close signal to her husband for coming closer towards her . he is his husbby, kaise bhi halat pe shadi hui , but they are couple. and prerna khud iyea comfort zone banaya bajaj ke sath . toh koi bhi husband will take this as positivity . no one is saint. no even prerna also . if she had so much problem, she never ever teased bajaj to dance with him . she literally flirted with bajaj on dance floor . i am not regressive , but whom i dont like i never ever give them signal to come closer to me.

and bajaj was simply unintentionally took that comfort zone , that is why posed in couple click . but that not means he is creepy or like naveen babu the way people portraying his image in biasing term . if bajaj had intention then he again would do that touch.

so it is different situation.

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