Why Do People Hate Aryaman? - Page 3

Created

Last reply

Replies

48

Views

10.1k

Users

22

Likes

103

Frequent Posters

fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: nuckts

Typical story teller mentality they can't let the "other guy" be positive,i mean seriously i agree with your post, why can't he just love her and feel happy about it,why can't he move on after manik's come back and love someone else like mukti(mentioning this as i could see the sparks today) ,why can't he be just friends on later stage and be just buddy of hers

i am sure modern people like us agree that guys and girls can be friends
if a guy is more than a friend for a girl it doesn't mean they have love in between them but its a possibility that he is the best guy friend that girl can have without making him a boyfriend
and even if aryaman likes her i think there is nothing wrong about it he is not like pandit or soha who will come in between them
i really want that after manan reunion he is gracious enough to step aside and live a life of his own and find true love or be happy with his love for nandini but NOT BE NEGATIVE!



I liked him with Aliya. Wonder why they never pursued that track.

Agreed. Aryaman is no pandit. People are dissecting this interfering thing way too much than necessary. It's not as if we ourselves have never butted in our friends relationship problems. Doesn't mean we had any wrong intentions. Sometimes, your friends understand your relationship better than you yourself do.

I'd like for him to step aside to. Him being negative again would not make sense.
MuratHayat thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -siyali-



As of now we don't even know enough about why Arya was there with Nandini and Manik (in the precap), my best guess is that Arya saw how angry Manik was in the music room, he was literally shouting at everyone and while he left the anger he saw in Manik's eyes was enough for him to gather that Manik is in no state to calm down, at least not now. And knowing Nandini ran after Manik, Arya probably got worried for her, and wanted to make sure Manik doesn't lash out or hurt Nandini, he's there as a protective friend. I don't think that's called intervening, at least not now, but we will see how it plays out!




what? he is protecting nandini from her manik? coz manik may lash out on her?For god sake manik is the man nandini loves hopelessly and irrevocably.
Who gave him the right to advocate between a couple . MaNan never needed a third person to resolve their conflicts and he need not poke his nose into it. well i blame nandini for allowing aryaman to invade her private space.
Navya too was her best friend but never ever did she interfere in her friend's relationship issues
fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: orpi


sorry dear i dont agree with you !! i dont think cabir was just a cupid for manan !! he always had his own identity and including that he was a cupid !! he was a friend of both of them plus with every one else like fab 5 !! acc to me he never lost the charm of his character infact for me it greww way higher 😳 i loved him more when he balanced out everything !! he took care of everyone !! the most clam headed one he was 👏 one of the beautifully sketched character on ky2 acc to me 👏

for me i dont want arayaman to help nandu !! nandu shouldnt know that aryaman is helping ! sometimes we shouldnt tell our friends that we r helping them .. then what happens is their confidence level go down and ego takes place !! so i want aryaman to be there as her friend plus the cupid of manan !! aryaman can surely balance all out i have total confidence in his character !! and yes i would love to see aryamans story grow as well with any girl, or his own struggle how he manages , or his family anything that can be i would love to watch it !! but i dont want aryaman to interfere in manan like planning with nandu how to manaofy manik no BIG NO to that from my side ! i would personally never it ! 😊 so lets see how CVs write the story forward 😊



My point exactly. Cabir was my favorite character on the show. His journey of redemption was the most beautifully penned out. But come on, you cannot deny the fact that he had no role left except for bringing MaNan close over and over again. What was his individual story left? The gay thing was basically forgotten. Raghav returned for only two episodes and after that, nothing, nada, zilch. Shouldn't Cabir have gotten his own love story? A new guy? Because I don't remember him doing much on the show apart from being Navya's caretaker and MaNan's personal relationship consultant.

