DOTW XIII: Forgiveness

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hello guys! KSian's before I start the DOTW I just want to say first that my partner Lisa aka KHJL is unfortunately busy at the moment doing her exam and as much as she wanted to take part of this she's unable to do so.

This what I think KS needs at the moment. Although it seems too early to forgive now but I somehow I think that it is the best thing to do before everyone ends up living miserable live...😔

Here we go!

"The forgiving state of mind is a magnetic power for attracting good. Our deepest fear is not that we are insufficient. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a human being, have the right to feel and be. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make noticeable the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others".

They say when you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free. Without forgiveness life is dominated by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. However, wrongs are often forgiven, but scornfulness never is. Our pride remembers it forever. It is true forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. Nothing makes one as vain as observing or being told one is a sinner. It's true the scruple makes egotists of us all. You can make up a wrangle, but it will always show where it was patched.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." (MG said)

Here are some questions about forgiving the One's you most loved and trusted. Her I go...

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything?

That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉

Have a lovely weekend...😃

Salaam Namaste.. 😉

han...

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaane

Hello guys! KSian's before I start the DOTW I just want to say first that my partner Lisa aka KHJL is unfortunately busy at the moment doing her exam and as much as she wanted to take part of this she's unable to do so.

This what I think KS needs at the moment. Although it seems too early to forgive now but I somehow I think that it is the best thing to do before everyone ends up leaving miserable live...😔

Here we go!

The forgiving state of mind is a magnetic power for attracting good. Our deepest fear is not that we are insufficient. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a human being, have the right to feel and be. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won't feel insecure around you. We were born to make noticeable the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us it's in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free. Without forgiveness life is dominated by an endless cycle of resentment and retaliation. However, wrongs are often forgiven, but scornfulness never is. Our pride remembers it forever. It is true forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. Nothing makes one as vain as observing or being told one is a sinner. It's true the scruple makes egotists of us all. You can make up a wrangle, but it will always show where it was patched.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." (MG said)

well said hun 👏 its all so true

Here are some questions about forgiving the One's you most loved and trusted. Her I go...

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

Now he did worse because pia and pushkar never slept with each other as far as i know or married to anyone.Jai is and he did not love pia so i would say that yes it is worse.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

I can see why he did not tell him because he did not want anyone to know...but he should have told the truth or atleast suggested that he may not be the father of the baby.which i think he is though😊

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

I do not think so...i think he will try and help bani or tell her. Jai had the power and money to ruin pushkar , he does not have that or the character to want to or to do that he cares about bani alot....

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

I think he might confront him like you said and use it to his advantage...or plot revenge on how to embarass those two... jai will like the others try and keep his mouth shut as usual heaven forbid telling the truth😡

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

I think both hes gonna want revenger for them both and want to tell bani has her closest confident and friend...i think he will play his one trump card and thats it ..which is embarass them both .

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?

No i do not think he will..he does not feel that way..as for forgiving for bani i dont think so because that also means bani forgiving that khadoo😡

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

He already nows remeber ...he choose pia over bani and told her he thought of her has an friend only...

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?

I think eventually it will be proved it never happened...then maybe from there they may be able to gain forgiveness...I think that pushkar and bani will leave the walia mansion.

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?

I think bani should forgive jai..and chuck pia out . If it was me i would just get out of that relationship amount of lies their have been...but jai does love her and regrets the ons so was only a physical not emotional betrayal

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything?

Nope anger is always before anything that spurs people to take revenge...forgivness will come afterwards i think after all the destructions happened.

That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉

Nope you did not 😊...haha 😆 no need for forgivenss hope you like my views ...you to have a good weekend to

Have a lovely weekend...😃

Salaam Namaste.. 😉

my heart goes mmmmm lol 😆

han.... 😉bye sis

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Here are my answers to your lovely questions.

