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sima

@xsimzxchickx

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Posted: 19 years ago

#131

Hi guys

I have been Internet free for a couple of days but my fellow members have kept me updated on the matter.
Firstly thank you all so much for your support and kindness it means a lot to khoo, monika and all the rest of us, its rather sad that it had to come to this, but unfortunately it has. It seems things still lie where they did when the resignation took place, and nothing has yet been resolved.

As I already know my fellow members have gone and so its time for me also to bid farewell, I have been here from the beginning and khoo and monika are the life and soul this forum, it was in fact them that named it a parivaar. It's sad to see them humiliated and disrespected like this, what's also shocking is that it's been two day's and yet no serious action has been taken to bring them back. I have seen where the moderator's priorities lie and seems that they have been so supportive of AF that monika and khoo were left on the back seat.

Without them this parivaar is adhoora, thus it seems like my family is incomplete.

O well I am quitting until they are back, this is the solution because it shows our support and loyalty to those members who have made this forum possible, and who have brought it together regardless of differences, by leaving the AF thread to continue it has caused group within group conflicts which has never been an issue before in the KS parivaar.

Moderators if you are happy with this change then so be it, we don't approve of the conflicts and that's what monika and khoo always wanted, that every members view was heard not just certain individuals.

There is nothing more left to say until or IF monika and khoo return.

Goodbye from ALL of us

Sima

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sabsj

@sabsj

Inactive

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Posted: 19 years ago

#132

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TallyHo

@TallyHo

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#133

here's a picture of the peace palace in Hague...it looks so beautiful...On 2nd thots...lets go!😉

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Starttofinish

@Starttofinish

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#134

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

Hi guys

I have been Internet free for a couple of days but my fellow members have kept me updated on the matter.
Firstly thank you all so much for your support and kindness it means a lot to khoo, monika and all the rest of us, its rather sad that it had to come to this, but unfortunately it has. It seems things still lie where they did when the resignation took place, and nothing has yet been resolved.

As I already know my fellow members have gone and so its time for me also to bid farewell, I have been here from the beginning and khoo and monika are the life and soul this forum, it was in fact them that named it a parivaar. It's sad to see them humiliated and disrespected like this, what's also shocking is that it's been two day's and yet no serious action has been taken to bring them back. I have seen where the moderator's priorities lie and seems that they have been so supportive of AF that monika and khoo were left on the back seat.

Without them this parivaar is adhoora, thus it seems like my family is incomplete.

O well I am quitting until they are back, this is the solution because it shows our support and loyalty to those members who have made this forum possible, and who have brought it together regardless of differences, by leaving the AF thread to continue it has caused group within group conflicts which has never been an issue before in the KS parivaar.

Moderators if you are happy with this change then so be it, we don't approve of the conflicts and that's what monika and khoo always wanted, that every members view was heard not just certain individuals.

There is nothing more left to say until or IF monika and khoo return.

Goodbye from ALL of us

Sima

I can't believe I am reading such a post at this point in time. The last few posts here showed hope that things would go back to normal - its just a matter of time.

Reading all the posts by the IF dev. team it seems that they are doing everything from their end to resolve the issue. To resolve an issue both parties have to be willing to talk it out. I hope Monika and Khoo are open to discussions with IF dev. team resolve the issue.

Hope that they both come back.

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Chaitali

@Cordelia

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#135

Originally posted by: sabsj
KHOO, MONIKA, MT, BECKY, LIMA, AND THE REST OF THE GANG

We belong together
Like the open seas and shores
Wedded by the planet force
We've all been spoken for

Dont want U to leave us really
You have invested too much time
To give us and this forum up that easy
To the doubts that complicate your mind

Close your eyes and try to sleep now
Close your eyes and try to dream
Clear your mind and do your best
To try and wash the palette clean

You cant begin to know it
How much we really care
As one we are everything,
We are everything we need.

We all belong to this forum
We all belong together
Whatever we deny or embrace
For worse or for better
We belong, we belong
We all belong together

chelaji, well done aap toh sabse aage nikal gaye... dhanya ho dhanya ho!! 😉 👏

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srividya

@sree

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 19 years ago

#136

Originally posted by: xsimzxchickx

Hi guys

I have been Internet free for a couple of days but my fellow members have kept me updated on the matter.
Firstly thank you all so much for your support and kindness it means a lot to khoo, monika and all the rest of us, its rather sad that it had to come to this, but unfortunately it has. It seems things still lie where they did when the resignation took place, and nothing has yet been resolved.

As I already know my fellow members have gone and so its time for me also to bid farewell, I have been here from the beginning and khoo and monika are the life and soul this forum, it was in fact them that named it a parivaar. It's sad to see them humiliated and disrespected like this, what's also shocking is that it's been two day's and yet no serious action has been taken to bring them back. I have seen where the moderator's priorities lie and seems that they have been so supportive of AF that monika and khoo were left on the back seat.

Without them this parivaar is adhoora, thus it seems like my family is incomplete.

O well I am quitting until they are back, this is the solution because it shows our support and loyalty to those members who have made this forum possible, and who have brought it together regardless of differences, by leaving the AF thread to continue it has caused group within group conflicts which has never been an issue before in the KS parivaar.

Moderators if you are happy with this change then so be it, we don't approve of the conflicts and that's what monika and khoo always wanted, that every members view was heard not just certain individuals.

There is nothing more left to say until or IF monika and khoo return.

Goodbye from ALL of us

Sima

Come on yaar, please do not go back to Square one... Please be there and support us to get them back... We are not happy at all to let them go... So kindly change your decision and stay on...

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TallyHo

@TallyHo

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 19 years ago

#137

Mods,
we would appreciate if you kept us updated about how u plan to resolve this ....

I speak for myself...but I am sure many members are in the same boat....I am not sure what exactly the matter is, but we owe it to the KS devp team for their efforts and sincerity, that a patient hearing and a fair deal is given to them by you...

For me the matter ends the day all of the members are back into the forum!

Thanks...and really appreciate your concern, patience and devoting your time for this!

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maria-n

@maria-n

Navigator

Posted: 19 years ago

#138

Actually what I forgot to write, is that if I feel very sad about MT ( 😭 ,my friend), Khoo and Monika, I also felt very bad about the closing of AF-thread, being a frequent silent reader.

So I undertook a small and meaningless attempt to mediate between the parties at that first night. Which was closed down, eventhough I also showed a lot of understanding to mods difficult position.

Anyhow, this is not the time and place to start allover again, it will not serve the peace.

So I want to express that I'm being VERY happy that AF/ Fab.Perf. are back. (thanx globals!)
But it is sad that it had to come about at such high cost for the forum.

The work of mods is not easy, they can make mistakes like we all make mistakes. So even in disagreement, still respect and understanding for the mods is necessary.

Sad is also that people send rude mails, from both sides. Though I can imagine that in high emotions some lose their self-control. I hope that whoever did it have excused themselves, and that should be enough to live on together....

But throwing mud in public, as one side has undertaken, really shocked me. If they could excuse themselves for that....? (Sorry, if I missed that already "sorry" has been said)

These past weeks have been very emotional, so thats why I'm happy I could express somewhat here about my feelings.

I don't hope and don't wish that I stirred up emotions again.

Like so many all I only wanted, was that WE ALL should live together as a family. Giving space to each other. And sometimes forgetting our own likes and dislikes just for the sake of our forum!

writing this took me so much time that I even missed MT's post, hence an out of date reference....😛

Edited by maria-n - 19 years ago