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mistletoe

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Posted: 18 years ago

Zindagi tere gham ne hume, rishtey naye samjhaye,

Mile jo hume, dhoop mein mile, chaoon ke thande saaye….

Nothing could more describe Life than these two lines from one of my all time favourite songs from the Movie, Masoom. It talks about, how we end up finding some of our best relationships when we are going through our worst phase….

Jai found his soulmate when he was going through his roughest patch in Life and Bani found her soulmate when she was going through her Lows! No wonder, as Jai as always says, that his relationship with Bani is "Dard ka Rishta"…and relationships forged under anguish & pain are ever enduring!

I want to focus on the conversation between Jai and Pia which has to be one of the most sensitively handles scenes of KS till date:

Pia questions Jai, "Agar aap kal toote hue nahin hote, toh kya aap ko mera sahaara nahin chahiye hota?" Translated, "If you were not a broken man yesterday, wouldn't you have come to me for support?"

Jai answers Pia, "Hum dono ke beech jo bhi hua, isliye hua kyunki hum dono akele te,
unlogo ke saath nahi te jinke saat hum rehna chahthe hain." Translated, "Whatever happened between us happened because we both were alone, we were not with the people whom we wanted to be with."

Jai has always been very straight, exact & completely unequivocal in his communication with everyone (Save Bani at times) and his conversation with Pia in yesterday's episode will remain to be one of the best in KS till date! Jai felt terrible for Pia, he felt concerned for her and he felt guilty for the state she was in because of him, but at the same time, he was so very CLEAR on where he stands….Not only with his feelings as regards to Pia, but also in his feelings for Bani! Strangely, both Jai and Bani have expressed what they feel for one another to other people with such clarity but never to one another! Be it Aditya or Massi and now Pia, Jai has always put across his feelings for Bani to them in a manner which not only conveyed Deep Love, but also immense respect, almost bordering on worship! The very fact that Jai tells Pia, that he was with Pia, not only because he was alone, but also because, he couldn't be with the person whom he wanted to be with, sent shock waves throughout Pia's whole self! This is perhaps for the first time that Pia realizes what Jai feels for Bani and with what intensity he feels for her!

Also, we might criticize Jai for a lot many things, but one has to give credit where it is due! Not once did Jai lable any accusation on Pia, or say that she was the one who forced herself upon him (Which she did and he knows that). Nor does he say that whatever happened was only her mistake. What makes Jai honorable in not the fact that he is blemishless or faultless, but the fact that he makes his shares of mistakes like any other human being but does not run away from them or put the blame on anyone else…He stands to face them and sort them out instead! Jai might be a a lot of unflattering things, but he is surely not an escapist or a coward.

I think the best dialogue that Jai says is that, Bani is a part of "Him" just the way Pushkar is a part of "Pia" and that he cannot turn away from Bani, come what……Look at his expression when he says in an exasperated manner, "Pia, jo tum chahti ho, woh nahin ho sakta, hum dono shaadi shuda hai…." Good to see that Jai still holds his Marriage in high regards, even though Bani gave him several reasons to take his belief away from the Institution!

When Pia tells Jai that he had himself told her one day, that the people who give you tears are not important, but the ones who wipe them off are important and one day, she had given tears to Jai and Bani had given her shoulder to Jai and today, Bani gave tears to Jai and it was Pia who gave comfort to Jai…..Indicating to Jai, that if he could make Bani a part of his Life, then why shouldn't he do the same to Pia, since the condition for both the sisters is the same! No wonder, Jai looks so thunderstruck!

Now girls, your Q&A session begins, be good and answer them as well as you do everyday:

Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them thereafter?

Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage, Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from her?

Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to Bani before he leads her on anymore?

Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he would never be able to live happily with Bani?

Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost him?

Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the same intensity for him and expresses them openly?

Would be awaiting your answers…..

Cheers,

PS: Wish you all a very Happy Karva Chauth!

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Posted: 18 years ago

Thanks for inspiring all of us MT..my repsonse is somewhere below in the
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Sareeta

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Posted: 18 years ago

MT,

I cudnt resist answering the last question in your post, about Jai's surprise.