Why can't he help Nandini? Are you seriously trying to tell me that if you had a friend who was going through a rough patch in his/her relationship, you'd tell him/her that they are on their own? I for one am not built that way. I would want to help my friend. But obviously in a certain limit. This has nothing to do with confidence. We're humans. Sometimes we need a little guidance.
Nandini_goyal thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 9 years ago
#24
Love you for posting this. It says al that I wanted to but never could. Maybe I am an add to this too but let's leave it for some other time :)
fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Cooldude101

Aryamann had alot of potential from the start but then he was misused by the CVs as usual to be one of the enemies or the so called grey character in the show. I really would understand him falling for Nandu, I mean come on, that girl is pretty gorgeous and at times sensible too😆 but the thing is, she is the complete package of the person you would want for a girlfriend. But what unsettles me is that Arya was shown to be falling for Alya and then he suddenly jumped ship and fell in love with Nandu😕 Other than that I feel his feelings are completely justified.
I totally agree with you on the dynamics wala part, I dont watch hindi serials, I am more of a ABC channel watcher, but this serial caught my eye and I have been watching ever since.
I Love MaNan so personally for me, separating them over such shit is a big no-no.
I still like Arya. I want him to fight. Not become a villain or a cupid. He deserves love as much as Manik does and I personally hope that he makes the fact clear.



Agreed. She's a pretty girl. A guy would be blind not to fall in love with her 😆

Even I don't watch Indian shows much now. Maybe that's the reason all this unnecessary melodrama really pisses me off. Every Indian show has one track. They all eventually land in the same pit. Villains, misunderstandings, villains, misunderstandings. And the cycle goes on.

I rather liked him with Aliya. They had chemistry.
Vivid38 thumbnail
Posted: 9 years ago
#26
I agree. I would like to see a good friendship develop btw Arya man nandini $navya. Also I could see some chemistry btw mukti and aryaman
fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Rutu01


@ bold - sometimes she need not have to spell it out ...u have to instinctively understand where u have to give a couple a space ...just coz u r her friend n r concerned for her doesnt give u rights to involve n be a close spectator when the couple is trying to solve der problems. Be supportive ..dats welcome but dont try to crowd her .



That's for Nandini to decide whether or not he's crowding her. Although I agree with you that he should not get involved in all this.
fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: mishaarshi


what? he is protecting nandini from her manik? coz manik may lash out on her?For god sake manik is the man nandini loves hopelessly and irrevocably.
Who gave him the right to advocate between a couple . MaNan never needed a third person to resolve their conflicts and he need not poke his nose into it. well i blame nandini for allowing aryaman to invade her private space.
Navya too was her best friend but never ever did she interfere in her friend's relationship issues



I don't think she meant lashing out in the literal sense. She meant getting angry and saying something hurtful. We all know, and Manik says so himself, how easily angry he can get. I think it's natural for someone to be worried for their friend in such circumstances. Doesn't mean he thinks the boyfriend is bad.

I don't know what the CVs are planning to do with Aryaman in the show, but I don't understand why people are centering my post around MaNan. My post was never about MaNan. I just want to know why people have no other reason beyond this of disliking Aryaman.

Even if he's interfering, let's first see how it plays out in the show instead of assuming things. If it turns out to be a mistake, he'll learn from it and not intervene in their matter next time. That is, unless the CVs decide to turn him negative.
priakachan thumbnail
12th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 9 years ago
#29
Ok...it's a really interesting question. I personally don't hate Aryaman...but that doesn't mean I love his character too.😆
Reasons:-

(1) Aryaman's relation with Manik and Nandini- He never deeply connected with Manik..but connects with his girlfriend Nandini. It's fine...I understand that Aryaman made his connection as a shoulder to cry on...as a friend. But then, Nandini took that shoulder because she missed her love and best friend Manik. Every person looks for a friend...a friend who is there when U feel low. If Manik were not involved in this accident..do U feel Aryaman would have such a friendship with Nandini???? No...is the answer. Because when Nandini feels low...lost...worried...lonely, she would go and look for her best friend Manik. Remember? Once Nandini said that 'Manik is the best friend and so she wanted to their relationship slow and be friends"! Aryaman becoming Nandini's best friend is like Aryaman replacing Manik as her best friend. But Aryaman I'm sure will continue to do it. He would wait for Manik to get angry on her..and become her shoulder to cry on...which will lead to Manik feeling that she no more needs him.

