SAFEGUARDING VEENA'S SELF-RESPECT ?????

Kahaan? Kaise? How? Where? When? 😡👎🏼🤢🤔

Hello girls and boys ! I am Mili. My friend, Magizh had instigated me to try this show out😔Not interested. This producer had burnt me really bad with the other show. But, out of curiosity, I watched off and on over the last two weeks and maaannnn😡 I commend all of you guys for your tenacity for putting up with the nonsense being doled out👍🏼 Anyway, if something irritates me, I become prolific and here I am for that reason.

Please know guys, that I don't carry the baggage of all the previous episodes, so if I am saying something that is not right, please excuse me. I understand that those of you who may be watching this from the beginning may be emotionally invested, I apologize in advance if I am offending any one of you. But, Magizh gave me a nutshell in a 8-10 line paragraph. The premise I am coming from is that Anurag and Prerna are a couple and that the Bajaj guy snatched away Prerna to be mommy for his mute daughter. This is so Ewwww...... to me👎🏼. I know there may be more to this story than what I know. But, here I am only focusing on the above uttering😡I really got hopping mad that the lady would use this lame of an excuse to warm up to her perpetrator.

First off, I agree with Bajaaj guy when he says no task is menial. But employing a family member to work for you in a society such as ours is a strict no-no, from my stand point. Not because the work is menial. If for example, I am employed by my sister, I am supposed to be at the same social standing as the other relatives who will be visiting that party. But, I am working in the role of an employee, but not as a family member who is doing the work out of my love and commitment for my family. That perception itself starts with disrespect. Am I not better off working amongst people whom I don't know, rather than being constantly talked about my poverty and therefore my need to work in my sister's party by the other family members? How does that safeguard my self-respect or my pride? 😔For heaven's sake, that lady got chided, ridiculed and messed with by all the family members. Agreed, the Bajaaj guy has no idea that is going to happen, so I am going to cut him the slack for others deeds.

Secondly, that was a very crass gesture by Bajaaj guy to hand Veena some currency notes👎🏼 to give to her boss.😡 Would he have so authoritatively ordered her to take the money, and go over to her boss to hand over the money, if he were treating and respecting her as his MIL? A big, NO, NO. She is a supposedly elderly woman, whom you don't ask to physically strain herself by going up and down the stairs, rather he would have done it himself. Kahaan ki safeguarding of self respect?

Thirdly, does this one party make Veena's life for good? Did he invest 50 L in her account or built a event management company for her and make her life for good, so she doesn't have to work anymore in her lifetime nor does she need to seek employment with anybody else so " she is not in a position of taking money from others which could be demeaning" for people of her age, as said by the Bajaaj guy😡. Really, one measly party order, which probably paid her 3000-5000 rupees if the pay is generous, safeguards one's self respect?🤢Kaise????

The Bajaaj guy and his family themselves are refugees who are living in somebody else's house, how could he have made Veena's life for good ? How he came and occupied somebody else's house is a discussion for another day, another 10 pages of rant from my side. Please don't even get me started on that 😡🤬

The only person who seems to be relateable in this whole mess is Anurag and his pain/confusion👍🏼. I don't know if this guy also has a horrendous back story. Knowing this producer, he might. But, as a snap shot of what I saw in the last 2 weeks, this guy seems to make the most sense to me. That Prerna is a disgrace👎🏼. Please don't give us the cockamamie reasons of warming up to the perpetrator. If she enjoys the push-pull-twirl which is called a dance, or the guy's unintelligible banter or playing mommy to his daughter, please say so🤔. Who says BTW, that showing love and concern for your own daughter makes you the " best dad in the whole wide world"?😲 FYI, that is every dad in this whole world, be it human or animal dad. Just try to handle a lion cub and see what the daddy lion would do😲. Tear you apart to pieces🤗and that is a parental instinct, that doesn't automatically make you the ONE and ONLY😡

Anyway, girls and boys, this may or may not make sense as I have limited knowledge of the characters😕. But, I didn't like how they showed Prerna going all dovey eyed for the Bajaaj guy and the reasons she cited are too stupid and pretentious😡I reject her reasons of giving us the rhetoric of " safe guarding the self respect nonsense" , when there is none that I could see. As you can see, I am one opinionated nut😃Sorry, if I came too strong with this.

