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Posted: 19 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: ritzbitz

first of all thanx princess for opening another thread.... we got atleast one thread where we can discuss 😉 for the first time we r having a open discussion in the forum....

ok the solution according to me is....

1) Khoo and monica should resume their job as mods [/Quote]

Absolutely !!! No two thoughts about that. Khoo and Monica have put in a load of hardwork, and did a wonderful job and we want them back.

However,moderation also requires one little more thing: An open mind for suggestions from the fellow members, and sometimes understand that some issues might have been handled a little differently......according to all of you, you realise that they have been great in taking care of this section, and yet some of these very people accused them of being partial, and by their own admittence they did something not because it was against the rules,but because some members wanted it.........so using pressure tactics on Dev team sometimes can swirl things out of control and things go negative....

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Posted: 19 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: Lima

yea honey..so true..but atleast u give them some suggestions..but i m sure they wont take it....

Lima, it would really help a lot if you stop making assumptions on behalf of the development team. We are still here,and very much capable of taking our own decisions, thank you. I am sure you did not mean it that way, but if repeated too many times,it might start sounding like you are instigating other members to leave the forum instead of doing your bit to resolve the issue......

Originally posted by: Lima

sweety..its ok...we r not asking u to quit from this forum....we guys can have fun...but let me clear u this sweety...monika and khoo, they r not coming back...so it will be better for u to stop this bettle for them....coz i think u guys r wasting ur valuable time on this as we did...

And I am sure Khoo and Monica are capable of conveying their thoughts to us as well.....giving a final judgement on their behalf just by saying 'I know them' is not going to give any lasting solution.....

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Posted: 19 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: FairyAngel

Guys all i want is that Monika and Khoo come back! And the only reason members are quitting is because if we don't the Mods will not listen to us! So we have to do something to get Monika and Khoo back! Without them our forum is incomplete!


❤️ Always
FairyAngel



I did not log into this forum all day long on purpose.. now that I have I have to say something.. FairyAngel, I totally agree with you.. This forum was not possible without Khoo, Monika, MT, Lima.. I cant believe I just read that all of these people have decided to stay away from the forum. It actually breaks my heart and brings tears to my eyes that we have gotten to this point. It is the beauty of this forum that I have actually posted something. I was always a silent member before I came across KS and the KS Team. Never have I seen such passion, such dedication, such love for a show and the members of a forum. I know there has been much tension lately, and I hope that we can somehow move past all this. We are all here for the same reason, and it is because of one another that we keep visiting this forum.

My daily rituals now revolve around this forum. My day can pretty much never start without reading the live updates from India.. MT's comments crack me up and I can actually feel her emotions and her thoughts tend to parallell my own. By the end of the day, I feel a sense of relief when I see the video being posted. I never ever request a video. I figured that one day or another I will be able to watch it (in my case download).

I really hope that these differences that have been brought forth can be overlooked one day and that peace is made amongst one another. I really hope that we can go back to become the same parivaar we were before this tension began. I miss those days....
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Posted: 19 years ago
#74
Minnie, to add to what you posted above, instead of members giving suggestions without knowing the full facts or magnitude of the issue, it would be better for khoo and monika to themselves come forward and talk to the development team for resolving the problem.

From our side, we have kept all lines of communication open.
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Posted: 19 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: **Tinkerbell**

Its causing more rifts to debate...
so heres my solutions....wether you take them into consideration or not is entirely your choice

1.)come to a compromise with khoo and monika...see what you can do to help. [/Quote]

This is all a part of that process Becky.Why else do you think we are here sitting here in the KS sec round the clock instead of 119 other sections that India Forums has,that too in a weekend? All efforts are on to do it.


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Posted: 19 years ago
#76
I am confused as to what is happening but I agree that quitting is NOT the answer. Please sort things out sweeties coz we all are upset and disheartened by the way things are shaping up.

Thank you heaps Minnie for your valuable posts, it helps brighten up my day by making things look positive.
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Posted: 19 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: sirigina

Minnie,

You wrote the following:

Quote:

"Now,here I disagree. That or those thread have to have contents which are against the basic rules of IF. We cannot be arbitrary in closing threads, especially if they are in the realm of discussion. That cannotbe regulated by the dev team. We are here to stop spamming, abuses,profanity,and warn members who behave in an unacceptable manner. If a member is not listening,we have the options of warning the member and banning them. We work through some specific guidelines. Ttopics can be closed or locked only if:

a) They are vulgar

b) They discuss things irrelevant to a section,like discussing fashion designing in Kasam Se

c) They are abusive,and are only opened to abuse members.

d) Instigating topics, like blaming characters going out of the way of the story or attacking actors,or have people fighting and attacking each other, writing awful things and the whole IF dev team comprising of viewbies,mods, GM and admins have failed to resolve the issue.

e) Topics asking for video updates,written updates, or simply 'hey I am bored...bla bla bla'

f) Topics which are copied without credit or permission from any other forum.

g) Topics which are simply opened to say ,'I am Pam, I am Sam, I have simply come to spam."