My thoughts:

For a man , of such depth , such strong emotions bordering on extremes , but yet very strong..., a man of less words, words would not come easy , for he is no poet, but yeah, he wished to convey his feelings to his wife, and what happened yday was they both wished, deep within and his wife, whom he considers a part of him, brought that out...

His,

Surprise , for it seemed surreal, yet what he had wished for and hoped to do for her at a point in the past... Surreal is the word , yeah...

Smile , was for the fact that although he knew of her feelings for him, the intensity as she had expressed, but she has tried to recreate the the surreal , dream like expereince , which they wished to share with one another .. for a long time ... and she has yet again understood what he always wanted....

Sareeta

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Ashwini

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Posted: 18 years ago

Loved yr questions, will answer in some time!

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majumdar

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Posted: 18 years ago

MT,

Q-Do you think Jai was clear enough in expressing what he wanted to with Pia, without offending her sense of dignity? Or do you think, he should have been more curt & brusque with her and ordered her to stay away from Bani and his Life?

A- He behaved exactly the way I wanted him to. He brought out clearly that Bani was the woman for him but without belittling her. He was both fair (10/3 was not Pia's fault alone and in any case Pia is much younger), prudent (hell hath no fury like a woman scorned) and sensitive (realised that this was a girl despo in love)- in not being rude to her.

Q-Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them thereafter?

A- Most of the time, yes (except when he is trashing his wife). If people don't hurt him and are truthful with him, he has always been kind and considerate. And yes, his conduct with Pia was very correct did not try to pin any blame on her.

Q-Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage, Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from her?

A- All three, he loves Bani and no one else, wouldn't have gone to Pia even if Bani had left him forever and values the institution of marriage (rebuffing Rosh being proof).

Q-Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to Bani before he leads her on anymore?

A- Very much so, he needed to have a heart to heart chat with Pia before he could be fully normal with Bani. Yes, he is still guilty but will not let it come in the way of enjoying his wife's company.

Q-Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he would never be able to live happily with Bani?

A- Honestly, don't know. The first reaction would be that JW should be honest particularly as Pia would blab soon and Bani wouldn't like to hear from P first. On second thoughts, would it be fair to shatter a young, wonderful and lonely woman's dream of love and marriage so soo. Can't make up my mind.

Q-Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost him?

A- Pia is capable of falling in love but whether she can remain in love is highly questionable. Look at what she did to Pushkar- his love for Pia was as passionate, as sincere and as deep as Jai's for Bani and what makes his love even more commendable is the fact that he was very well aware that Pia was a very flawed person whereas Jai's love fell well short of what a woman like Bani deserved. And yet she managed to destroy him. There's no knowing what she would do to JW.

But I don't want to prejudge her but let her actions speak for herself. The proof of her love and her personal integrity is whether she would allow JW and Bani (she claims to love both very much) to remain happily with each other.

But if I have to put my money, I would say that what Pia feels for Jai is desire and that if she can't have him destroy him never mind if the woman who has been a Mom to her also goes down with him.

Q-Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the same intensity for him and expresses them openly?

A- Of course, he is very happy to be so pampered and loved by the woman who he loves so much. But yes, amused and surprised too. The beach scene I think should slay the ghost of Bani being loved only for her child and nothign else.

Rgds,

Priyanka

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Khushboo Bindra

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Posted: 18 years ago

Do you think Jai was clear enough in expressing
what he wanted to with Pia, without offending her sense of dignity? Or do
you think, he should have been more curt & brusque with her and
ordered her to stay away from Bani and his Life?

I think the latter. He should by now know what type of woman she is and
that usually women of that nature need a harsher tone to make them fully
understand. He should have answered her back when she made the last
statement and said, "no.. you can't compare fire (Bani) with ice (Pia) even
thought they both are needed for man to live and both are equally
resourceful (as we have seen on KC night)."

Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude
and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and
caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his
conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable
man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them
thereafter?

