Observations on 3/5 - Page 3

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Yeah and I keep on thinking why JW keeps on forgiving everyone for all that they ahd done to him,. even make an attempt on his life?

Maybe they are stressing on his mahantaa angle too.

Wow, it works great.

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Yeah and I keep on thinking why JW keeps on forgiving everyone for all that they ahd done to him,. even make an attempt on his life?

Maybe they are stressing on his mahantaa angle too.

Wow, it works great.

Sangs,

Forgiveness only happens when there is an apology without it you know you can't really call it forgiveness.

The only person he truly has forgiven without an apology is bani, well i guess you don't think that it was her fault but you know me, it just pisses me off. The others he is just tolerating in a nice way.

As i said they are just turning him into a joru ka ghulam that's about it.

Shina

Originally posted by: majumdar

Sangs,

(Jigs sure has failed to recognise what gems are daughter-in-laws are)

And for that reason I have always regretted that the Ranveer- Abhilasha marriage did not happen. Would have taught both Jigs and Rashi a good lesson.

(why JW keeps on forgiving everyone for all that they ahd done to him,. even make an attempt on his life?)

JW does not know that Sahil made an attempt on his life or killed his kid, I am sure he would react very differently from Bani.
Maybe not this, but he surely knows what sort of GFNs reside with him. But then he has also rarely taken steps. SO I would say that KS is moreabt making both the lead characters weak.

Besides, he has often handed out a red card to his relatives when they have misbehaved with a THIRD PARTY- for instance kicking out Ranveer from WM when he was ill-treating Rashi. By contrast bani never wielded the danda against Pia for her antics with THIRD PARTIES- JW, Pooch, Pooch's kid, it was only when her own skin was burnt did she snap ties with Pia.

I agree. But this time I will blame Pushy more. He was trying to keep Pia away from WM ans so offered that money to her and made her do mean things, as per P's standards. But I think if I am not wrong that the money never got paid to P cos she gave it to Pushy for his business. And when she did ask for money from him, he turned her down very badly.
Does he expect P to do everything with that Rs. 1000?
I am not P's supporter but I didnt like that handling. She is all for money and wealth and this behaviour might in a way turn her towards JW again 🤢.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: lonely14

Sangs,

Forgiveness only happens when there is an apology without it you know you can't really call it forgiveness.

The only person he truly has forgiven without an apology is bani, well i guess you don't think that it was her fault but you know me, it just pisses me off. The others he is just tolerating in a nice way.

As i said they are just turning him into a joru ka ghulam that's about it.

Shina

Originally posted by: lonely14

Pri,

You can't hate Jigs, she just lost her son. What did you expect from her? The woman was out doing her thing not there at the pooja it was obvious she would get mad. No matter how jigs is she does love her kids very much. I didn't think it was out of line for her to blast rano, and no i am not just saying that cuz of my hatred towards the dixits.

Did you seriously expect the non-walia clan to say something? They only bring forth their so-called moral values and what is right and what is wrong lecture when they have something against Jai, even though it won't be his fault. Others are all dood ke dhule hue.

Well as for bani it was expected of her that she won't be mad at Pia, all the anger is just towards Jai. The law that "dixits are never wrong" still applies even after everything.

Jai has lost his touch, i am telling you the real Jai Walia is kidnapped and this is the fake one. Because the real Jai Walia is not like this. I should know after all he is my baby.😳 I miss him very much.

How cool would it be if the real Jai walia and Barnali are back together? i seriously would throw a party for all y'all then.

Shina

ohhh well... so you feel jig was not at false... when ladies with such a old ages who lost their hubbies long time back, sit their with colourful sarees and leave jiggy... she very conveniently divorced her hubby... so no need to worry about taking KC vrath or widowhood...

do you have young sisters or cousins or even young friends in life... and imagine in such young stage she with such a kid face her widowhood... what you want her to do.. to remove all colours from life with a white saree... it will please your eyes... arrey human being growing to realise and recognise things by each year they cover... she gone under pressure from ranveer to fullfill her dead bubby's dream and came to be insulted... to take out the bit of spirit left in her to give a life to her child... will that lady who brought the white saree in a tray would be able to gift that to her own daughter... pain in our heart is not something to transfer it in whole to some weak person... and for sure... better than to live with someone like jig who tried to pour water and kill that baby rano should live in hut with a peace of mind... rano is not bani... she is more sensible... if she can slap pia many times then she can bring that child up herself too... unless someone again drag to her that mental mansion

Originally posted by: rose467

ohhh well... so you feel jig was not at false... when ladies with such a old ages who lost their hubbies long time back, sit their with colourful sarees and leave jiggy... she very conveniently divorced her hubby... so no need to worry about taking KC vrath or widowhood...

do you have young sisters or cousins or even young friends in life... and imagine in such young stage she with such a kid face her widowhood... what you want her to do.. to remove all colours from life with a white saree... it will please your eyes... arrey human being growing to realise and recognise things by each year they cover... she gone under pressure from ranveer to fullfill her dead bubby's dream and came to be insulted... to take out the bit of spirit left in her to give a life to her child... will that lady who brought the white saree in a tray would be able to gift that to her own daughter... pain in our heart is not something to transfer it in whole to some weak person... and for sure... better than to live with someone like jig who tried to pour water and kill that baby rano should live in hut with a peace of mind... rano is not bani... she is more sensible... if she can slap pia many times then she can bring that child up herself too... unless someone again drag to her that mental mansion

Rose,

As pri said i wasn't trying to justify Jigs actions i was just merely saying that she has gone mental with her loss that's about it.

