Why Do People Hate Aryaman? - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi..

Of course she can remain his GF and Arya's friend too but as a friend his responsibility should be limited to Nandini only, he can talk to her, and in case of MaNan, going by their characterisation they have never indulged a third person in their conflicts, not even Cabir but Arya tagging along with Nandini to talk to her BF doesn't seem right. Friends are important part of one's life but more than required intervention leads to suffocation and insecurities can seep in between a couple. That's what exactly happened in case of Fab5 coz Manik intervened more than he should have!

CVs should maintain a balance without turning Arya negative and showing Nandini dependent on Arya to resolve her issues with Manik, it's their relationship and in any case Arya should not be involved. A constant motivator's role Arya can take up!

@Bold: I wasn't aware of that. If this is what's currently happening then I completely agree with you. Aryaman should give his opinion but then just let it be for Nandini to decide what she wants.

That's what I want. Aryaman's concern should be limited to Nandini only. If she wants, only then should he intervene. And even then he should only give her his support when need be and let Nandini sort things out with Manik on her own.

I guess they are heading towards a jealousy track, maybe that's why they're making Aryaman act so irrationally. I don't want him to be involved in Nandini's life, not in MaNan's. Not more than necessary!

Typical story teller mentality they can't let the "other guy" be positive,i mean seriously i agree with your post, why can't he just love her and feel happy about it,why can't he move on after manik's come back and love someone else like mukti(mentioning this as i could see the sparks today) ,why can't he be just friends on later stage and be just buddy of hers

Originally posted by: fia21

@Bold: I wasn't aware of that. If this is what's currently happening then I completely agree with you. Aryaman should give his opinion but then just let it be for Nandini to decide what she wants.

That's what I want. Aryaman's concern should be limited to Nandini only. If she wants, only then should he intervene. And even then he should only give her his support when need be and let Nandini sort things out with Manik on her own.

I guess they are heading towards a jealousy track, maybe that's why they're making Aryaman act so irrationally. I don't want him to be involved in Nandini's life, not in MaNan's. Not more than necessary!

yeah! That's exactly what they showed today in the episode😆

Originally posted by: -bharti-

I have always wished nandini had a true friend, to fall back to share but it never happened. It was Abhimanyu who fit the slot perfectly if you had watched kyy1. Character of Aryaman never made sense from the begining, confusing signals, first he shows interest in alya, then he turns negative by siding with harshad, uses nandini to get back at manik,.. nandini,s utter blind or rather foolish trust in him almost cost manik his life, then he begins taking keen interest in nandini especially in manik,s absence... now he has replaced cabir all thanx to nandini,s efforts. So he has basically invaded some sacrosant spaces which is hard to digest. There is no harm if nandini had a true friend but not one with an ulterior motive.

Yes I remember him. I rather liked Abhimanyu and wished he could have stayed longer.

The points you mentioned, I completely agree with them. But this is the fault in writing. Ever since the Pandit track, the writing of the show has been downright horrible. There is no consistency. The story keeps jumping from one scene to another. I couldn't feel any connection to the characters because of it. Partly the reason of why I stopped watching the show after the Manglore track.

This is what I meant in my post. Aryaman's character has so much potential but the writers are ruining it due to their inconsistency.

The Season 1 finale is what ruined it all. Bad move on all accounts.

Originally posted by: fia21

Yes but the thing is, as a character, Aryaman has potential, and that shouldn't be wasted just to serve MaNan's purpose. This is something I hated when they did to Cabir. That character had so much to offer but he was reduced to being a MaNan cupid and lost it's identity. I don't want Aryaman to suffer the same fate. I like Manik-Nandini together, but I don't want the whole show to be just about them.

I don't want him to make Manik jealous. I want him to be a friend, a confidante to Nandini. She can deal with her matters regarding Manik on her own with Aryaman supporting her every step of the way. And then if the CVs have a little brain left, they'd give him his own story.

Originally posted by: -siyali-

Once must give Arya benefit of the doubt, does he really mean to intervene or is he being a good friend that he's always been to Nandini and trying to clear any misunderstanding Manik may have about them. Let's assume for a second that Arya has developed feeling for Nandini, then why wouldn't he make a move on Nandini? He very well knows that Nandini only loves Manik so he would never make that attempt, so then why would he try to create any misunderstandings between them? I am not trying to defend Arya here, but it's too early to judge him without knowing his intentions or motives, which I believe he only has in Nandini's best interest and to be her good friend and that's all.

Nandini is going to give Manik a surprise which is bound to make the Moster's heart melt, cause the monstor is real insecure right now and there is no better person then Nandu to help him over come his insecurities.

