Quiting is NOT the answer - Page 13

Originally posted by: gizmo

I love all u guys!

i love the guys who stood for monika and khoo like bricks cuz i too would love to have someone stand for and by me during stormy weathers!

i love the guys who did not say a single word when the fire was burning cuz your tolerance is impeccable..something i certainly don't possess.

i love the guys who continued discussing about kasamh se despite all the chaos cuz they had a focus....something i totally lack.

i love the guys who were bashing me right and left for my rudeness and sarcasm....cuz i deserved it and the forum would be funless without you guys!

i love the guys i had the pleasure of bashing right and left...but still i would have said sorry if my ego didn't prevent...but i'm saying it now..."I'M SO SORRY"

i love the mods for being our gestapo......cuz i would certainly go stray if not controlled...they have taught me to respect them as much as they would respect me.

finally, i love everybody for the way they are....cuz you're one h*** of a fabulous group of people 👍🏼

thats awesome gizmo....it kind of sums up the spirit of this place that I am so proud to be a part of!

lets hope we can get everyone back together coz we are what we are only if we are together...

Good Morning guys !!!! Jeez.......hehe,I am back !!! My,this section is getting addictive,and my,what talent we have here !!!! Amidst the midst of chaos that my house is during the early hours, I log in and come to read this beautiful thing........

Originally posted by: gizmo

I love all u guys!

i love the guys who stood for monika and khoo like bricks cuz i too would love to have someone stand for and by me during stormy weathers!

i love the guys who did not say a single word when the fire was burning cuz your tolerance is impeccable..something i certainly don't possess.

i love the guys who continued discussing about kasamh se despite all the chaos cuz they had a focus....something i totally lack.

i love the guys who were bashing me right and left for my rudeness and sarcasm....cuz i deserved it and the forum would be funless without you guys!

i love the guys i had the pleasure of bashing right and left...but still i would have said sorry if my ego didn't prevent...but i'm saying it now..."I'M SO SORRY"

i love the mods for being our gestapo......cuz i would certainly go stray if not controlled...they have taught me to respect them as much as they would respect me.

finally, i love everybody for the way they are....cuz you're one h*** of a fabulous group of people 👍🏼

Gizmo, I am going to print this out and put it up.........Can anyone please make a siggy of this for me ????????? PLEASE ?????????

It's,in short, these are some magnificent lines,which reflect exactly what I feel.......you guys rock !!!

Hey guys its very sad to learn about all this differences in the KS forum one of the most rocking section in the entire IF forum and MT, Khoo and monica are very special to this forums they make this forum rocking with their comments, updates and videos and other interesting topics and debates it's not nice to see this happening I am really sad if my message can make any difference I'll be very happy I wish the DEV team and forum members keep doing rocking things for this forum and also the sweetest members of this forum clear their differences with other forum members and whom so ever they have their differences with i just want to add one more thing that now soon RAM KAPOOR is coming to the live radio interview and we should cheer up cause we were waiting for him to interact with us personally so this message to all the members who are leaving this KS section please think 100 times before leaving cause you members are special..........😔

Hi Princess, Sree, Priya and Minnie,

Thank you so much for taking out time and replying to every post individually, point by point! That itself showed how much you care and value all the members on the Forum!!!😃

Now to my KS Parivaar in particular:

Coming back to all that has been happening, Yes, I guess, we have to move on…..and try and get everyone back with us! The KS Forum has been my first step into the Virtual World, and since the day, I stepped here, I think, my definition of what is "Virtual" and what is "Real" has altered dramatically! In a span of just 8 months, not only did I find, hours of delight & enjoyment but also, some Friends, whom I know are for life now! It is literally impossible to turn away from a place which is almost home to all of us…..how much ever the hurt, how much ever the heartbreak, how much ever the bitterness, the Love and Togetherness we share is far greater than all that!

Khoo, Monika and all of you are not just random people whom I meet on the Net everyday, when I come to post Updates, but an integral part of my life, in some or the other way! That is why, I wrote yesterday, that it is unimaginable for me to come to the Forum with you guys not around…..What is the Forum without all of us together? In fights, in arguments, in disagreements, in laughter, in amusement and most of in being together, with one another!

This is the first time, that such an issue has broken out on the Forum and hence, the shock and outrage that followed! But if we think with a cool mind, no one is to be blamed individually for what happened…..When there is an argument or a disagreement between two groups of people, it normally involves both the groups, the mistake can't be made from just one end! Hence, to solve, we need, the cooperation and endeavor of everyone involved!

Lastly, the issue is still very raw and sensitive now and hence, more than anything else, we need to give all of us involved some time and lots of patience…..God Willing, everything will be set right in motion!😊

I know for sure that Khoo and Monix want to be back as much as all of us want them to be back, till then, lets just get on with the Forum and simultaneously work towards reconciliation!