Definitely yes. He is capable of sooo much love and compassion but his
circumstances have made him stone hearted and mean. He was shown in
the begining of the serial as a man who would do anything for love, which
is did for Pia, but she broke his heart. But later he was also shown as
being respectful and loving towards not breaking Massi's heart if she
found out what was really going on. His conversation with Pia is proof to
why they chose an older man to play Mr. Walia and not some young,
arrogant, prick. Because with age, comes wisdom and understanding all
of which our dear Mr. Walia possesses.

Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship
forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married
and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to
continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels
nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought
of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage,
Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from
her?

In my opinion, honestly speaking, I think he said that to make her
understand that he was a man of his words and a man for whom family
means everything. Even though he fell in his darkest hour, he fell because
he believed his so called family had abandoned him. He had lost his child,
his wife. What was left for him. He then got them back and with them he
got the shakti to fight. Jai truly loves Bani, as much as he wants to claim
their relationship is of dard and agony, it has the seeds of love
germinating within those bonds. In regards to cheating on Bani now that
she is with him. I seriously doubt it.

Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and
that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do
you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to
Bani before he leads her on anymore?

I think he might have lightened the load of his chest a little bit, but seeing
from the Park Road incident. He will most likely day by day, fall prey to
thinking he is not good enough for Bani and that he should set her free.
He will eventually tell her everything. The beach date in my opinion was a
dream that our intoxicated Jai Walia had while watching his wife slumber
away.

Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do
you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his
misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life
and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is
indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he
would never be able to live happily with Bani?

For the sake of this serial I really hope he doesn't tell her. Because the
moment that path is taken, their relationship and their trust in one
another will change regardless of how much they tell each other it won't.

In real life, I would like to know, but also one needs to be practical in life.
If you are in the middle of getting divorced and technically you are
divorced. If you husband sleeps with someone else. Is it really cheating if
you get back together. In my opinion no, since he was a free bird while he
was sleelping with someone else.

Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she
shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do
you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a
Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her
go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost
him?

I don't think she loves him as love is defined to be. I believe she saw him
up close as he took care of his wife and wished she was that loved. And
eventually the admiration she had towards him because infatuation, with
eventually with also become want. But under the circumstances that she
got to know him, anyone would have fallen for the loving, doting,
(handsome) husband. Especially when all he keeps on crying for is some
companionship. She lusted after pushar and got him. She wanted to
"claim" what was hers to begin with and she got Jai finally too. What's left
for her to feel who knows really.

Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete
surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai
just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or
is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the
same intensity for him and expresses them openly?

Since I believe it was a dream sequence, I shall explain under those
contexts. I think subconsciously Jai wants Bani to tell him she wants him,
she lusts after him, that she needs him. He is cravng to her those words
from her and if he can't hear them, he wants to at least see them played
out in actions. So with the whole beach scene, she imagined Bani as he
wanted to see her. Which in actuality isn't really Bani. She is timid, quiet,
and reserved her vocal judgements.

It is wasn't a dream sequence, then I belive Jai was definitely stunned. he
was happy to see his wife admit wholeheartedly that she wanted to be
with him. And that nothing else in the world mattered. In regards to her
new Zena warrior princess personality change. Which man isn't turned on
by a woman taking charge every now and then.??

Khushboo (excuse my typo's)

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soap-critic

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Now girls, your Q&A session begins, be good and answer them as well as you do everyday:

Do you think Jai was clear enough in expressing what he wanted to with Pia, without offending her sense of dignity? Or do you think, he should have been more curt & brusque with her and ordered her to stay away from Bani and his Life?

He was very clear in expressing and explaining his POV and where is stands absolutely clearly.He also made Pia realize what Bani means to him. What I liked about it was that he did it withoug being apologetic or guilty about it!

Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them thereafter?

Considering the way everything happened between he did not owe Pia any explanation as Pia was the one who had forced and initiated the whole situation. Therefore it did show JW in a very good light and as a person who is not afraid to face his mistakes and deal with them.

Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage, Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from her?

I would say a combination of all of the above. He absolutely feels nothing for Pia that's for sure.

Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to Bani before he leads her on anymore?

I do not think he is reeling under any kind of guilt after his conversation with Pia. However, I somehow feel he wants to nip the whole thing in the bud and wants Bani to remain oblivious to what had or had not transpired between him and Pia. I don't see any signs of him wanting to confess to Bani.

Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he would never be able to live happily with Bani?

Personally I feel he should already have confessed and explained the whole thing to Bani already. But given the circumstances - they both are just re-connecting and the tension of Barnali's presence may be holding him back. There have been too many misunderstanding between these two due to each keeping information from the other. Jai should confess at the soonest available opportunity. (He should know from experience that his ex-girlfriends cannot keep their mouths shut😆😆)

Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost him?

I don't think Pia know the meaning of love. She is one confused person and has her priorities all messed up. Hope she can see the light of day soon.

Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the same intensity for him and expresses them openly?

Initially he appeared slightly amused but that gave way to happiness. He is surely pleasantly surprised and really happy about the way Bani has transformed herself and is now openly reciprocating what he is feeling.

Would be awaiting your answers…..

MT - Do you know if Nigaar Khan is playing a cameo role or is she in for the long haul?

Cheers,

MT

PS: Wish you all a very Happy Karva Chauth!

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mistletoe

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Posted: 18 years ago

Originally posted by: sareeta
MT,

I cudnt resist answering the last question in your post, about Jai's surprise.

My thoughts:

For a man , of such depth , such strong emotions bordering on extremes , but yet very strong..., a man of less words, words would not come easy , for he is no poet, but yeah, he wished to convey his feelings to his wife, and what happened yday was they both wished, deep within and his wife, whom he considers a part of him, brought that out...

His,

Surprise , for it seemed surreal, yet what he had wished for and hoped to do for her at a point in the past... Surreal is the word , yeah...

Smile , was for the fact that although he knew of her feelings for him, the intensity as she had expressed, but she has tried to recreate the the surreal , dream like expereince , which they wished to share with one another .. for a long time ... and she has yet again understood what he always wanted....

Sareeta

Wow Sareeta, That was really, really well put!👏 Guys, I am reading your responses, will get back to all of you!

Thanks once again for giving your views & opinions as enthusiastically as ever! Much appreciated!

Cheers,

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sun29

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Posted: 18 years ago

hello MT alwayz luv answering ur questions😊

Do you think Jai was clear enough in expressing what he wanted to with Pia, without offending her sense of dignity? Or do you think, he should have been more curt & brusque with her and ordered her to stay away from Bani and his Life?

a-jai is reeling under heavy guilt not only abt bani but also where pia is concerned,he knows that he is also to be blamed for what happened,so being curt abt the issue is not going to help besides he knows pia is more immature hence what ever he did he tried his best to put the truth across without offending her anymore and whether the pont has been taken is everybody's guess..

Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them thereafter?

a-from the start the very reason i like jai is b'coz he is a sensitive man as bani put it more child like he has not been rude without a reason,he getz hurt easily as he is considerate abt others except sometimes where bani is concerned but that again he was not solely responsible .jai is a decent man who can draw a line between right and wrong and what is wrong he never justifies but accepts it.what happened with pia was wrong he tells her that it self shows his decency,the guilt he is carrying ,he is human made a huge mistake(hold on to faith he is innocent)he is trying to redeem all he needs is a chance,he never runs from his mistakes and never will but he is also a human.

Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage, Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from her?

a-there was a time when he knew exactly that this marriage is farce has to end he was very clear abt that even after consummating it he wanted to let go of bani as he was unsure abt them,today bani came back to him asked him for a second chance and jai gave her as he wants to spend his life with bani irrespective of what she put him through.what he told pia is what he felt jai never plays around with his words (except when it comes to telling bani)bani is a part of him he wants to be with her only ,and am very sure even if bani would not have come back the guy still would have refused as for him loving bani ,he has loved for lifetime and is not capable of sharing the same with anyone else.

Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to Bani before he leads her on anymore?

a-to a certain extent he did feel less burdened as we cld see for the past so many days he was trying to talk to her and bechara whenever he sees his bani sab bhool jatta hain he was soo mesmerized(we all were) 😳
a-i think like PR guilt hain but also the fact that he will lose her again poor thing yaar sometimes u act selfish when in love,he does want to tell her and seeing this new bani i think leading ka kaam she is going to do now 😆

Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he would never be able to live happily with Bani?

a-jai truly loves bani and he will very much want her to know ki kya hua how he does that i do not know but we have seen the PR fiasco that guy lived through hell with guilt this time its even worse we know he cannot be happy abt hiding it hence 'honesty is the best policy.'

Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost him?

a-i have a feeling that this time pia truly is in love and yes what she shared with pushkar was more of jawani ki nadani.as u urself put it her love is more masked with desire rather than depth and i feel that she is sad as she cannot have him now that she wants him ( 😡 😡 she was always beyond my sane reasoning)rather than the fact that she has lost him.

Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the same intensity for him and expresses them openly?
a- 😳 😳 loved the scene soo much....
jai is obviously very surprised and pleasantly soo,he is unsure how to react to this new bani, jai and bani both have been waiting for this moment for long this was pure bliss it made him forget everything everyother emotion except for the fact that this is the woman this is the moment i waht to hold onto😳 forever and that thought transformed into a smile...hai...😳 😳sure of one thing that man is deeply in love with his wife and he was looking hot 😳 had to say.

hope i made sense and happy karwa chauth to u as well.
u keeping fast for hubby dear??

Edited by sun29 - 18 years ago

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Nikita

@Dancingdoll

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Posted: 18 years ago

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Now girls, your Q&A session begins, be good and answer them as well as you do everyday:

]MT, Before I start answering I would defn like to say one thing, I have never seen a more beautiful description of a scene like you have done here. Believe me, I did not view Jai in high regards (wrt this scene) before I read your Post!! 👏 Now, this is what I think ......

Do you think Jai was clear enough in expressing what he wanted to with Pia, without offending her sense of dignity? Or do you think, he should have been more curt & brusque with her and ordered her to stay away from Bani and his Life?

]Well, I think he handled it pretty well!!! I would not advocate for a curt behaviour as we all know he is a man of dignity and knows how to be responsible for his actions!! He has realised that what happened was not only Pia's mistake but he too was a party to it. So, being curt will only show Pia being 100% guilty!! He is a thorough gentleman in realizing his mistake.

But at the same time I want to know why couldnt he answer Pia's question, "Kya aapka adhoorapan door ho gaya (after Bani came back)?". He was thunderstuck and had no reply for it. I know that right now he is still getting over what he has gone thru' in last couple of months + his child's death. But he should be sure of the fact that NOW, together with Bani, he can again try to make his marriage a success and remove the "adhoorapan". I am angry that he couldnt answer that one question which would have sealed his faith and trust in Bani!!

Do you find Jai Walia to be a "Sensitive" Man, one who might be rude and offhand in his outward behaviour but is innately very considerate and caring of other people's thoughts and feelings?Do you feel his conversation with Pia showed him as someone very decent and honorable man who might make mistakes but does not shrink from facing them thereafter?

]As I replied earlier, he definitely depicts the guy talked about in this question. An extremely honourable man!!!! The evidence lies in the fact that when he married Bani and made her go thru' hell, he could not remain that heartless soul for long as THAT IS NOT WHAT HE IS. He had to come back to his nomal self and he did. He forgave each one of them. Yes, the conversation between JP was handled very well by him. He was very matured and took the responsibility. But he was also truthful and talked practical. I love him for the part wherein he says that "Bani is a PART of him"

Why do you think Jai told Pia to forget about having any relationship forged between them? Is it because as Jai himself says that he is Married and so is she and whether they love their spouses or not, they have to continue with their respective marriages? Or is it because, he really feels nothing for Pia and even without Bani in his life, he wouldn't have thought of having any future with her? Or is it because, Marriage or no Marriage, Jai only loves Bani and cannot think of a life with anyone else apart from her?

