Debate Contest, Topic #1!! closed! - Page 5

Originally posted by: ruchi shah

i think anu has a jumpin mind... y cant he just go out of rish's life....?????

Oh yeah who is chill DEAR OUR ANU IS CHILL, cant u see him in fire these days, ohh the POOR MAn who needs to be chill is bajaj, 😭😭 he needs to be relaxs and calm down yaar, itna dukhi dekh ker ab sehen nahi hota 😆😆

Okay Is he cautious or SCARED?

I mean why cant he just for a second trust OMI AND SNEHA LOVE, why he has to just see things by THE WAY ANAITA IS showing him?

No doubt, I feel jab pyaar kia toh derna kia 😉 U guys never know sneha k saath kya ho if she leaves omi, as the way i have conclude sneha character, i realize she has a very sensitive heart, if she can be this time FAIL IN THIS LOVE, never know what gonna happen with her

Originally posted by: psawyer

And as for Prem and mukti - YES, he eventually realised his love for her. But Mukti did NOT choose Prem over her parents - she could have said to Prerna long before the wedding day that she loved and wanted to be with Prem - but she chose her choti ma because she knew that Prem had hurt her a lot and it was because of him that PRB had been separated. Even Prem was willing to sacrifice his love to get Bajaj back. And Omi - EVEN Omi refused to compromise or insult his parvarish from Anaita by living as a ghar jamai. Anaita is not his real mother, yet he honoured her; Prerna was not Mukti's real mother, but Mukti honoured HER parvarish; Bajaj was not Prem's real dad but he honoured the man and wanted to find him. Sneha is so far the only "LOVER" who has insulted her parents in the name of love - first going against her mom in the Sharad case, and now insulting Bajaj's parvarish and upbringing by running off to her other dad and getting him to do what she wants. If and when the time comes to choose between parvarish/mamta and love, who will Omi and Sneha choose? Omi, probably Anaita; and Sneha??

Vasu honestly tell me onething, I just completely remember the every dicussion we did during PM TRACK, were u not used to SAY OHH GOD THIS prerna, seh can see prem love in mukti eyes but mukti is still scare of her choti maa, we all used to abuse prerna na that she cannot understand mukti loves whom!! then IF mukti used to pretend all, does it mean she didnt loved prem??

so u wanted sneha to just respect bajaj decision and lost her love in the way, i feel she can lead a much better life with the support of omi!

YES, I said that on the part of Prera, but I still respected MUKTI's decision to listen to her mother - two entirely different things Maddy...as viewers and fans, naturally we want our fave jodis together, but that doesn't mean we can't see what's right and wrong...

But vasu if mukti could have end up agreeing to her choti maa decison, what could be the result, okay as a viewer it must be a dissapointment as we wants the fav jodi to be reunite, but COULD IT BE THE BEST decision on mukti's part. I dont think..even if u see mukti character, she used to say only I can look forward to marry someone else but prem was my first love and I will always wait for him till my entire life..

and when she got such opportuinty so unfortunately she was abide by her choti ma decision!

Mutki and prem were made for eachother, they had to reunite, prerna SHART was very wrong!

YES - Prerna's shart WAS wrong, but she did it for a reason - she had NO reason to trust Prem. He let her go to jail, threw her husband out of his house - her kids were forced to rely on charity from the Basus because of him - so why should Prerna have believed him when he said that he loved Mukti? And even if he did, could he have taken back what he did? EVERYONE on the forum at the time had said that Prem did not deserve to be forgiven until he made up for his mistakes, which he did by taking Mukti back to the mandap.

Similarly, why should anyone believe that Anaita has changed? Omi may have proven himself, but Anaita hasn't - she is still smarting from whatever revenge she needs to take.

And you guys keep saying that true love conquers all and can withstand anything - what happened to Anu-Prerna then? they were madly in love with each other, right? But Bajaj came in between them and they split up - so why can't it be possible that Anaita can also come in between OS? After all, Anaita is more "sagi" to Omi than Bajaj was at the time of AP's marriage to Prerna. What if she cooks up some crooked "evidence" of Sneha's bad behaviour and feeds it to Omi? Will "true love" conquer all then?

