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Posted: 18 years ago
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Shina,

Well said. Pushky will not turn negative, he already is- a callous, heartless backstabber.

And there is no question of forgiving or punishing JW, it is Bani, Pushky and us who should be apologising to ur baby for questioning his character.

Rgds,

Pri
Edited by majumdar - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Pri,

you are right about pushky.

and yes i am waiting for the day for everyone to apologize to my baby for questioning his character, that will be the best day of KS.

Take care,

Shina

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: lonely14

Han, i enjoyed answering your questions, lovely DOTW!!!!! Thanks sweety. 😛

I'll take that as a very sweet compliment fron the innocent angel...😆

Take care, You too

Shina

I know hameesha you will stand for your baby whether he's innocent or guilty... But I tell you what even if my babys suspiciousness turns out faultiness.... It will never be her fault because she's innocent too remember that too...

And btw may I ask why do you hate Pushy? Is it because he punched your baby saveral times....😆 or is it because he's too soft...😕 Either way he's a good guy and as long as he doesn't come between JB I'll stand for him simply because he surpported my baby all the time in her needs.... 😳

I know what you will think next.... to do to me...... But guess what I am ready for my baby's sake...😆 😆 😆 she's soo innocent and no one can blame her as long as I am here at the IF and KS forum.... 😳 😉

Always luv

han

Edited by hanaane - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#14

This is for you my sweet little sis..... 🤗 I loved reading your answers.... well said... 👏

Alwyas luv

han

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaane

I'll take that as a very sweet compliment fron the innocent angel...😆 hahah yep yep i am the innocent angel😳 and yes it was indeed a compliment.

I know hameesha you will stand for your baby whether he's innocent or guilty... But I tell you what even if my babys suspiciousness turns out faultiness.... It will never be her fault because she's innocent too remember that too... haha Han, don't you know me??? for me my baby is never guilty, i never question that, so of course i'll stand by him. i just enjoy bashing superwoman and blaming her for everything so i never find her innocent. 😆

And btw may I ask why do you hate Pushy? Is it because he punched your baby saveral times....😆 or is it because he's too soft...😕 Either way he's a good guy and as long as he doesn't come between JB I'll stand for him simply because he surpported my baby all the time in her needs.... 😳 Well i hate pushky for many reasons, one of them being the way he is.

I know what you will think next.... to do to me...... But guess what I am ready for my baby's sake...😆 😆 😆 she's soo innocent and no one can blame her as long as I am here at the IF and KS forum.... 😳 😉 hahahah you know my evil mind very well don't you. 😈 hehe but han it's a little too late don't ya think??? cuz i already blame superwoman for everything.

Always luv Luv ya too 🤗

han Shina

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: cute1228

1.When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?
-I think Jai did somethin worse!!! Pushkar just ran off with Pia, but Jai slept!!! Jai should not be 4gived aright away by anyone!!!

2.One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?
-I think Jai hind that Pushkar is not the father because he was scared of losin Bani!!! Jai did a bad thin by hidin it from him!!! No one should live with a lie like that!!!

3.When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?
-I think that Pushkar will do somethin worse!!! His goin 2 tell Bani n mayb end up bein with her!!! Not like that, but still its bad!!!

4.Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?
-I wish he does!!! Jai will try 2 protect Bani from the truth!!! Pushkar should still tell her!!!

5.What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?
-Revenge 2 Jai really 4 sure!!! Pushkar will go further in destroyin Jai!!! Jai is goin to b hurt a lot!!!

6.What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?
-He will not forgive Jai will do anythin 2 hurt him!!!

7.What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?
-He will try 2 make Bani fall 4 him again!!!

8.After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?
-Pushkar n her will live 2gether, but not as one!!!

9.Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?
-No, no, no!!! Punished, punished, punished!!!

10.Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and everything?
-Yes, yes, yes!!!

