would YOU go bk to JW?

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hey

I find it amazing how Bani will take all the Kachrampati wrds JWs throws at her.. then later on Jai and Bani re-marry again for the Nth time..

Why would you put ur self thru the torure? 😕

I personally wouldnt go bk to JW, now matter how 'strong' the 'love' is.. He claims to love Bani, but theres some sort of problemo with his definition.. cuz he doesnt trust her [when he says he does!] he doesnt communicate with her, doesnt really act like hubby/wifey 😕

then when one thing goes the other way.. Jai Walia declares hes died and another JW has risen [changing your stylist is the new JW btw 😆] he kicks Bani out.. doesnt listen to her side.. and the cycle starts again...

Why would you put ur life thru that? its beyond me 😆 I dont see anything massively great with Jai Walia [not even wealth.. he has it all.. yet has npthing at the same time!] ... hes not a man you would go bk to..

Well only my opinion 😊

Henna x

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i don't think i would go back ... coz without trust and understanding a relationship can't surviev...whereas maybe without love it can....coz at the beginning there were trust and understanding in jb's relationship but no love....but when they started loving each other everything messed up.... 😆

and now that jai got married second time i don't think even bani would like to go back to him... 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: tam2

i don't think i would go back ... coz without trust and understanding a relationship can't surviev...whereas maybe without love it can....coz at the beginning there were trust and understanding in jb's relationship but no love....but when they started loving each other everything messed up.... 😆 ah! thats a nice way of puttin it.. [not cuz im anti love or anything 😆] i think Love never really happened alongside the trust.. once the love started to happen.. the trust faded away slowly

and now that jai got married second time i don't think even bani would like to go back to him... 😕 haha! if she does.. why o why 😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Henna ben,

If I were bani, then JW would be a dead man, so how can i go to him when he is dead 😆

Regards

Basanthi😉

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Posted: 17 years ago
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i wouldnt go back!!!!

cuz i mean

how many times

i would say

give the man only and i mean only 1 chance

if he screws up afterwards

then sorry!!

adios!!!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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12 or so years of marriage... countless misunderstandng, verbal abuse etc etc. No trust in their relationship...

I wouldn't go back.. Not after the way he's insulted and thrown her out, questions her character, refuses to belive her... nothing in that relationship...

Bani should move on... Bring in a new entry! 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Anju,

Nice idea, kill him off.. he wernt far off anyway 🤣 only messing..

with JW i dnt understand the facination perhaps.. 😆

Guli,

so tru, twice never thrice 😉 give him a break 2 times then thats it..

There are plenty of single mothers out there.. Bani would survive, plus she has Mausi, the single mother herself with her.. she cant go wrong. well you hope 😆
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Posted: 17 years ago
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No I wouldn't go back to Jai Walia...
Because when two persons are sharing a realationship they should trust, support and love each other..without trust there is no relation..and this happend not once..

And now he is marry with Meera..No I wouldn't go back to him..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Henna 786

, plus she has Mausi, the single mother herself with her.. she cant go wrong. well you hope 😆

Mausi?😲 The woman who thinks it's great to keep the truth away from JW?😕 NOT let him know ANYTHING....

I would have dumped Mausi loooong back!😆

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Hennu chellam 😃,

You see first a fall, its not as if JW is dhoodh kaa dula, god only knows how many woman are behind him, and he even has a child outside marriage, and then he is quoting bani all the rules, i mean What double standards. If being in love means being abused, then I rather not be abused. He hit her pushed her told her bad words and then now he dare to question her and wants revenge, 😡. I do think Jai and Bani might love each other forev er, but it doesnot mean they have to be together, they still can have a healthy relationship not being together or married to one another. And he is even married now to meera, they are cohibiting as man and wife i guess 😉

THe problem is that the way they started a relationship is wrong and after than everything went wrong, even if bani wants to go back, i guess she should go back to him after a very long time maybe 5 yrs minimum from now, 😉

Well I dont know if there is any point after that , sorry no offence since ppl were talking about ons, garden and blooming, it just came out 😆

Regards

Basanthi

Edited by basanthi - 17 years ago

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