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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice...
I never found fav5 friendship is selfless...all fav r selfish...they show their actual color after getting favor from that person...s1 ...Nandini helps fav everytime ...never interfered into them...still they always blame her for everything ...now they do same for Maddy n Arya ...they don't bother to call or inform Arya regarding their performance ...now Nandini becomes like fav...selfish..self centered ...nothing in her life except her boyfriend ...Navya needs to remember her for Arya ...
Ur last sentence is so true...Nandini has nothing left only being Manik s gf...
Maddy is so correct these ppl use him n throw him ...n in fight if he got hurt these fuddu 4 or Nandini don't bother abt it...
I really feel bad that Nandini becomes like that now...I want prev Nandini back ...bold...selfless...hs something to achieve in her life...not ridiculous wishes...😡...loves fireflies...innocent...pure...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: SheAish

The issue is not her 'friendship' with Aryaman per say, that is the problem here and what fans are getting frustrated and angry about. Neither is it about Manik's possessiveness about Nanadani.

Whether we like it or not, Nanadani/Aryaman friendship was forced and fast forwarded and audience was expected to take it at face value...Granted they took a leap of 3 months, but still even the one month that was shown of them together was not enough to make the audience get a feel of such a buddy buddy kind of friendship between them.

And even if we take it at face value, the way the cvs and Nanadani is showing her reactions to this friendship is all wrong and out of place when we compare it with her equation with Manik. Same can be said for Navya now.

Why the hell would Nandani be even thinking about Aryaman right now let alone feel guilty about not being in contact with him when it has barely been 4 days since Manik's return? And why the hell would others, read here Navya, feel that Nandani was neglecting Aryaman, so soon after Maniks return and specially when she brought up about their first night at the resort?

I guess one has to totally forget how Manan were in S1 and how they lost each other at the end of S1 to not feel frustrated and disconnected with how the CVs are showing Manan and their equation with others these days..

Even Maniks concern and bond with Fab5 who he had been with through thick and thin for ages does not go to the level that Nandani is behaving right now with Aryaman and how others expect her to behave with Aryaman.

And what kind of a friend feels neglected just because the friend that you are so concerned about, who had been pining and hallucinating about her dead boyfriend is suddenly reunited with her BF and is now spending some quality time with him? Its not like it has been even a week yet.
Why would that friend (Aryaman) and others (Navya) even begrudge that time that she is spending with Manik right now. Don't they expect her to be happy and taking some time to be free from all that worry and depression she went through due to loss of Manik?

Even if we are to 'buy' Nandani/Arya friendship this still is the wrong time and way too soon to be shoving down Nandani's guilt (and others to guilt trip her regarding Aryaman) down our throats. 😕

BRILLIANT!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#23
Finally I find a post which at least
talks about arya and nandu's friendship...whatever u said in this post was correct...For the last four months all the Fab3 were busy with their own life and don't want to do music anymore except dhruv...It's because of him nandini put some effort to rejoin them...In these all 4months during manik's absence there is no one for her to lean on besides arya...maybe his entry might have negative motive but once he learned the truth about his sister he didn't stop to confront his father and repent for his mistake...also he is their for her each and every time she broke down...he is basically a piece of gum sticking next to her...but What I really liked about all these was that he had developed feelings for her but never tried to cross his limits as a friend and never tried to force her to move on...however everything changed once manik's return...he was completely left alone...in mean process of comforting her he also depend on her...that why it feels really odd...at least nandini should think about this and make some sense in manik to make him understand about arya..if she really think arya as her friend she have to do it
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ow come on dude.. r u really that naive or I'm a dumb that I get a vibe of aryaman falling in love with nandini & is not at all happy with Manik's sudden return in her life.. & can also feel CVs r trying to build up a love triangle among these trio!
Thoughtful analysis is good, till the time u have a touch of fact inside it! & if it's all bout friendship only then why aryaman?.. why not navya being the oldest friend of nandini in SPACE?!! why navya is suggesting nandini to gather time for aryaman? if aryaman & navya both r nandini's friends at a same level then why can't three of them hang out together?!!

