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Posted: 18 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: majumdar

Meena,

(Bani forgiving just shows her basic characteristic.)

My grouse against Bani forgiving is basically related to the fact that it is poor Munna who gets the roughest end of the stick. She never forgave him for the PR raaz nor would have forgiven him for the ONS raaz had she not found out that JW had been drugged. But she readily forgives everyone else.

Rgds,

Pri


Pri, I think Bani did forgive Jai during PR raaz, if not she wouldn't have done so many things for him. But, she was just not ready to accept the fact that she forgave him, to herself as well as to Jai.😕😃

As of ONS, Bani was also affected pri, not only Jai. She was shocked and she was slowing get out of it. You dont expect her to go and forgive him next day itself right? Besides, I don't think it was really Jai sleeping with Pia that shook Bani. It was Jai accepting Pia's child as "his child" was the main hurt. She felt betrayed as Jai always told that he only needs Bani and not the child but there he was screaming for "his child". So, knowing Jai being drugged and him sleeping with Pia cos of the drug effect is not a main thing Bani needed to forgive Jai.😊

All Bani needed to forgive Jai was the reassurance that Jai still loved her and he did not have anything to do with Pia. So, Bani already started to forgiving Jai from his reassurances and again those reassurances came from Jai boldly and mostly after him being cleared from ONS. I think the drugging thing was brought more for Jai to forgive himself than Bani forgiving him. So, even if the Jai was not proved to be drugged, Bani would have forgiven him after some time.😊

Besides, I still think Bani has not forgiving Pia. It still takes time unless the dumb creatives want to make mahaan out of Bani.😡

Seriously pri, I so love Bani and even Jai and they are such beautiful characters but creatives are not doing full justice to them especially Bani. That brings me to your FF.😉😆😆 Your writing is great and you are doing full justice to Jai and i know you would do the same for the rest. Great going pri😃

Edited by Je_aime - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Don't know who I should be more angry with. Jigs for forcing a so-called widow's lifestyle on Rano or calling her and her kid manhoos in these times. Or on the bystanders who were just quietly looking on. I can still understand Jigs being mentally unbalanced having lost her son or Ranveer and Rashi being youngsters and keeping quiet. But what about Adi and Dadi - where did their good feelings for their bahu vanish? What was Bani, who is so fond of babysitting her sisters, doing? And what about St. Billo where was that Maa Kali who had performed a shradh on her own son and thrown him out of his own house. Sure this woman knows who it is safe to take pangas with.

***That's y they are called GFN's 😡

Finally it was left to our LION KING to retrieve the situation and show Jigs the mirror. Somewhat disappointed that he did it rather politely and not give her an outright firing – raging bull style- like Meg suggested in her post yesterday. Seems that the Tigress of Unchagaon has defanged our LION KING permanently. Or maybe I am just being unfair- a pooja is not the occasion to be blasting someone. And to be fair he did call Jigs "gawar", which can hardly be pleasing to a so-called society lady.
***I think he need not be in Raging bull avatar everytime, it made Jigs shut her mouth and when in softer tone he can make her speechless, then his raging would hv scared her to death 😉

The leaking tap of WM, Mrs. Rashi Baali is the latest brand ambassador of De Beers, poor Cecil Rhodes must be turning in his grave. But full marks to Ranveer, he is following on his pujya mamaji's footsteps. And if I remember correct he was in black.
***He is too good husband material! But Raashi less sais the better

Then to our beloved duo. First the bad news, Krishna leaving Bani in her dreams, does this mean that a sordid babyswitching saga is going to be imposed on us? Nor did Bani's thoughts on seeing Pia in the hospital give me any comfort. She did the right thing by offering money for her treatment, she is a tycoon and ought to be paying for the treatment of a less fortunate sister but " woh mere dil ke kareeb hai" and "meri behen hai" sadly seems to suggest a reversion to her Amma avatar. She has of course the right to forgive her sister for what she has done to her but should she forgive her for what she has done to her hubby?
***I think Krishna leaving was shown only to make Bani reveal her feelings and nothing else! And as far as she forgiving Pia is concerned, its completely disgusting, how can she?? 😡 I hope Ekta doesnt show this scenario and make Bani mahaan again 😡