I hope someone is doing the Update for tonight, cause I am surely going to be dead with my toothache by the times KS is telecast!😆 I will be back soon to doing what I best enjoy, till then, I am sure, the other updaters will do the needful!

With Lots of Love & Warm Regards,

MT

PS: Btw, I know of a Prague, where on Earth is Hague?😕

I am not taking any side...

but I feel like a family member for some time now.. Isn't it a family with grand parents, parents, big B's and S's, chotta B's and S's and kids.... we all make this family... any member leaving means it is a pain of the whole family.

Like we have 10 fingures none of which is identical to any others, there will be little difference in fatness atleast, right? we all are having differences..? but that doesn't mean that we should not have differences when we are in a family? just like the marriage, a family too need compromises?

No one is going to loose anything with a little compromise if it will save the whole family's peace and happiness. Am I right? Here I am not searching who is quitting for what reasons. It happened. Now whoever decided to leave, I humbly request them just to consider this outpouring of emotions on behalf of them especially now when the long waited VVIP guest is going to come. Is there anything big we are going to loose if we forgive for the majority's peace and happiness.

Parents sometimes fail to solve the problems between them and it will go out of hands when we consider the whole family situation. I feel like it happened here just now. The top level discussions being spread - I can't say right or wrong, that I leave to who participate - to the lowest level. But don't we think we are mature enough to have our peace back with little cooperation, if Gandhi can bring the peace for INDIA the way he did. I am not a philosopher and not likely going to be. But it is so sad and hurting seeing the lovely members who till the date mingling friendly and jokingly flush out all kinds of words to each others...

we came here from different part of the world to make a family and we should be proud of it. I think the unity of differences of culture make our country. We still live upto its ups and downs of all kinds of differences. Why we need to keep this much darkness while this forum considered as a small/big to us offcourse/ heavenly place.

Atleast for the sake of the majorities happiness and peace and to bring the old happiness of the parivaar all concerned here should rethink to forgive and applogise, I tell that too if possible to any party. Because that much emotions have been flowing here last two days. why make others fight each other if possible to avoid it.

I understand if pride is at stake we all feel the same. But still we have the freedom to express it as we do in the democratic country. But sometime we can't force to take any decisions reverted because of circumstances. Happened is happened. there will be huge difference between individuals. But our capacity is to make the differences to minimal in our heart by ignoring or forgiving... because this is a place for entertainment... a second home for many.. why to hurt many who come daily here and enjoy... when those who want to quit built this atmosphere here to make others feel this is it necessary to destroy the same for them..

solidarity be shown by passing opinion, my humble opinion, not by taking extreme decisions, especially when it matter more personally... please guys.. don't take much pain to your heart and make it an infection there... overlook the dark shadows to see the large bright area shining at you... we all love all of you with all your plus and minus points.. we all stand for you with your pain... we feel it just like you feel... but if you quit what it means... you don't want us to share your feelings... don't you want us around you.. like this always.. calling a day for it makes the ashes of all these feelings too, isn't it?

Pls,,, today you have to think, it is the day many of you worked hard to make it true... before Ram Kapoor come, you all will be back join hand in hand and say we are together in the parivaar... I understand it is not so easy, but can try.. give a chance especially considering the situation... forgiving or compromising will not degrade your pride, I promise you.. It will only strengthen your values... because so much had been thrown out here for you all. For both sides I said, just show a sample to others how to cooperate.

You made us so proud till now... be the loving parents whom the whole forum feel missing... don't you see how many lining up for you? Most of the time parents stay together for the kids... didn't you see our Aditya and Jigyasa even... 😉 😆 I am sorry if I hurt any one here with these words... but please understand these words are from such deep hurt too... I love you all and love to see you all again around. Especailly miss you MT, if you chose to stay back, without your updates I am not going to enjoy the show anymore most probably... Thanks

Rose

MT, its great to have you back. My weekday is not complete without reading your updates. I eagerly look forward to them and glad to know that you will continue to do them. Hopefully somebody will do it today if you can't.
Hope your tooth feels better. It can be really painful. Take care.
Jayanti

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Hi Princess, Sree, Priya and Minnie,

Thank you so much for taking out time and replying to every post individually, point by point! That itself showed how much you care and value all the members on the Forum!!!😃

Now to my KS Parivaar in particular:

Coming back to all that has been happening, Yes, I guess, we have to move on…..and try and get everyone back with us! The KS Forum has been my first step into the Virtual World, and since the day, I stepped here, I think, my definition of what is "Virtual" and what is "Real" has altered dramatically! In a span of just 8 months, not only did I find, hours of delight & enjoyment but also, some Friends, whom I know are for life now! It is literally impossible to turn away from a place which is almost home to all of us…..how much ever the hurt, how much ever the heartbreak, how much ever the bitterness, the Love and Togetherness we share is far greater than all that!