Mazigh, yeh lo! Look what you have done to me🤗I don't think this is my cup of tea, my friend. I would prefer to see Anurag kicking some butt 😃 if not, this is a waste of time for me. Have a great rest of the weekend !😃

Mili.. You idhar.. Kkb ka torture bas nahi tha kya..🤣

I want other members from there to join here..😆

So you didnt like bajaj.. Abhi ka copy hai isliye..🤣

Please do watch Anurag since the beginning. Your perception about him might not stay same. 😆

I agree with everything except for one . Bajaj cleared it out that no work is big or small or employing his mil for the decoration work , giving her and her company work so that they earn is actually protecting her self respect. If he would have offered her money , she would feel offended and her insensitive daughter already did that. That's another case that prerna herself doesnt know s of self respect nor s of sensible nor s of sensitive to have offered this deal to her mom , knowing very well she won't accept the money . Bajaj on the other hand did it in a better way , although he had no idea that his mil is being insulted by his family and mohini ..managing an event is not a jhadoo pocha job for which anyone would feel ashamed. Even that , is some.work which is not low , I dont mean to demean any of the workers ..respect for them as they are earning from their hard work.

Veena s family should be ashamed of themselves , her grown up son and daughter couldnt handle their expenses..why cant shivani work ? Why do they taunt prerna when they themselves are useless..people work till the age of 60 or 70 or 80 also and they should according to their age..patthar utana nai not physical work but i am glad veena decided to work and contribute to the family income.

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Mili 🤗😳 Darling 😛😳 how come You watch EK maiyya shows 🤢which never come cup of tea any day

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Hey…this is Surbhi…welcome to the forum…although I respect all your points…I would like to show you things from my perspective once .. so lets move to your first point…hiring an event management company who has one of your relative in it is so normal for me as a person.......you have to organize an event, and you have a dedicated amount of money for that and if a company gets a contract because of you, that helps you in the company. My masi is in an event management company and yes her company does all the events of our family....it is no harm and neither insulting.......she is personally very happy doing it,its like getting the party ready for your own family and even our relatives encourage her so much. She gets more contracts through this as well as nobody can do the kind of tarif a family will do for you. Secondly event management is not a job that you feel insulted with, i could have understand that she might feel insulted if she had come for cleaning the house or cooking even as you claimed about social standing here but she was the incharge there......bajaj wanted her as the incharge. Why cant's someone from bajaj family be an incharge to a party event if he/she is part of event management company. Its weird to think that we wont give the event to a company because our relative in it balki company also expects thing like that if the party is in your family, and budget is there, it should come to their company. Giving someone work is a good thing. Veena wasn’t feeling insulted either, she told maasi with confidence that she is the incharge there. Unfortunately, maasi misbehaved with her but that’s got to do with maasi being evil.

Now coming to the second thing …..bajaj got a call in which Veena’s boss stated that he wanted some money in advance……veena was the first person around who belonged to that company, so bajaj asked her to help…if he had looked for other people even when she was standing there, she must have doubted bajaj of his intentions and would have noticed his behavior …..later when she was given more money in the name of brilliant work, she would have rejected the bonus…thinking bajaj has done this and I won’t take it from him .because she hates bajaj here,for her bajaj is the one who has destroyed her daughter’s life….she would never take his help. That’s the main reason that bajaj dint just directly went and gave the money and said stuff like main “aapka damad hoon, damad bete jaisahota hain” type of things. He doesn’t want to force his relation on veena …he wants her to accept them and he is ready to give time for that. And he actually requested her instead of telling because she was his sasuma and she rejected it with attitude because she was his sasuma, had this been any other party,….could she reject that request as an employee of the company ?....she got that right to reject this request because she was his sasuma and he didn’t force her at all. And regarding being rich…….overtaking someone business means overtaking the company and the accounts associated with it. There are personal accounts too which can have money stored in them.

