Use And Throw Mentality..... - Page 2

Originally posted by: piyasmanan

plating tat song was wrong... he is not in deep love he just fell..in love so using tat song not good choice...baatein ye kabhi na

Originally posted by: roops14

It's not abt frndship but abt aaryamaan's char. Wo jise behen keliy aaya tha uske bareme to use koi parwh nahi hai and so much care for nandini... Can't digest...

And about cvs... Manik loves nandini he never change her rather he completes her...

And because of aryaman company she became so weird her choices became so different Frm original nandini murthy. And that is undigestive

Originally posted by: SheAish

The issue is not her 'friendship' with Aryaman per say, that is the problem here and what fans are getting frustrated and angry about. Neither is it about Manik's possessiveness about Nanadani.

Whether we like it or not, Nanadani/Aryaman friendship was forced and fast forwarded and audience was expected to take it at face value...Granted they took a leap of 3 months, but still even the one month that was shown of them together was not enough to make the audience get a feel of such a buddy buddy kind of friendship between them.

And even if we take it at face value, the way the cvs and Nanadani is showing her reactions to this friendship is all wrong and out of place when we compare it with her equation with Manik. Same can be said for Navya now.

Why the hell would Nandani be even thinking about Aryaman right now let alone feel guilty about not being in contact with him when it has barely been 4 days since Manik's return? And why the hell would others, read here Navya, feel that Nandani was neglecting Aryaman, so soon after Maniks return and specially when she brought up about their first night at the resort?

I guess one has to totally forget how Manan were in S1 and how they lost each other at the end of S1 to not feel frustrated and disconnected with how the CVs are showing Manan and their equation with others these days..

Even Maniks concern and bond with Fab5 who he had been with through thick and thin for ages does not go to the level that Nandani is behaving right now with Aryaman and how others expect her to behave with Aryaman.

And what kind of a friend feels neglected just because the friend that you are so concerned about, who had been pining and hallucinating about her dead boyfriend is suddenly reunited with her BF and is now spending some quality time with him? Its not like it has been even a week yet.

Why would that friend (Aryaman) and others (Navya) even begrudge that time that she is spending with Manik right now. Don't they expect her to be happy and taking some time to be free from all that worry and depression she went through due to loss of Manik?

Even if we are to 'buy' Nandani/Arya friendship this still is the wrong time and way too soon to be shoving down Nandani's guilt (and others to guilt trip her regarding Aryaman) down our throats. 😕

Originally posted by: spnfan

Aryamann didnt have any motive to kill manik anymore.. Also aryamann never tried to hurt anyone except manik.. Cabir was also in the car and he knew it so even if he wanted to kill manik he wont risk cabir's life... Nandini knows that... Except for his hatred for manik there is nothing negative about aryamann unlike harshad or nyonika he is not a negative character...

Nandini didnt believe harshad completely... She doubted him but was not completely convinced that he killed manbir like fab3 did... Aryamnn eventhough became friends withfab3 was never close to them... So fab3 and aryamann dont have a strong bond like Arya and nandu... If u have seens the initial episodes fab3 was busy in their own life trying to move on so was navya.. She was busy withher job and baby... So Arya and nandu was left behind and they started to spend time together...

There was a gap of 4 months b/w s1 and s2 so they cannot show the friendship b/w Arya and nandu step by step... Nandu is someone who gives everyone a 2nd chance so she gave aryamann also a chance...

Aryamann Cheered herup when she was sad, listened to her whenever she talked about manik which she couldnt do with fab3, helped her to find the culprit,, stod by her side in every decision she.made show cvs did show the growth on their friendship...

Navya said kike that coz she saw how aryamann felt left alone... Aryamnn suddenly got disconnected with all of them.. Navya didnt say to leave manik and spent all the rime with aryamann... Nandu dint even talk to aryamann properly after manik came... All she saidbwas atleast speak to him and clear the mu.. There.is nothing wrong in it...

Till date aryamnn never tried to come ib b/w manan so alk the hatred he receive is not justified... I also wont support him if he would have tried to come in b/w manan or tired to create mu b/w them... Aryamann is happy for nandu and is happy to see her happy but he is human he cannot switch off his feeling and behave like nothing happened... He needs time to get over his feelings...

Originally posted by: SwethaVerma

Manik came back from Dead so is there a timeline till when Nandhini is supposed to forget to eat drink live and just drool over him... which if she doesnt her love is not true love...?

Friendship doesnt need 4 months or 4 years to become a strong bond... one one heartfelt gesture in friendship is enough to form such a bond... its a relation of heart not Cement Bond that gets stonger with Age...!!

Manik came back from dead so is he not talking with Fab 5 ????

Is he not giving his time for his friends too???

Is he not calling and talking to them???

Is he not concerned over their problems...??

Even he came back after 4 months so why not people pointing a finger at that...

Bcoz we are supposed to be BoyFriend Bhakths... Meera types otherwise our love is not TRUE !!!

Originally posted by: SheAish

I'm sorry but IMHO Manik's friendship with Fab5 cannot be compared with Nandani and Aryaman. And before you all jump to conclusions and throw the gender card at me, its neither due to me being a sexist nor the time period that I am referring to here.

The problem is that Manan love story was not an ordinary, everyday, "realistic" love story. We were fed a steady diet of a unique fairy tale type intense love story and thus these so called realistic explanations about no problem with Nandani having a BFF after what she had with Manik, specially after just mere four months since his death is 'unrealistic' and ofcourse would not be taken very well by the fandom.

The kind of all encompassing love story they had and specially what Nandani felt for Manik was not just love but great and deep friendship too. She might have taken support and help from Aryaman to some extent during the past four months, but still the fact they showed her being so depressed and missing Manik to the level that she was hallucinating him does not at all mesh with her replacing or moving on even in terms of a that kind of close friendship with anyone that soon.

And neither was it even shown in S2 at all. Sure she was shown to going that route to some extent, but then with the return of Parth they have changed it to showcase her depression and inability to move on, so even in that sense it is hard to take this suddebly BFF thing they seem intent in throwing at our faces.

After getting fans invested in a fairytale and unrealistic love story, they can't suddenly expect fans to switch off the Manan of S1 in their minds and infuse reality in discussing and understanding what they are currently showing.