Hello guys! KSian's before I start the DOTW I just want to say first that my partner Lisa aka KHJL is unfortunately busy at the moment doing her exam and as much as she wanted to take part of this she's unable to do so.
This what I think KS needs at the moment. Although it seems too early to forgive now but I somehow I think that it is the best thing to do before everyone ends up living miserable live...😔
Here we go!
"The forgiving state of mind is a magnetic power for attracting good. Our deepest fear is not that we are insufficient. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a human being, have the right to feel and be. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make noticeable the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others".
They say when you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free. Without forgiveness life is dominated by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. However, wrongs are often forgiven, but scornfulness never is. Our pride remembers it forever. It is true forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. Nothing makes one as vain as observing or being told one is a sinner. It's true the scruple makes egotists of us all. You can make up a wrangle, but it will always show where it was patched.
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." (MG said)
Here are some questions about forgiving the One's you most loved and trusted. Her I go...
1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?
2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?
3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?
4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?
5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?
6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?
7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?
8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?
9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?
10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and
everything?
That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉
Have a lovely weekend...😃
Salaam Namaste.. 😉
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