DOTW XI - Failing Marriages

This week's DOTW is done by Nukutty, an undefeatable KS fan

Almost all characters in KS are married. But if we ever find a couple who are happily married, we will be surprised. This week's DOTW is about all those failed marriages, and on all those"ifs"

Ranveer &Rashi

It was only in the 11^th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.

1. If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different?
3. Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil?

1. Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through?
2. Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time?

Pia and Pushkar

Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .

Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).

1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong?

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different?

3. Are they made for each other? What makes you think so?

Jigyasa and Aaditya

Divorced they are, but her concern for him has been confirmed when he was supposed to be stabbed yesterday.

1. Did Jigyasa make a big mistake by divorcing him?
2. Are they destined to be together?

BIG QUESTION

Love marriages, (according to me) don't succeed at ALL. Only marriages which have ups and down , can last long. Do you agree? Is shaadi necessary? In't there a risk of all shaadis failing?

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors?

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?

That's all guys. Hope you have agood weekend, and hope you enjoy discussing!

Love,

Anu.

Originally posted by: NUKUTTY

This week's DOTW is done by Nukutty, an undefeatable KS fan

Almost all characters in KS are married. But if we ever find a couple who are happily married, we will be surprised. This week's DOTW is about all those failed marriages, and on all those"ifs"

Ranveer &Rashi

It was only in the 11^th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.

If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different? No i do not think so ....because look how long he hated her for and even now not fully accepted her so would have to leave the marriage for a long time ....also without the bandan of marriage i do not think he would have bothered to find out about her before.
1. Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil?

Good question...i do think they are made for each other because i think they complete each other...raashi balances out ranveers anger and makes him a better person.Same way think ranveer will make her stronger...

1. Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through?

Maybe but think its more likely to raashi like bani than ranveer.....Raashi is not as planning or intelligent as bani to do this on her own shes to simple....

1. Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time?

Yeh definetly will be one day ....think sooner than later...yay no more sanyassi

Pia and Pushkar

Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .

Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).

1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong?

Immaturity ...they both were not ready for marraige rushed into it...pia was not a family type girl which is what he needs...so did not think things through i mention the family has that was the main arguements were before

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different?

I think so though the people are the same i feel they might never have got married if they had not had to run away in his fear

3. Are they made for each other? What makes you think so?

NOOOOOOOOOOO

Jigyasa and Aaditya

Divorced they are, but her concern for him has been confirmed when he was supposed to be stabbed yesterday.

1. Did Jigyasa make a big mistake by divorcing him?

Not really since they still together so not really lost alot....

1. Are they destined to be together?

they are even though they divorced still live together and act like a married couple if people get divorced and that good together wonder what there marriage was like....

BIG QUESTION

Love marriages, (according to me) don't succeed at ALL. Only marriages which have ups and down , can last long. Do you agree? Is shaadi necessary? In't there a risk of all shaadis failing?

All shaadis can fail arranged thing is it takes longer because people have to get to know each other which takes longer and people know what they looking for and find that type...........does not matter whichever. Thing with love marriages is sometimes people change in their attitude like when they boyfriend girlfriend accept them has they are ..when they get married want something else example being a guy might not mind a girl going out whenever she wanted before marriage but afterwards wants her not to as much...the girls not changed but guys expectations..

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors?

Think you mean breakage of marriage....

lack of understanding...each other and what they doing

rushing into thing

Not enough trust

outsiders

just not been compatable

expecting perfection

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?

do not get what you mean ...could you explain please

That's all guys. Hope you have agood weekend, and hope you enjoy discussing!

Love,

Anu.

Originally posted by: NUKUTTY

This week's DOTW is done by Nukutty, an undefeatable KS fan

Almost all characters in KS are married. But if we ever find a couple who are happily married, we will be surprised. This week's DOTW is about all those failed marriages, and on all those"ifs"

Ranveer &Rashi

It was only in the 11^th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.