Thank you for the wonderful answers dear.... I really appreciate 😉

Always luv

han

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: majumdar

Hanane,

Interesting questions. But let me begin by adding a caveat, JW hasn't done anything so there is no question of either forgiving or punishing JW for anything.

When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

What Pushky did was a cold-blooded premeditated act. JW's act was an accident committed by a broken, desperate man under the influence of booze. And mind you I don't believe he did it anyways.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

First of all, he couldn't have been sure that he was the Papa. And I still believe he isn't. Plus by revealing the truth he would have broken two marriages and shattered four hearts. What was the use of doing that?

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

JW had the hurt as well as the means to wreak vengeance on Pushky. And Pushky will do the same if he has the means he will do worse.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

Pushky will spill the beans on JW to Bani.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

He will tell Bani everything out of honesty. Revenge against JW will come later.


6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?

If Bani presses hard for forgiveness to JW he will, otherwise he won't.


7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

He will not regret losing out on Bani bcos he loved her in a brother like manner. Even if later he falls in love, I don't think she will reciprocate.


8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?

Well, of course I don't believe JW has done it. So where is the question of forgiving JW. But Bani will forgive Pia for her karnama bcos she is her sister after all.


9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?

What should JW be punished for. He hasn't done anything. Even if he has they should forgive him eventually bcos after all he too did the same.


10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and everything?

Since this is a kektaa mayee serial, B-P will probably destroy JW and then realise that JW was innocent.

Regards,

Priyanka

haha bhai.... JW koi galdi karhi nahi sakta hain.... I know Jaian's 😆

But thanks alot dear for the answering...😉

Always luv

han

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: kubare

Here are my answers to your lovely questions.

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

A. Pushkar betrayed Jai then intentionally, as he knew what he was doing, when he eloped with Pia, as he was in his sences. Where as Jais betrayal was unintentional, as he was forcebly seduced by Pia when he was completely broken down.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

A. Yes so true truth can never be hidden at all. Jia did not tell Pushkar that he could also be the father of the child because maybe subconsiously he beleived or was releived to know that Pushkar was the childs father as they did show us in Dubai that Pushkar did spend a night with Pia just after the ONS. About Jai doing the right thing, how can he when he is the most confused, and most blackmailed man right now thus he couldn't tell Pushkar or even Bani the truth at all.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai's punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

A. Yes, it could be that Pushkar may turn evil because of this betrayal and go all out to destroy Jai. We have to wait and watch what happens there, but him taking revenge does sound a very good and happening possibility.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? What do you think Jai will do when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

A. Would love it if Pushkar confronts Jai with the ONS, I just hope he doesnot add to the ongoing growing list of people who are blackmailing him though. Would love to see Jais reaction to this and what he will tell Pushkar, something on the lines of what he told Rano I guess, was broken, depressed and Pia gave him "support"😡.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

A. If and when Pushkar tells Bani about the ONS, it will be because Bani needs to know the truth too and is his best friend, and not out of revenge at all. But he may in the future try to do his best to avenge himself and demolish Jai.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani?

A. When some one is very angry, that person can do any thing, but Pushkar using Bani in such a way I really donot think so, though he may be the one to support her through their mutal greif and may fall in love with her after knowing that she loved him once and this may make Jai jealous, but Pushkar doing it on purpose, no, I dont think so.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

A. As I said above he may fall in love with Bani on knowing the truth about Bani being in love with him in the beginning but Bani will always and only love Jai and thus because of her he may forgive both Jai and Pia.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think Bani will also forgive Pia?

A. Pushkar may forgive Jai eventually or Bani may be the reason he may forgive Jai but I really don't want both of them to forgive Pia at all, but Bani being Bani may forgive her too and so may Pushkar.

9. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys everything?

A. Hopefully yes, it will. Forgiveness will definitely come before complete destruction, until and unless they turn Pushkar completely negative.

Loved answering your questions hope you love reading them too and I have made sense.