Is it not at least worth THINKING about - slowing down the whole marriage process to digest the fact that Anaita can prove to be a thorn in the rose? Shouldn't all three of Sneha's parents figure out a way to avoid breaking Sneha's heart again, this time knowingly? Why take out personal dushmani using Sneha?

Originally posted by: psawyer

YES - Prerna's shart WAS wrong, but she did it for a reason - she had NO reason to trust Prem. He let her go to jail, threw her husband out of his house - her kids were forced to rely on charity from the Basus because of him - so why should Prerna have believed him when he said that he loved Mukti? And even if he did, could he have taken back what he did? EVERYONE on the forum at the time had said that Prem did not deserve to be forgiven until he made up for his mistakes, which he did by taking Mukti back to the mandap.

Similarly, why should anyone believe that Anaita has changed? Omi may have proven himself, but Anaita hasn't - she is still smarting from whatever revenge she needs to take.

And you guys keep saying that true love conquers all and can withstand anything - what happened to Anu-Prerna then? they were madly in love with each other, right? But Bajaj came in between them and they split up - so why can't it be possible that Anaita can also come in between OS? After all, Anaita is more "sagi" to Omi than Bajaj was at the time of AP's marriage to Prerna. What if she cooks up some crooked "evidence" of Sneha's bad behaviour and feeds it to Omi? Will "true love" conquer all then?

Is it not at least worth THINKING about - slowing down the whole marriage process to digest the fact that Anaita can prove to be a thorn in the rose? Shouldn't all three of Sneha's parents figure out a way to avoid breaking Sneha's heart again, this time knowingly? Why take out personal dushmani using Sneha?

Actually Vasu no one is using personal dushmani, even when Anu and bajaj are not together they still respect eachother, the only thing which makes anurag fired is prerna comparision in between anurag and bajaj as a father otherwise u must had noticed in the last episdoe that both showed some respect for eachother.

Yup Anu prerna split up as bajaj's few secrets were completely overshadowed in the serial, (Ekta knows for what reason kzk team didnt reveal bajaj secrets in separating AP) AP are now just friends and still have alot respect for eachother, they are the first one to know about eachother pain. The reason AP lovestory was left behind in the serial is of Bajaj true love for prerna, Yes he improoved alot, he did sneha upbringing, supported prerna that time, he became a totally positive man from that negative man. I think APB love triangle is completely different from Omi sneha lovestory, bajaj was a rival in between AP but omi sneha loves eachother, there is only a vamp anaita who wants to create misunderstandings between them (But I feel she wants to create rifts between bajaj and anurag family and thats what she is upto these days)

Anaita has a problem with bajaj and prerna, her purpose is to create rifts between anu and bajaj by the use of sneha, her purpose is not to create differences between omi sneha.

And yes they shouldnot rush towards the marriage like this but there is nothing wrong if it takes place. it can happen late but according to me it should happen in near time.

If sneha takes a decision to leave omi just becoz bajaj is scare or cautious, will they be able to convince sneha for another marriage or will they say her to choose another life partner?

I feeel if she somehow agrees to bajaj decision, she will completely lost the faith on love and probably she never looks frwd to love someone. 😊

Originally posted by: madiha_17

Actually Vasu no one is using personal dushmani, even when Anu and bajaj are not together they still respect eachother, the only thing which makes anurag fired is prerna comparision in between anurag and bajaj as a father otherwise u must had noticed in the last episdoe that both showed some respect for eachother.

Yup Anu prerna split up as bajaj's few secrets were completely overshadowed in the serial, (Ekta knows for what reason kzk team didnt reveal bajaj secrets in separating AP) AP are now just friends and still have alot respect for eachother, they are the first one to know about eachother pain. The reason AP lovestory was left behind in the serial is of Bajaj true love for prerna, Yes he improoved alot, he did sneha upbringing, supported prerna that time, he became a totally positive man from that negative man. I think APB love triangle is completely different from Omi sneha lovestory, bajaj was a rival in between AP but omi sneha loves eachother, there is only a vamp anaita who wants to create misunderstandings between them (But I feel she wants to create rifts between bajaj and anurag family and thats what she is upto these days)

Anaita has a problem with bajaj and prerna, her purpose is to create rifts between anu and bajaj by the use of sneha, her purpose is not to create differences between omi sneha.