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

A. Pushkar betrayed Jai then intentionally, as he knew what he was doing, when he eloped with Pia, as he was in his sences. Where as Jais betrayal was unintentional, as he was forcebly seduced by Pia when he was completely broken down.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

A. Yes so true truth can never be hidden at all. Jia did not tell Pushkar that he could also be the father of the child because maybe subconsiously he beleived or was releived to know that Pushkar was the childs father as they did show us in Dubai that Pushkar did spend a night with Pia just after the ONS. About Jai doing the right thing, how can he when he is the most confused, and most blackmailed man right now thus he couldn't tell Pushkar or even Bani the truth at all.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai's punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

A. Yes, it could be that Pushkar may turn evil because of this betrayal and go all out to destroy Jai. We have to wait and watch what happens there, but him taking revenge does sound a very good and happening possibility.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? What do you think Jai will do when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

A. Would love it if Pushkar confronts Jai with the ONS, I just hope he doesnot add to the ongoing growing list of people who are blackmailing him though. Would love to see Jais reaction to this and what he will tell Pushkar, something on the lines of what he told Rano I guess, was broken, depressed and Pia gave him "support"😡.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

A. If and when Pushkar tells Bani about the ONS, it will be because Bani needs to know the truth too and is his best friend, and not out of revenge at all. But he may in the future try to do his best to avenge himself and demolish Jai.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani?

A. When some one is very angry, that person can do any thing, but Pushkar using Bani in such a way I really donot think so, though he may be the one to support her through their mutal greif and may fall in love with her after knowing that she loved him once and this may make Jai jealous, but Pushkar doing it on purpose, no, I dont think so.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

A. As I said above he may fall in love with Bani on knowing the truth about Bani being in love with him in the beginning but Bani will always and only love Jai and thus because of her he may forgive both Jai and Pia.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think Bani will also forgive Pia?

A. Pushkar may forgive Jai eventually or Bani may be the reason he may forgive Jai but I really don't want both of them to forgive Pia at all, but Bani being Bani may forgive her too and so may Pushkar.

9. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys everything?

A. Hopefully yes, it will. Forgiveness will definitely come before complete destruction, until and unless they turn Pushkar completely negative.

Loved answering your questions hope you love reading them too and I have made sense.

Love

Krishna

Edited by kubare - 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaane

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

What Jai did is far worse. He got back at Pushkar with double the pain. Pushkar ran off with Pia - yes, that was wrong. But what Jai did was worse! And his mental and emotional state for doing what he did is not the right justification. They both made mistakes. Jai was more at fault!

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

He was afraid of losing Bani, the only happiness and love he has in life. What he did was wrong. He made his mistake larger by lying about it, and hiding the truth.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

Well, Pushkar did give it back to Jai pretty bad from today's episode. It was pretty hilarious, the whole beating up scene. Pushkar should not have done that. Violence does not solve it. He should have hurt Jai emotionally, not physically! But I don't think Pushkar's the kind of person who would take revenge, intentionally at least!

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

Pushkar already confronted him! And Jai did nothing but lower his head in shame and fear. I feel truly sorry for the both. Look where they started in life and now where they are

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

Out of honesty. Pushkar is truly fond of Bani. He would not do anything to her just to spite someone else. I would love to see him try to further destroy Jai. But really, is there a way to further destroy Jai? When Bani learns of the truth, Jai will be emotionally dead anyway.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?

Even if he forgives Jai for Bani's sake, what good will it do? Bani is not going to forgive Jai so easily.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

I don't think he'll fall in love with Bani. He'll be more emotionally attached to her than he was before, since they went through the same grief.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?

Don't know about Pushkar but Bani WILL definitely forgive Jai. I'm sure she'll even forgive Pia.

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?

Pia has not suffered. Jai, at least, has. He'd been undergoing emotional trauma ever since that ONS. But is that enough punishment? I don't know. It is up to Bani.

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything?

Yes.

That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉

Have a lovely weekend...😃

Salaam Namaste.. 😉

han....

great topic Han!👏

-Sravi

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thank you dear...😉 But would loved it more if answered the quetions... 😕

han

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1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?