]Well, Frankly speaking, I feel that Jai could not go for any kind of relationship with Pia because he is a "married man". He takes his marriage vows very seriously and he knows that Bani has always been there for him and has proved to be a true life partner. Ofcourse its a fact that he loves Bani and cannot live without her (confessed to Masiji in the hospital), and that also was a strong reason not to go for Pia. But I sincerely feel that If Bani was not in his life and he was not married he would have definitely given Pia a second chance.
Also, If he was a married man (but not to Bani) and there was no scope for his marriage to break, he would not go for Pia because of this commitement.
Hence, I feel "MARRIAGE" was a stronger reason!!

Do you think that the Conversation with Pia lightened Jai's burden and that is why he was so relaxed with Bani during their Beach-date? Or do you still feel he is reeling under immense guilt and wants to confess to Bani before he leads her on anymore?

]I dont think he was feeling light about it as he still has to tell the truth to Bani. The only reason he was enjoying himself on the beach was because he was with Bani after a long time and romance was written all over the place!! He was with someone he carved to be with, all this while, and that too it was coming after a long time!!

Its a fact that he felt light, but that was because at that moment the only thing that he could think of was Bani. He was not even thinking about Pia and the moment shared with her. So, The tension was not in the atmosphere...

He still has the feeling of immense guilt which I am sure we will see it in the coming up episodes when he would try everything possible from stopping other ppl who might know about this truth(Like Jigs), from telling Bani. He would want to confess to her on his own (exactly like Park Road mystery)

Hypothetical Question : "What you don't know shall never hurt you." Do you think Jai should follow the dictum and keep quiet about his misadventure with Pia in front of Bani and go ahead with his married life and forget all about what happened? Or do you think that "Honesty is indeed the best policy" and that if Jai doesn't confess to his guilt, he would never be able to live happily with Bani?

]Lets see the consequences of both the action :
1. He confesses to her. Bani might abandon him which would be too much for him. He might not be able to take one more of this separation period!! But there will be no more scope of blackmail and he can feel light about this and can give 100% to his relationship with Bani!! In all PEACE prevails in the end.
2. He might not tell her. But then we know there are loads of ppl around him who want to break his relationship and anyone of them stumbles on the truth might start blackmailing him. Plus I dont think he would be in peace to give 100% to Bani!!
I would in the end vote for peace and say that He should be honest and tell her. I am sure she would admire the honesty in the end and he will feel light.

Do you think that Pia is genuinely in love with Jai this time and what she shared with Pushkar was nothing more than a mistake of youth? Or do you think that once again, what Pia is undergoing is nothing more than a Desire and the fact that she can't have the man she wants is making her go so heart-broken and shattered and not the fact that she loved and lost him?

]Thats a very difficult question. Knowing Pia I would say that she has always loved herself more than anyone. Her love for money and fame has been of paramount importance. Her commitement to Pushkar and then getting engaged to Jai and then eloping with Pushkar again showed a immatured mind and a mistake of the youth. But the current situation looks different. The kind of conviction she shows in her conversations with Jai and Pushkar have a tinge of maturity and for the first time I feel that she might be serious this time. But I still need few more episodes to conclude on it.

Jai's surprise, followed by his amusement and then his complete surrender to Bani in the Beach Scene. What do you make out of this? Is Jai just amused by the change of personality that his wife has undergone or is he really happy about the fact that the woman whom he loves feels the same intensity for him and expresses them openly?

]Jai's surprise, amusement and surrender to bani on the beach was a portray of his desire that he had bottled up for long. It was very unexpected. He is finally getting the love he has been thirsty for all his love and the best part is that he can reciprocate the same. More than the amusement after seeing the change in the personality of his wife, it is the attainment of love and feeling that JB could never express before (even when the divorce and ParkRoad episodes had not started!!) and are now trying to come out in open. As Bani says "We have already wasted lot of time" 😉

Would be awaiting your answers…..
I must say, Amazing Questions...I enjoyed answering them immensely! They have helped me in understanding JB relationship more intensely!!
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