And yes they shouldnot rush towards the marriage like this but there is nothing wrong if it takes place. it can happen late but according to me it should happen in near time.

If sneha takes a decision to leave omi just becoz bajaj is scare or cautious, will they be able to convince sneha for another marriage or will they say her to choose another life partner?

I feeel if she somehow agrees to bajaj decision, she will completely lost the faith on love and probably she never looks frwd to love someone. 😊

The bits in bold are the bits I want to counter. Anaita wants to destroy the whole Bajaj-Basu family relationship - she will use Sneha for that, just as Aparna and Komo used Prem. In the end who lost out? APB AND their son Prem. Similarly, will Sneha ever remain happy if her parents (all three of them) are constantly fighting because of her mother-in-law? Will Anaita spare Sneha? She will use Sneha as a pawn and throw her away at the end of it. And she knows, that in Sneha, lies APB's jaan - so she will destroy her to destroy the. She will not spare her because she is Omi's wife.

Also, Bajaj has never said to Sneha that he is AGAINST the marriage - he asked her to trust him; to trust that he will do the right thing by her and try to give her happiness - all she needs to do is give it time. She needs to let her parents be parents and find a way to give her happiness. That's all - she will not suffer if she waits a little while longer to get married. He has not stopped her from loving or seeing Omi - he has just asked for a bit of faith.

The red part, I agree with. I also think that OS should marry, but rushing the way they are will only lead to problems later...nothing should be done in haste - any decision made in haste, anger, revenge, etc etc will inevitably be wrong, no doubt about it. Only by thinking things through with a calm state of mind can such important and life-altering decisions be made: this is not child's play. It's like Anu is behaving like the archetypal "absentee father" - the person who has never been around their child, and feeling guilty for this, tries to buy their child's love with sweets, candy or toys. I am NOT dounting Anu's love for Sneha - and I am not saying that he is "buying" her love - what I am saying, is that, to make up for his (for whatever reasons) absence as a father for tha past 20 years, he is indulging her w/o thinking it through - he needs to take one step back and think carefully - OS DO love each other, but how can he, as Sneha's "janamdata" (a term that has been treated with disgust on the forum!) ensure that her happiness is not momentary? And one final thing - even if he IS disrespecting Bajaj's right as a father (which he should not do), Sneha only has ONE mother - but even she was not consulted/informed about the shagun. What is that about? Anu is NOT Sneha's only parent - at the very least, Sneha's mother deserves to be included in her daughter's life.

Two wrongs don't make a right - Bajaj may have angered Anu in the office; Prerna may have insulted him and his haq as a father, but that doesn't mean that Anu should retaliate by taking away a mother and a father's right to even be INFORMED....this is not a game of tit-for-tat: it is someone's LIFE. Whatever their differences, these three people have in common and are bound by their love for Sneha, and for her sake, they need to work together to come up with the right solution.

this debate is getting so boring, we as bajajians are using new things to debate, but the anuians r just using the same old OS love each other stuff, which is okay!!
let's continue to use that to defend anurag!! 😉

Originally posted by: Garv_Kumud_4eva

this debate is getting so boring, we as bajajians are using new things to debate, but the anuians r just using the same old OS love each other stuff, which is okay!!
let's continue to use that to defend anurag!! 😉

yooooo!!!

i thnk bajajians arent aware of his so cald jalkukrad persnality

u wnt new things aye,

ok...i think bajaj is loosing it these days,u noe vat i thnk he's jealous dat sneha is getting married to omi ,because he can never c 2 love birds together,let it be his own child or smeone else,dats the reason he tuk so much time to accept doris-he's just jealous in every reason

now was dat smethin new sammie

dnt mess with anuians bajadenge sab ke😉