Love

Krishna

Thanks alot Krishna for the wonderful answers....😳... I indeed loved reading them...😃 😉 😊

Always luv

han

Edited by hanaane - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: inavars

great topic Han!👏

-Sravi

Thanks you soo much for the compliment Sravi I appreciate your effort.... 😳And I enjoyed reading your answers as well.. 😃 😉

Always luv 🤗

han

Edited by hanaane - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ovaltine

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?


What pia and pushkar did was wrong in the sense they kept their secret and let others suffer but with JP here marriage vows were broken. I know Jai signed the divorce papers, but do you think in his heart he believed he was divorced? Was his love for bani replaceable by sex with pia? What about pia? she is still married to pushkar though separated. She has broken her marriage vows. To me this is worse.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?


The onus is on Pia to tell pushkar, she led pushkar to believe the child is his. Jai was still reeling from the shock. Plus Jai actually wanted pia to live with pushkar and be a family, and he with Bani. It is pia who doesn't want to be a family with pushkar and wants jai to leave bani for her. Until jai does the paternity test he can't be 100% sure the child is his.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?


I somehow feel that Pushkar's hurt comes not from the fact that he slept with pia but rather from the fact that he betrayed bani because pushkar knows to what extent bani loves jai. His marriage is on the rocks and I think the only thing that is binding him to pia is the child whom he believes is his. If pushkar takes revenge it will be for bani. bani won't do anything but pushkar can't take this lying down. This time it will be worse than what Jai did to pushkar. Pushkar will destroy him emotionally and materially.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

But of course, confrontation is unavoidable. He should hide from pushkar. What face does he have to face pushkar. How he gets up every morning to face his wife knowing full well his betrayal. Does he have a right to expect pushkar to forgive him and does he have an excuse for sleeping with a married woman? moreover, he doesn't even love pia and it was purely physical. Pushkar might even believe that jai did it on purpose to take revenge for PP eloping, he waited all this time because that is how it looks like.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

Pushkar won't tell bani. He will keep pia away from jai and will refuse to divorce pia all for the happiness of bani. he has no idea that bani suspect jai. He can't bear to see bani broken hearted and betrayed by the two people she loves the most. His hamdardi for bani won't allow him to speak. Once bani walks out after learning the truth I would like to see pushkar take revenge on pia and jai. I want pushkar to turn out stronger and a formidable adversary to jai. Show pia that the loser is herself and not pushkar as she always says he is.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?


He will forgive jai for bani's sake. That is how much he respects bani. If jai and bani are together he knows hurting jai will hurt bani more so he will back off for her sake only. As far as his feelings for jai is concerned, he will not respect him or have anything to do with him. if jai had once called bani characterless today pushkar will call him that.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

If he is at an emotional low point he would have wished to go back in time and done things differently. Yes, he will fall in love with her. He loved pia for her external beauty and he will love bani for her internal beauty. He will only get satisfaction having destroyed both Jai and pia because he wants to avenge bani's betrayal, bani's tears and not for himself. Just like bani would go to any extent for her love for jai, similarly pushkar would do for bani.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?


With time bani will forgive jai because she will realize her folly in trying to hide the truth behind the divorce/alimony fiasco. But pia, never. Jai had only known her for a few months but pia has known her all her life. Bani has sacrificed her entire life for her sisters happiness , brought her up like a mother and that betrayal by pia is the ultimate and deepest wound. Pia has also broken all the vows of marriage which bani holds dear. Bani will feel that Pia's selfishness points directly to an inadequacy in bani's upbringing. She will lose all faith in relationships and all trust will be broken.

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?


Pia has to be punished because she is so selfish and needs to be taught a lesson in life. She is not even one ounce sorry for her folly. Forgiveness can only be offered to those who are aware and truly repent their mistake.

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything?


Bani will forgive and will not take revenge she will move on and face life's challenges but pushkar won't. That is bani's beauty.


Thank you dear.... I enjoyed reading your answers... And really appreciate your effort.. 😃

Always luv

han

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