Originally posted by: basanthi
I have ?s for all of you and Lord Mangeswar
Is it ok to be abused on the name of love? NOt once but many times, if the creation around you doesnot want u to stay together and always come up with ways to seperate them, dont you think they should take the hint and live seperately ?
Greetings Basanthi Devi.
As you know, apun ko zindagi mein pyaar vyaar se koi lena dena nahi hai... and so I'm probably not the best person to ask these questions to. However, what I will say that it's NEVER ok to be abused in the name of anything - let alone the love stuff! So repeated abuse is definitely out of the question.
I've never been sure how the love stuff works, but if Walia-Bani is really what pyaar is all about, then I pray that in all my future lives, God makes me remain a brahmachaari just like I'm staying in this life. Here is the point where people may want to shell me for saying this... but I'll say it anyway - if the love stuff gives anyone a free ticket to abuse each other's trust by constantly lying, and then getting away with things, then I have to say that the love stuff is complete and utter bakwaas - bakwaas in it's purest form. If the love stuff means that people are free to commit nasty sins and then simply be forgiven, and in effect get away with blatent wrong doings, then yeah, the pyaar stuff is first rate bakwaas in my eyes.
It just goes against my simple belief that abuse like that is unacceptable. So if the pyaar stuff does allow abuse (decepetion is abuse of trust), then seriously, as I've mentioned above, I don't want anything to do with it at all in any of my future lives.
The other part of the question, I'd say that if people want to stay together, well and good... in fact I think it's a good thing. However, I think that all the on-off stuff is pathetic. I personally prefer one or the other - either stay together or split. In each case, it should be upto the couple, rather than the rest of the world ๐
And that's enough of Lord Mangeshwar's bhaashan of the day ๐
God bless.
Edited by RaviMalhotra69 - 17 years ago