My two cents on Anurag! - Page 2

Originally posted by: najma123

Since you mentioned positive shade, I'll just address that. He's white shaded or positive or whatever the term is, in reality no one is fully white or black or fully grey too. There are hues of everything in everyone. But in stories, we do have positive characters, negative ones, Grey ones. And positive ones represent goodness, and when they err, it isn't easy to brush it off, coz they are not supposed to err in the first place. Because, in a story, this positive character represents goodness. They can go through heartbreaks but they are still supposed to be good through that. See Prerna. I don't see one God saving logic in that character, but she's a good character. Which is why she lies to him, even though, any erring human, would at least feel hurt that after ruining her own life for the dude, he slaps her based on her words.

When the bars are set so high, anything below that looks unacceptable.

Ekta has given a very strange stereotypical definition of white, black, grey while we have mythology that has shown the good characters err & even do blunders at times & still stand respected at the end of the story.

AnuPre with high bar characterization were supposed to disappoint with revealition of their dark sides & shortcomings, that's a pattern consistent for all white characters in the world. Makers fault was their repeated iteration on how Ram like Anu is when even Ram's actions remain debated in modern times. All these characters should have been established as fundamentally flawed instead of such raised bar characterization.

Originally posted by: Madhu_Scarlet

So there are two acts of Bajaj, can you guarantee that you would like both of them? Just coz you didn’t like one, will that stop you from defending the other act? I hope no right! No where I defended the slap.

You actually did once I get some sleep I will show you how and when

Originally posted by: kalank

You actually did once I get some sleep I will show you how and when

Okay! Have a good night!

Originally posted by: Madhu_Scarlet

Umm i hope it isn’t sarcastic 🤗

No no, not at all😆

👍🏼👍🏼

Same to same.

To think Rationally he needs some more time i guess to understand because heart breaks dont allow you to.

Still it would be better later if he himself realise rather any one making him realise 😳

Originally posted by: Madhu_Scarlet

I’ve been watching the show and the posts and I’d like to share my view also.

Anurag is good - Yes! I love him absolutely. Is he positive white shaded character - Yep ! Can he make mistakes? Of course, to err is human. Is he justified- No!

I will not justify Anurag slapping Prerna with any reason this earth, be Prerna slapping him before, Bajaj playing with Prerna’s emotions so on and so forth. No matter what he is wrong, he shouldn’t have raised hand against Prerna ( I don’t support Women hitting men as well). Especially when there was nothing else he was to be blamed for. I will not buy the fact that, he did the same with Komo, so he should have understood. Did Prerna understand that? I’m assuming she was the one who started this brilliant idea of marrying someone to save the house, life or anything as a matter of fact of your loved one? She couldn’t understand Anurag in Komo track and Anurag isn’t able to understand now. Because that’s exactly what a heartbreak does to you, you stop thinking straight, you go in defensive or aggressive mode. I cannot blame Anurag here, he just had a massive heartbreak and we are expecting him to understand? Also Prerna did insult their love, Rajesh was mistreated by Mohini and not Anurag or his father, if she was so good, she should have spoke up then and not today. But we can understand that Prerna did all this for Anurag, but should he understand? No, it’s perfectly okay.

So for me, Anurag’s pain, anger , ego everything is justified except his slap.

you are justifying his violence against prerna

I supported anurag first but then slap happen. After this according to me he is coward who has no control over himself. Life is not always fruitful for us but does not mean if things don’t go as per your wish you start doing physical violence.

Originally posted by: kalank

you are justifying his violence against prerna

If you read it right, I have pointed two things that one can go either in defensive or aggressive mode. I never said going is aggressive mode is the right thing to do. And that aggression could be directed towards anybody. In daily life we see how people turn after love failures. Doesn’t mean all they do is right

Originally posted by: Madhu_Scarlet

If you read it right, I have pointed two things that one can go either in defensive or aggressive mode. I never said going is aggressive mode is the right thing to do. And that aggression could be directed towards anybody. In daily life we see how people turn after love failures. Doesn’t mean all they do is right

It still seems like a defence to me, I don’t see why suddenly Anurag needs a psychoanalysis and why can’t he just simply be bashed, like all the other characters of kzk have been in the past! Violence against women is no joke! Anyway it’s fine! Peace!

I may not agree with everything you said but I liked your post! Unbiased. People keep giving justification as to why Anurag slapped pre but the truth is there is no reasoning. He was wrong. Period. U cannot go around slapping people because you have been jilted.

Rest, I agree. His anger , sadness, pain everything is justified except his slap.