As for me having siblings yep got 4 of them all of them my younger sisters. Well luckily i don't have to give them a white dress EVER, because even if some calamity happens Islam doesn't want a woman to lose color in her life. So i don't really have to worry about customs like that, it will never happen.

But you can so easily understand those dixits pain, and for even one second can't you realize that jigs is also a mother, eh no point arguing.

Shina

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Shina,

Its not a question of who likes whom, its more of what the characters are made to be. And yes, I will not hesitate to say that after an year, the characters that I loved are hardly what they used to be, neither JW's nor Bani's. And I also maintain that both these characters will continue to be butchered in one way or the other, depending on the phase of the story, to keep the guilt factor high, cos Kekta realises this sadistic tendency that pervades all through. She doesnt see the positivity I think.

I agree that JW may not have forgiven others without the apology and he is just tolerating them, well it may be same for BW too. I am using the word "MAY BE", cos I really dont know what happens inside the Destructives' head. But yes, I wouldnt prefer this version of KS, I am sure abt it.

Sangs,

I know that it's not about who likes whom, i was just pointing it out cuz well it just irks me.😆 And about ekta you are def. right, the butchering will be continued, what i don't see is how else can she butcher Jai Walia? he is a goner already.

You really think Bani hasn't forgiven anyone? It's only a matter of time when she'll go back to her banigiri and act all mahaan again, this time dragging Jai Walia along on SOME of her "missions" as it is he became a joru ka ghulam, that's her new pup. and no i don't think it'll be a good thing because well it just isn't. she should seriously thinking of adopting the philosophy "Live and Let Live"

Shina

Originally posted by: majumdar

Rose,

I dont think Shina was trying to justify what Jigs did, she was just pointing out that Jigs was a bit out of her mind, diminished responsibility kind of thing.

jig was a person who stood silent about her own dad's murder... and we should think that she is all that in pain about the loss of her son... wo what happen to her son's child... love is half blind or what? i am not offending any one... we know that character... what she can do...😡

(unless someone again drag to her that mental mansion)

Have a feeling that Munna will do the needful. But I hope if he does do that, he will first give a firing to Jigs and make it clear that rano is staying there as his daughter/younger sis and that if someone insults her, there would be hell to pay.

pri, he is just a guest like a person there now on the request of rashi... i don't think he still has mentally feel the same there any more... that should be said by aditya... why he is the one who forced bani for the marriage right? he only told rano is her daughter right?

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: lonely14

Rose,

As pri said i wasn't trying to justify Jigs actions i was just merely saying that she has gone mental with her loss that's about it.

As for me having siblings yep got 4 of them all of them my younger sisters. Well luckily i don't have to give them a white dress EVER, because even if some calamity happens Islam doesn't want a woman to lose color in her life. So i don't really have to worry about customs like that, it will never happen.

But you can so easily understand those dixits pain, and for even one second can't you realize that jigs is also a mother, eh no point arguing.

Shina

i am sorry shina... i haven't meant to be rude so... but the truth that i can't see society argue for white colour for widows... when life is over for one that means the one who passed will be happy to see his wife in white for rest of her life... if a woman die will it become a rule for a man... no...

jiggy a mother... a mother's version i can understand... because of i a mother of three kids... but here isn't it same jiggy who tried to put water on the floor to make rano fall... isn't it the same jiggy who even though knew that bani had been attacked gone to tell jai that she aborted against doctor's warning... isn't it the same jiggy who just for money hid the fact that her dad was about to return but was murdered by barnali... so humanitarian concern for a mother for her had a dim chance... especially treating a small girl like rano with a such a baby in hand... even enemy won't do it in that occassion... she is wearing stoned bindis... masi/dadi both widows, wear colour dress under the same roof... but rano should wear it... why just to please a lady like jig...

jiggy and pia both characters.. i can't feel anything for them, even if i live another 7 births with them, as long as i am a woman... sorry shina, i know u were justifying your part... but these characters are really a hurt... it will say a kind epitome of the worst type of human being in the whole world... sorry if i hurt you.. it was my hurt seeing her reaction to rano... especially a brain damaged kid in hand in such a small age... mothers love , even gone mad, will know only to protect kids... not to curse kids... even if it had fault...