Aryamann had alot of potential from the start but then he was misused by the CVs as usual to be one of the enemies or the so called grey character in the show. I really would understand him falling for Nandu, I mean come on, that girl is pretty gorgeous and at times sensible too😆 but the thing is, she is the complete package of the person you would want for a girlfriend. But what unsettles me is that Arya was shown to be falling for Alya and then he suddenly jumped ship and fell in love with Nandu😕 Other than that I feel his feelings are completely justified.
I totally agree with you on the dynamics wala part, I dont watch hindi serials, I am more of a ABC channel watcher, but this serial caught my eye and I have been watching ever since.
I Love MaNan so personally for me, separating them over such shit is a big no-no.
I still like Arya. I want him to fight. Not become a villain or a cupid. He deserves love as much as Manik does and I personally hope that he makes the fact clear.

Originally posted by: fia21

Exactly my point. Being a friend, he has the right to be involved in what's going on in her life. And if she wants, he should give her the space she wants and just be there to support her in whatever she wants. I fail to understand why people are making a big deal out of him interfering in their matter. It's Nandini's matter as much as it is Manik's, and he's Nandini's friend. We all interfere in out friend's lives like any normal, good friend would. The problem would be if Aryaman was trying to deliberately exploit their misunderstandings for his advantage. So far, I haven't seen him do that.

Originally posted by: shahz

I had no issues with Aryaman..actually I was happy to see Nandini get a best friend in a true form but Arya is getting too clingy which is irking me.It was totally clear by his expression that he wasn't thrilled to see Manik and what is the need to follow Nandini everywhere she goes.

We MaNan fans have always been possessive about MaNan...We couldn't tolerate Dhruv putting his hand on Nadini's shoulder but here tho Arya is stuck to her hips.

I didn't like what I saw in the promo...Both Nandini and Arya's expressions made me wanna puke but I'm hoping the actual episode turns out different.Even if Aryaman doesn't turn neg I don't want these overfriendly scenes between Aryaman and Nandini...Nandini was never shown to be this comfortable hugging a friend so it's not going down well them showing her like this now.

Aryaman needs to back off and let Manik and Nandini sort their problems out them self and Nandini needs to draw the line in this friendship.She never needed a backup to go calm Manik down so why now especially as it's clear that Manik is hurt and insecure due to them replacing him and Cabir.Then why take the source of the issue with her???

I want less side characters and more focus on MaNan and the original fab 5!

The Fab5 hugs and touches a lot. Doesn't make them clingy. People express friendship differently. Some are overly touchy feely, others don't like it much. That doesn't mean a person's intentions are impure regarding that person. I didn't even mind Dhruv touching her. He was a friend to her when she needed one the most, when Manik was nothing but terrible to her, when MaNan didn't even exist.

Nandini has always been comfortable hugging a friend. It's just that this is the first time she has an actual friend of the opposite sex. Otherwise she was just sharing Manik's group of friends. If she wants to hug Aryaman, hang out with him, have fun with him, what's wrong with that? It's not as if by doing this she's cheating on Manik. He hugs and touches Mukti and Aliya too but nobody questions that.

See but that's my point. Even the Fab5 have been reduced to side characters now. The show has been all about MaNan since a very long time. They are the protagonists and have to be more involved in the story, but in the initial days, there were so many characters and parallel stories which was the main reason people stuck to watching the show. That essence is lost somewhere now.

Though if Aryaman is trying to exploit their misunderstanding to his advantage then obviously that's wrong. And that would mean the CVs have decided to turn Aryaman negative again. Which I hope isn't the case. Just let the guy be. Let him be Nandini's friend but give him his own story, something that doesn't have to revolve around Manik and Nandini.

Originally posted by: -siyali-

Once must give Arya benefit of the doubt, does he really mean to intervene or is he being a good friend (that he's always been one to Nandini) and trying to clear any misunderstanding Manik may have about them? Let's assume for a second that Arya has developed feelings for Nandini, then why wouldn't he make a move on Nandini? He very well knows that Nandini only loves Manik so he would never make that move, so then why would he try to create any misunderstandings between them? It's not a deliberate effort from Arya to create any misunderstandings between them, it's all really in Manik's head, the fat brains of his has stopped working 😆 I am not trying to defend Arya here, but it's too early to judge him without knowing his intentions or motives, which I believe he only has in Nandini's best interest and to be her good friend and that's all.

Nandini is going to give Manik a surprise which is bound to make the monster's heart melt, cause the monster is real insecure right now and there is no better person then Nandu to help him over come his insecurities. He needs to feel wanted, India's top wanted list 😆

Agreed. I'd like to give him the benefit of doubt. Even if he increases any tension between MaNan, it could be unintentional on his part? If not, then oh well, the CVs can go to hell for ruining another potential character.