Now for the good part. In the temple, she had accepted that the baby is both hers and JW's but today she spent a step further calling Krishna "hamare pyar ki nishani" although she did blush after that. Party time, folks. Btw, are JW and Bani sleeping in the same room?
***I think JW said tum apne kamrein mein jaaon mein aataoon! I think they share the same room (when they had no relationship they did, so why will they not now?) But I m sure they are not that close though 😉

Rano is the latest one to do the vanishing act. But don't worry I am sure LION KING will bring her back to WM and give Jigs the blasting that Meg was praying for.

***Hope to see that
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Pri, I think Bani did forgive Jai during PR raaz, if not she wouldn't have done so many things for him. But, she was just not ready to accept the fact that she forgave him, to herself as well as to Jai.
***She didnt forgive Jai and that was the reason she couldnt accept him and as far as she did so many things, that's because she loved him and she herself had confessed that she cannot forgive him as it would like cheating her parents if she did so!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Pri
I seem to agree with Ap regarding the Krishna scene. It seemed to me that the child was rather pissed at her mother for asking her how she liked the name her papa had chosen for her when mama and papa are not together what does it matter. She was clearly showing her anger and dissappointment to Bani. I think this dream should push JB together to the next level of their relationship.
With regards to the rest of the family not uttering a word, got me pissed too but I guess they can only be expected to react when creatives give them the dialogues to enact. The entire scene was set up for JW. He is the stand-in father for Rano and hence his right to speak. Jigs will argue with others but JW's word is always final. This way they are also paving a way to develop the fatherly affection by JW for Rano.
Bani cannot see anyone suffer, hence she melts when she sees others in pain quite unlike Pia. (With regards to JW she has soften towards him recently but couldn't see his pain before because she was clouded by the belief he loved Pia.) It may perhaps be this softening that has indirectly resulted in her feeling some sympathy for Pia's state. Bani had never disowned Pia as much natak she had enacted. Hence, that is why she still recognises Pia as her sister. It is very difficult for a mother to totally eliminate the love for her child from her heart. Hence that is why she says dil ka thukda. But in all this she does not state that she has forgiven Pia or desires to meet her. Before she tackles this pia issue I want her to deal with JW , heal the rift and wounds between them and I want this husband-wife relationship to reign supreme for her above all else. This is what Krishna wants too.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Pri,
Nice observations I am really disgusted with Bani and will just say that hypocrisy and double stds. thy name Bani Dixit Walia. God when it comes to practising her double stds. she can give America run for its money

I felt so digusted at her statement that Pia is still close to her to her heart amd may be this is the last straw to alarm us that it is time we should stop watching KS. It took so many evidences and so much time for her to get normal with Jai even after knowing that he is innocent and partially forgive him but she still feels pity and care for Pia, she is still less bothered about Pia's baby but more concerned about her, my brain decided to give up here. How can she still feel for Pia knowing very well what she has done to her husband or any married man in his place for that matter. I mean what exactly is she trying to prove that you can get away with anything even murder and rape as long as you are a Dixit and she will always be more than glad to be their Doormat.

If they are willing to play the baby switching game, than Ekta has certainly officially lost it cause Pia has to 15 months pregnant to collide with Bani's delivery as she was more than 4 months pregnant when JB went for their Dubai honeymoon.


So easily she forgave Pia but had Jai done the same to Pia i.e, drugged her and slept with her I wonder how long it would have taken her to forgive him as she is taking centuries to forgive him on being the victim of her sister antics. We know the answer "NEVER" cause he is JW and I will not be surprised if she forces him tomorrow to allow Pia to stay in WM once Pushky has kicked her out and take care of her tadpole

I am sorry for blabbering but was and still am highly digusted with Bani and her antics. I am so against her now, I just cant seem to respect her now inspite of Mahantaa.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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thy name Bani Dixit Walia. God when it comes to practising her double stds. she can give America run for its money

