Final Warning - Page 4

Originally posted by: ziddi

Everyone has there own right to express their opinion's on the show and characters. Name calling such has pervert is not welcome. I have been a part of I-F forum for three years but i have not seen forum feel insecure or go crazy because of an third angle. I was in TD and Sinndoor Forum nothing like this has happened. Members did not go criticizing other characters.

This forum is not becoming a friendly forum members are scared to mention that they like AD and Druga jodi because groups might come and attack them, so they are scared to post a comment because they will be ganged up by groups.

Some members have been a part of i-f for 2-3 and they also some times feel un welcomed and are scared to make a post.

In deep down we all know its harsh reality ks forum does not accept knew members who does not love the JB pairing or loves the AD/Druga pairing.

Ks forum should be made welcome to all the new members and all the fans whether you are RR or Rk fan. Groups should not ignore any post or members and reply to each of them equally. We should respect each other opinion.

But mamta that is the reality of the forum. It was really hard being a JW fan on this forum after oct 4th happened. Any post abotu JW was just butchering him. Similarly it's hard being a Pia fan on thsi forum. That's just because how the character is percieved. We are welcoming to all members, and I personally have had chats with AD fans about liking Bajaj and stuff but I can respect their opinons about AD and AD-B, but still no agree with it and give an opposing view. That does not mean I am not being welcoming. Welcoming does not mean I have to agree if I have a diff view.

Originally posted by: m3ghna

But mamta that is the reality of the forum. It was really hard being a JW fan on this forum after oct 4th happened. Any post abotu JW was just butchering him. Similarly it's hard being a Pia fan on thsi forum. That's just because how the character is percieved. We are welcoming to all members, and I personally have had chats with AD fans about liking Bajaj and stuff but I can respect their opinons about AD and AD-B, but still no agree with it and give an opposing view. That does not mean I am not being welcoming. Welcoming does not mean I have to agree if I have a diff view.

oye...u forgot being Bani fan when they show JW crying or when they make her mouth some random dialogues...lol

Rivs

Originally posted by: rivya

oye...u forgot being Bani fan when they show JW crying or when they make her mouth some random dialogues...lol

Rivs

Sorry Rivs,

Being a Bani fan, especially with us munna campers when Bani mouths dialouges like "Mr Walia ne wahi galti ki jo Pia ne ki".

Happy rivs.

meghna

I totally agree with Rivs here...

For the past few days the forum is not what it used to be.

Character bashing/critising has always happened in the forum. All the characters have names. No character was left without being bashed and that includes Jai and Bani. Even Tony, the poor employee traitor was bashed. 😉 Bani was bashed a lottttt but no one had any problem with that till date. Now AD is bashed and suddenly everything seems to have blown out of proportion.

But for the past few, anything said about AD, things take a wrong turn. As long as we agree, everything is alright but once we disagree everything goes wrong. If we disagree, we are generalized that JB despos are insecure and biased. And also, many who say that they like AD-DDG together dont say it to the point, instead it is always how AD looks better than JW and hence Bani should be with him. Well, if such comparison are made than I don't expect any good from that post. 😕

This forum was always about intelligent discussions and now it seems like if we make any discussion about AD, we are inviting trouble. Now a days I am stopping myself from commenting on AD's actions.

Also, we should differentiate between actors and characters. We should not judge the actors from what we see them on screen. Actors should not be critised aswe dont know them at all. Be it calling RK fat or RR old or PD disinterested is totally wrong.

Lets respect each other and express our views without hurting others.

Cheers,
Meena

Originally posted by: Je_aime

I totally agree with Rivs here...

For the past few days the forum is not what it used to be.

Character bashing/critising has always happened in the forum. All the characters have names. No character was left without being bashed and that includes Jai and Bani. Even Tony, the poor employee traitor was bashed. 😉 Bani was bashed a lottttt but no one had any problem with that till date. Now AD is bashed and suddenly everything seems to have blown out of proportion.