If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different? i don't know i mean.. being the fact that ranveer's a sanyasi. i can't see her communicating wit her like that.. of course things r different NOW - well a little not a whole a lot.. but noo.. i just can't picture that..
1. Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil? nope they're meant to be.. she's gettin thru to him... u can see it now😳 he has that concern for her.. u notice it.. he tries to hide it..that's when his anger comes out

Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through? no because they don't have a pia in their life... raashi's not a jasoos.. i think their story would be different.. GOOD different... even though they seem to following jb footsteps
1. Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time? i thinkkkkkkkk so.. well from the looks of it.. the concern he has for her.. ohhh yea😉

Pia and Pushkar

Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .

Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).

1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong? i don't know.. i don't think they both actually sat down and thought it THROUGH.. pia had her own goals and dreams.. she's not really the "DIL" type.. no wonder she couldn't get along wit pushy's bhabi or anyone for that matter.. as fo pushkar.. i don't nkow WHAT to say.. im on his supportive side.. cuz he tried.. he TRIED to make her happy.. u can't blame him.. and u can't say he didn't try.. but he's the kind of person who loves his family.. wants to live in a family.. wit his mom, bro so on.. but pia's just DIFFERNT

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different? yeaaa.. some wat.. cuz in their relationship (pia/pushy) she brought up JAI a lot.. especially when it came to comparing him wit pushkar i don't know.. it would've been differnt for that matter..

3. Are they made for each other? What makes you think so? yes when they were newly weds.. i would've said MADE for each other.. now i believe otherwise.. i think pushkar should find a nice grl and just go away from walia's/dixit's.. pia - i don't think she deserve's anyone.. she's gonna have to change herself.. at least a lil.. u CAN'T alwayz have it ur way.. but she can't seem to get the hint

Jigyasa and Aaditya

Divorced they are, but her concern for him has been confirmed when he was supposed to be stabbed yesterday.

Did Jigyasa make a big mistake by divorcing him? no not really.. cuz they both know.. their marraige wouldn't have been successful.. so no not really
1. Are they destined to be together? in its own weird way.. yes they are.. cuz even after the divorce.. u see the concern,the love they have for one another.. the taunts they throw at each other.. back and forth.. so yep desitned to be

BIG QUESTION

Love marriages, (according to me) don't succeed at ALL. Only marriages which have ups and down , can last long. Do you agree? Is shaadi necessary? In't there a risk of all shaadis failing? love or arrainge.. u neva know.. it depends on YOU.. if ur gonna make it successful or not.. well u and ur otherhalf.. u have to give up on somethings to gain.. u can't alwayzz have it ur way.. u have to understand the other person.. and make commitments.. that's how marraige succeeds.. i guess..

NO marraige is perfect.. NO couple is perfect.. a relationshp is bound to have its ups and downs.. its durin those times.. the relationship is built or destroyed

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors? well saw pushy/pia and jigs/adi (if im correct) love marraige.. and we saw the results.. but i think love marraiges can be successful... but both parties have to work hard in order to make it and keep it successful

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?

That's all guys. Hope you have agood weekend, and hope you enjoy discussing!

Love,

Anu. it was gr8888 anu👏

A very very good topic and a very good point made here 👏 👏


Ranveer &Rashi
It was only in the 11th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.
1. If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different?
I don't think there spending time together would made any difference to their relationship, basically boz Ranveer does not even want to try to make this a proper marriage and Raashi did not have any say in her marriage decision. So,even if she had not liked Ranveer before the marriage she would have got married to him.As her elders wanted her to.

Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil?
Definately not made for each other kind of pair. But can't say anything otherwise.

Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through?
I Don't think so. Mama Bhanja might be same type, but Raashi is lot different from Bani.

Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time?
Perhaps......

Pia and Pushkar
Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .
Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).
1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong?
Their immaturity, not ready to understand the relationship's importance. Action before thinking. No compatibility and understanding between the partners. And many similar reasons…..

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different?
Don't think so….Since Jai was not the reason for the break up.

Marriages, arranged or love succeed, provided there is understanding, commitment, respect and love between the partners(after marriage). Every marriage has its ups and down…..it is how you deal with them that makes it last long. I will complete 10yrs of many ups and down this month. Loved each moment of it… (sort of)

Shaadi necessary?????? Have you heard of the "Ladoo, jo khaye who bhi pachtaye, jo na khaye who bhi pachtaye". Guess it is the way of life….
The risk is there, but i I think, if you enter a relationship with the thought of making it a success at any cost(except taking violence like Raashi does), then you can make it a success.

