Why Do People Hate Aryaman? - Page 4

Originally posted by: fia21

I don't think she meant lashing out in the literal sense. She meant getting angry and saying something hurtful. We all know, and Manik says so himself, how easily angry he can get. I think it's natural for someone to be worried for their friend in such circumstances. Doesn't mean he thinks the boyfriend is bad.

I don't know what the CVs are planning to do with Aryaman in the show, but I don't understand why people are centering my post around MaNan. My post was never about MaNan. I just want to know why people have no other reason beyond this of disliking Aryaman.

Even if he's interfering, let's first see how it plays out in the show instead of assuming things. If it turns out to be a mistake, he'll learn from it and not intervene in their matter next time. That is, unless the CVs decide to turn him negative.

U r pretty much contradicting to ur earlier replies on this topic of arya tagging along nandini to resolve manan issues.
No matter what justifications u give he or any body else has zero right to b a mediator of a couple esp for a couple like MaNan. And yes let me clear you i am annoyed with nandini. Have seen her character growth for over a year and now her actions just making me wonder if she is the same. because she and manik were the type who never ever let a 3rd person talk for them.

Originally posted by: priakachan

Ok...it's a really interesting question. I personally don't hate Aryaman...but that doesn't mean I love his character too.😆

Reasons:-

(1) Aryaman's relation with Manik and Nandini- He never deeply connected with Manik..but connects with his girlfriend Nandini. It's fine...I understand that Aryaman made his connection as a shoulder to cry on...as a friend. But then, Nandini took that shoulder because she missed her love and best friend Manik. Every person looks for a friend...a friend who is there when U feel low. If Manik were not involved in this accident..do U feel Aryaman would have such a friendship with Nandini???? No...is the answer. Because when Nandini feels low...lost...worried...lonely, she would go and look for her best friend Manik. Remember? Once Nandini said that 'Manik is the best friend and so she wanted to their relationship slow and be friends"! Aryaman becoming Nandini's best friend is like Aryaman replacing Manik as her best friend. But Aryaman I'm sure will continue to do it. He would wait for Manik to get angry on her..and become her shoulder to cry on...which will lead to Manik feeling that she no more needs him.

(2) Nandini's nature and Aryaman's behaviour- I know...this may sound a bit weird...but Nandini is different from Mukti, Alya for whom hug was not something thrilling or something. 😆 For Nandini her first hug..her first kiss...all were making her blush, shy...Nandini has a more traditional kind of personality. When Manik sees Aryaman giving her consoling hugs (which I will CVs may show😆) how will he feel? The girl who blushed in his hug is casually hugging another guy who is not even a close friend to him...and who infact tried to harm him in the past and in 4 months became Nandini's closer friend...😆

(3) Touchy feely in an over-friendly way- If U ask me...can't a girl have boys who are friends?? They can! But Aryaman's actions are not just of a friend as in he gets all hugging and all. It is of a guy..who got closer to Nandini first as a friend..and wanting to take her place as a best friend whom she will trust 100% and then as a lover.

(4) Stalking is yet another factor. If U take Kabir or Dhruv...do they go after Mukti and Alya 24/7??? Have U seen Aryaman walk behind Mukti or Alya giving a shoulder to cry on when they are sad or worried?? How can he even know that?? Coz he is stalking Nandini. His eyes are always on Nandini and that is what Manik is not going to like.

(5) Kabir, Abhimanyu and Aryaman- Manik had no problems with Nandini being friends with Abhimanyu or Kabir...for the simple reason that they never stalked Nandini or had such an over-friendly attitude towards her and they let Manik take over when they saw Manik getting next to Nandini! But Aryaman has been stalking Nandini since the start of Season 2 and I'm pretty sure...in coming episodes he'll do exactly that and won't even allow Manik and Nandini alone time.

This surely is a bit irritating to watch...taking into account that since Manik has returned..Aryaman should give some alone time to the love birds to patch up..instead of following his friend Nandini wherever she goes..as if she is a baby who is learning to walk! Doesn't he have other work to do?? If no other work...atleast jaake drums practice karlo! 😆

With all due respect, I completely disagree with the reasons you mentioned. Firstly because they are all circumstantial, we have no idea how half the things you mentioned here will actually play out in the show, that is if the CVs haven't already decided to turn Aryaman negative. And secondly because Manik at one point or another, has done all these things to her that Aryaman is now doing or might be doing in the future.

1. Friendship between two people happens when circumstances allow it to happen. People don't just randomly become friends. There's always a catalyst in the form of a situation or moment that brings two individuals together to initiate a conversation. Sometimes that conversation is just a conversation, but many times, that tiny moment with a stranger marks the start of a friendship. That's what happened with Nandini and Aryaman. Yes Manik has always been her best friend, but she had no one after he was gone. I agree with you that had the accident not happened, Aryaman and Nandini might not even be friends. But as I said, something always plays a catalyst in such situations. Manik's accident brought Aryaman and Nandini together as friends. He gave her a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen. He became a close friend when she needed one the most. That doesn't mean he replaced Manik. He just made his own place in Nandini's life.

2. See I disagree with you here. Yes Nandini is not like Mukti and Aliya, but she isn't exactly that traditional either. I mean the girl basically promoted teenage sex on this show when she put up all those slogans in college to support her friends. She has always been comfortable hugging her friends. The only difference is that first it was just Cabir and Dhruv and she was never really that close with them the way she is with Aryaman. Let's face it, the Fab5 have always been, and rightly so, more Manik's friends than they were Nandini's. She has never been that comfortable with them the way she is with Navya. Aryaman is her first actual friend from the opposite sex, so we shouldn't judge how she would or should behave with him when we have nothing to go on considering she never shared such a friendship with any other guy apart from Manik.

