कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ Mega Episode /Episode Discussions 01 Sep 2019 - Page 11

Originally posted by: awesome

Much needed answer👏

Ye toh vohi baat hu anurag kre toh Ras leela and bajaj kre toh character dheela🤣

Just because bajaj has married prerna, he is still a stranger whose touch she is not comfortable with. So it is a bad touch and is more than a friendly arm around the shoulder. Marriage gives you no right to start touching without permission., especially this marriage which was simply a deal. He has no other marital rights.

Anurag, on the other hand, has been her lover and she has known him for years and moreover she trusts his touch. Relationships and familiarity just don’t just disappear in a jiffy so yes, his touch will never be creepy and bajaj until he earns it, will be.

Originally posted by: rnegi

Just because bajaj has married prerna, he is still a stranger whose touch she is not comfortable with. So it is a bad touch and is without her permission. Marriage gives you no right to start touching without permission., especially this marriage which was simply a deal. He has not other marital rights.

Anurag, on the other hand, has been her lover and she has known him for years and moreover she trusts his touch. Relationships and familiarity just don’t just disappear in a jiffy so yes, his touch will ver be creepy and bajaj until he earns it, will be.

then prerna should never ever touch bajaj during his unconscious time, did she ask permission from bajaj ? she should not gave him permission to dance with her.. she should not tease bajaj today to dance with her.. both the dance was touchy touchy n so close , it was not untouched dance. she literally today flirted with RB... if she could give bajaj signal then why bajaj could not apply his hubby right ? prerna akher chahte keya hai ?

and when prerna removed the hand , bajaj understood the signal , he dint repeat. if that touch made prerna felt so bad then why she was so normal with bajaj after that ?? why she was on thinking that bajaj might be angry with her ? why ? if prerna had so much problem then why she leaned on sleeping bajaj?

there are a lot of questions here also .. it is not about creepiness... it was unintentional touch by bajaj .. cos prerna khud iyea comfort zone bana dia ..

on the other hand , prerna bar bar anurag ko mana kia , not to touch , force na kare .. and on the name of love anurag again and again tried to touch her... then what is this. just becoz once they were in intimate relation , then he gets a free pass to touch her despite prerna's discomfort ?

ek taraf bajaj ko mana karneke bad woh repeat nei kia , aur dusre taraf anurag ko mana karneke badd bhi he again and again pulled her and touched her. i dont want to make comparison. as you mentioned about two character then i have to state the difference

I really enjoyed today's episode thanks to Anurag's funny dance. Him prancing around like a monkey was a nice change to the mopey devdas. It was so cute. I also loved Anupam joining him too.

Oh I want more of these two dancing like that, so funny!

I kind of like Prerna in yellow. Think it suits the actress playing her. Wasn't a fan of her dance with Rishab though.

And this time she was the one chasing Anurag. I hope the dialogue changes but it's her going after him from now on.

I really want Moloy to start speaking again so we find out if Rishab is his son or not.

What is Prerna trying to do?

She wants the whole world know that something is not right in her family life

What is her behaviour with her Ex. It looks like EMA. If she continues this kind of behaviour she would look like some 🤬who is interested in keeping both men

Originally posted by: muktha_cute

What is Prerna trying to do?

She wants the whole world know that something is not right in her family life

What is her behaviour with her Ex. It looks like EMA. If she continues this kind of behaviour she would look like some 🤬who is interested in keeping both men

She is not confused. She will confuse both the men till the end and they will fight like dogs for her but she will only say one thing "main kya karoon"

Originally posted by: rnegi

Just because bajaj has married prerna, he is still a stranger whose touch she is not comfortable with. So it is a bad touch and is without her permission. Marriage gives you no right to start touching without permission., especially this marriage which was simply a deal. He has not other marital rights.

Anurag, on the other hand, has been her lover and she has known him for years and moreover she trusts his touch. Relationships and familiarity just don’t just disappear in a jiffy so yes, his touch will ver be creepy and bajaj until he earns it, will be.

My friend opsora already answered from my point of view as well but still I want to add something, if they have been lover but still this didn’t give anurag license to touch her every time without her consent.

The episode was good , for a change good writing and average acting by parth..for a change good acting by erica , except the crying scene , i couldnt understand a word of what she said ..I knew it.. the moment she will cry "main bechari apna dard kisse kahoon" everyone will go soft on her..and everyone thought she has moved on , She is disgusted with his touch blah blah..long way to go..

.Bajaj prerna dance was good..

Kuki bajaj scene was excellent ..

