Gauri ......Right or Wrong.....?

Hi Guys,

I have seen a lot of posts where people are questioning whether Guari did the right thing by going back to Shiv or not?

I would like to ask you if you had to choose betweeen.......

......... a True, loyal friend like Shiv who will protect, nurture, support you as long as you live.... and who is prepared to die for you.....who may not say that he loves you..... but he respects you and is ready to fight for you and with from his family, friends .......in fact the whole wide world.....a relationship which will give you pasion, excitement, exhiliration, laughter, joys with one person whose one glance is able to bring colour to your heart and soul.....

OR

........ A husband who says that he loves you but leaves you in doubt.....he will not die for you... but he is your husband in every aspect.... and your life is safe with him.... basically you will have a safe but a lukewarm relationship for the rest of your life... which may give you pleasure, warmth...and happiness....

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Guys, let me give you my viewpoint......

Dimaag kehta hai...... ki Guari ko Shiv ke paas wapaas jana nahin chahiye........Shiv uske liye jaanleva hai..... And maybe he is simply making use of her... ( particularly the way he said MOM in yesterday's episode..... makes one wonder if somehow Shiv ... has not orchestrated the whole thing...)

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Par agar mein Gauri ki jagah hoti.... to mein bhi shayaad wohi karti jo Gauri ne kiya.....so what if Shiv is not saying that he loves her... he is showing by his actions..... that he loves her....

He is ready to fight for her from his whole family... he is ready to die for her and cannot see her dying......that is why he revealed the truth to her.... he respects her...... likes her.. and defintely considers his best friend.... wants to protect her... Haila...the way he hugged her and took her out of the crowd so protectively was to die for....😳

For Gauri also to know that there is one person who is there for her no matter what ... one person who you have a right to....one person she can always turn to...... one person who will always support & trust her.....who will be there with her through thick and thin..... infact it is a marraige vow.... is it not.... this unflinching... unquestioned support is more powerful then any decalration of love could ever be.....

This my friend..... is a sweet Hindi word..... tied to marraige vows..... a word that can only be used between a husband and a wife.......& that word my friends is..... "SAMARPAN"........

tata,
rocky25

Originally posted by: rocky25

Hi Guys,

I have seen a lot of posts where people are questioning whether Guari did the right thing by going back to Shiv or not?

I would like to ask you if you had to choose betweeen.......

......... a True, loyal friend like Shiv who will protect, nurture, support you as long as you live.... and who is prepared to die for you.....who may not say that he loves you..... but he respects you and is ready to fight for you and with from his family, friends .......in fact the whole wide world.....a relationship which will give you pasion, excitement, exhiliration, laughter, joys with one person whose one glance is able to bring colour to your heart and soul.....

OR

........ A husband who says that he loves you but leaves you in doubt.....he will not die for you... but he is your husband in every aspect.... and your life is safe with him.... basically you will have a safe but a lukewarm relationship for the rest of your life... which may give you pleasure, warmth...and happiness....

*************

Guys, let me give you my viewpoint......

Dimaag kehta hai...... ki Guari ko Shiv ke paas wapaas jana nahin chahiye........Shiv uske liye jaanleva hai..... And maybe he is simply making use of her... ( particularly the way he said MOM in yesterday's episode..... makes one wonder if somehow Shiv ... has not orchestrated the whole thing...)

***

Par agar mein Gauri ki jagah hoti.... to mein bhi shayaad wohi karti jo Gauri ne kiya.....so what if Shiv is not saying that he loves her... he is showing by his actions..... that he loves her....

He is ready to fight for her from his whole family... he is ready to die for her and cannot see her dying......that is why he revealed the truth to her.... he respects her...... likes her.. and defintely considers his best friend.... wants to protect her... Haila...the way he hugged her and took her out of the crowd so protectively was to die for....😳

For Gauri also to know that there is one person who is there for her no matter what ... one person who you have a right to....one person she can always turn to...... one person who will always support & trust her.....who will be there with her through thick and thin..... infact it is a marraige vow.... is it not.... this unflinching... unquestioned support is more powerful then any decalration of love could ever be.....

This my friend..... is a sweet Hindi word..... tied to marraige vows..... a word that can only be used between a husband and a wife.......& that word my friends is..... "SAMARPAN"........

tata,
rocky25

Bahut khoob kaha hai aapne!!!😳

mmm, n lovely use of colours also....very creative my friend

omg totally agree with u....

if i was in gauri's place i would have gone bak too...

i disagree wiv u bcos its not lyk gauri will neva b able 2 feel tht way about sum1 else who wont take her lyf away. her perception of lyf seems 2 b quite romanticised but she of all ppl shud know tht lyf doesnt always hav a happy endin

Originally posted by: Zoe89

i disagree wiv u bcos its not lyk gauri will neva b able 2 feel tht way about sum1 else who wont take her lyf away. her perception of lyf seems 2 b quite romanticised but she of all ppl shud know tht lyf doesnt always hav a happy endin

but i fink that once u luv sum1 u r willin to die for them. u luv dem so u can do anyfin to stay wiv dem.

dats jus my opnion.

luv metoubearscrazy😊

I think Gauri should have not gone back against every one's wishes including her father's as she is destroying three lives... Hers, Shiv's and the person whom shiv love's

well said yaar ....if i wld have been i gauris place, i wld def go back to shiv! 😳

btw, gauri going to shiv, shiv is now safe from his dosh, but gauri isnt! if gauri didnt go then gauri was safe, n shiv wld have died something ...like dat is the kundali rite

Originally posted by: pushpa1234

I think Gauri should have not gone back against every one's wishes including her father's as she is destroying three lives... Hers, Shiv's and the person whom shiv love's

I am not too sure about that...if taht were the case he would not have revealed the truth to Gauri......

tata,
rocky25

so its quanity vs. quality of life!

ummm, dunno...love makes ya do crazy things...cuz I know I wouldn't go back if I was Gauri, but then again I've never been so much in love like Gauri is...Gauri can't see beyond Shiv...she doesn't care about her life but what about the others around her...they care about her life, her dad sister, dada, dadi, and shiv too...she'll die and escape the world of pain and grief but does she think about impact her death will have on others...I just gotta say Shivy baby is quite lucky to have a wife that would give up her life for him like that, and that too without expecting any love from him...