Khoo, Monika and all of you are not just random people whom I meet on the Net everyday, when I come to post Updates, but an integral part of my life, in some or the other way! That is why, I wrote yesterday, that it is unimaginable for me to come to the Forum with you guys not around…..What is the Forum without all of us together? In fights, in arguments, in disagreements, in laughter, in amusement and most of in being together, with one another!

This is the first time, that such an issue has broken out on the Forum and hence, the shock and outrage that followed! But if we think with a cool mind, no one is to be blamed individually for what happened…..When there is an argument or a disagreement between two groups of people, it normally involves both the groups, the mistake can't be made from just one end! Hence, to solve, we need, the cooperation and endeavor of everyone involved!

Lastly, the issue is still very raw and sensitive now and hence, more than anything else, we need to give all of us involved some time and lots of patience…..God Willing, everything will be set right in motion!😊

I know for sure that Khoo and Monix want to be back as much as all of us want them to be back, till then, lets just get on with the Forum and simultaneously work towards reconciliation!

I hope someone is doing the Update for tonight, cause I am surely going to be dead with my toothache by the times KS is telecast!😆 I will be back soon to doing what I best enjoy, till then, I am sure, the other updaters will do the needful!

With Lots of Love & Warm Regards,

MT

PS: Btw, I know of a Prague, where on Earth is Hague?😕

MT, it is overwhleming to see your post here... Thanks for the same... We just wish that we get a similar kind of post from Khoo and Monix too in days to come.... Then i am certain that things will be back on track again.. To tell you all frankly, i can sense now that things will surely be better in days to come, touchwood!!!

We all need to understand that IF is a Big Family with members with taotally different outlooks. All come under one roof and family, IF... So at times, we might have misunderstandings, which might lead to fights and arguments... But, eventually it is for us to put behind the bitter moments and move ahead, overcome all our weaknessess and win everyone's heart with a smile on our face... So thanks to all the members who have made an attempt to put a smile on thier faces.. This really means a lot to us.. You have all given us the Optimism we have been looking for, in this section from 2 days... Thanks friends.... Time has come when we need to move on.... 😳

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Hi Princess, Sree, Priya and Minnie,

Thank you so much for taking out time and replying to every post individually, point by point! That itself showed how much you care and value all the members on the Forum!!!😃

Now to my KS Parivaar in particular:

Coming back to all that has been happening, Yes, I guess, we have to move on…..and try and get everyone back with us! The KS Forum has been my first step into the Virtual World, and since the day, I stepped here, I think, my definition of what is "Virtual" and what is "Real" has altered dramatically! In a span of just 8 months, not only did I find, hours of delight & enjoyment but also, some Friends, whom I know are for life now! It is literally impossible to turn away from a place which is almost home to all of us…..how much ever the hurt, how much ever the heartbreak, how much ever the bitterness, the Love and Togetherness we share is far greater than all that!

Khoo, Monika and all of you are not just random people whom I meet on the Net everyday, when I come to post Updates, but an integral part of my life, in some or the other way! That is why, I wrote yesterday, that it is unimaginable for me to come to the Forum with you guys not around…..What is the Forum without all of us together? In fights, in arguments, in disagreements, in laughter, in amusement and most of in being together, with one another!

This is the first time, that such an issue has broken out on the Forum and hence, the shock and outrage that followed! But if we think with a cool mind, no one is to be blamed individually for what happened…..When there is an argument or a disagreement between two groups of people, it normally involves both the groups, the mistake can't be made from just one end! Hence, to solve, we need, the cooperation and endeavor of everyone involved!

Lastly, the issue is still very raw and sensitive now and hence, more than anything else, we need to give all of us involved some time and lots of patience…..God Willing, everything will be set right in motion!😊

I know for sure that Khoo and Monix want to be back as much as all of us want them to be back, till then, lets just get on with the Forum and simultaneously work towards reconciliation!

I hope someone is doing the Update for tonight, cause I am surely going to be dead with my toothache by the times KS is telecast!😆 I will be back soon to doing what I best enjoy, till then, I am sure, the other updaters will do the needful!

With Lots of Love & Warm Regards,

MT

PS: Btw, I know of a Prague, where on Earth is Hague?😕

I didn't see your post w hile write mine. Anyway I am very happy that you decided to be there for us. Thank you. And no chocolate and no toothe ache, we can't miss you for long, coming days will certainly need your comments to cool our spirits.. Get well.

Rose

MT, Hague is the political capital of Netherlands and residence of the royal family. It is considered the international city of peace and justice.

MT,
Hague has the International court of justice....for the UN
...but we dont need to go there to settle matters I think...we will settle them right here! 😛