Anurag prerna scene in garden was good. They were talking sense for a change..why do I feel that anurag MAY be right , may be bajaj is plotting all this , including veena s court case and instigating anurag again ...seems unlikely but it can happen. It can go both ways..either Bajaj will harm anurag and blame will come on bajaj and later bajaj will be proved innocent and pre will have more trust on bajaj than anurag. Or bajaj hurts anurag , Anurag blames bajaj , bajaj is proved innocent but he plotted it all to increase distance between anurag prerna . Shaitan chokdi may be also be involved.

Anurag's dance..enough said. Anupam and he makes an excellent pair..he shares everything with him alone .

Photo scene , didn't look creepy to me because 5 mins Back they were dancing quite intimately and prerna didnt have a problem. This was done to make anurag dance 🤢

Kitchen scene..Anurag ko raat ko roti khana hai🥱 and prerna no roti chai sab banana hai...their normal conversation for a change was good. .

Originally posted by: opsora2090

then prerna should never ever touch bajaj during his unconscious time, did she ask permission from bajaj ? she should not gave him permission to dance with her.. she should not tease bajaj today to dance with her.. both the dance was touchy touchy n so close , it was not untouched dance. she literally today flirted with RB... if she could give bajaj signal then why bajaj could not apply his hubby right ? prerna akher chahte keya hai ?

and when prerna removed the hand , bajaj understood the signal , he dint repeat. if that touch made prerna felt so bad then why she was so normal with bajaj after that ?? why she was on thinking that bajaj might be angry with her ? why ? if prerna had so much problem then why she leaned on sleeping bajaj?

there are a lot of questions here also .. it is not about creepiness... it was unintentional touch by bajaj .. cos prerna khud iyea comfort zone bana dia ..

on the other hand , prerna bar bar anurag ko mana kia , not to touch , force na kare .. and on the name of love anurag again and again tried to touch her... then what is this. just becoz once they were in intimate relation , then he gets a free pass to touch her despite prerna's discomfort ?

ek taraf bajaj ko mana karneke bad woh repeat nei kia , aur dusre taraf anurag ko mana karneke badd bhi he again and again pulled her and touched her. i dont want to make comparison. as you mentioned about two character then i have to state the difference

Dancing with each is not intimate touching unless you are holding each other very close. Lots of people who just know each other dance.. again when clicking pictures, hand on shoulder and hand on hip is diff. Former is casual and latter an intimate touch which she did not like. So bajaj hand of hip was a deliberate couple pose which he does have a right of as they are not a couple.

The person who treats a relationship like marriage with such cold blooded ness, should keep it like a deal and not try now to act like a real husband.. real husbands marry for love and not when they need a nanny.

Regarding prerna feeling sorry for him in hospital, unfortunately she is a simple girl who is in horrible situation and trying to make the best of it. she is convinced that is forever and thinks there is no going back. She would have felt sorry for anybody and this is her so called husband so any human would. That touch is just a sympathetic touch. Strangers also do it.

Originally posted by: rnegi

Dancing with each is not intimate touching unless you are holding each other very close. Lots of people who just know each other dance.. again when clicking pictures, hand on shoulder and hand on hip is diff. Former is casual and latter an intimate touch which she did not like. So bajaj hand of hip was a deliberate couple pose which he does have a right of as they are not a couple.

The person who treats a relationship like marriage with such cold blooded ness, should keep it like a deal and not try now to act like a real husband.. real husbands marry for love and not when they need a nanny.

Regarding prerna feeling sorry for him in hospital, unfortunately she is a simple girl who is in horrible situation and trying to make the best of it. she is convinced that is forever and thinks there is no going back. She would have felt sorry for anybody and this is her so called husband so any human would. That touch is just a sympathetic touch. Strangers also do it.

This.

Real husbands marry for love.

Bajaj is getting possessive over a woman he knows is in love with Anurag and pregnant with Anu's kid.

I think this is going to make him do even more shady stuff with Prerna later on and probably malign her character when he becomes obsessed with her. He will do anything to keep her and Anurag apart.

That whole putting his hand over her hip felt as if he was treating her like his property, it was distasteful but I am glad the writers showcased that Prerna has been true to her word and isn't betraying her love for Anurag by allowing another man to touch her intimately. She said Bajaj only has her loyalty and not a right to her body and soul as that was only Anurag's right. (refer to Zurich episode)

Anyway, you're right about Prerna being a simple girl. It shows in her dress sense too. She and Anurag are both the same, two simple and down to earth people and this is why they are perfect for each other.

Btw, I didn't notice Prerna touching Bajaj, it just showed her touching the floor?

I'm sure she didn't stroke his face and look lovingly at him like she's done with Anurag many times.

Loved anupre scene. I cried to see them together today. Missing them so much