I felt so digusted at her statement that Pia is still close to her to her heart amd may be this is the last straw to alarm us that it is time we should stop watching KS. It took so many evidences and so much time for her to get normal with Jai even after knowing that he is innocent and partially forgive him but she still feels pity and care for Pia, she is still less bothered about Pia's baby but more concerned about her, my brain decided to give up here. How can she still feel for Pia knowing very well what she has done to her husband or any married man in his place for that matter. I mean what exactly is she trying to prove that you can get away with anything even murder and rape as long as you are a Dixit and she will always be more than glad to be their Doormat.
***Priyanka, that's what even I feel, they cannot show Bani forgiving Pia and show any redeemption of this character as mentioned by meghna in another post! That's a total no no and completely disgusting 😡 ! Why they cannot show something which audience wants to see and not just the mahaanta acts which even a real mahaanta can't do it 😡 🤢
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Posted: 18 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: majumdar

Don't know who I should be more angry with. Jigs for forcing a so-called widow's lifestyle on Rano or calling her and her kid manhoos in these times. Or on the bystanders who were just quietly looking on. I can still understand Jigs being mentally unbalanced having lost her son or Ranveer and Rashi being youngsters and keeping quiet. But what about Adi and Dadi - where did their good feelings for their bahu vanish? What was Bani, who is so fond of babysitting her sisters, doing? And what about St. Billo where was that Maa Kali who had performed a shradh on her own son and thrown him out of his own house. Sure this woman knows who it is safe to take pangas with.

I agree Pri but a puja is hardly a place for Jigs to go raring at Rano either. Her situation is understandable cos she has lost a son after all, but reacting like that is way too much for comfort. After all, Sahil died in a blast from that gas stove (at least till date) and nobody else is to blame for that, no matter what. In fact I guess Abhilasha should have stuck to Jigs and given her all the required doses, cos even after all these, Jigs sure has failed to recognise what gems are daughter-in-laws are, at least nobody is after her life.

Finally it was left to our LION KING to retrieve the situation and show Jigs the mirror. Somewhat disappointed that he did it rather politely and not give her an outright firing – raging bull style- like Meg suggested in her post yesterday. Seems that the Tigress of Unchagaon has defanged our LION KING permanently. Or maybe I am just being unfair- a pooja is not the occasion to be blasting someone. And to be fair he did call Jigs "gawar", which can hardly be pleasing to a so-called society lady.

I was expecting Jai to sort out the situation dont know whay, but he did that only. As for Bani not trying to help Rano, I guess she didnt come down ony all tahnks to Maasi's bhasan about how the Puja might have impact on the child. And Krishnaa is too precious . I am confused on this though.

The leaking tap of WM, Mrs. Rashi Baali is the latest brand ambassador of De Beers, poor Cecil Rhodes must be turning in his grave. But full marks to Ranveer, he is following on his pujya mamaji's footsteps. And if I remember correct he was in black.

Then to our beloved duo. First the bad news, Krishna leaving Bani in her dreams, does this mean that a sordid babyswitching saga is going to be imposed on us? Nor did Bani's thoughts on seeing Pia in the hospital give me any comfort. She did the right thing by offering money for her treatment, she is a tycoon and ought to be paying for the treatment of a less fortunate sister but " woh mere dil ke kareeb hai" and "meri behen hai" sadly seems to suggest a reversion to her Amma avatar. She has of course the right to forgive her sister for what she has done to her but should she forgive her for what she has done to her hubby?

Personally, I feel Bani will never forgive Pia for what she had done to JW and to herself. And I feel that this helping bit was mainly due to that unborn child. Yes, she did say those two phrases cos this is the basic difference between her and that Repto. That Repto wanted JW to leave her in that inferno in an unconcsious state but here she still cares and its not so illogical. But she will never forgive thats what I think.

Now for the good part. In the temple, she had accepted that the baby is both hers and JW's but today she spent a step further calling Krishna "hamare pyar ki nishani" although she did blush after that. Party time, folks. Btw, are JW and Bani sleeping in the same room?

Methinks yes, but no clue as yet ☺️

Rano is the latest one to do the vanishing act. But don't worry I am sure LION KING will bring her back to WM and give Jigs the blasting that Meg was praying for.