3. I'd like to mention here what I did in the beginning. Haven't we seen Manik being overly touchy feely with Nandini in the beginning? Where that was considered romantic, Aryaman is being tagged as some pervert. I remember Nandini actually flinching at times when Manik tried to get too close to her. She was THAT uncomfortable. And they were enemies at that time. Aryaman is her friend. I think he is allowed to be a little touchy feely when Manik could do that easily during the time they both hated each other.

4. You call it stalking, I call it concern. People keep forgetting that neither Nandini nor Aryaman are a part of Fab5. They are both more each others friends than they are of the Fab5. I remember Cabir and Dhruv going after Mukti and Aliya every time they were concerned about them. That's what friends too. Fab5 is a big group. Aryaman only has Nandini as a true friend. So naturally he'd prefer to be in her presence more than others. If I had only one close friend, I'd spend most of my time with them too. If that makes me a stalker, so be it.

5. I don't understand your reasoning behind the use of the word stalker. You keep mentioning that he's stalking Nandini and I still don't know how you came to that conclusion. A few meaningful looks on his part perhaps? His feelings for her are changing so obviously he'd always want to be around her because he likes her. Until it's shown that Aryaman is negative, I'd like to give the guy the benefit of doubt. And let's not forget that Manik "stalked" Nandini plenty. They guy practically showed up at her doorstep every time he felt like it, uninvited I might add.

MaNan will patch up when things calm down. Right now everybody is on an emotional roller coaster ride. Aryaman shouldn't stop hanging out with Nandini just because Manik is back. If they want some alone time I'm sure he'll back off. Although I haven't been following the show lately so I don't know what exactly Aryaman is up to. But if the CVs turn him negative, ignore this post altogether 😆

Originally posted by: mishaarshi

U r pretty much contradicting to ur earlier replies on this topic of arya tagging along nandini to resolve manan issues.
No matter what justifications u give he or any body else has zero right to b a mediator of a couple esp for a couple like MaNan. And yes let me clear you i am annoyed with nandini. Have seen her character growth for over a year and now her actions just making me wonder if she is the same. because she and manik were the type who never ever let a 3rd person talk for them.

I only said to give him the benefit of doubt and wait till the actual scene plays out. How is that contradicting myself? I have been repeatedly saying that IF the CVs turn Aryaman negative than yes I do not support him interfering in their matters.

But if it so happens that he was doing all this without any ulterior motives, then he'll learn from his mistake and not intervene next time. Or until Nandini herself asks him to back off.

Nandini has always been an inconsistent character. She never reacts to situations like we think she would.

Originally posted by: zohasad2.0

coz he's annoying

dear I get ur point...it's completely understandable but as a pankhi that I'm Arya is getting too much on my nerves and I wanna boil his intestines.

But I do get your post! <3

LOL 😆

That's alright. As I said, everybody is free to disagree with me 😊

Originally posted by: -siyali-

The problem is in the mind set, do you think if Aryamaan was a girl and was trying to protect Nandini from Manik's anger, the audience would have said that she is interfering in MaNan, they would have never said that because it's a girl. But since Arya is a boy, we always assume that boy and girl can never just be friends and the guy must always have some intention towards the girl. For which Arya character is thrown under the bus here. I really don't know what the CV has plans for Aryamaan, even if he falls in love with Nandini or even he just remains her BF, Nandini would never allow Aryamaan to come between MaNan.

Anyways, I would want Aryaman to remain BF to Nandini but nothing more, similar to how Dhruv remained a good friend to Nandini till date, even though he once declared that he liked Nandini.

It's really in the mindset...

That's what I mentioned in my post. Why does this mindset change when people watching American shows don't question the leads getting involved with their friends? But when the same people watch that happening in Indian shows it creates a chaos.

Even I want Aryaman to stay friends with Nandini. But I would not have minded a good love triangle either if the CVs had the heart to take risks and not cower under fan pressure. I don't mind them remaining friends, but I'd like their bond to grow stronger. Nandini deserves her own group of friends.

With all due respect, I completely disagree with the reasons you mentioned. Firstly because they are all circumstantial, we have no idea how half the things you mentioned here will actually play out in the show, that is if the CVs haven't already decided to turn Aryaman negative. And secondly because Manik at one point or another, has done all these things to her that Aryaman is now doing or might be doing in the future.

well what I think is, most of d people don't hate aryaman but dislike karan jotwani for being unreasonably irritating while the trend took place! such kind of things r not at all expected from a celeb!
another reason what I feel is the unnecessary huge screen space he captured after Manik's departure which seemed lame to me as kaisi yeh yaariaan was always bout fab5 & nandini navya's ever changing equations.. even being an important character, d montage didn't have abhishek malik aka harshad!! how come a temporary character who had been brought just to give a track a proper closure turns permanent & moreover captures more screen space than d leads, sometimes more than d lead protagonist of d show!!!

Completely my POV!

No offense!

His character should have been strictly restricted to a cameo, he is just plain annoying to say the least. Towards the end of season 1 and S 2, there is no proper base for his character only. Same goes for Maddy also. Also I find Jotwani's acting terrible. You see Parth, Niti on one hand and lo here comes Karan.For me even Dishank, Soha, Rose were all much more likable even though some of their characters were causing trouble for MaNan, their acting was on par with the others and during that time, there was a story line unlike now. This show is already on a downward spiral and his presence is runing it for me even more. Or the very least the CV's can do if not for chucking him out is to pair him with Mukti. I saw some chemistry between them there, lol.

I just hate him coz he is clingy and creepy. I hate the fact that he gets so touchy with Nandoo and controls Nandoo and her actions. Being a Manan fan I feel like no guy should come close Nandoo other than Manik. I never trusted him and I never will until I see him chasing Mukti or Navya or someone else😆