That was an absurd excuse!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: majumdar

Sangs,

(Did Pia actually ask? She was more interested in the alimony bit. )

Pia knew that Bani had been forced to marry a man she did not love against her will and wanted out. And why should she ask an elder sister why she is splitting when her elder sister hasn't bothered asking her so called daughter why she can't get along with Pooch.

Rgds,

Pri

I disagree with you here Pri. Bani did try to get P-P's marriage back into track and she did help when Ranveer was out to destroy the two. Later on, she again tried to help but then who was listening? At least Pia wasnt.

Pia's failure towards her own relationships is not Bani's fault, its Pia's fault entirely and she is resposnible for what happened in her life, not anyone else.

If Pia had even done 10 % of what Bani did to keep PnP together, I would have sympathised with her. The only thing that she did good once was not to enter their bed room when JW was alone, and Bani wasnt in the house and she said something like that the fact that you two are getting closr eflects love and whatever.

Pia is responsible for her own life. She cant lay the blame on smebody else's doorsteps.

Sorry

Originally posted by: majumdar

Sangs,

(Pia had such an expression on her face.)

You are dead right. And not only on Anu's wedding party at all ocassionas whenever JW made an affetionate gesture to Bani, she had a queer look on her face- irritation, jealousy, sense of loss perhaps? That was one genuine piece of good acting on RC's part.

But at that point of time she wasn't a grey character at all, the greying would have come over a period of time had not the "ONS" hastened the process. (if you remember the poll I put up)

Rgds,

Pri

I remember Pri. But what I am trying to say is that Pia had had her eyes trained on JW when she found out that Pushkar couldnt offer her everything that she desired for. And it was in her subconscious mind for long- thats why she went on comparing Pushkar to him and his wealth.

Sangs,

Bani did try to bring them together but sadly she neither realised nor ever tried to find out what caused them to drift apart (Pia's desires to enjoy the wordly pleasures of being Mrs. Vollaya) in the first place. Had she realised that she could have saved the P-P marriage in no time at all.

That has been the real tragedy of her life that she has tried to bring happiness to others (JW, Pushky, Pia, her gfn dead parents) without in the first place ever realising what their happiness is all about. But she is all of 23-24, so maybe that was understandable.

And the fact that Pia knew that her di (and by extension her JKG hubby JW) would bail her out at all times meant that Pia had no need to behave responsibly.

Rgds,

Pri

Rgds,

Pri

(Bani did try to get P-P's marriage back into track and she did help when Ranveer was out to destroy the two. Later on, she again tried to help but then who was listening? At least Pia wasnt.)

sangs
i agree completely. Bani has always been worried about her sisters craving for luxury life which pushy couldnt afford...
on some occasions she did try and make bhikamngi understand that money is secondary in marriage...
again when pia aborted pushy's child,she tried intervening but pia shushed her up saying that it was a matter between husband and wife...so i guess bani shouldnt be blamed for pia's all time stupidity.

i wish she would have arranged such lavish parties before dubai trip to get them together..things would have been so different.....

pia is one dilusional person

Sangs,

(How could Bani kick her out? )

By getting JW to do the honours. In fact at that point of time, JW would himself left WM, if Bani had insisted on that.

Did her self-respect not get hurt by seeing her sis take shelter at her ex-lovers house?

Rgds,

Pri

And Bani should have had her kicked out out of WM if she really did care for saving her sis and Pooch's marriage.

Rgds,

Pri

***U remember that day Bani comes out WM and says that mujhe kuch bada khadam uthana hi hoga!! But she never took any step! After that day onwards her Banigiri started, the great Divorce/alimony drama!! In this P-P problem doob gaya!!

again when pia aborted pushy's child,she tried intervening but pia shushed her up saying that it was a matter between husband and wife...so i guess bani shouldnt be blamed for pia's all time stupidity.

***When Pia had already told to mind her own business, then why not Bani is following it now??? Why does he run behind Pia and Pia always!!! Cant she see Rano in trouble? Why she seems to see that creep sister always?

Himali,

(i wish she would have arranged such lavish parties before dubai trip to get them together..things would have been so different..... )

She was too busy doing her banigiri to care for such trivial things like P_P marriage

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: aashyagh

And Bani should have had her kicked out out of WM if she really did care for saving her sis and Pooch's marriage.

Rgds,

Pri

***U remember that day Bani comes out WM and says that mujhe kuch bada khadam uthana hi hoga!! But she never took any step! After that day onwards her Banigiri started, the great Divorce/alimony drama!! In this P-P problem doob gaya!!

Why should P=P have all their problems solved by others? Why did then they get married? or were they expecting to be crutches all thru their lives? Highly pathetic.

Originally posted by: majumdar

Himali,

(i wish she would have arranged such lavish parties before dubai trip to get them together..things would have been so different..... )

She was too busy doing her banigiri to care for such trivial things like P_P marriage

Rgds,

Pri

Why cant P-P be responsible for themselves and their marriage for once? If they needed baby-sitting at stages of their conjugal life, why did they get married in the first place? SO that others could solve their problems for them?