And now coming to the third thing…I believe you have very less knowledge about event management…you feel an in charge at an even management company gets 3000-4000 for an event ..no it’s a per month salary for them as well like we have in any other jobs…no event manager gets lesser amount than 20,000 if he belong to a registered company and that’s the least I am talking about. A registered company can’t give less than this, its not allowed as per government. Obviously a company who has been organizing events for bajaj and basus is a well reputed one….their salaries can be 50-60k as well and more money is given if they brought big events to company as incentives and this was project of around 10-15 lakhs budget as bajaj family is rich …and another way how was rishab gonna help her was with bonus which Mr. Vyas would have given to her for her amazing work, apart from the regular salary…and bonus can be anything, it depends on the company…I have personally got a bonus of 20,000 once and at that time my salary was only 40,000….so they actually gave me half my salary more as bonus, so yes a company can do things if the employee is good and work can speak…and here company was payed to pay that bonus and that request came from a big client….and they had accepted. And yes some 10,000 or 20,000 addition to her normal salary can solve her issues for a time being. Bajaj was buying time……he also asked prerna to talk to her mother and sort things out, so she can accept them….their rishta.Obviously bajaj can help more after she accepts them.

What prerna liked and what she is thankful for….…prerna has lost her dad recently and her mom has suffered so much because she decided to marry bajaj…(she married bajaj because she had to save Anurag Basu because he has apparently trapped himself in a murder case)…she has hurt her mother in all this so much and as a daughter she is guilty about that. Now after knowing that her mother has to work too at this age and she wasn’t able to help…she became vulnerable….she neither could stop her as she won’t listen nor help her directly. When she saw Mr.bajaj giving her money……she hated that man, she thought he wanted to insult her….she cursed him but when she got to know that bajaj did it to help her and he wanted to help her in such a way that she can be proud that she has settled things herself.This melted her…that’s not what she thought he can think of….and all the girl has said has that she cant hate him…….she feels that she cant hate a person who has tried helping her mother in such a way. What’s wrong in that ? ………..any child will feel that, mother is such a bond. She hasn’t said she loves bajaj….that’s how people are interpreting her ' I cant hate you'. I cant hate you doesn’t automatically means I love you. I dont feel prerna is wrong, she has already married a person whom she even didnt knew before marriage for anurag sake. And now when she is married......toh woh nibhana chahthi hain usse.......what's wrong in that ? ..ab shaadi karke anurag ke saath toh nahi ghoom sakti ...na hi shaadi tod sakti hain kyonki jis shart pe shaadi huyi thi woh poori ho gayi hain...agar dhoka hi dena hota usse bajaj ko toh shaadi karti hi nahi woh, but she is a girl of her words.....her husband isnt torturing her or insulting her day in and out.....she is getting the deserved respect which she has hardly got on this show. So she has no good reason to divorce bajaj as of now.......and now seeing the humanly shades of the monster she married.......she feels good ....usne toh khud ki zindagi aag mein jhoki hi thi......but usse kya pata tha ki uska husband bahuto ki nazro mein acha insan kehlata hain.......yeh toh kismat hain.

Good to know...... how a 3rd person can see the Atrocities of the current track and whole set up .

Glad a complete stranger can see, feel and relate/ unrelate what the makers can't see through...loved ur post...

Apt post... when fandoms talk, it like watchibg thru coloured lenses but a neutral post on the happening. U related it too well 👍🏼

Thanks for posting this as you are neutral viewer.

And my condolences that you watched this show at it's downfall. The first 200 episodes were worth watching but won't recommend you to catch up as it's pointless.

We are also switching shows now.