I am firm believer in the word marriage. Have been through real hell and back many many times, to make it work. I agree it is not easy.!!!!!!! All I can say is, it is very easy to walk away from a problem but it takes a lot to face and solve it.

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors?

Lack of commitment to make it work. Lack of understanding. Lack of respect for your spouse. Communication gap. Very less patience and tolerance towards each other, high expectations, less trust... Etc..,(can be due to these factors from just one person too, as it takes two to make or break a marriage).

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?
Yes, it can.

Hope you liked my answers and point of views...
Love,
Shish.

Originally posted by: NUKUTTY

This week's DOTW is done by Nukutty, an undefeatable KS fan

Almost all characters in KS are married. But if we ever find a couple who are happily married, we will be surprised. This week's DOTW is about all those failed marriages, and on all those"ifs"

Ranveer &Rashi

It was only in the 11^th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.

1. If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different? i dont think so as ranveer never wanted to get married in the first place...n did it cuz of his sis...but incase he did...i dont think so...cuz both r like the quiet type...ranveer is the rude stubborn type n raashi is the opposite so they might make a nice couple if everything worked out but i dont raashi would of wanted to marry if she had the choice

1. Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil? hmmmm if u asked me a few days ago i would of said yes somebody esle is her manzil but now i think maybe they r mad for another as which girl in the right mind would put up with ranveer 😆

1. Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through? he might n then he might not ...but raashi had many chances to leave but she didnt i dont know wat make her leave him unless he kicked her out...n so his story is a lil differnt than jai n bani

1. Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time?

hmmm maybe...now that ranveer maybe is considerin raashi as a human😆 he is like a cocconut hard from the outside but warm from the inside so cuz of raashi we might jus see that other side of him

Pia and Pushkar

Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .

Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).

1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong?

well pushkar went wrong by marry her 😆 well i dont see where he made the mistakes pia on the other hand is money-minded n when he had money went for him n when his hard times came she made him regret it...n so mainly i think she is the reason for the failure of there marriage

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different? YES!! as jai first fired pushkar he lost his job his money which kinda started the fights lack of money n pia's greed of it so i think it would of made a big difference!!

3. Are they made for each other? What makes you think so?

personally i dont think pushkar desevres someone like pia as she is horrible greedy selfish person...n noone deserves to live with someone like that so there not made for each other!

Jigyasa and Aaditya

Divorced they are, but her concern for him has been confirmed when he was supposed to be stabbed yesterday.

1. Did Jigyasa make a bieg mistake by divorcing him?

well if u look at in one way there not really divorced jus cuz papers say they r doesnt mean they..both live in the same house might not share the same room but still have concern n care for one another...everyone considers them as a couple..when ever poojas r held both r together..so its jigs probably did mistake to divorce but then again there divorce doesnt seem like a divorce as both act like a normal couple still😆

1. Are they destined to be together?

yes as if someone esle had to come into jigs life he might of already n same with adi but no oe did n both r still loyal to one another...n even though bein divorce love each other deep down even though jigs denies it

BIG QUESTION

Love marriages, (according to me) don't succeed at ALL. Only marriages which have ups and down , can last long. Do you agree? Is shaadi necessary? In't there a risk of all shaadis failing?

life is full of risks...n yes like other things shaadi also has problems but it doesnt mean its something that u can break or tie when ever u like...when there is a problem like everyother problem it has a solution..n shaadi is nesscary as this life is too long to spend alone n u cant live with it with jus friends or boy or girlfriends..when ur mom n dad leave u'll have noone to call ur own...no one to be there when ur sick...or ask u if ur fine i am not married so cant tell u its the best experience but there r problems but marriage doesnt jus mean problems means happiness too....like i said before everythin u do is a risk takin even stepin out the door but u dont stop do u...so failing or success of marriage is determined by how much effort u put in to make it work n to understand ur partner

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors? hmmmm i guess be density that the most unlikely ppl endin up together...n tryin to work things out as they belivie someting can happen. but

lack of understanding

not trustin one another...