But for the past few, anything said about AD, things take a wrong turn. As long as we agree, everything is alright but once we disagree everything goes wrong. If we disagree, we are generalized that JB despos are insecure and biased. And also, many who say that they like AD-DDG together dont say it to the point, instead it is always how AD looks better than JW and hence Bani should be with him. Well, if such comparison are made than I don't expect any good from that post. 😕

This forum was always about intelligent discussions and now it seems like if we make any discussion about AD, we are inviting trouble. Now a days I am stopping myself from commenting on AD's actions.

Also, we should differentiate between actors and characters. We should not judge the actors from what we see them on screen. Actors should not be critised aswe dont know them at all. Be it calling RK fat or RR old or PD disinterested is totally wrong.

Lets respect each other and express our views without hurting others.

Cheers,
Meena

Meena,

According to several posts today we have "Raped" 'AD on this KS forum. It's funny in almost every thread people call JW brainless, wimp, etc etc. That's absolutely ok, but as soon as we so much as start to say anything about AD, it is a full out war and JB fans are attackers and obssesive. I am feeling really hurt and insulted today. Feels like a place where I have spent hours happily arguing before has become a place where I am considered disrespectful and obssesive.

Meghna

Originally posted by: m3ghna

Meena,

According to several posts today we have "Raped" 'AD on this KS forum. It's funny in almost every thread people call JW brainless, wimp, etc etc. That's absolutely ok, but as soon as we so much as start to say anything about AD, it is a full out war and JB fans are attackers and obssesive. I am feeling really hurt and insulted today. Feels like a place where I have spent hours happily arguing before has become a place where I am considered disrespectful and obssesive.

Meghna

Awww Megs Dont feel bad babes🤗...Lets stick to our Munna and Munni...We shall close our eyes regarding AD. I am learning to do that...Do you want lessons from me?😉😆😆...Cheer up dear...

Well, I saw such posts too...I badly wanted to comment on AD going to my Bani's room and also wanted to comment on his MIL...Well, I stopped myself from doing so cos I dont want be called a "rapist"😉😆😆.. I wonder how ppl would have reacted to JW entering ( his daugther like Sali ) Rano's bedroom in the night to show his hurt and vulnerability of being blackmailed by Pia once again?😕

Originally posted by: laal_mirch

Meenu kutti,

yeppadi erukai. Now now meenu not fair😭... you guys did the same thing to lot of us a while ago when we were minorities.. Looks like AD lovers list increasing.. ...

Reg

Anju

Anju'kka, if you have noticed, i said both sides are wrong in there own ways😛...I dont support name calling and i dont call names either unless they irritate me to no extend. I always call AD as AD and even Pia as Pia...😛 Well, I have my problems with AD due to his actions and characteristic and If I say that some AD fans have to generalise me saying that i a JB fan hence I dont like AD. I have myself encountered that before.

But you know, we should be fair - tell me if i am wrong...Except for few AD fans most of the others only look at the looks of AD and support him...Well, if supporting an character is all about talking about looks, then I dont think I would not have any need to support Bani at all right? If they support whatever they say with facts, I am okay. I have discussed with such members like Abha, Raji and Bravie before but most of the others dont make their point with facts that is shown in the show. It is always about how hot AD looks. I want intelligent discussion...Am I wrong in demanding for that?😕

Maybe I am confused here....but this post was about not bashing actors or individuals...right?

If abrasive or rude language is used here itself, wouldn't it just start the very thing we are trying to avoid?😕

Rivs

Originally posted by: laal_mirch

can you elaborate?

Darling there is nothing to elaborate...

But since u asked, say if the two of ur are swimming in the sea and I am drowning, the solution is not to push u down so that I can use that in order to thurst myself up and get some breath. Coz in return, you will do the same to me. Chances are in the end, we shall both drown.

Similarly in order to resolve rude/abravise posts, bashing etc. we cannot be using the exact same tactic to make our point. We should rather try to be more reasonable and if possible tactful.

Rivs

Originally posted by: laal_mirch

oh I see,

Hmm well I hope it applies for ppl who first a fall started it.

Reg

Anju

well i know its kind of off topic, but apparently explianations for being dragged into this post are also abusive or abrasive.

Did I point my fingers at anyone? Anju...if u want to take it upto urself or twist my words...sure u may do that, but dont accuse me of something I did not do.

Rivs