Please have a thought bout it! I just said what I felt after watching the episodes!

No offense!
Edited by N_Niya - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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correction dear people hv no prblm with dere frendsip .wen season 2 started .they took 3 Months leap ..they showed arya nd nandu's frendsip ...no one said anything about dere frendsip but wen we get to knw he has a feeling 4 her ...IT irritated us but we did not say anything ..the main prblm he started interfering in her life all tym behind nandu ..nandu never said him to help her .he did himself cause he was guilty ...okkk we accepted .wen nandu was saying manikkk is aliveee then wat needed to tell her she is wrong😡...arghhh ...chalooii yehhh v mafff kiaaa...nd nowadays nandu behaving weird 😕 .nowdays it seems she care about others instead of manik 😡...I hv no issue with arya but he is too much nowadays he has no ryts to think about nandu do ...one thing he said which irritated me most ..he said" waha manik nd maddy ka prblm h but nandu ko prblm hoga" aisaa hi something kuch bolaaa ..Mr aryaman .nandu is his life nd she herself gave the ryts to manikk to love her nd hurt her .its none of ur concern.u r talkimg about frendsip na then why arya is not happy to see manik back ...he could be happy that his frend's bf is back ..but the truth is he is not .

its all about frendsip naaa then okkk ...manik need to give tym to other S also ..his friends yeahhh alya better option .uttu left ..alya is alone ..so manik u hv to give a tym to alya .she is ur frend manik .she was ur gf before frend ...u hv a ryts to spend a tym with her .nd other side nandu go spend tym with arya ...he is ur friend ...gooo...CVS do justice ...🤣
Edited by Natashaaaaa - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think Navya's statement was all wrong... my personal opinion. Come on her boyfriend is back from being dead and she is supposed to ignore him and think about her friend? is that even possible? When they are so madly in love with each other? and what is Aryaman's obsession with her? Is he truly her friend or has he started feeing for her? Yes, it is true the feelings of love between Nandini and Manik are completely different. Manik's love is so complete, passionate, obsessive, pure. He never overlooks or ignores her even when he is with or thinking about his friends. But sometimes I think Nandini takes him for granted. Just my thinking.
Also, why is it they have to show that every other guy has to fall for the female lead? in this case Nandini? Like seriously, what is wrong with Alya, or Mukti or even Navya for that matter. Initially, Arya was always trying to get closer to Alya, so just because he became Nandini's friend his attraction wavered? Sorry, sometimes things don't gell, but I guess with the new creative team things are going to be different. Well, it is difficult not to compare the two seasons, especially with the same cast. Manan was different then and they are different now. Let's see how it ends. And like someone said, it appears now that Maddy is staying and he will be the new second lead. Giving Manik a run, at least we knew Harshad could never be anywhere close to Manik, but Maddy? the way his character is shaping up, could be a threat to Manik's character? I hope not? There should be only one SHER and that should be MANIK. Right?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ek_nai_paheli

I think Navya's statement was all wrong... my personal opinion. Come on her boyfriend is back from being dead and she is supposed to ignore him and think about her friend? is that even possible? When they are so madly in love with each other? and what is Aryaman's obsession with her? Is he truly her friend or has he started feeing for her? Yes, it is true the feelings of love between Nandini and Manik are completely different. Manik's love is so complete, passionate, obsessive, pure. He never overlooks or ignores her even when he is with or thinking about his friends. But sometimes I think Nandini takes him for granted. Just my thinking.

Also, why is it they have to show that every other guy has to fall for the female lead? in this case Nandini? Like seriously, what is wrong with Alya, or Mukti or even Navya for that matter. Initially, Arya was always trying to get closer to Alya, so just because he became Nandini's friend his attraction wavered? Sorry, sometimes things don't gell, but I guess with the new creative team things are going to be different. Well, it is difficult not to compare the two seasons, especially with the same cast. Manan was different then and they are different now. Let's see how it ends. And like someone said, it appears now that Maddy is staying and he will be the new second lead. Giving Manik a run, at least we knew Harshad could never be anywhere close to Manik, but Maddy? the way his character is shaping up, could be a threat to Manik's character? I hope not? There should be only one SHER and that should be MANIK. Right?