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?

serials r inspried from real life so its a forsure that it could happen

That's all guys. Hope you have agood weekend, and hope you enjoy discussing!

Love,

Anu.

awesome questions!!! 👏

Originally posted by: NUKUTTY

This week's DOTW is done by Nukutty, an undefeatable KS fan

Almost all characters in KS are married. But if we ever find a couple who are happily married, we will be surprised. This week's DOTW is about all those failed marriages, and on all those"ifs"

Ranveer &Rashi

It was only in the 11^th hour that Rashi came to know who her Jeevansathi was to be. She never got any chance to study her future husband or even know what he would be like.

If Ranveer and Rashi had got enough time before their marriage, and had they known each other well before he had tied the knot with her, do you think their kahaani would have been different? hmm...probably not!! Ranveer..being Ranveer..wouldn't have given Raashi a second look...plus the only reason he got married was cuz he was forced to! otherwise he'd still be playing the sexy sanyasi's role😉
1. Are they made for each other? Or do you think somebody else is her Manzil? i wouldn't say they're made for each other...but with time and effort, they'll be compatible for each other...and eventually fall in love!

Will Ranveer have to go through all those painful moments Jai had to go through? probably not...no one's out to destroy his life...so Raashi probably won't have to play the detective😆
1. Will it be "happy days are here" for them any time? it's possible...if Jigyaasa gets shipped off to Timbuktu😆

Pia and Pushkar

Pushkar-the dream husband. Quite foolish at times, but still, a caring partner .

Pia, the queen of foolishness(I would say they are made for each other that way).

1.What, other than Pia's stupidities, is the reason for their failing marriage? Where did the two go wrong? PUshkar is a BIG pushover...he tried to do everything for Pia...just to make her happy...he should have let her grow up first!!

2. Hadn't Pia met Jai at all, would their kahaani have been different? of course...but would she have met pushkar then?! who knows...maybe she would have met tony first and fall head over heels in love w/ our dear butler😳😆

3. Are they made for each other? What makes you think so? I don't think they're made for each other...Pia's out to destroy him...now that he's done w/ it...she's moved onto something bigger and better😆

Jigyasa and Aaditya

Divorced they are, but her concern for him has been confirmed when he was supposed to be stabbed yesterday.

Did Jigyasa make a big mistake by divorcing him? well...to her, it probably isn't a mistake...knowing their personalities, they wouldn't have stayed happy married....but then Adi still lives in their home...and they're constantly seeing each other...so what was the purpose of the divorce?!😆
1. Are they destined to be together? hehe...didn't give that much thought...maybe...i would have liked to see them together...when jigyaasa was ashwini...but now...i don't see much chemistry between the new jiggy and adi

BIG QUESTION

Love marriages, (according to me) don't succeed at ALL. Only marriages which have ups and down , can last long. Do you agree? Is shaadi necessary? In't there a risk of all shaadis failing?

Well, we can't form a stereotype and say that one kind succeeds and the other doesn't. There are examples of successful marriages in both cases. Now is shaadi necessary...I would say yes...wouldn't it be nice to have a life partner, a family to call your own, a home to go back to everyday...someone to depend on?! YES!😃 And we keep fearing everything because of the possible risks, we'd still be neanderthals😆

What is common between all the factors that are leading to the above mentioned leading factors?

Can this common factor act as a real life villain too? That is, in all our lives?

That's all guys. Hope you have agood weekend, and hope you enjoy discussing!

Love,

Anu.

good discussion Anu!👏

Originally posted by: Misangelic

Can the factor, which is causing all the failing marriages, act as a real life villain too? That is , in real life married couple's life?

Hope its clear now, misangelic!😃

Originally posted by: shish

A very very good topic and a very good point made here 👏 👏

Thanks, shish!



Hope you liked my answers and point of views...
Love,
Shish.

I loved them, u have a very good thinking ability.......

Originally posted by: Banin

will post my reply later but is sahil and rano having a successful marriage?

theirs is not yet a failed marriage...........and they still have time to make up.