What pia and pushkar did was wrong in the sense they kept their secret and let others suffer but with JP here marriage vows were broken. I know Jai signed the divorce papers, but do you think in his heart he believed he was divorced? Was his love for bani replaceable by sex with pia? What about pia? she is still married to pushkar though separated. She has broken her marriage vows. To me this is worse.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?


The onus is on Pia to tell pushkar, she led pushkar to believe the child is his. Jai was still reeling from the shock. Plus Jai actually wanted pia to live with pushkar and be a family, and he with Bani. It is pia who doesn't want to be a family with pushkar and wants jai to leave bani for her. Until jai does the paternity test he can't be 100% sure the child is his.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?


I somehow feel that Pushkar's hurt comes not from the fact that he slept with pia but rather from the fact that he betrayed bani because pushkar knows to what extent bani loves jai. His marriage is on the rocks and I think the only thing that is binding him to pia is the child whom he believes is his. If pushkar takes revenge it will be for bani. bani won't do anything but pushkar can't take this lying down. This time it will be worse than what Jai did to pushkar. Pushkar will destroy him emotionally and materially.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

But of course, confrontation is unavoidable. He should hide from pushkar. What face does he have to face pushkar. How he gets up every morning to face his wife knowing full well his betrayal. Does he have a right to expect pushkar to forgive him and does he have an excuse for sleeping with a married woman? moreover, he doesn't even love pia and it was purely physical. Pushkar might even believe that jai did it on purpose to take revenge for PP eloping, he waited all this time because that is how it looks like.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

Pushkar won't tell bani. He will keep pia away from jai and will refuse to divorce pia all for the happiness of bani. he has no idea that bani suspect jai. He can't bear to see bani broken hearted and betrayed by the two people she loves the most. His hamdardi for bani won't allow him to speak. Once bani walks out after learning the truth I would like to see pushkar take revenge on pia and jai. I want pushkar to turn out stronger and a formidable adversary to jai. Show pia that the loser is herself and not pushkar as she always says he is.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?


He will forgive jai for bani's sake. That is how much he respects bani. If jai and bani are together he knows hurting jai will hurt bani more so he will back off for her sake only. As far as his feelings for jai is concerned, he will not respect him or have anything to do with him. if jai had once called bani characterless today pushkar will call him that.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

If he is at an emotional low point he would have wished to go back in time and done things differently. Yes, he will fall in love with her. He loved pia for her external beauty and he will love bani for her internal beauty. He will only get satisfaction having destroyed both Jai and pia because he wants to avenge bani's betrayal, bani's tears and not for himself. Just like bani would go to any extent for her love for jai, similarly pushkar would do for bani.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?


With time bani will forgive jai because she will realize her folly in trying to hide the truth behind the divorce/alimony fiasco. But pia, never. Jai had only known her for a few months but pia has known her all her life. Bani has sacrificed her entire life for her sisters happiness , brought her up like a mother and that betrayal by pia is the ultimate and deepest wound. Pia has also broken all the vows of marriage which bani holds dear. Bani will feel that Pia's selfishness points directly to an inadequacy in bani's upbringing. She will lose all faith in relationships and all trust will be broken.

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?


Pia has to be punished because she is so selfish and needs to be taught a lesson in life. She is not even one ounce sorry for her folly. Forgiveness can only be offered to those who are aware and truly repent their mistake.

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything?


Bani will forgive and will not take revenge she will move on and face life's challenges but pushkar won't. That is bani's beauty.