Amen to that

Rgds,

Priyanka

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Je_aime


Pri, I think Bani did forgive Jai during PR raaz, if not she wouldn't have done so many things for him. But, she was just not ready to accept the fact that she forgave him, to herself as well as to Jai.😕😃

As of ONS, Bani was also affected pri, not only Jai. She was shocked and she was slowing get out of it. You dont expect her to go and forgive him next day itself right? Besides, I don't think it was really Jai sleeping with Pia that shook Bani. It was Jai accepting Pia's child as "his child" was the main hurt. She felt betrayed as Jai always told that he only needs Bani and not the child but there he was screaming for "his child". So, knowing Jai being drugged and him sleeping with Pia cos of the drug effect is not a main thing Bani needed to forgive Jai.😊

All Bani needed to forgive Jai was the reassurance that Jai still loved her and he did not have anything to do with Pia. So, Bani already started to forgiving Jai from his reassurances and again those reassurances came from Jai boldly and mostly after him being cleared from ONS. I think the drugging thing was brought more for Jai to forgive himself than Bani forgiving him. So, even if the Jai was not proved to be drugged, Bani would have forgiven him after some time.😊

Besides, I still think Bani has not forgiving Pia. It still takes time unless the dumb creatives want to make mahaan out of Bani.😡

Seriously pri, I so love Bani and even Jai and they are such beautiful characters but creatives are not doing full justice to them especially Bani. That brings me to your FF.😉😆😆 Your writing is great and you are doing full justice to Jai and i know you would do the same for the rest. Great going pri😃



Meena

Thansk for makign my work easier, Now I dont have to type much. U said it all.

But I dont think Bani has forgiven Pia. Thats all.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahimn

Hey Pri,
Nice observations I am really disgusted with Bani and will just say that hypocrisy and double stds. thy name Bani Dixit Walia. God when it comes to practising her double stds. she can give America run for its money

I felt so digusted at her statement that Pia is still close to her to her heart amd may be this is the last straw to alarm us that it is time we should stop watching KS. It took so many evidences and so much time for her to get normal with Jai even after knowing that he is innocent and partially forgive him but she still feels pity and care for Pia, she is still less bothered about Pia's baby but more concerned about her, my brain decided to give up here. How can she still feel for Pia knowing very well what she has done to her husband or any married man in his place for that matter. I mean what exactly is she trying to prove that you can get away with anything even murder and rape as long as you are a Dixit and she will always be more than glad to be their Doormat.

If they are willing to play the baby switching game, than Ekta has certainly officially lost it cause Pia has to 15 months pregnant to collide with Bani's delivery as she was more than 4 months pregnant when JB went for their Dubai honeymoon.


So easily she forgave Pia but had Jai done the same to Pia i.e, drugged her and slept with her I wonder how long it would have taken her to forgive him as she is taking centuries to forgive him on being the victim of her sister antics. We know the answer "NEVER" cause he is JW and I will not be surprised if she forces him tomorrow to allow Pia to stay in WM once Pushky has kicked her out and take care of her tadpole

I am sorry for blabbering but was and still am highly digusted with Bani and her antics. I am so against her now, I just cant seem to respect her now inspite of Mahantaa.



Yeah and I keep on thinking why JW keeps on forgiving everyone for all that they ahd done to him,. even make an attempt on his life?

Maybe they are stressing on his mahantaa angle too.

Wow, it works great.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Sangs,

(Jigs sure has failed to recognise what gems are daughter-in-laws are)

And for that reason I have always regretted that the Ranveer- Abhilasha marriage did not happen. Would have taught both Jigs and Rashi a good lesson.

(why JW keeps on forgiving everyone for all that they ahd done to him,. even make an attempt on his life?)

JW does not know that Sahil made an attempt on his life or killed his kid, I am sure he would react very differently from Bani.

Besides, he has often handed out a red card to his relatives when they have misbehaved with a THIRD PARTY- for instance kicking out Ranveer from WM when he was ill-treating Rashi. By contrast bani never wielded the danda against Pia for her antics with THIRD PARTIES- JW, Pooch, Pooch's kid, it was only when her own skin was burnt did she snap ties with Pia.

Rgds,

Pri

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