That was an absurd excuse!!! - Page 7

Ash

That been the biggest problem with Bani.She interferes and that too in the places where she is ot supposed too.What surprises me is that these Dixit female are so so unknown to each others true colors. Bani has till date never questioned Pia's action regarding anything her elpoement with Pushky, or her aborting her child.What made her ask Bani to finance her Rs.80,000, when she knew that Bani does not have that kind of money and she is noy on good terms with JW.It was on the same night that JW blasted B for inviting P and P to Saahil's engagement party.She did not apologised for making such big demens but rather told pushky that it is her sister's relatives function and she will stay.
She always made it apoint to let people know that she made a bigger sacrifice by marrying Pushkar instead of Jai.

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I dont doubt that. And as for Rano, she didnt allow her to go to JW, cos she didnt want Rano to end up with Jigs as a m-i-l and get stuck there. Yes, this is the price that Bani's gonna pay for pampering Pia to no ends I agree. But what I essentially meant is that the onus of continuing in marriage could and should have been taken by PnP. They have behaved irresponsibly.

Sangs , ths onus of any successful relationship depends on both the parties but I cannot say that Pushkar did not tried his best to save his marriage.He had put up with every "nakhras"of Pia ,tried his level best to fulfill her demand but sadly it was never enough for Pia, cause she always measured their relationship in trems of JW's monetary success.Infact , even after what she ,ade Puashky and his family go through he was always ready to accept her back with his family

Pri, he did threw her out but then he later returned to ge her back from WM after Tony called him, ofcourse he wanted her back to vent his anger out but he was there.It was Jai only who did not allowed to .How I curse that night, when Pia softened up to Jai as a good human being

Originally posted by: mahimn

Sangs , ths onus of any successful relationship depends on both the parties but I cannot say that Pushkar did not tried his best to save his marriage.He had put up with every "nakhras"of Pia ,tried his level best to fulfill her demand but sadly it was never enough for Pia, cause she always measured their relationship in trems of JW's monetary success.Infact , even after what she ,ade Puashky and his family go through he was always ready to accept her back with his family

Pri, he did threw her out but then he later returned to ge her back from WM after Tony called him, ofcourse he wanted her back to vent his anger out but he was there.It was Jai only who did not allowed to .How I curse that night, when Pia softened up to Jai as a good human being

I also curse that night.
And yes Pushkar did try to save their marriage within his means, but vacuum-brained didnt.

Mahim,

(he did threw her out but then he later returned to ge her back from WM )

So that he could bash her to pulp. Don't see how JW could have allowed Pia to go back with Pooch that nite.

(on the same night that JW blasted B for inviting P and P to Saahil's engagement party.)

Actually the invite was from Adi. To be fair, Bani did a very good job at maintaining as much a distance from P-P (post their marriage at WM) as was possible under circumstances. What was not done was that she never severely castigated them for what they had done to JW or make them tender an apology to JW.

Rgds,

Pri
on the same night that JW blasted B for inviting P and P to Saahil's engagement party.)

Ash

That been the biggest problem with Bani.She interferes and that too in the places where she is ot supposed too.What surprises me is that these Dixit female are so so unknown to each others true colors. Bani has till date never questioned Pia's action regarding anything her elpoement with Pushky, or her aborting her child.What made her ask Bani to finance her Rs.80,000, when she knew that Bani does not have that kind of money and she is noy on good terms with JW.It was on the same night that JW blasted B for inviting P and P to Saahil's engagement party.She did not apologised for making such big demens but rather told pushky that it is her sister's relatives function and she will stay.
She always made it apoint to let people know that she made a bigger sacrifice by marrying Pushkar instead of Jai.

***That's rite Priyanka! Bani's behaviour towards Pia is really irritating and she intervenes when not required and shuts up at the time when it important 😡 😡 ! No words to explain Bani's intelligence or concern in this matter! Atleast if she had half concern towards JW's (I m not saying that she doesnt love or care nor I dont doubt it.. Pls dont get belans)feelings, what she has towards P &P relationships, aaj yeh din dekhne ko nahin milta!!

Originally posted by: majumdar

Farah,

The ONS was a sin irrespective of whether JW was divorced or not. JW and Pia should not have commenced (let alone consummated) their relationship till both J-B and P-P divorces were over.

What folowed was even more shocking on Pia's part as she was now fully aware that J-B were in love with each other.

My only contention is that Pia was not wrong in assuming that J-B were not in love.

Rgds,

Pri

I don't agree with you. I don't care if Jai and Bani were in verge of divorcing for gods sake thats her sister's husband . Its so irrelevant to say they love each other or not. Rano said the right thing that day that "if Pia was waiting for Di to divorce Jai". I don't care Pia is not an Einstein but she had no right to go and even flirt with her soon to be divorced sister's husband. Even though they do get divorce is it right for Pia to have a relationship with her Ex BIL. Its disgusting 😡. No matter from might angle you look at it.

Proud Mom,

I have never said that it was OK for JW and Pia to have an affair. All I have said was that Pia was right to assume that Bani was not in love with JW.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Why should P=P have all their problems solved by others? Why did then they get married? or were they expecting to be crutches all thru their lives? Highly pathetic.

Sangita,

Absolutely true!! Pia and Pushkar, both are irresponsible. The two never really tried to work out their marriage. Had Pushkar been a little more serious in married life, rather than helping Pia wear her Sari, and had he been able to see through Pia's real needs and intentions, when he was lost in love with Pia and had he been a little bossy(which is quite necessary for who ever lives with Pia), things would have been different.

And as for Pia, I don't need to explain.

Whenever Rano, or somebody else tried to put some sense into Pia's head, it was always " Didi Mr. Walia se pyar karte hein " and not" Mr. Walia Di se pyar karte hein". And Pia knows very well that Bani is well known for her sacrifices, so she must have assumed that when Bani comes to know about her love for Jai, she will happily step out from hers and Jai's life. That's why she was setermined not to believe it whenver Jai said "Bani meri zindagi hein"(or some similar dialogue)

But this is the after ONS case. Before, You have a point there, Priyanka. Nobody actually cared to make Pia understand Bani and Jai's love for each other. Bani, she interfers in evry other's business, but she didn't feel like taking her sisters' help at all. Over confidence, she feels she can solve any problem in the world, with an undefeatable weapon Banigiri. From those irritating conversations Jai and Bani had had, during Bani's Banigiri era, a lady with minimum brains like Pia could only make out this much -that Jai and Bani hate each other. And she fell in love with Jai, etc etc etc."aur aisa hogaya"

Now, if she actually regrets her mistake, well and good Pia!