Originally posted by: sareeta
Rashi, good post, and thank you for starting one...:-)
Due respect to everyone who believes otherwise, I believe, Shiv is totally justified ...it was a pent up anger... at the way .... he has been treated... by his wife who years back, clung to him like a leech... declaring her love for him at the blink of eye... which gave the viewers and not to say the least , to Shiv kapoor, severe migraines, and surprisingly now, she has no time or does put no effort in knowing what her hubby needs?
He was justified, in shouting and tell her off, that she was the biggest mistake of his life.. indeed she was...marrying her for Ipshita's sake was the biggest mistake... the very glaring mistake of his life , that changed it all for him....
The woman he calls his wife today , gauri, the woman is a selfish as one can be... she has never been selfless.. or even considerate...
It was always her love, her life, her kids and her emotions...
She knew she was never loved, but she never let her hubby free... when he told her didnt want her in his life... she said "aap mujhe pyaar mat karo, magar mujhe mat roko?" So what right did she have to cling like that , a leech to be precise to him... sucking his blood and happiness out of his life?
Ipshita's plight only acted as a catalyst to burst the pent up anger in him.
Why the pent up anger? Well, see it from Shiv's pov:
He left the love of his life for Gauri, coz she needed him...
The woman practically seduced the man, into sleeping with her .... and once the night was done and she got preggers, forgot the hubby and clung to the kids...
Now when he came back to her...and tried to lead a life with ehr ... she has no time or makes no effort to spare him some time or accompany him to parties atleast once in while and dress up more decently ?
Shiv kapoor for sacrificing his love... and a life he envisioned has got nothing at all... except for three kids... and no marital happiness from his wife.. who with each passing day seems to be working like a maid servent....and a selfish one at that...
She never once saw his pov , never, even when he told her he could never love her... she clung to him...
She needed to hear it from him... loud and clear that she was his biggest mistake... I wish he even slapped her.. for it... would have driven the point home hard and fast!
No offence to anyone who thinks otherwise....
I've been in a bit of a cuffufle lately... But Di aapke points hit somewhere. I definately cannot argue against that one Boss... In such a case, the woman is deserving of the verbal slap Shiv gave her in the last episode. I don't think a physical one would have hurt as much as his words did. I suppose there is only so much one can bear. I have always stuck with Gauri, but I have to admit, she is making me twitch in the last few episodes. Her hairdo first of all is driving me up the wall... I want the beautiful hair-left-down Gauri. The nanny-like-behaviour is another factor making me shift. She has lost herself completely in another world.
As far as Ippi-Shiv story goes, it was their decision, and they are living up to it in whichever way. What would irk me the most however is if Shiv walks back and falls into Ippi's arms. Perhaps that is to be expected and what not, but to me that will be like "giving in", utter defeat. At this point, I don't have the heart nor desire to watch a "haraa hua" Shiv.
With Shiv's reaction, I'm completley impressed with it being triggered by Ippi's failing relationship. 😕
I'm kind of confused though, how does he want Gauri? Yesterday's episode clearly was pointing towards the bed (sorry... I don't mean to be so blunt, but indeed that was hinted), but then there also seemed to be a greater craving. He wants to talk to her. Something he perhaps has been wanting to do since forever. Heres where another question arises however. Is it Shiv's khamoshi that drove Gauri away, or it Gauri's preoccupation with her "little world" (kids).
In any case, Gauri does have fault.
Cheers,
dc
Edited by desi chic - 18 years ago