- unquote

I completely agree with you - but then what about this:

I had written a lot of poems on my own; earlier I used to not put up any "Disclaimer" saying " This lines are penned by me; they are not copied or plagiarised from some place else" but then mods wholesale deleted these posts without giving any indication /reasoning/ justification.

it also needs to be clearly defined as to:

1. who will moderate the moderators
2. Who is accountable

For example, it is not like all the decisions the mods take are supported by hard evidence either, and they could take arbitrary decisions.

For instance, I had put up a post called "Presentiment" and quoted the first 4 lines from Emily Dickinson's poem and the remaining (28 odd line) lines were all mine - purely my own - written on the fly - and that poem was deleted (just like that - no reasoning given)

- I was not even given an answer to that - I requested for an answer -

just because someone thinks people are not capable of being intelligent they cannot do something like that so arbitrarily -

however, I decided not to cause a hue and cry

- and realized that the mods are not expected to know everything and probably they think we have low IQ -

hence I started to include a "Disclaimer" in my posts saying "These lines are penned by me and not copied or plagiarised from some place else" after it started happening for quiet a few posts posted by me which are original work. One more problem is the conception that abstract art is not art is a misconception. If someone fails to understand a post because of its abstract nature/or because it is too objective should it be pulled out /deleted/closed.

But I found the same not happening when people quote whole lyrics/songs/poems that are copyrighted texts. T

Those posts are still there.

There was a certain discrimination in place certainly.

And there were no justifications or reasonings provided at any instance.

And you know "the lines of poems that I quoted" were in fact available for free distribution under Project Gutenberg.

So who will educate the mods? So who will moderate them?

I know I am bringing up this point now - but it really bothers me when people do not have valid reasoning.

So let us not have "Join the Discussion Forum for contributing interesting topics" at the top of the page when we cannot offer a space for free flow of thought.

Thanks,
Sarah



Hey Sirigina,these are very valid questions and I am glad you brought them up.I will do my best to answer them to the best of my ability:

I had written a lot of poems on my own; earlier I used to not put up any "Disclaimer" saying " This lines are penned by me; they are not copied or plagiarised from some place else" but then mods wholesale deleted these posts without giving any indication /reasoning/ justification. - I was not even given an answer to that - I requested for an answer -

just because someone thinks people are not capable of being intelligent they cannot do something like that so arbitrarily -

however, I decided not to cause a hue and cry

- and realized that the mods are not expected to know everything and probably they think we have low IQ -

hence I started to include a "Disclaimer" in my posts saying "These lines are penned by me and not copied or plagiarised from some place else" after it started happening for quiet a few posts posted by me which are original work. One more problem is the conception that abstract art is not art is a misconception. If someone fails to understand a post because of its abstract nature/or because it is too objective should it be pulled out /deleted/closed.

But I found the same not happening when people quote whole lyrics/songs/poems that are copyrighted texts. T

Those posts are still there.

There was a certain discrimination in place certainly.

And there were no justifications or reasonings provided at any instance.

And you know "the lines of poems that I quoted" were in fact available for free distribution under Project Gutenberg.

I am sorry ......that this happened. Often,mods follow the guidelines as they are,and sometimes they might miss it.That is why we have development sections where we can discuss such tricky issues. At times it's not possible to give reasons for deleting all the posts,as mods often delete posts which they deem irrelevant to the sections. They might be wrong,and hence we encourage to them to take second opinons on issues they are not sure of. I am sorry we were not aware of this issue,but unless I see those posts,I won't be able to tell you exactly why those posts could have been closed

What has happened cannot be undone,but in future,please pm us if any such issue take place. We GMs seldom visited KS section,as it was going beautifully.Luckily for us,it did not have two heroes unlike some other serials,so there was hardly any friction where members fight over their favourites. Trust me, the moment you have fans of different stars opposing each other in a section,that section becomes a nightmare !!!😆.However,you need to give some rope to our viewbies and mods, often they are new to the job and still learning..mistakes can happen...it's a lifelong learning process,and it never stops. We all make mistakes,but as a rule,when we are unsure of something,we seek help.

So who will educate the mods? So who will moderate them?

I know I am bringing up this point now - but it really bothers me when people do not have valid reasoning.

That is the trickiest question of all............

All the rules on IF were developed by moderators who gained experience in the forum over a period of time. All the rules have been made out of situations which caused a lot of grief in the intial period to avail everyone of free,fair and enjoyable participation. It's only now we have these rules in place, but when we began,we had none,and the problems we faced for our trouble were unthinkable.Over the period of time,we have had members who are extremely well balanced,and proved their rock solidness by handling each and every problem thrown at them in an exemplary fashion.And it is in this fashion that these rules have come into place.

The question of who moderators the moderators......