(2) Nandini's nature and Aryaman's behaviour- I know...this may sound a bit weird...but Nandini is different from Mukti, Alya for whom hug was not something thrilling or something. 😆 For Nandini her first hug..her first kiss...all were making her blush, shy...Nandini has a more traditional kind of personality. When Manik sees Aryaman giving her consoling hugs (which I will CVs may show😆) how will he feel? The girl who blushed in his hug is casually hugging another guy who is not even a close friend to him...and who infact tried to harm him in the past and in 4 months became Nandini's closer friend...😆

(3) Touchy feely in an over-friendly way- If U ask me...can't a girl have boys who are friends?? They can! But Aryaman's actions are not just of a friend as in he gets all hugging and all. It is of a guy..who got closer to Nandini first as a friend..and wanting to take her place as a best friend whom she will trust 100% and then as a lover.

(4) Stalking is yet another factor. If U take Kabir or Dhruv...do they go after Mukti and Alya 24/7??? Have U seen Aryaman walk behind Mukti or Alya giving a shoulder to cry on when they are sad or worried?? How can he even know that?? Coz he is stalking Nandini. His eyes are always on Nandini and that is what Manik is not going to like.

(5) Kabir, Abhimanyu and Aryaman- Manik had no problems with Nandini being friends with Abhimanyu or Kabir...for the simple reason that they never stalked Nandini or had such an over-friendly attitude towards her and they let Manik take over when they saw Manik getting next to Nandini! But Aryaman has been stalking Nandini since the start of Season 2 and I'm pretty sure...in coming episodes he'll do exactly that and won't even allow Manik and Nandini alone time.

This surely is a bit irritating to watch...taking into account that since Manik has returned..Aryaman should give some alone time to the love birds to patch up..instead of following his friend Nandini wherever she goes..as if she is a baby who is learning to walk! Doesn't he have other work to do?? If no other work...atleast jaake drums practice karlo! 😆
fia21 thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 9 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: -siyali-



Girl, you are really over thinking this 😆 The question that Nandini loves Manik or Manik loves Nandini has never been a doubt, but that has never stopped Manik from lashing out at Nandini in past or in the present as well. The monster is on verge of breaking, and while breaking his words are going to hurt Nandini. Arya prob went after Nandini to calm her down or to help her from those hurtful words of Manik.

Did you notice how Arya didn't even say anything when Manik was lashing out with Fab3 and Nandini, he was just standing there observing everything , cause he knows it's not his place to say anything, at least not now, knowing how upset Manik was because Cabir was replaced by Arya and how Manik thinks everyone has moved on. Arya may have gone after Nandini or with Nandini to tell Manik that I am not here to take Cabir's place nor to take his Nandini away from him, so give the guy some benefit of the doubt, till the entire scene plays out and if tomorrow we see Arya intervening between MaNan then we will again discuss 😆




I'm loving your replies. Good to see that there are people still out there who are thinking rationally and are not blinded by their love for MaNan.

I hate how if you say something in another character's favor, people automatically assume you must be a MaNan hater. Part of the reason I visit this forum so less.

We as viewers have a right to point out a flaw in the show if we feel there is one. As you said, there is no question of the love MaNan share, but that doesn't mean they won't do something wrong every now and then. Manik's anger has always been an issue. If I was in Aryaman's place, even I would be worried for my friend getting hurt listening to her boyfriend lashing out on her. Don't know if this is how the scene is going to play out in the show, but if it is then Aryaman interfering would be the right thing. No friend would just stand there and let his friend get hurt, even if it is verbally.
Edited by fia21 - 9 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".