not talking abt yuvi..but maddy seems a chomu to me.actually his attitude😡.if cvs gonna show him as a new sher..atleast I will die laughing and of irritation
Edited by Akansha32 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I really didn't get one thing...love is not allowed in friendship ah??...how can people say aryaman is not allowed to love Nandhini...she is the only girl with whom he had spent his time for last few months and that girl is having all the qualities to fall in love with...oh come on he is human after all...and nandini she didn't develop any feelings for him right...then that's enough...and here we are not asking her to go on a date with arya leaving behind her smoking hot bf manik...we just ask her to be more sensible about this matter and handle it maturely especially speaking about it with manik...and navya she didn't even have time to look after her baby then how one can expect her to spend time with nandini during manik's disappearce...at the least nandini get sometime to speak with navya even after manik's return but not with arya...people are OK if that friend is girl...if a boy comes to that picture other than manik they are completely against it even that guy was once her moral support and shoulder to cry on
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

The guy ws with her in her hardest times and people here are asking when did they started to have such strong bond... I guess these are.the people who started watching.s2 after manik's entry... According to them friendship is only worthy if ur.are friends for years... People become friends due.to the circumstances not by the Number of years u know each other.. Aryamann supported nandu when she needed it the most... The guy till date havent done anything to manan and is trying his level best to keep the distance still people has a problem and calls his names after each episode even if he is not in an episode... Wont be surprised if karan also leaves the show...

All thr havr.to say is how aryamann was when he entered... He redeemed himself and asked for forgiveness from.everyone..
The fact is manik would have reacted.the same as aryamann if he looses someone close to him. Manik himself admited that to aryamann...




Thanks for saying all that!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Manik and Nandini's love story...if we see it carefully as in Season 1...Nandini always had time for Manik even when Navya or Abhimanyu was around. She used to keep a separate time for being with her friends and for being with Manik.
But here it's a different story actually. When Manik is with Nandini...she is thinking of Aryaman. Manik is not affected by the fact that Aryaman became Nandini's friend. Manik is more affected by the fact that Nandini is distracted when she is with him.

Yaar when somebody is talking to U...U suddenly act as if U are ignoring the person that is not good. I mean one episode they show Manik returning...and next episode all of them going on a trip...let's say they are showing the trip in a gap of one day or so...but even in a gap of one day..Nandini is not paying proper attention to Manik and is looking through the phone for calls from Aryaman. Manik was ignoring Fab 5 and going after Nandini and Nandini was ignoring Manik and going after Aryaman. The romance gets contaminated in such a scene!😆

I agree..Nandini was worried as to whether Aryaman is coming or not...but she was not worried to why Navya is getting late. That is what I didn't like much even when Navya has been the one sharing a longer and closer friendship with Nandini as in even sharing bedrooms and discussions. That side of Nandini I felt was weird.

The problem with Aryaman-Nandini friendship was that she was going after her 24/7. CVs shouldn't have shown it that way. If it was like the kind of friendship Nandini-Kabir had or the one that Nandini had with Abhimanyu..it would've been better. But Aryaman going after Nandini everywhere she goes...(coz of his deeper love feelings for her) made the whole friendship thing look weird. I believe that friends try to give each other some space. Aryaman is sort of scared of Manik and he knows now that he has lesser scope that is why he is keeping a fair distance. But if we take his old habit..he would've been stalking Nandini a lot.

I didn't like the way Aryaman was always going behind Nandini...even when he is far away...he is always thinking of Nandini. I can't call it friendship...I would call it attraction. Not even love..because if it were true love, he would wait for things to settle down. It's just a few days and Aryaman is still after Nandini as in stalking her through calls and taunting her about forgetting him and all. Friendship between a girl and guy to a certain extent is good...but beyond that...it gets weird.

Imagine a scenario where leaving Nandini..Manik goes behind Mukti 24/7 as in going to her house sitting there..calling her up each and every second and asking if she is ok. That friendship would not appear like friendship anymore. Because when we think of a person 24/7 it becomes attraction. In friendship, we don't stalk...😆

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