Well, though IF does work on a hierchy basis,but no one reports to anyone other than the viewbies to the mods of their respective sections,and everyone is on the same footing. But also as a prerogative,we seek help and guidance of mods who have been here before us and are more experienced than us. When a suggestion is given by them, we sometimes might not whole heartedly agree,but we follow it.So as a rule, viewbies work with mods,who are supervised by Channel mods, and GMs are there to supervise everything on it's entirity.But we work completely on dialogues,where we encourage all the dev team members to put forth their povs. They might not always reflect the majority view,but it's a platform for all.

If there is a controversy, we have a development section where we discuss it. And there, even though we might not agree on a particular issue, we go by the decision of the majority. That is a cardinal rule. It is something like the British constitution- few things are written,but the usage,practice,preceedents and prerogatives are so strong that the rules could have been carved in stone......And at the end,we all beleive that experience counts......and believe that if we work together, if someone falters,another will be there to guide us through....

So you can say, the whole dev team moderates each other.

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Posted: 19 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: Auditi

I completely agree with u...... & leaving the forum wont help nor nething will come out of this..... so plzzzzz every1 communicate with each other & solve the problem... Plzzzzz.... I am sure who ever it is, we all want our old KS Parivaar back.....😃

I agree with u.We all want our old KS parivaar back.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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It is sad to see people leave. As most people agree here it does not solve any problem.

I have been an ardent reader of the KS forum for a while even though I dont post as often. I eagerly look forward to the India updates every weekday. I don't think I know the entire issue here because I have not read the AF threads. BUt I did read the AF thread that was locked once and there were complaints about it.

Most people here have been friendly and understanding. As a person who reads the KS forum often throughout the day, I have to say that I have seen some posts being closed without due cause, and that can be taken as an insult by the person who starts the post if an explanation is not given to them. Mind you this has not happened to me and I am in no way involved in this whole matter - it just an observation on my part.

Mods/ IF dev. team - all have been given authority and at times it may have been misused. For the most part they all do an awesome job of keeping the forum clean. It is a very time consuming and thankless job and I have to applaud each and every IF dev. team member for doing a great job.

If a Moderator has made errors and it has been pointed out to them then they should take it as slap on the wrist and keep aside their ego and move on. We are all only human. They should be open to discussion with the IF dev. team. Shutting oneself out does not solve any problem.

If I have read the posts here correctly the people who have sent the harrassing/abusing PMs to Khoo & Monika have apologised. Mistakes may have happened from both ends and it takes a big heart to forget and forgive and move on. I have read Khoo & Monika's post in the past and they both seem like nice people and they seem like they have a big heart which is slightly bruised right now. Given some time hopefully they will come around and accept the apologies and bring this forum back to where it has always been. Time will heal (it does most of the time) and I sure hope it does here on the KS forum.

We don't get anything by being adamant and I hope all concerned people in this fiasco forgets and forgives and makes peace.

And to all those others who have blindly followed suit and quit - please don't do so. It only makes matters worse.

Hoping that this forum goes back to being friendly, cheerful and peaceful.
Jayanti
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Posted: 19 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: jaysp

It is sad to see people leave. As most people agree here it does not solve any problem.

I have been an ardent reader of the KS forum for a while even though I dont post as often. I eagerly look forward to the India updates every weekday. I don't think I know the entire issue here because I have not read the AF threads. BUt I did read the AF thread that was locked once and there were complaints about it.

Most people here have been friendly and understanding. As a person who reads the KS forum often throughout the day, I have to say that I have seen some posts being closed without due cause, and that can be taken as an insult by the person who starts the post if an explanation is not given to them. Mind you this has not happened to me and I am in no way involved in this whole matter - it just an observation on my part.

Mods/ IF dev. team - all have been given authority and at times it may have been misused. For the most part they all do an awesome job of keeping the forum clean. It is a very time consuming and thankless job and I have to applaud each and every IF dev. team member for doing a great job.

If a Moderator has made errors and it has been pointed out to them then they should take it as slap on the wrist and keep aside their ego and move on. We are all only human. They should be open to discussion with the IF dev. team. Shutting oneself out does not solve any problem.

If I have read the posts here correctly the people who have sent the harrassing/abusing PMs to Khoo & Monika have apologised. Mistakes may have happened from both ends and it takes a big heart to forget and forgive and move on. I have read Khoo & Monika's post in the past and they both seem like nice people and they seem like they have a big heart which is slightly bruised right now. Given some time hopefully they will come around and accept the apologies and bring this forum back to where it has always been. Time will heal (it does most of the time) and I sure hope it does here on the KS forum.

We don't get anything by being adamant and I hope all concerned people in this fiasco forgets and forgives and makes peace.

And to all those others who have blindly followed suit and quit - please don't do so. It only makes matters worse.

Hoping that this forum goes back to being friendly, cheerful and peaceful.
Jayanti



i agree wit everythin u say.. but one And to all those others who have blindly followed suit and quit - please don't do so. It only makes matters worse. we do have reasons as to y we're wit khoo and monika on this.. mods know our reasons very well.. so we're not blindly following one after another.. we have own reasons, our own unanswered questions..

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