Was Shivs Behaviour Justified? - Page 2

Originally posted by: rashi85

I agree zara....he must be upset...but he cant treat his wife that way 😡

i know!!!😕 but you know the saying; you don't know what something's worth until you lose it?😳😳😳

that's what's gonna happen to Shiv as well!!!

Originally posted by: zara2801

i know!!!😕 but you know the saying; you don't know what something's worth until you lose it?😳😳😳

that's what's gonna happen to Shiv as well!!!

So true, he will regret big time

Rashi, good post, and thank you for starting one...:-)

Due respect to everyone who believes otherwise, I believe, Shiv is totally justified ...it was a pent up anger... at the way .... he has been treated... by his wife who years back, clung to him like a leech... declaring her love for him at the blink of eye... which gave the viewers and not to say the least , to Shiv kapoor, severe migraines, and surprisingly now, she has no time or does put no effort in knowing what her hubby needs?

He was justified, in shouting and tell her off, that she was the biggest mistake of his life.. indeed she was...marrying her for Ipshita's sake was the biggest mistake... the very glaring mistake of his life , that changed it all for him....

The woman he calls his wife today , gauri, the woman is a selfish as one can be... she has never been selfless.. or even considerate...

It was always her love, her life, her kids and her emotions...

She knew she was never loved, but she never let her hubby free... when he told her didnt want her in his life... she said "aap mujhe pyaar mat karo, magar mujhe mat roko?" So what right did she have to cling like that , a leech to be precise to him... sucking his blood and happiness out of his life?

Ipshita's plight only acted as a catalyst to burst the pent up anger in him.

Why the pent up anger? Well, see it from Shiv's pov:

He left the love of his life for Gauri, coz she needed him...

The woman practically seduced the man, into sleeping with her .... and once the night was done and she got preggers, forgot the hubby and clung to the kids...

Now when he came back to her...and tried to lead a life with ehr ... she has no time or makes no effort to spare him some time or accompany him to parties atleast once in while and dress up more decently ?

Shiv kapoor for sacrificing his love... and a life he envisioned has got nothing at all... except for three kids... and no marital happiness from his wife.. who with each passing day seems to be working like a maid servent....and a selfish one at that...

She never once saw his pov , never, even when he told her he could never love her... she clung to him...

She needed to hear it from him... loud and clear that she was his biggest mistake... I wish he even slapped her.. for it... would have driven the point home hard and fast!

No offence to anyone who thinks otherwise....

As a continuation to earlier reply:

Shiv went beserk and was upset at the fact that had he and Ipshita marreid , Anupam may not have had this accident and life would have been less complex.... and with Gauri being distanced and ignorant of his wants as currently she is.. well.... its fair that Shiv tell her off loud and clear... Shiv has finally come out ... of his guilt... and it can only get more interesting...

Gauri for being the leech she is, has got more than a fair deal, a rich husband , 3 kids, a one night seduction on her part changed it all for her... Whoa... now... that sure ain't dumb on her part...

Gauri deserves no sympathy and not from me atleast,.. shez not getting any....

saru what u said made me think about gauri and her faults she is doing in her marital life. 😉 😉 😉

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Originally posted by: rashi85

In ydays episode we see shiv's changed behaviour towards gauri😡

Do u guys think his behaviour was justified?

I say completely justified😳. 6 years of torture life made him burst finally😊

Does he blame himself responsible for what has happened with ipshita?

yes, there is a guility factor. and tht too with the girl he loves. if ipshita is happy with her marriage then shiv would have been peacefully living with gauri, but fate has sth else in Shiv's plate

How many here support shiv ?

I, for sure, support him.😊

How many think shiv is wrong?

I dont think Shiv is wrong.😳

Or do u guys think gauri is wrong by not giving shiv enuf time?

Yes, i started developing neg feeling for gauri (i can have red emoticon here)

According to me...i think shiv was really rude.I dun think he shud blame gauri....he himself decided to chose gauri instead of ipshita....ipshita was left with no option.....i dun think gauri has done nethin wrong to him.I didnt find from any angle that the kids and gauri havent kept im happy....he is just cryin over the past whch is wrong.He shud see that he has a family who luv him a lot and care for him.If he thinks he will be happy by hurting gauri then i think hes lost it!😡

Racho, very well written and well argued side also👏.

my comments: u r right, Shiv himself choose to live with Gauri (not bez of love but bez of care and sympathy) Now look at Gauri, her stand as a wife and mother is completely failing. she is not making anyone happy. and in these situations, when Shiv knows tht his love is facing probelms due to his decision, he Obviously will turn to Gauri for making him feel so pathetic about her 😆then and now not even caring about him

Rashi

Nice points brought up racho.....loved ur Q.😳

racho - maroon (racho, i changed some other color to maroon the last para😳)

amu - blue

amu~

Originally posted by: sum2005

saru what u said made me think about gauri and her faults she is doing in her marital life. 😉 😉 😉

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Thank you for seeing my POV on Gauri... the woman drives me up the wall.... she is the most selfish woman I have seen portrayed on screen... damn her!

Faults ? She is making blunders? Isnt it strange, that a woman who shouted her lungs out and cried oceans of tears for her love of a man, Shiv, she doesnt and has never bothered abt his emotions , not even once. Its always been her , the "mera pyaar"..."mere pyaar ki umar " crap... and now the "mere bacche..."

and the most irritating thing..."hum paanch?" what in the world? Her hubby dosent deserve time off with jus him and his wife alone?

The woman sure is obsessed and needs medical atention , she needs to visit a shrink, first Shiv, until she seduced him on the fateful night and her obsession ended and now the kids.... God Damn her really!

Shiv's behaviour was out of order

Originally posted by: sareeta

Thank you for seeing my POV on Gauri... the woman drives me up the wall.... she is the most selfish woman I have seen portrayed on screen... damn her!

Faults ? She is making blunders? Isnt it strange, that a woman who shouted her lungs out and cried oceans of tears for her love of a man, Shiv, she doesnt and has never bothered abt his emotions , not even once. Its always been her , the "mera pyaar"..."mere pyaar ki umar " crap... and now the "mere bacche..."

and the most irritating thing..."hum paanch?" what in the world? Her hubby dosent deserve time off with jus him and his wife alone?

The woman sure is obsessed and needs medical atention , she needs to visit a shrink, first Shiv, until she seduced him on the fateful night and her obsession ended and now the kids.... God Damn her really!

no offense to anyone..

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sareeta dii, ur damn serious about the post. but reading it i was laughing my stomach hard.😆 tht medical attention...God, me bursting out!🤣🤣🤣

amu~

I agree wid u sareeta bout gauri bein obsessed wod her kidz