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Originally posted by: hanaane


1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse? I believe Jai did worse because of the fact that he and Pia crossed that border, which Pia and Pushkar did not.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him? Absolutely not. Jai should have told Pushkar the truth. I mean i don't think that even once Jai tried to tell or even think about telling Puskar the truth. He has for Bani, but Pushkar deserves the truth as well. No wonder the poor guy broke down so bad😕

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him? I think that all Puskar has in mind is to tell Bani the truth. I don't think that Pushkar plans on doing anything else, he's already trashed Jai. I have a feeling that Pushkar knows that by telling Bani and she leaving Jai will be a good punishment for Jai

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS? Pushkar trashed poor Jai😕😆. I laughed so hard watching that. I'm sure all Jai can do is feel guilt, i'm not sure he or Pia could do anything to make matters better. But ehh i don't think there is a chance for Pushkar to forgive Jai or Pia as Jai forgave Pushkar and Pia. Jai and Pia did the big no no.. there is no way going back

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai? I think that Pushkar is not only looking out for Bani. He's such a good friend. He'll probably tell Bani out of honesty more than revenge. I'm sure that Pushkar will then make Pia's life worse but will leave it up to Bani to do what she like with Jai.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake? I have a feeling that if Bani forgives Jai.. there may be a chance that Pushkar could forgive Jai but thats a big if. I'm sure that if Bani tells Pushkar that she's thinking of forgiving Jai, Pushkar will try to explain to her how she shouldn't but will accept what Bani does..

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai? There is a chance that Pushkar can fall in love with Bani, especially if he finds out that Bani once loved him. He may not be able to forgive himself for not realizing it because it lead to Bani's life being the way it is and well his life as well. He may forget Pia and Jai but i don't think he can truly forgive them.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS? I really don't know the answer to this question😕😆 i guess i could write what i think should happen. I guess Bani should remain with Jai, make his life horrible but not let Pia win. Pushkar should divorce Pia and he and Bani will probably become even more close friends. I soooo hope that Bani does not forgive Pia...😡

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished? i don't think either should forgive Jai or Pia..but have a feeling that Bani will forgive Jai... Ekta will probably keep the jodi alive after winning the best couple award😕

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything? Most probably

That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉 Not boring at all... had decided not to work my brain over the winter break.. but your DOTW got me thinking😆

Have a lovely weekend...😃

Salaam Namaste.. 😉 Salaam Namaste to you as well😛

han....



Thanks Han... great DOTW.. it was fun answering your questions.. 👏

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1.When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?
-I think Jai did somethin worse!!! Pushkar just ran off with Pia, but Jai slept!!! Jai should not be 4gived aright away by anyone!!!

2.One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?
-I think Jai hind that Pushkar is not the father because he was scared of losin Bani!!! Jai did a bad thin by hidin it from him!!! No one should live with a lie like that!!!

3.When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?
-I think that Pushkar will do somethin worse!!! His goin 2 tell Bani n mayb end up bein with her!!! Not like that, but still its bad!!!

4.Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?
-I wish he does!!! Jai will try 2 protect Bani from the truth!!! Pushkar should still tell her!!!

5.What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?
-Revenge 2 Jai really 4 sure!!! Pushkar will go further in destroyin Jai!!! Jai is goin to b hurt a lot!!!

6.What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?
-He will not forgive Jai will do anythin 2 hurt him!!!

7.What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?
-He will try 2 make Bani fall 4 him again!!!

8.After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?
-Pushkar n her will live 2gether, but not as one!!!

9.Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?
-No, no, no!!! Punished, punished, punished!!!

10.Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and everything?
-Yes, yes, yes!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hanane,

Interesting questions. But let me begin by adding a caveat, JW hasn't done anything so there is no question of either forgiving or punishing JW for anything.

When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse?

What Pushky did was a cold-blooded premeditated act. JW's act was an accident committed by a broken, desperate man under the influence of booze. And mind you I don't believe he did it anyways.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him?

First of all, he couldn't have been sure that he was the Papa. And I still believe he isn't. Plus by revealing the truth he would have broken two marriages and shattered four hearts. What was the use of doing that?

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him?

JW had the hurt as well as the means to wreak vengeance on Pushky. And Pushky will do the same if he has the means he will do worse.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS?

Pushky will spill the beans on JW to Bani.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai?

He will tell Bani everything out of honesty. Revenge against JW will come later.


6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake?

If Bani presses hard for forgiveness to JW he will, otherwise he won't.


7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai?

