Quiting is NOT the answer - Page 10

I completely agree with Pricess that QUITTING is not the answer to any problem. If we are convinced anough in our stand, we should hold ground and wait.
Anyway, I believe that the issue is not anything that great that cannot be handled by our GMs and people from the Admin Team. And I am sure that Khoo and Monica will also see reason. We just have to give them some time.
Its also very wrong to blame only some members for this situation. Basically, we are a BIG family out over here, and just like any other family in the world, we are also prone to bickering, fighting, being sarcastic etc. Its very wrong to blame AF for this since it is purely admin problem. And all of us in this Forum are free to air our views and opinions and to take decisions accordingly.
So bashing any member (s) in this Forum is a strict No-No, even though i am no anywhere near the Mods and their teams.
We have to remember that all of us have ego and self-respect, and what needs to eb done is that this EGO should not control our lives beyond proportion. We HAVE TO solve this problem no matter what, since we do the same when we face similar problems at home.
This vurtual world has offered us so much that ist unthinkable as to what our lives would be without the Forum and all our sisters, friends over here.
So girls take heart, hold onto it and lets fight with our inner demons.

'Where the mind is without fear
And the head is held high
Where knowledge is free
Where the world has not been broken into
fragments by narrow domestic walls
Where words come out from the depth of truth
Where tireless striving stretches its arms
towards perfection;

Into that heaven of freeedom, My Father
Let my country awake'

- Rabindranath Tagore (Geetanjali)

Ya Sree...as we say here in the UAE...Insha'Allah!

But please WARN Ram haan... 😆

whoever left... 😭 ...plz come back and keep our forum rock as usual...... 😃

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I completely agree with Pricess that QUITTING is not the answer to any problem. If we are convinced anough in our stand, we should hold ground and wait.
Anyway, I believe that the issue is not anything that great that cannot be handled by our GMs and people from the Admin Team. And I am sure that Khoo and Monica will also see reason. We just have to give them some time.
Its also very wrong to blame only some members for this situation. Basically, we are a BIG family out over here, and just like any other family in the world, we are also prone to bickering, fighting, being sarcastic etc. Its very wrong to blame AF for this since it is purely admin problem. And all of us in this Forum are free to air our views and opinions and to take decisions accordingly.
So bashing any member (s) in this Forum is a strict No-No, even though i am no anywhere near the Mods and their teams.
We have to remember that all of us have ego and self-respect, and what needs to eb done is that this EGO should not control our lives beyond proportion. We HAVE TO solve this problem no matter what, since we do the same when we face similar problems at home.
This vurtual world has offered us so much that ist unthinkable as to what our lives would be without the Forum and all our sisters, friends over here.
So girls take heart, hold onto it and lets fight with our inner demons.

'Where the mind is without fear
And the head is held high
Where knowledge is free
Where the world has not been broken into
fragments by narrow domestic walls
Where words come out from the depth of truth
Where tireless striving stretches its arms
towards perfection;

Into that heaven of freeedom, My Father
Let my country awake'

- Rabindranath Tagore (Geetanjali)

Very well written, Sangita.... Hats off to you...!!!👏 Let us keep the PrIde of this One Big Family of IF intact... Let us all get together to solve this problem and get them back here, to where they belong... 😳

Originally posted by: TallyHo

Minnie…out of all the ppl who have tried handling this issue you seem to have handled it the most patiently and maturely…so kudos to that!

Sometimes when ppl are hurt they behave irrationally…what would be the average age of the ppl visiting this forum…17-18….We must all cool down here and give it some more time. When we have fights in the family sometimes it is good to give time for ppl to cool off…and wait for them to be ready to talk….forcing them to talk…instigating them makes matters worse…no one can argue logically when they are angry and hurt….this is not just for Monika and Khoo…but all the other members who have been defending them…
I was upset y'day…and even went to the AF thread just to needle a few ppl there…it was unwarranted…I realised it but only after one whole day….so just give it some more time….let every one cool down a bit…and then we can resolve this rationally and logically...maybe the matter would just resolve itself...coz at the end of the day we love the KS forum and we will bring it back to its old glory...GOD willing!

PS...Pls send a warning to Ram for having ignored our b'day wishes!! 😉

Oh heavens !!!! That's perhaps one of the best,if not the best compliment that I had on IF😳....I am not sure what I should do....fly maybe..🤔...Thank you !!!🤗.trust me,it's so rare to have someone understand that we truly care......

I agree with you,and I know that is what is happening. But it's so beautifl coming from you. And it helps, more than I could ever account for. It's a different morning, and a new day....

We also will have Ram kapoor himself talking to us today.That guy loves this forum like crazy.Inspite of being sleep deprived,he never fails to check it out in whatever free time he has. He is reserve,but so very cool. You guys will love his interview.

Originally posted by: sree

Very well written, Sangita.... Hats off to you...!!!👏 Let us keep the PrIde of this One Big Family of IF intact... Let us all get together to solve this problem and get them back here, to where they belong... 😳

Thanks Sree, but we do have tyo get this rocking boat to the shore, along with expressing out solidarity on the Event.
Time is of the only essence now.
Cheers

Sangita

Originally posted by: sangitadas

Thanks Sree, but we do have tyo get this rocking boat to the shore, along with expressing out solidarity on the Event.
Time is of the only essence now.
Cheers

Sangita

Time will heal ALL wounds... Let us be optimistic... 😳

Originally posted by: sree

Time will heal ALL wounds... Let us be optimistic... 😳

yes, we will all see this through, along with Khoo and Monica and the AF.

A little apology and understanding never killed anybody. 😉

Originally posted by: sangitadas

I completely agree with Pricess that QUITTING is not the answer to any problem. If we are convinced anough in our stand, we should hold ground and wait.
Anyway, I believe that the issue is not anything that great that cannot be handled by our GMs and people from the Admin Team. And I am sure that Khoo and Monica will also see reason. We just have to give them some time.
Its also very wrong to blame only some members for this situation. Basically, we are a BIG family out over here, and just like any other family in the world, we are also prone to bickering, fighting, being sarcastic etc. Its very wrong to blame AF for this since it is purely admin problem. And all of us in this Forum are free to air our views and opinions and to take decisions accordingly.
So bashing any member (s) in this Forum is a strict No-No, even though i am no anywhere near the Mods and their teams.
We have to remember that all of us have ego and self-respect, and what needs to eb done is that this EGO should not control our lives beyond proportion. We HAVE TO solve this problem no matter what, since we do the same when we face similar problems at home.
This vurtual world has offered us so much that ist unthinkable as to what our lives would be without the Forum and all our sisters, friends over here.
So girls take heart, hold onto it and lets fight with our inner demons.

'Where the mind is without fear
And the head is held high
Where knowledge is free
Where the world has not been broken into
fragments by narrow domestic walls
Where words come out from the depth of truth
Where tireless striving stretches its arms
towards perfection;

Into that heaven of freeedom, My Father
Let my country awake'

- Rabindranath Tagore (Geetanjali)

Sangita, very very apt 👏👏......this forum has truly given us so much......personally speaking,it taught me strength,and that good and great people are still there out in the world......and yet we all have our little faults.

Thank you.......😳

come guys, quitting will not solve anything, a kind request to you all leaving, PLEASE dont leave!!!