He will not regret losing out on Bani bcos he loved her in a brother like manner. Even if later he falls in love, I don't think she will reciprocate.


8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS?

Well, of course I don't believe JW has done it. So where is the question of forgiving JW. But Bani will forgive Pia for her karnama bcos she is her sister after all.


9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished?

What should JW be punished for. He hasn't done anything. Even if he has they should forgive him eventually bcos after all he too did the same.


10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and everything?

Since this is a kektaa mayee serial, B-P will probably destroy JW and then realise that JW was innocent.

Regards,

Priyanka
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: hanaane

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." (MG said)I love this quote!!!!!

Here are some questions about forgiving the One's you most loved and trusted. Her I go...As usual my answers will be biased.😆

1. When Pia confessed her love to Pushkar. He betrayed Jai unintentionally by not telling him the truth. Do think now Jai did the same thing or worse? Jai did not do anything to begin with. so if he didn't do anything the question of betrayal doesn't even rise.

2. One way or another we all know that the truth always come to light at the end. However why didn't Jai tried even for once and tell Pushkar that he's not the father of Pia's child? Do think Jai did the right thing by hiding the truth from him? To begin with jai found out after the news was made public that he was "supposedly" the father of the child, so how could he tell pushky? they have little to no interaction whatsoever.

3. When Pushkar betrayed Jai. His ego was hurt more than his heart and afterwards we all witnessed what happen and how Jai punished him. Now Pushkar's heart is wounded and is out for revenge do you think he will do the worse than Jai did to him? Pushky will turn negative and be the number one jerk there is. Jai barely did anything to pushky, but pushky will be the one responsible for ruining jai's live soon.

4. Will Pushkar confront Jai after knowing about the ONS? Although after punishment Jai eventually forgave Pushkar what do you think Jai will do now when he finds out Pushkar knows about the ONS? I don't think pushky will want to talk to Jai, he will just jump to the worst possible conclusion and will be all set to ruin him. Jai should be ready for one more blackmailer.

5. What if Pushkar tells Bani everything about the ONS? Do you think he'll tell her out of honesty or for Jai's revenge? As if that happens, it will demolish Jai's live do you think Pushkar will stop there or go further destroying Jai? I dont' think pushkar will directly tell bani about the ONS, he will do it so that it tortures Jai. Pushky will do everything in his power to destroy my baby into bits and pieces.

6. What if Pushkar comes between Jai and Bani for revenge? Do you think he'll do that to Bani? Or he'll forgive Jai for Bani's sake? I don't think at this point he will actually think about bani, bani will be just his cover/reason for his revenge against jai.

7. What do you think will happen when Pushkar finds out how Bani loved him once? Will he be able to forgive himself for not realizing her love?Do you think he'll fall in love with her, get her and forgive and forget Pia & Jai? I think if and when pushky finds out that bani used to like him he will use that against jai and create misunderstandings and fulfill his revenge. I don't think he will forgive and forget easily.

8. After so much betraying what do you think Pushkar and Bani will do? Will they ever forgive Pia and Jai? Do you think as a sister Bani will ever forgive Pia after the ONS? I think pia will be forgiven easily compared to Jai, for some reason if there is hatred/anger it will be directed towards my baby more than pia.

9. Do you think Bani and Pushkar should forgive Jai and Pia for what they did? Or do you think they should get punished? My baby didn't do anything so there is no reason to ask for forgiveness. I think it was a set up, so no room for forgivness.

10. Will forgiveness come before the revenge destroys evryone and

everything? First there will lots and lots of destruction for sure and then later a lot of regret.

That's it for me for this week's DOTW. I hope I didn't bore you guys. So I will seek forgiveness from you all before hand and looking forward to reading your views and comments. 😉 Nice DOTW han!!! In short, i hate pushky, and my baby is innocent. 😳

Have a lovely weekend...😃 You too!!!!

Salaam Namaste.. 😉

han....

Han, i enjoyed answering your questions, lovely DOTW!!!!!

Take care,

Shina

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